Zara day - Guildford

[apetrain]

I arranged to meet Zara Day on a particular day 15th May. I told her 16th but made a mistake and gave her enough time 2 days prior that's its for the 15th not 16th. She agreed and said ok come see me 7pm on 15th. She said day and time is fine. Emailed her in the morning 15th are we still on? She said yes Was really excited looking forward to our meet her had champagne and flowers for her. She was far away from London in Guildford. Took me 3 hours to reach her. I was on Hot sweaty trains to her I was literally a train stop away from her house. She never texted or call to cancel. Last minute decided to blow me off. Very unprofessional and destroyed my time and energy to reach her. If she told me earlier I would of understood and make other arrangements. Women like her make me sick. Left her negative feedback's as shes a complete waste of time. She said your reported so are you honey. I was nothing but sweet and nice to her she lured me in how she screwed me over last minute was totally unacceptable. I put this out there as I don't want another guy being messed around by her. Very unprofessional and feel she did this intentionally for her own kicks.

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[Sinz]

Thanks for the warning OP.

Thats's absolutely terrible, and she surely deserves a Negative.

[apetrain]

She had a personal issue apologized last minute which I can understand and empathize with. But she should of told me earlier in the day not making me waste 3 hours journey on her. I should have known from her 1 negative feedback that she has a tendency to be a cow. Lesson learned never again I travel out of London to any lady. 

[sloopjohnb]

Two thoughts:
 Don't think Guildford really qualifies as South West.
 Champagne and flowers?  Maybe you were a tad over-invested in the girl; the flurry of comments you left on AW - where she also disputes your story - suggests you may not quite have a balanced view of events. 

[mcgee121]

Don't think Guildford really qualifies as South West.

You are right it's in the South East.  It's not too far from Wimbledon.

[Sinz]

The review has been moved to South East section

[apetrain]

I'am a sensitive person maybe I went overboard with the flurry of comments.  I was upset and angry over 3 hours in the middle of cold wet Guildford no response from her. We been emailing each other for a while. She also said look forward to finally meeting you. I said me too. I normally bring a nice bottle of champagne to most of my punts. Especially as its for 90mins. You can call it over investing I like to make the booking memorable. Sadly she was a nightmare.

[mcgee121]

She had a personal issue apologized last minute which I can understand and empathize with. But she should of told me earlier in the day not making me waste 3 hours journey on her. I should have known from her 1 negative feedback that she has a tendency to be a cow. Lesson learned never again I travel out of London to any lady. 

It's my worst fear to travel so far as a fruitless exercise.  But I would never set out on a long journey like that without first making contact with the SP to confirm that she could do the meet.  I would also contact her about halfway during my journey too.

She may be wrong but you spamming her page over multiple days from your initial comments makes you look unstable.  Sometimes multiple feedback comments are needed if you need to write something complicated but should all be left on the same day.  The attack on her looks was a low blow.  Of course, if you txted her stuff like that on the day she let you down then that's understandable but to publicly shame her is not cool.

[mcgee121]

She also said look forward to finally meeting you. I said me too.

That's part of the game mate. 

But why the flowers?  Each to their own but I think most punters would think that is OTT and particularly for a girl you never met before.  Good luck with your next punt.  Being let down has happened to me several times so I know how you feel.

[apetrain]

I did message her half way down. I understand it was a low blow spamming her profile. For that I do apologise but you have to understand this lady and 2 other ladies did the same thing to me. Lured me to location booking far away. Agreed time date being sweet and nice putting me on wild goose chases then switch off phone or not even bother telling me. How much can you take from these unprofessional ladies.

[mcgee121]

I did message her half way down. I understand it was a low blow spamming her profile. For that I do apologise but you have to understand this lady and 2 other ladies did the same thing to me. Lured me to location booking far away. Agreed time date being sweet and nice putting me on wild goose chases then switch off phone or not even bother telling me. How much can you take from these unprofessional ladies.

You knew she was a TOFTT so it was a risk.  That's the game.  When making a date with a stranger they might not show up.

Did you get a message back from her when you txted her?  Expect anything from a SP; at best you can call them acquaintances if you have seen them more than once.  They often lie and connive.  You need to be prepared for that.  There's nothing a SP that I haven't seen before could do that would surprise me.  A lot of them are very selfish and can replace your business with another punter so they don't care if they cause you an inconvenience.  Someone like you that has seen many SPs should be battle hardened and tested.  You need to grow a thicker skin; don't let this game affect your peace of mind.

[kamu]

I wouldnt travel 3hrs for a punt unless I had something else lined up meaning I was already in the area precisely for this reason.

Spamming her FB also isnt on. By all means leave a comment to warn others but you have just made yourself look like a stalker and removed any credibility your initial comment had.

[apetrain]

Sorry guys I really feel bad for spamming her page. I reacted without thinking. It was hurtful at the time and I shouldn't of taken it personally. Thanks for your advices guys appreciated it.

[apetrain]

From now on I won't spam anyone's feedback page. No matter how bad the experience was. I will just post the negative experience hear. Let you guys be the judge. 

[TheCape]

I wouldnt travel 3hrs for a punt unless I had something else lined up meaning I was already in the area precisely for this reason.

Spamming her FB also isnt on. By all means leave a comment to warn others but you have just made yourself look like a stalker and removed any credibility your initial comment had.

Completely agree. Just not the way to behave and destroys your own reputation. Being messed around happens from time to time, you just have to have a way of dealing with it, be it a plan b or c, or trudging off home with the consolation that your wallet is full and thinking about what else you can spent it on. It's all part and parcel of this activity. The more it happens, the more you'll see the warning signs and can reduce the number of times it happens to you. Chances are though, from time to time it will.

[apetrain]

Yeah my reputation probably doesn't look good right now. But I've learned alot from you guys. Women change like the weather I'll be extra careful next time. If there will be a next time as this secret life I have is not improving my life in anyway. Although I enjoy meeting ladies it's just a waste of money plus having to deal with there bullshit.

[James999]

She had a personal issue

Yeah, pissed / stonned / hung over / took another booking 

[DrConners]

Yeah my reputation probably doesn't look good right now. But I've learned alot from you guys. Women change like the weather I'll be extra careful next time. If there will be a next time as this secret life I have is not improving my life in anyway. Although I enjoy meeting ladies it's just a waste of money plus having to deal with there bullshit.

I've had my share of disastrous punts, let down at the last minute, travelling miles only to get no reply upon arriving ect - I'm afraid (if you haven't worked this out already) this is an unregulated pass-time, there's no customer service to complain to. 

I've just thought "Oh that's disappointing, was really looking forward to a fuck." and moved on - as you should have done in this instance.

[advent2016]

My this is a fluffy thread.
When I book a new provider, and I make sure I have a regular up my sleeve in case they cancel. There are so many good ladies around Guildford, I'm spoilt for choice. I wouldn't like to give a negative on the basis of a single event, unless the actual meeting was actually crap.

[apetrain]

My this is a fluffy thread.
When I book a new provider, and I make sure I have a regular up my sleeve in case they cancel. There are so many good ladies around Guildford, I'm spoilt for choice. I wouldn't like to give a negative on the basis of a single event, unless the actual meeting was actually crap.

I usually have another lady up my sleeve in case the first lady cancels in London. Normally i have no issues with the ladies in London. I tried to find a backup lady in Guildford but there wasn't any. So I was counting on her. She reads emails instantly messages me back changed date time fine. She had all the information and time to cancel me early. Her unprofessionalism resulted in a negative.

[apetrain]

It kind of makes me think. Is this life really worth it. Living a life paying for sex. How low has your self esteem gotten dudes. Dealing with the crap from these escorts. Of course it's part of the game. But it's a addiction for most men including myself having  troubles breaking.

[gheeme]

I saw her a few months ago and was going to recommend her to kamu as I think she's his type. Will post my own review when I have time but it was overall positive.

[kamu]

I saw her a few months ago and was going to recommend her to kamu as I think she's his type. Will post my own review when I have time but it was overall positive.

Thanks for the thought. If she was closer and less pricey I may of taken a punt but wouldnt risk an hours drive based on the ops experience.