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Online smiths

Actually, the point is to treat people as individuals, not as stereotypes..  :dash:

I wouldn't waste my money on prossies with arbitrary restrictions such as 30 +.

Protest with your pounds.  :hi:

Totally agree about always treating people as individuals. ;)

Offline fredpunter

I've seen a few black girls and as someone already said I have rarely been anything other than very pleased I did so. I did ask a couple of them why they didn't see black men. Both said that a) they were worried they may see someone they knew but also b) in the past if they'd seen a black man he had often tried to persuade them they needed a pimp and offered themselves up as the ideal candidate for the job. I was shocked at this, and not sure what to believe! I am only repeating what they said - though I am very uncomfortable saying it. I do not believe for one second that many black men want to be pimps, but they seemed to think that it was more likely they would be pressured by a black man than by a white man. I suspect that concern a) was more likely though.

I am not aware I have ever met up with a white girl who refused to see black men.

Offline HuggyTheBear

Thats a really stupid question. Were all individuals Theirs plenty of bad white punters, I cant speak about Black or Muslims but as a Half Indian/ English guy it genetically encoded  to ask for a discount or barter. If you don't ask you don't get . Having said that Plenty of white punters do it to.

Your All individual as Brian would say

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Offline andrei

if a wg has any restriction on race or ethnicity she doesnt get my business even if i am not the group she has banned

yeah its personal preference, but to tar everyone with the same brush is stupid and i dont want to see stupid wgs because they might do other stupid things like bareback
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Offline Kram

if a wg has any restriction on race or ethnicity she doesnt get my business even if i am not the group she has banned

yeah its personal preference, but to tar everyone with the same brush is stupid and i dont want to see stupid wgs because they might do other stupid things like bareback

I respect your pov and you standards

But are you telling me you don't have a preference wg wise

Have all your punts crossed size/colour/ height /country of origin boundaries

As punters we all have types and most (I'd suspect all) will punt within those boundaries that attract us

Most places that deal with clients on a face to face basis have a right to refusal





Offline Swagman

I respect your pov and you standards

But are you telling me you don't have a preference wg wise

Have all your punts crossed size/colour/ height /country of origin boundaries

As punters we all have types and most (I'd suspect all) will punt within those boundaries that attract us

Most places that deal with clients on a face to face basis have a right to refusal
As punters, we can discriminate to our heart's content. If we don't find a certain size/ethnicity/nationality attractive, we are not obliged to punt them.

However, using the same argument with prossies is inherently fallible. Prossies are not attracted to the VAST MAJORITY of their customers, regardless of their race/ethnicity. So, if a prossie finds blacks and asians unattractive so refuses to see them then shouldn't she also refuse to see any white men she also isn't attracted to? Should the ban be on ALL blacks/asians or should it be on ALL men she finds unattractive? Unless of course she claims to find ALL white men attractive...

I'm not saying wgs don't have the right to blanket ban as they wish (and - like andrei - I avoid those with any kind of discrimination on their profile), but citing attraction (or lack, thereof) as the sticking point is rubbish.   
« Last Edit: June 17, 2013, 06:15:34 pm by Swagman »

I hear you mate, but I just ask them if it's ok and they mostly say yeah which makes me think maybe its just bs trying to appease a certain kind of punter... or maybe they are intimidated but if they know you are normal then they don't care.

To answer the basic question of why so many non-white, I'd say because they wouldn't mention any white misbehavers, they would just be misbehavers, race wouldn't come in to the equation and like others have said banning white guys is out of the question seeing as you're their bread and butter.

Also poverty, rather than skin colour is the big factor. Poor people/people who've grown up in harsh surroundings are a different breed, regardless of skin colour, they'll be more tight with money, wanting "deals" and generally been around anti-social behaviour, white black or asian from a poor area will generally have similar mentalities. It so happens predominantly black areas are poor, which can confuse race as being the cause for crime/certain behaviours, but if you took a black child and gave him to a rich white family who sends him to a top private school, the kid will most likely be successful, there is nothing in our DNA to determine criminal behaviour, only enviroment/upbringing.

Just my opinion (I think im spot on), wouldn't really give this subject too much thought usually.

Good post, and I'm sure you are right about poverty affecting people's attitudes, but maybe it's not just poverty maybe it's extremes of the spectrum. I have read much anecdotal evidence from WGs of well off or flashy Asian men treating them badly. Seems money, lack of or excess of, breeds contempt.

Offline andrei

I respect your pov and you standards

But are you telling me you don't have a preference wg wise

Have all your punts crossed size/colour/ height /country of origin boundaries

As punters we all have types and most (I'd suspect all) will punt within those boundaries that attract us

Most places that deal with clients on a face to face basis have a right to refusal

swagman kinda said what i was thinking

the buyer has the right to choose as he pleases. the seller can choose the same way but it will directly impact upon their earnings

the buyer will get his rocks off either way

its just the blanket ban thing for me, tarring everyone in that group with the same brush

ok, so she has a bad experience with a particular group so she bans people from that group - but in theory one could argue she has had a bad experience with a punter and therefore should ban all punters, its the same logic as her bad experience is with a punter

imo
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There's a lot of baloney talked on this subject, and those who say 'why can't we all just get along' and 'we're all individuals' are either deliberately missing the point or haven't been out of their front door for the last twenty years.

For starters, it's the girls' prerogative to see who they want. In my experience, WGs are always pretty keen to see the cash, so if they're going to turn, in significant numbers (and there ARE plenty who say this), against certain ethnic groups, I'd say they have very good reason to do so.

And it's certainly true that haggling is an acceptable way of doing business to a great many people around the world, and is simply not the case in Britain.  I spent a few days in Morocco not so long ago, and I found the haggling exhausting. You even have to haggle with fucking cab drivers taking you a couple of miles, because none of the buggers have meters in their cabs.

So I think we have to respect the girls' decisions. If they've had a bad time, through constant haggling or other threats to them or to their livelihood, then they have good reason to behave the way they do.

All businesses have a target market, which means they also must have a certain sector that they do NOT want as customers. The the normal, PC world (not the computer shop), you are not allowed to state such discrimination but can put filters in place to deter the clients you do not want.

As far as I see it, the girls can choose not to see certain cultures and in the non-PC world of punting are free to state exactly that in their profile. Being white, I have not found myself excluded so far, but if as pro$$ie was really uncomfortable servicing guys over 50, I would prefer her to be up front about it (so I wouldn't book her), rather than give me a shit punt through gritted teeth, or turn me away at the door.

One of the black girls I have seen told me that some black guys can have serious respect issues with black pro$$ies. She herself did not have restrictions on who she saw but was wary booking black guys because some could be indiscreet & in the tight-knit community it increased the possibility of someone she knew 'outing' her.

Offline denneboom

It's sad when Asian, or Black folks are stereotyped into groups because we are all individuals within those sectors.
 
There are men of all races who will mistreat women.  I'm black British yet a lot of girls on AW insist on only seeing white gentlemen because a black guy robbed them. Or personal preference of course. I accept this and would prefer to know if a girl was not happy seeing me because of my skin colour because then I don’t want to see them. The number of non-white punters will most likely increase in future.
 
Funny thing about it is that I consider myself to be a respectful and undemanding punter, who pays upfront with no bartering. I never go into a punt without being in a bath shortly beforehand.
 
In one of my regular parlours three or four girls there won't see black guys, it's nothing to do with security as they have a black guy on security who sits with them when they are waiting for customers. When I press the buzzer they see me on the CCTV and the girls who don’t want to see me hide in the changing room, until I have gone to the bedroom with my chosen girl. Last month there were two girls who were ready and willing waiting at reception and three girls hiding out the back, I was told later why they were hiding.
 
Black folks are humans, not an underclass and some people may do bad things that is true of all races.  Sadly prossies will attract some of the worst men of society whatever the skintone.

Offline Andre 3000

Out of interest denneboom what nationality were the women who were hiding?


Offline EnglishRebecca121

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i see all people black blue pink etc

but i do struggle with black men as im rather small in a certain area but ive never met a bad one

i have nothing against asians but my stalker i have had for over a year is asian and the only hagglers i get are them

but saying this i have 2 regulars who are young asians!

Offline Tailpipe

i see all people black blue pink etc

but i do struggle with black men as im rather small in a certain area but ive never met a bad one

i have nothing against asians but my stalker i have had for over a year is asian and the only hagglers i get are them

but saying this i have 2 regulars who are young asians!


Tight  :dash:

Offline cunnyhunt

but i do struggle with black men as im rather small in a certain area

This is racial stereotyping, I have a big cock but I am white. :D :D

Offline what-a man

i see all people black blue pink etc

but i do struggle with black men as im rather small in a certain area but ive never met a bad one

i have nothing against asians but my stalker i have had for over a year is asian and the only hagglers i get are them

but saying this i have 2 regulars who are young asians!

Are you saying that all black men have big cocks?

Statistically, black men are no bigger downstairs than white men. If the myth has been perpetuated by black men then it's certainly backfired on them  :D

Offline denneboom

Out of interest denneboom what nationality were the women who were hiding?

The girls who were hiding were Romanian and Spanish. The ones who were up for it were Russian and Italian.

Offline cunnyhunt

The girls who were hiding were Romanian and Spanish. The ones who were up for it were Russian and Italian.

Russian and Albanian for sure


Offline Acer

This is racial stereotyping, I have a big cock but I am white. :D :D

Whatever keeps your mind at rest CH.  :hi:

Offline Acer

One thing for sure is that, given the racial profiling, the vast majority of incidents will occur with Asians because the vast majority of younger punters will be Asians. IMO

Offline Andre 3000

Statistically, black men are no bigger downstairs than white men. If the myth has been perpetuated by black men then it's certainly backfired on them  :D

I think it's people getting too influenced by porno movies. And the extraordinary sizes of some of the cocks on show.

And bringing those freakshows into real life.

Offline Andre 3000

The girls who were hiding were Romanian and Spanish.

You should have told them not to flatter themselves.



Offline Acer

Seen as we're comparing, I'd like to put on record, a few years ago a WG did, in the middle of banging away, say words to the effect of 'oohh your soo big Acer, keep going'.  :music:

Offline Tailpipe

Seen as we're comparing, I'd like to put on record, a few years ago a WG did, in the middle of banging away, say words to the effect of 'oohh your soo big Acer, keep going'.  :music:


Then the alarm clock went off and its was all just dream , and you were wet  :lol: :lol: :cool:


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