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Author Topic: Getting Up Close and Personal..  (Read 7790 times)

Offline philboi

That is exactly what I meant by fantasy. I fantasize that the pro$$ie doesn't find me repulsive, but it is a fantasy..... because she most probably does!

Yes I understand, I just didn't word it well... I suppose if I was seeing a 23yo that would be a real fantasy but when it comes to more mature WG's it's a slightly different story... hard to explain.

Offline Hetfield

...and it feels more like they are my girlfriend ...

...we don't want any type of relationship in the sense of having a 'real' girlfriend..

Huh, what?

Say for example I gave her a birthday card, it would not seem right to put sarahjay on the card when her actual name is clare.


I am fully aware that the "real name" she gives me might be nothing of the sort, as I say, it's all in the mind.

Fluffiest thing I've ever read! But if you're fully aware that the name she might give you isn't her real name, what difference does it make putting that name, Clare for example, than Sarahjay? Both aren't her real name, so it's a completely pointless exercise!

As sarayjay has rightly pointed out, you never know for sure that they have given you their real name ------------ unless you see official ID like a passport.    :hi:

So why do you care so much about the name, do you ask for ID?

I don't think it weird to ask for a real name and I'm not totally sure why girls give a false name!

3 instances:

1. I booked a girl at a hotel and the security locks were on, so had to ask reception to let me in.... of course they needed a name and room number but as the name I had didn't match the girls real name in the room, they wouldn't let me in!

2. I knocked on the wrong door once and a guy came to the door... I looked puzzled and pretended to forget the name of the girl as I knew it would be false. Then he said "do you mean ******" to which I said "yes".... "She lives in the flat below" he said..... Close one!

3. A girl told me she was down the town with her mum and one of her clients spotted her and came over to say hello. Obviously he used the false name he had for her. The mum was puzzled and the girl had some explaining to do..

Perhaps the real name is better???

To be fair;

1) Any WG asking you to come to a hotel should use a name that both you and the reception have the same. If she's listed under a stupid username on AW, such as "princess sucks a lot" or whatever, you know this isn't going to be what she gives to reception. She should provide you with a name to use at the front desk if need be. It's highly unlikely it will be her real name anyway, just a working name, like Sarah Smith or something. (second to this, most girls implore you not to go to reception when working in hotels, so if in doubt, ring her)

2) Your mistake this time. Be sure to have ALL the correct door number/flat number details, and if in doubt, CALL! I go to a lot of flats in my job, where it's number 22 such and such street, and when I get there there's 4 buzzers for flats 1,2,3,4 or A,B,C,D and no names on them. So rather than press the wrong one, I call.

3) A punter should NEVER approach a WG in the street, just as I'd expect a WG to ever approach me in the street - in both cases, especially if the WG or Punter is with someone! This whole industry is built out of mutual discretion, and breaking that is out of order - either way it's done (punter or WG)

Offline Hetfield

As for my preferences. Couldn't give a shit what their name is, I'm happy to go with the one they've chosen to use, be it real or false. About repeat visits? Happy to do them, if I've previously had good service from that WG and enjoyed being with her. I have a regular I see a fair bit, and Michelle Independant I've seen three times; all of which have been very enjoyable, and until such time as she moves on, raises her prices, or I stop enjoying it for whatever reason, I'll continue to go back to her. She's cute, funny, easy to talk to, incredibly pretty, gives great service of all the things I ask from her, and I enjoy myself. Can't ask for more than that from a WG, and if you do, you come off a little stalkerish to me! No offence, just my opinion :)

Generally I won't go back to a WG I haven't enjoyed myself with, although in the past I have seen a local girl a couple times even though I wouldn't be able to say much good about her, but have been back mainly just cos I'm horny as fuck and she's ten mins away. At the same time she wasn't shit either, and I wouldn't go back to one that is shit.

I'm all up for trying for variety - that's half the reason I punt (the other parts being fucking girls I would normally never stand a chance with, and the classic NSA walk in> fuck> walk out reason), but just like your favourite resturants, it's nice to go back to somewhere you know the menu and know you already enjoy the food, from time to time ;)

Offline LL

What you say does stand to reason.
It's just through my experiences of meeting many girls, I've realised you can't label them all the same. They might be prostitutes and do it for the money but there are all so very different!

Some, perhaps the large majority who I've not come to know may be like as you say but there are those with true values in life.
For instance I accidentally paid one of my regulars too much money. She never checks it when I give it to her but later she text to say I'd overpaid... Honesty.

I know you could say she may have thought it was a test but no, this girl has values and is honest about everything.

It's this type of girl I've made friends with over time and I seriously believe if they gave up escorting they would still keep in contact.
Only time will prove me wrong!
Yes OK that's nice that you've met girls who are different from the ones I've met and I do hope they turn out to have the integrity for which you give them credit.  That does sound like an honest girl that returned your cash :)  And I hope that the friends you've made do keep in contact after they've quit escorting.  As you say, time will tell.  Personally I like to keep a barrier up - similar to how any experienced WG will behave - which stops any kind of friendship / bond developing between punter and WG.

I guess I feel strongly about this as I feel like I've been tricked at least once in this business through my own naivety.  I even met a WG (on a punt) that I formed a close bond with and I started dating her (few months back).  We exchanged many texts and got to know each other over a few weeks.  She seemed really into me.  We went out together (she didn't charge me) - it was very romantic, not even about sex any more, just two people going for walks together, chatting, sharing a kiss, etc (I was prepared to wait until we were both ready to have sex but in a completely different context to how we originally met).  She told me more and more about herself - her family, how she really felt about what she did, why she did it.  It was like having an actual girlfriend.  When I had to call it off (after I decided I couldn't live with the guilt of cheating on my wife any longer :)) she revealed her true colours and it wasn't pretty.  I also realised that she'd told me some lies (about quite important stuff, not just petty fibs) and then the illusion I'd been under started to spoil.  If I'd been lied to those few times what else had she lied to me about?  It's likely that she was just stringing me along the whole time but she was incredibly convincing.  That's why I say that these women are professional misleaders.  They're in the business of making [some] men think that they're really into them - this is in order to get good business from them or possibly other favours, money, whatever they want/need.  I have read similar stories here from others.  One guy was robbed by a WG who moved in with him.  You would think it would take a certain type of person to be able to pull off such a scam with such confidence and plausibility.  Perhaps the sort of person who has been prepared to sacrifice the one thing that they hold dearest to themselves in this world, in order to get what they want.  I mean, what else do they have left to give up after deciding to sell their bodies to strangers?  Once they've crossed over into prostitution, I think that it changes their personality forever.  That's why I now keep my WG barrier up.
« Last Edit: June 16, 2013, 08:31:09 PM by LL »

Offline philboi

Yes OK that's nice that you've met girls who are different from the ones I've met and I do hope they turn out to have the integrity for which you give them credit.  That does sound like an honest girl that returned your cash :)  And I hope that the friends you've made do keep in contact after they've quit escorting.  As you say, time will tell.  Personally I like to keep a barrier up - similar to how any experienced WG will behave - which stops any kind of friendship / bond developing between punter and WG.

I guess I feel strongly about this as I feel like I've been tricked at least once in this business through my own naivety.  I even met a WG (on a punt) that I formed a close bond with and I started dating her (few months back).  We exchanged many texts and got to know each other over a few weeks.  She seemed really into me.  We went out together (she didn't charge me) - it was very romantic, not even about sex any more, just two people going for walks together, chatting, sharing a kiss, etc (I was prepared to wait until we were both ready to have sex but in a completely different context to how we originally met).  She told me more and more about herself - her family, how she really felt about what she did, why she did it.  It was like having an actual girlfriend.  When I had to call it off (after I decided I couldn't live with the guilt of cheating on my wife any longer :)) she revealed her true colours and it wasn't pretty.  I also realised that she'd told me some lies (about quite important stuff, not just petty fibs) and then the illusion I'd been under started to spoil.  If I'd been lied to those few times what else had she lied to me about?  It's likely that she was just stringing me along the whole time but she was incredibly convincing.  That's why I say that these women are professional misleaders.  They're in the business of making [some] men think that they're really into them - this is in order to get good business from them or possibly other favours, money, whatever they want/need.  I have read similar stories here from others.  One guy was robbed by a WG who moved in with him.  You would think it would take a certain type of person to be able to pull off such a scam with such confidence and plausibility.  Perhaps the sort of person who has been prepared to sacrifice the one thing that they hold dearest to themselves in this world, in order to get what they want.  I mean, what else do they have left to give up after deciding to sell their bodies to strangers?  Once they've crossed over into prostitution, I think that it changes their personality forever.  That's why I now keep my WG barrier up.


This sound like once bitten twice shy and it also sounds to me that the line was well and truly crossed...

Bad experiences hurt!!!!

This is a very tricky area of discussion, I knew that when I started this thread.
I'm fully aware the only safe way to conduct ourselves is exactly the way you deal with relationships between yourself and the WG's.
It's a job for them and a bit of fun for us. We walk away knowing there's no comeback and we can move on in life, seeing whoever we want, whenever we want with no worries.... apart from the wife that is!
It's the sensible way to do things.

But.... personally I like a little more adventure. I try to cross the line without getting burnt. It can be tricky, but that's me :)

When I refer to WG's as friends, I mean just friends and not 'girl friends' as such. For me there's a big difference.
Obviously I still pay for sex whenever I see a WG, friend or not.

I guess if a WG did keep in contact with me after giving up her job, sex wouldn't be on the menu. If it was, that's a completely different ball game.. one at the moment I avoid!!

There's one retired "Regular" with whom I'm still in contact.  She's now married to another former client, who first saw her slightly later than I first did and I meet the two of them socially from time to time.  I know her proper name but occasionally lapse into using her "working" name.

To be honest, it doesn't matter that much to me what the WG's actual name is; she's selling me a fantasy and, if part of that fantasy is her "working" name, so be it.


Offline seeker

If you find a w.g that gives fantastic service the sex does seem to get better as she will be more relaxed with you and get to know what you like .
But I don't want to know thier real name or anything else all I want is a good hard servicing.

Offline Melb

In the old days when I was a proper fluffy and had regulars, I used to take the occasional bottle of wine, I used to ask their real names and believed all their bullshit about favourite client. At that time I didn't have any female affection in my life and thought I could find it in a whore's arms.

Gradually realised I was deluded and came to my senses. Nowadays I see prostitution for the cold-hearted business that it is.

Offline Melb

I agree with LL about the motives and modus operandi of the prossies on this forum. Either to advertise or hope to find out how punters think and discover ways of screwing us out of more money. That's why I would not punt any prossie on here, even though I have been tempted.

In the old days when I was a proper fluffy and had regulars, I used to take the occasional bottle of wine, I used to ask their real names and believed all their bullshit about favourite client. At that time I didn't have any female affection in my life and thought I could find it in a whore's arms.

Gradually realised I was deluded and came to my senses. Nowadays I see prostitution for the cold-hearted business that it is.

Have you been on any punts lately? You were going through a bad run of punts or maybe it was how you were feeling towards punting.

I looking to punt this week after a 2 month break and I'm going back into this with a totally different perspective. You are right that this nasty business is very cold-hearted and you have to be the same way. I have walked out of punts feeling like I've had a high dose of morphine floating in the air and other times I've felt empty, very tearful and feeling like I want to walk in front of a train. I don't think there is anything wrong with getting physical affection from a wg, but don't get emotionally involved. A good prossie is only doing her job to make you feel good and special, but you should not think for one moment that it is real.

I think all wg's should be eliminated from here, they don't add anything to the table. It's always the same bollocks like this:

All I expect from a punter is for him to be clean, polite and have the correct fee and it doesn't matter if he is dog dick ugly.
I get checked out every 3 months, I only see 1-2 punters a day. ha ha
I'm not doing this because I'm desperate for the money, it's because I like the finer things in life and I love my job sucking 4-5 dicks a day.

You can make it up as you go along.

LL is right, it's just plain marketing to attract punters.

Offline Melb

I've been on 2 punting escapades (sounds like I'm at bloody Cambridge uni) recently and both were rubbish.
I still look out for anything out of the ordinary.


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