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Author Topic: Getting Up Close and Personal..  (Read 7814 times)

Offline Lz-129


Say for example I gave her a birthday card, it would not seem right to put sarahjay on the card when her actual name is clare.


Bloody ell JRC, you old softie!
You'll be buying her a cake and some flowers next

Offline sarahjayneleeds

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It's all in the mind.  :crazy:

If a girl offers a convincing GFE it adds to the fantasy if you are told her real name.

Say for example I gave her a birthday card, it would not seem right to put sarahjay on the card when her actual name is clare.


I am fully aware that the "real name" she gives me might be nothing of the sort, as I say, it's all in the mind.

I agree  :) it adds to the whole experience that was the point of my original post. I also think it does give an impression of added trust whether it's a real name or not like you say all in the mind :)


Tony Montana

I'd rather not know her real name.  I'm paying for the WG persona that she becomes when she is working, not the "real" girl who slobs around in a onesie with no make up, her hair tied up, scoffing pot noodles and watching Jeremy Kyle.

Offline Jimmyredcab

I'd rather not know her real name. 

I find it totally bizarre that you will happily pay for an overnighter but don't care what her real name is.    :crazy: :wacko:

Tony Montana

I find it totally bizarre that you will happily pay for an overnighter but don't care what her real name is.    :crazy: :wacko:

Why?  What difference does it make?  I want the girl to be the gorgeous horny nympho that she becomes when she assumes her WG character.  That's what I'm paying for.  When you want a superhero, is it important to know that Superman is really Clark Kent?

As it happens, all the overnighters I've had have told me their real names, their full names in 2 cases, but it really isn't important. to me.
« Last Edit: June 16, 2013, 11:38:50 AM by Tony Montana »

Offline Jimmyredcab



As it happens, all the overnighters I've had have told me their real names, their full names in 2 cases, but it really isn't important. to me.

As sarayjay has rightly pointed out, you never know for sure that they have given you their real name ------------ unless you see official ID like a passport.    :hi:

Online smiths

I'd rather not know her real name.  I'm paying for the WG persona that she becomes when she is working, not the "real" girl who slobs around in a onesie with no make up, her hair tied up, scoffing pot noodles and watching Jeremy Kyle.

Same here but in my experiences some WGs cant wait to tell me everything about themselves, they back this up by shoving photo ID under my nose that i didnt ask to see. Its been amazing how many over the years have done this. For at least some of these they thought it would make me more likely to return.

I simply would rather not know about their true lives, the reason is its often a hard luck story which spoils my fun. I do punt for fun and hearing a WG has had a hard life and this and that bad thing has happened to her, assuming its true isnt conducive to what i require from punting. Might sound harsh but i pay for a fantasy and would rather not have reality brought into it.

Tony Montana

As sarayjay has rightly pointed out, you never know for sure that they have given you their real name ------------ unless you see official ID like a passport.    :hi:

I know for sure.

Offline LL

Surely, it only ends in PAIN if 'emotions' set in?
I've never had a WG becoming emotional with me, nor me them, and as long as 'emotions' are kept out of the arrangement, I can't see a problem :)

Also, not all WG think the same!
Yes some/many are just after the money, others I feel enjoy the experience of escorting and are happy it pays well :)

Oops, was that being fluffy???
You "get to know them better so it feels more like they're your girlfriend", and spend time chatting with them over coffee and seek access to their personal facebook account.  Yet there's no emotion involved?

WGs do it for the enjoyment?  I wonder how many would still be doing it if it only paid minimum wage!

Fluffy?  I don't like that term.  Disillusional perhaps.

Wiltsboy01

I simply would rather not know about their true lives, the reason is its often a hard luck story which spoils my fun.

I love that but its not cause I want to have them as a girlfriend - its fun mooching through their Facebook and thinking 'that's your sister then? Pretty. Does she fuck for money too?


Online smiths

I love that but its not cause I want to have them as a girlfriend - its fun mooching through their Facebook and thinking 'that's your sister then? Pretty. Does she fuck for money too?

Not the kind of fun i am after from punting. ;)

Curious6705

I like WGs to be friendly and professional, and they can expect the same of me - eg in that I know where the boundaries are will not overstep the mark. I don't need or expect, or in fact want, emotional support or displays of affection from a WG. So up close and personal is not for me.

Offline philboi

How do you know the number you have is their personal number and not just another number they use for work for regular clients? A priority number so to speak. I have two numbers the one on AW and another one for regulars. How do you know for sure the name they gave you is their real name? Have they shown you ID? If I'm being honest any Client who starts fishing for this info is a pain in the arse what do you need to know real names and numbers for let alone facebook account details?  All my friends and family know what I do but if a Client asked to add me on facebook I would think it rather wierd. :unknown:

Pay later ? Something I never do not even with my most trusted clients the easiest way to end a friendship/Client relationship if problems arise but that's up to them.

Extra time for coffee and chat - Any WG with half an ounce of business sense will give long term regulars extra time on bookings if she hasn't got anything on straight after and will allow for this anyway with long term regulars when the booking is made. Makes sense the client sees it as he has got something for nothing, feels special just as you have stated you do above therefore more likely to return, thus a regular income for her. :)

What I am trying to say is yes there is merit in the more personal philosophy and the names and numbers you have for these ladies MAY be real names and personal numbers known to only friends and family and yourself.  Or they MAY NOT and they may be just clever women giving you the illusion that you are in their private lives as well as their business lives all an added extra in the GFE.  :rolleyes: Therefore making you feel you are not just another client but a special one who because you have, OR THINK  you have this personal information and will continue to return.  :)

Don't want to burst your bubble but see where I'm coming from? :) Just as Smiths advised on if you manage to meet a good WG  lap it up same applies on the other side of the fence a WG will do her best to keep a good regular client. You need to remember anyone, in any walk of life will only share REAL information or details about themselves to virtual strangers  ( harsh to call you a virtual stranger but in effect you pay them for sex that's it, your not on the invite for Xmas dinner ) if they REALLY need to.  :)

Thanks for your opinions...
In answer without rambling on and i hope it doesn't sound too blunt, I would have to say.. this was meant to be a post for opinions, not about me, although you make some very good points, and yes I can see where you're coming from but assure you there's no bubble to burst!

In your first and second paragraphs about the personal stuff, they really were only some personal examples. However, I'm not going into detail but I can confirm I know the personal information given to me is true and I'm not being strung along in any way...... all I ever ask for is the real name, if the girl offers more, so be it.... that's a bonus!

Yes I fully agree with smiths as I've stated in a previous post here....

I have met many girls who think the way you do, nothing wrong with it and very understandable but with no offence intended, reading what you say, I'm sure if we did meet, we wouldn't 'hit it off' in the sort of way I prefer......

I absolutely love punting and meeting girls, it's my hobby, albeit an expensive hobby but hey.... we only live once, so why not enjoy it....  :thumbsup:
« Last Edit: June 16, 2013, 02:06:43 PM by philboi »

Offline Dani

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I am one of these weird clients who likes to know the girls real name after a few visits.   :hi:

Let's say for example your real name is Clare, can you explain why it would be a security risk to share that with a regular client as there will be thousands of girls with that name.


For me it would be too easy for them to find me as my name is rather unusual and if someone asked in a local shop or around the area for ******* they would know straight away who they were talking about and say oh yes she lives just down the *** by the ****

Then again my very best regulars who have been with me from the start know my real name now as well as having my real phone number as that one is always on so they can book in advance when it is convenient to them rather than waiting for me to turn on my work phone.  Saying that it is only four people whom I now class as not only clients but very good friends and we even meet up in town for coffee or lunch now and then

Offline philboi

You're right, phil; but it can be easier said than done.

Hey RDL, this is very true. Every time we go on a punt we're playing with fire and it can be oh so easy to get burnt.
That's a risk we take + I've always said to myself, the younger they are the less risk of emotional problems getting in the way!!

And the other side of the coin was why my signature used to be a line from King Lear: "I am a very foolish fond old man"! :rolleyes:

Offline philboi

I am one of these weird clients who likes to know the girls real name after a few visits.   :hi:

I don't think it weird to ask for a real name and I'm not totally sure why girls give a false name!

3 instances:

1. I booked a girl at a hotel and the security locks were on, so had to ask reception to let me in.... of course they needed a name and room number but as the name I had didn't match the girls real name in the room, they wouldn't let me in!

2. I knocked on the wrong door once and a guy came to the door... I looked puzzled and pretended to forget the name of the girl as I knew it would be false. Then he said "do you mean ******" to which I said "yes".... "She lives in the flat below" he said..... Close one!

3. A girl told me she was down the town with her mum and one of her clients spotted her and came over to say hello. Obviously he used the false name he had for her. The mum was puzzled and the girl had some explaining to do..

Perhaps the real name is better???
 

Offline philboi

Then again my very best regulars who have been with me from the start know my real name now as well as having my real phone number as that one is always on so they can book in advance when it is convenient to them rather than waiting for me to turn on my work phone.  Saying that it is only four people whom I now class as not only clients but very good friends and we even meet up in town for coffee or lunch now and then

Thank you Dani, the complete opposite comment to Sarahjayne

I'm so pleased you posted that comment because it shows the other side of the coin..... :thumbsup:
« Last Edit: June 16, 2013, 05:06:16 PM by philboi »

Offline LL

Thank you Dani, the complete opposite comment to Sarahjayne

I'm so pleased you posted that comment because it shows the other side of the coin..... :thumbsup:
I'm not convinced.
I fear that 99% of the WGs here have a hidden agenda so their comments in such debates are not necessarily honest.  I mean what are they doing here anyway?  Touting for business and that's all.  They post what they think we want to read.  I've been here a few months and seen many working girls come and go, in that short time.  The routine is now becoming a little predictable.  It goes something like this...

* Flirt with the guys.
* Have a laugh with them in order to try to strike up a rapport.
* Update their own avatar picture regularly with different shots of themselves so punters here can see all views of "the goods" on offer :)
* Drop in the occasional comment about how good at sex they are and how much they love their job.
* Take sides with one or more punters during a heated discussion (again to make connections, which they hope to turn into future clients).
* Drop subtle comments about how it's important to get tested for STIs regularly (so we get the impression that they're very clean and healthy).
* Sit back and wait for the PMs to roll in and the AW bookings to go up (either using the same name on their profile here as on AW or making it easy to guess, just by reading a few posts from them here).
Then...
* Get banned for soliciting and/or snapping at punters who have been rude to them, etc, etc.

Offline philboi

I'm not convinced.
I fear that 99% of the WGs here have a hidden agenda so their comments in such debates are not necessarily honest.  I mean what are they doing here anyway?  Touting for business and that's all.  They post what they think we want to read.  I've been here a few months and seen many working girls come and go, in that short time.  The routine is now becoming a little predictable.  It goes something like this...

* Flirt with the guys.
* Have a laugh with them in order to try to strike up a rapport.
* Update their own avatar picture regularly with different shots of themselves so punters here can see all views of "the goods" on offer :)
* Drop in the occasional comment about how good at sex they are and how much they love their job.
* Take sides with one or more punters during a heated discussion (again to make connections, which they hope to turn into future clients).
* Drop subtle comments about how it's important to get tested for STIs regularly (so we get the impression that they're very clean and healthy).
* Sit back and wait for the PMs to roll in and the AW bookings to go up (either using the same name on their profile here as on AW or making it easy to guess, just by reading a few posts from them here).
Then...
* Get banned for soliciting and/or snapping at punters who have been rude to them, etc, etc.

Wow, you read lot into that comment!

Ok, what you say could be true of some girl but I believe not all... well not all in my experience...

Offline LL

Wow, you read lot into that comment!

Ok, what you say could be true of some girl but I believe not all... well not all in my experience...
Well I could have posted that in response to many different comments from WGs here - it's something I've been thinking about - not just after reading this thread but from reading the forum in general.
I'm still not convinced that the WG has 4 "good friends" that are clients that she meets for coffees with regularly.  Even if she does meet them, she's likely doing so just to keep them as customers (and I suspect she'd stop such meetings if she quit working), otherwise it just seems a bit weird!

3. A girl told me she was down the town with her mum and one of her clients spotted her and came over to say hello. Obviously he used the false name he had for her. The mum was puzzled and the girl had some explaining to do..

Perhaps the real name is better???

That punter was an indiscreet twat and totally out of order approaching her in the 'real world'.

Personally, I don't get this 'I want to know your real name' malarkey, everything else about the meeting the meeting is based on fantasy and bullshit so what difference does it make? I wouldn't believe it was her 'real name' anyway.

Offline philboi

Well I could have posted that in response to many different comments from WGs here - it's something I've been thinking about - not just after reading this thread but from reading the forum in general.
I'm still not convinced that the WG has 4 "good friends" that are clients that she meets for coffees with regularly.  Even if she does meet them, she's likely doing so just to keep them as customers (and I suspect she'd stop such meetings if she quit working), otherwise it just seems a bit weird!

What you say does stand to reason.
It's just through my experiences of meeting many girls, I've realised you can't label them all the same. They might be prostitutes and do it for the money but there are all so very different!

Some, perhaps the large majority who I've not come to know may be like as you say but there are those with true values in life.
For instance I accidentally paid one of my regulars too much money. She never checks it when I give it to her but later she text to say I'd overpaid... Honesty.

I know you could say she may have thought it was a test but no, this girl has values and is honest about everything.

It's this type of girl I've made friends with over time and I seriously believe if they gave up escorting they would still keep in contact.
Only time will prove me wrong!


Offline philboi

That punter was an indiscreet twat and totally out of order approaching her in the 'real world'.

Personally, I don't get this 'I want to know your real name' malarkey, everything else about the meeting the meeting is based on fantasy and bullshit so what difference does it make? I wouldn't believe it was her 'real name' anyway.

Agreed that punter was a twat, especially as the WG was with someone.

However the fantasy part...
I know many guys see it as a fantasy where I don't!

To me it's an extension of real life, albeit in some sort of fantasy world because it wouldn't be if I hadn't paid for it.... but that's at far as the fantasy goes.

So with that part out of the way I enjoy the GFE with girls I feel I can also be friends with.

It works for me and to be honest that's all that concerns me  :)


However the fantasy part...
I know many guys see it as a fantasy where I don't!

To me it's an extension of real life, albeit in some sort of fantasy world because it wouldn't be if I hadn't paid for it.... but that's at far as the fantasy goes.

That is exactly what I meant by fantasy. I fantasize that the pro$$ie doesn't find me repulsive, but it is a fantasy..... because she most probably does!


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