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Author Topic: Are you born a fluffy?  (Read 7274 times)

Offline tightfoot69

Do you think you are born a fluffy or is it something you gradually become as you punt?

Offline Tailpipe

Do you think you are born a fluffy or is it something you gradually become as you punt?


Are you taking the piss  :D

Born and raised here. No problem saying it as I dont consider it an insult :) dont know if you can become one if you havent been befoee but Id guess yes...

Offline AnthG

Do you think you are born a fluffy or is it something you gradually become as you punt?
I genuinely think fluffy's are people who are introverts. So yes they are born given introverts is a born characteristic.

I would like to see if any self confessed fluffy admits to being also an extrovert as I would like my theory to be proved right or wrong.

Wiltsboy01

Do you think you are born a fluffy or is it something you gradually become as you punt?

I reckon it depends on what is going in your life outside of punting:

If you are in a relationship so just want to bang norty ladies for kicks and giggles - not fluffy

If you are single and you miss the loving side of sex and therefore seek that out in a punt -  you might tend towards fluffy

Offline NIK

I think fluffies forget they are paying, or at least like to forget they are paying. But then don't we all?  :D

Offline tightfoot69


Are you taking the piss  :D

No. I just think the best way to confront fluffiness is to talk about it and educate the fluffies.

Offline AnthG

No. I just think the best way to confront fluffiness is to talk about it and educate the fluffies.
The best way to educate fluffy's is to quote any few random posts from Saafe :)

(Meaning ones where the girls post showing their true colours)

Offline philboi

Do you think you are born a fluffy or is it something you gradually become as you punt?

Before I answer that, I need a firm definition about what constitutes a fluffy!!

Offline Tailpipe

The best way to educate fluffy's is to quote any few random posts from Saafe :)

(Meaning ones where the girls post showing their true colours)


Are you saying AnthG you are no longer a fluffy

Offline NIK

Before I answer that, I need a firm definition about what constitutes a fluffy!!

Somebody who thinks prostitutes can do no wrong.
Somebody who acts as though they are doing him a favour for even seeing him despite the fact that he is paying.
Somebody who says there were negatives in his review yet still recommends the prostitute.
Somebody who labels punters who seek value for money as misogynistic.
Somebody who reckons they have never had a bad punt because they 'do their research.'
Somebody who sucks up to prossies on every other paid sex forum.
Somebody who believes paying ridiculous prices will secure a better service.
Somebody who believes a courtesan isn't a prossy.
Need I go on?  :cool:

Offline philboi

Somebody who thinks prostitutes can do no wrong.
Somebody who acts as though they are doing him a favour for even seeing him despite the fact that he is paying.
Somebody who says there were negatives in his review yet still recommends the prostitute.
Somebody who labels punters who seek value for money as misogynistic.
Somebody who reckons they have never had a bad punt because they 'do their research.'
Somebody who sucks up to prossies on every other paid sex forum.
Somebody who believes paying ridiculous prices will secure a better service.
Somebody who believes a courtesan isn't a prossy.
Need I go on?  :cool:

Great, cheers for that NIK....

Have never been, don't ever want to be and never will be a fluffy, full stop  :thumbsup:

« Last Edit: June 15, 2013, 07:55:28 PM by philboi »

Online fredpunter

do you need to qualify on all counts or just one?

Offline Tailpipe

do you need to qualify on all counts or just one?

I was thinking that how many make you a fluffy or does just one do it.

Offline ncarter

The only fluffies present at a punt should be the towel and pillows.

I suspect nearly all punters start off as fluffies, but like fine wine the best mature with age (or is that their views sour)?

Offline AnthG

Somebody who thinks prostitutes can do no wrong.
Somebody who acts as though they are doing him a favour for even seeing him despite the fact that he is paying.
Somebody who says there were negatives in his review yet still recommends the prostitute.
Somebody who labels punters who seek value for money as misogynistic.
Somebody who reckons they have never had a bad punt because they 'do their research.'
Somebody who sucks up to prossies on every other paid sex forum.
Somebody who believes paying ridiculous prices will secure a better service.
Somebody who believes a courtesan isn't a prossy.
Need I go on?  :cool:
Are you saying AnthG you are no longer a fluffy

Using Niks list the only one I feel I may possibly fit is the one I bolded. But to be honest I come to forums to try and get along and be friends with everyone, punter and prostitute so am not sure if that necessarily applies.

I personally class a fluffy as someone who would date a prostitute knowing what she does, or has done, for a living but not really caring or thinking specifically less of her for it.
« Last Edit: June 15, 2013, 08:00:03 PM by AnthG »

Offline Tailpipe

I personally class a fluffy as someone who would date a prostitute knowing what she does, or has done, for a living but not really caring or thinking specifically less of her for it.

Do not think this happens that often. Ant.

Nik makes some good calls with his lists , some punters think the nicer you treat the WG
the better the punt will be , is that been smart or been fluffy.

My view is a punter punts for sex and pleasure alone. A fluffy will convince himself there is a real connection
with the WG.

However it would seem many can only enjoy a punt if that connection is there in there own mind.

Online fredpunter

Somebody who says there were negatives in his review yet still recommends the prostitute.

only one I may ever be guilty of

Do you think you are born a fluffy or is it something you gradually become as you punt?

I think in many cases it is the opposite. You start off on the road of punting like bambi, then when a little confidence sets in you start seeing the prossies as special, and giving you something you are missing from a relationship, or missing full stop. After a few years, many disappointing punts, and seeing that some prossies can be habitual liars, and hard hearted, you no longer place them on a pedestal.

Lack of fluffiness is beneficial for both punter and prossie as expectation, on both sides, does not exceed what is on offer, and no lines are mistakenly crossed.

Offline philboi

some punters think the nicer you treat the WG
the better the punt will be , is that been smart or been fluffy.

Being a fluffy... Although being nice must make things better..

My view is a punter punts for sex and pleasure alone. A fluffy will convince himself there is a real connection with the WG.

However it would seem many can only enjoy a punt if that connection is there in there own mind.

IMO a connection makes the sex so much better.... what's the point of a GFE without a connection??
« Last Edit: June 15, 2013, 08:25:12 PM by philboi »

Offline tightfoot69

Do you think there would be a large decrease in prossies if fluffies did not exist? I would say about 30% at least.

Do you think there would be a large decrease in prossies if fluffies did not exist? I would say about 30% at least.

Why? They fuck for money not to be worshipped by a sucker.

Offline Lz-129

Somebody who thinks prostitutes can do no wrong.
Somebody who acts as though they are doing him a favour for even seeing him despite the fact that he is paying.
Somebody who says there were negatives in his review yet still recommends the prostitute.
Somebody who labels punters who seek value for money as misogynistic.
Somebody who reckons they have never had a bad punt because they 'do their research.'
Somebody who sucks up to prossies on every other paid sex forum.
Somebody who believes paying ridiculous prices will secure a better service.
Somebody who believes a courtesan isn't a prossy.
Need I go on:cool:

You might have too, none of the above applies to me but is there more options to consider?

Offline ncarter

There may be a fall in the length of time many spend on the game. If there were no fluffies, then the bad ones would soon go as I suspect some of them continue for longer as there is a supply of sycophantic ego boosters who pay them easy money, whereas if these punters disappeared and they had to put more effort in, I am sure many ad WG's would find an alternative.

Offline smiths

Somebody who thinks prostitutes can do no wrong.
Somebody who acts as though they are doing him a favour for even seeing him despite the fact that he is paying.
Somebody who says there were negatives in his review yet still recommends the prostitute.
Somebody who labels punters who seek value for money as misogynistic.
Somebody who reckons they have never had a bad punt because they 'do their research.'
Somebody who sucks up to prossies on every other paid sex forum.
Somebody who believes paying ridiculous prices will secure a better service.
Somebody who believes a courtesan isn't a prossy.
Need I go on?  :cool:

Good list NIK. I would say i have had much appreciated advice from a number of fluffies so its not all a negative trait in my view.

Its when the white knight syndrome and/or blindly irrespective of the matter being discussed defending starts that it can turn negative in my experience.

Personally i am more concerned with posters that either pretend to be punters or are punters but in the pocket of certain SPs, these people attempt to seriously undermine punting forums in my view, and if i had a forum would be my top priority to get rid of. On here such behaviour wouldnt go un-noticed or un-challenged for long which is very good to see. ;)


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