The long walk home after a bad punt

[Hobbit]

So, we have all been there, we arrange and anticipate a punt, looking forward to it and when it happens it turns out to be a complete disappointment. Could be for varying reasons such as the girl's lied about her age and turns out to be too old, could be a bait and switch and girl is different to the pictures on her profile or the services promised may have not been delivered as expected or not at all.

Whatever the reason you end up leaving feeling like shit and the long walk or drive home seems lonesome and long and gets you thinking how you could have spent that money for something else, something more worthwhile, more longer lasting or perhaps for a bill that needed to be paid but wasn't.

So what do you do to get over that feeling? I usually try not to think about it and put it down to experience and a lesson learnt, making me more selective and cautious in the future. What about you, what do you do to get over that feeling after a bad punt?

[joe diddley]

Has happened to almost everyone here, I would guess, even the most seasoned amongst us. Some wipe away the memory of a bad punt by booking another with a tried and tested provider, perhaps with a reliable regular. Perhaps planning your next punt with someone better in your head is the way to manage the long walk or drive home.

[threechilliman]

Easy. I cheer myself up by starting to write the review in my mind. Works wonders when you've had a shit one.

tcm

[RedKettle]

Easy. I cheer myself up by starting to write the review in my mind. Works wonders when you've had a shit one.

tcm

same here!!

One particularly bad one I was composing the review during the punt.

[will-ow]

 I've had that happen a few times in my early punting days. Feelings of frustration,  that I should have known better etc.  talking about it or getting down as a review I think helps you realise it wasn't your fault and it was it was the lying prossies

[Hobbit]

I've had that happen a few times in my early punting days. Feelings of frustration,  that I should have known better etc.  talking about it or getting down as a review I think helps you realise it wasn't your fault and it was it was the lying prossies

Yeah but it doesn't change the fact that the money's gone and in return you got just a shit memory and a unsatisfied cock. Sometimes I think it's a mugs game!

[Flunt]

Yeah but it doesn't change the fact that the money's gone and in return you got just a shit memory and a unsatisfied cock. Sometimes I think it's a mugs game!

Sounds like someone is getting the jaded feeling?

Have a break or change your routine? Try a couple of in and out half hours until you find what you're looking for...

[standardpostage]

A bad punt makes you appreciate the good ones. Usually the good far outnumber the bad.  I think that good research is the answer.  Now that i've discovered ukpunting, I always check here first. I've had a few negatives myself over the years. Get well soon.

[threechilliman]

same here!!

One particularly bad one I was composing the review during the punt.

I recall my last bad one - after about 10mins I thought 'Emm, this will be a red one.......'

tcm

[Littlefoot]

I get the odd bad one now and again. Doesn't usually bother me too much! I just book another FS straight away or do a few FBSMs. Can't 'normally' go wrong with them, (although I've still had a few bad ones of them!) it's not rocket science though to wrap your tits around cock, and wank someone off!

I must admit though when you get two bad ones on the trot, that's a right kick in the knackers! Like what I've just had! Only thing I can do is write the negative reviews, and have a weeks break!

[king tarzan]

Long walk long bus ride long drive

Back home after shit punt

Next day either Angela escort London czecsasha or yvett I will see to get that horrendous experience out of myself..

[coa999]

no offence, this is pretty sad.

if you see a film in the cinema, and then end up thinking it's shit, is it worth moping about? Or just shrugging off? whenever we buy any service or product, there is risk. Like people have bought KFC or Burger King and the chicken had worms in it. That hasn't happened for everybody, but then it's a risk one takes.

[Flunt]

no offence, this is pretty sad.

if you see a film in the cinema, and then end up thinking it's shit, is it worth moping about? Or just shrugging off? whenever we buy any service or product, there is risk. Like people have bought KFC or Burger King and the chicken had worms in it. That hasn't happened for everybody, but then it's a risk one takes.

No offence but after 13 posts and no reviews I'm not certain you know what you're talking about!

When you've written your first negative and you're staring at a great big hole in your wallet, considerably bigger than the cost of a burger you might understand.

[OakTree]

The slow trudge back to the car after a shit punt can be an extraordinarily depressing feeling. Such a large amount of money just wasted but that's punting for you. Even with all the research, forum info and gut instinct, nothing is guaranteed.

I try not to dwell on it and take a pragmatic view, I win more than I lose.

[madmania]

Since UKP I've found my bad punts easier to swallow because I know I can feed back to everyone here and hopefully mean people can learn from my experiences (as I learn from theirs) and girls with poor service can be avoided.

Doesn't mean shit punts suck any less, but they just seem less pointless as some good can come from them

[coa999]

No offence but after 13 posts and no reviews I'm not certain you know what you're talking about!

When you've written your first negative and you're staring at a great big hole in your wallet, considerably bigger than the cost of a burger you might understand.

No, it's my genuine opinion. I've been punting for ten years, it's fun and I like sex and in ways I like it which most "normal/regular" women wouldn't give nor do. I honestly treat bad punts in that manner, shit happens.
It's like if one is a Gooner. Losing to Spurs is always bad, but no Arsenal fan after today's result would call or e-mail Mr. Gazidis and ask for their money back. It's the same principle when buying anything, there is always risk. Punting is a hobby, and like anything one pays for, there is no guarantee of it turning out well.

[peter purves]

No, it's my genuine opinion. I've been punting for ten years, it's fun and I like sex and in ways I like it which most "normal/regular" women wouldn't give nor do. I honestly treat bad punts in that manner, shit happens.
It's like if one is a Gooner. Losing to Spurs is always bad, but no Arsenal fan after today's result would call or e-mail Mr. Gazidis and ask for their money back. It's the same principle when buying anything, there is always risk. Punting is a hobby, and like anything one pays for, there is no guarantee of it turning out well.

Although I understand what you are saying here in principle. The problem, as I see it, is that a 'bad' punt usually does not happen inadvertently or by accident but rather by design ie as 'being ripped off'. In this respect, the analogy of paying for goods and service would be somewhat similar to the reaction/emotions if one was ripped off by any other tradesman.

[Jimmyredcab]

no offence, this is pretty sad.

if you see a film in the cinema, and then end up thinking it's shit, is it worth moping about? Or just shrugging off? whenever we buy any service or product, there is risk.

With respect, that is cobblers.

A bad film would cost you around £10 ------------------ a bad punt could set you back £150.   

[maxxblue]

So, we have all been there, we arrange and anticipate a punt, looking forward to it and when it happens it turns out to be a complete disappointment. Could be for varying reasons such as the girl's lied about her age and turns out to be too old, could be a bait and switch and girl is different to the pictures on her profile or the services promised may have not been delivered as expected or not at all.

Whatever the reason you end up leaving feeling like shit and the long walk or drive home seems lonesome and long and gets you thinking how you could have spent that money for something else, something more worthwhile, more longer lasting or perhaps for a bill that needed to be paid but wasn't.

So what do you do to get over that feeling? I usually try not to think about it and put it down to experience and a lesson learnt, making me more selective and cautious in the future. What about you, what do you do to get over that feeling after a bad punt?

Like most, I've been there. I need to finish on a high, so when I've had a shit punt I arrange another punt so that I feel better - it's not a conscious decision, but just something I do automatically.

[peter purves]

So, we have all been there, we arrange and anticipate a punt, looking forward to it and when it happens it turns out to be a complete disappointment. Could be for varying reasons such as the girl's lied about her age and turns out to be too old, could be a bait and switch and girl is different to the pictures on her profile or the services promised may have not been delivered as expected or not at all.

Whatever the reason you end up leaving feeling like shit and the long walk or drive home seems lonesome and long and gets you thinking how you could have spent that money for something else, something more worthwhile, more longer lasting or perhaps for a bill that needed to be paid but wasn't.

So what do you do to get over that feeling? I usually try not to think about it and put it down to experience and a lesson learnt, making me more selective and cautious in the future. What about you, what do you do to get over that feeling after a bad punt?

Just remember this Hobbit  You'll Never Walk Alone!!

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[Jimmyredcab]

No, it's my genuine opinion. I've been punting for ten years.

We look forward to your first review.     

[Punter115]

Under the trade description act are you not entitled to "demand your money back "if the young lady does not fulfill her side of the agreement as contained in her advert!
Any nonsense and I would threaten her with legal action forthwith!

[mrdiamond77]

After a bad or disappointing punt I tend to make sure that my next one is with a regular girl who I know I will have a good time with. 

[coa999]

With respect, that is cobblers.

A bad film would cost you around £10 ------------------ a bad punt could set you back £150.   

so what? it's still the same, leisure. people are responsible how they manage money anyhow.

[monstar]

Shit happens but £150 is not £10 so it's not the same. Obviously people are going to be more upset when a larger amount of money is wasted.

Writing a review helps me and ensuring lessons are learnt from my bad punts - which usually means putting more trust in my gut feeling. Time is a great healer or a decent punt soon after improves my mood but bad for the bank balance! 

[mcgee121]

I don't consider punting a hobby like some of you guys.  A hobby is something that brings me joy every time; punting is so hit and miss, it's the rare thrills I get that make it worthwhile. 

I hate getting conned and being lied to in my face so detest that long walk.  You always think to yourself that you could have used the money to see another girl.  Good research does help, of course, but you need to be lucky to get a good punt.  You never know what mood the girl will be in or the services they will deny or only partially fulfill.  What's also equally disappointing is when you've seen someone who you thought was really good before and you initially think the second punt with them went well.  But on reflection know that they gave you a half arsed job.  To get over these disappointments the best way is to punt it out of your system with a regular that you can trust to deliver.  I can only imagine how low a punter feels who gets back to back shitty punts.

[Home Alone]

I don't consider punting a hobby like some of you guys.  A hobby is something that brings me joy every time; punting is so hit and miss, it's the rare thrills I get that make it worthwhile. 

I hate getting conned and being lied to in my face so detest that long walk.  You always think to yourself that you could have used the money to see another girl.  Good research does help, of course, but you need to be lucky to get a good punt.  You never know what mood the girl will be in or the services they will deny or only partially fulfill.  What's also equally disappointing is when you've seen someone who you thought was really good before and you initially think the second punt with them went well.  But on reflection know that they gave you a half arsed job.  To get over these disappointments the best way is to punt it out of your system with a regular that you can trust to deliver.  I can only imagine how low a punter feels who gets back to back shitty punts.

Because my dictionary defines a 'pastime' as 'an activity done regularly for enjoyment', that's how I usually refer to punting.  Besides, it certainly passes the time!

I'm sorry for you, mcgee121, if your 'success rate' is as low as you imply.

As I've mentioned elsewhere, I alternate between seeing my Regular and seeing one of the new-to-me WGs from my HL of "Reasonably-Priced MILFs along the M62.". While I've deleted a number of the names in that HL after I've done my research on here, equally some of the lasses who I might not have got round to seeing for some time have gone up the list following good FRs on here. I can honestly say that method has meant that I haven't had a bad punt since I found this site.

[Flunt]

For some of us it comes down to punting with spare cash, a straight choice between saving up for a holiday, new clothes, new car or going for a punt?

Whether it is a good or bad punt initially doesn't matter, it's a personal sacrifice to spend £xxx on DizzyDoris. If it's a good punt then, life is good, you can sit in the pub with a smile on your face, the cat that got the cream. If it's a bad punt then I get the feeling that it's not lost money but I've given away an opportunity to some miserable, low life, skank!

[coa999]

I don't consider punting a hobby like some of you guys.  A hobby is something that brings me joy every time; punting is so hit and miss, it's the rare thrills I get that make it worthwhile. 

I hate getting conned and being lied to in my face so detest that long walk.  You always think to yourself that you could have used the money to see another girl.  Good research does help, of course, but you need to be lucky to get a good punt.  You never know what mood the girl will be in or the services they will deny or only partially fulfill.  What's also equally disappointing is when you've seen someone who you thought was really good before and you initially think the second punt with them went well.  But on reflection know that they gave you a half arsed job.  To get over these disappointments the best way is to punt it out of your system with a regular that you can trust to deliver.  I can only imagine how low a punter feels who gets back to back shitty punts.

Even with hobbies, it may not go to plan. I take it on the chin and realise shit happens. not from being smarter or being arrogant, just experience. It makes no sense imho to mope about things like that.

[coa999]

We look forward to your first review.     

I've only just joined, but it's true, i have.

[bearcat69]

So what do you do to get over that feeling? I usually try not to think about it and put it down to experience and a lesson learnt, making me more selective and cautious in the future. What about you, what do you do to get over that feeling after a bad punt?

I just try to put it down to experience. I try to look at it as getting to the good punts makes suffering through the bad punts worthwhile.

If there's something I can learn from the disappointing punts about why they weren't good, then I try to take that on board and adapt my approach to how I punt appropriately. Whether that be how I select the girl, how I contact and book the girl, how I prepare myself for the punt, or how I behave on the punt, there's usually something I can learn. Writing reviews on here helps me in this process. Although, sometimes there is nothing really to learn other than it was a shit prossie who I stupidly wasted my money on. It happens, nature of the game, and it's not my idea on fun. But I would never spend money on punting which is needed to pay bills or other essentials. But I could have spent that money on a video game, or saving up for a holiday or a car. But when I've handed the money to the prossie I've made my choice and whatever happens good or bad, happens.

I've been fortunate that I've never been conned, robbed or attacked, and I've only been B&S'd once. To be honest, it's not even so much wasting money that bothers me. But, it's encountering poor hygiene, or moody, rude or arrogant prossies who treat me without dignity or respect that I don't like. That can leave an unpleasant aftertaste. Prossies will be prossies though, I suppose. What doesn't kill you makes you stronger and all that. Fortunately we punters have this place to come and share our bad experiences in the hope of revealing bad prossies for what they are and helping out other punters.

[mcgee121]

I'm sorry for you, mcgee121, if your 'success rate' is as low as you imply.

I'm fine  .  My success rate for what I consider a positive punt is about one-thirds.

[madmania]

I'm fine  .  My success rate for what I consider a positive punt is about one-thirds.

That's pretty tragic mate! 2 out of 3 punts you have aren't good?

You need to get yourself to some of the top reviewed girls! That it get yourself a quality regular

[GreyDave]

With respect, that is cobblers.

A bad film would cost you around £10 ------------------ a bad punt could set you back £150.   

Agh I find myself agreeing with Jimmy again

True enough however One mans drink is a ten`a others £5k . 2 years ago I was treated to an evening in a lapdance club were I watched my clients being Stupid as they showed off putting 20 `s in a girls top .

That's how the bad service providers out there get away with it . Loads of guys don't do homework and are just mugs....Mind you I have been done over quite a few times luckily I now just go in to shag mode and get it done and leave...