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Offline baranabus96

The booking never took place as I had to cancel it, but decided to write a review because it was scheduled on AW and because of what happened after I cancelled on her. Rather than the usual review format i'm going to write about what happened chronologically seeing as the entire thing happened over comms, it's going to be simplified a bit as there are a lot of irrelevant bits and pieces.

Summary in red at the bottom as it's a bit of a bastard to read through.

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Charissa had been on my HL for a month or so before I joined UKE, once I got on there I noticed that she was quite active and after reading some of her posts about what she was into (would be the 1st proper submissive I've booked) I expressed some interest in booking her at some point.

Some time later she contacts me to inform me via PM that after the 25th of April she'll be taking a break from escorting and possibly quitting. Seems she's had a dusty phone and was hoping i'd book her, I initially tell her that i'll be unavailable but then get the news that i'll be getting some medication that I had been expecting for a while (B12 for my energy issues).

I resume contact with her and after me fumbling around with some details we get a rough idea of what would happen in the booking. It was going to be my first time in a properly dominant role, verbally humiliating her as that's something she's known for on here and UKE.

Some crap with my family happens involving a family member's business suddenly being down by a few workers (she's a bit crazy so likely scared them off) and I offered to head over to volunteer just so it wouldn't fall to shit when they were understaffed. I inform Charissa about the cancellation (this being days in advance)after sorting out my travelling arrangements and prepare to set off the next morning.

Turns out that on the ride over to Bristol the family member got several of her friends to volunteer, leaving me unneeded and unwanted. I head back exhausted and stressed out as this was the first time in a long time that i've left London while being this unwell not to mention my first cancellation.

I briefly ponder whether I should get back to Charissa and try to rebook her but in my mind I thought i'd come across as some kind of fantasist or time waster, trying to fuck her over with games until she was going for her break. This wasn't the case but I was too tired and annoyed at my situation to get back to her and apologise for what had happened (as mentioned earlier I'd fumbled a bit with some details, specifically location, which probably looked suspicious too).

I say fuck it and book my regular for a standard GFE to help me destress. I wasn't in any state to properly prepare my flat for a first time booking with an escort and the regular is fine with me being messy, a lot less hassle to just book her especially considering the original plan of a fact paced dom booking.

The booking with my regular comes and goes, I mention on one of the UKE threads that I just had a booking with my regular thinking that was that. Charissa then gets back in contact with me asking if she had done anything to make me unsure about the booking forcing me to cancel, I told her that she had been fine.

She pries a bit and then tells me that it's clear i've been lying to her and that she dislikes disingenuous people. From what i've read she's been a little paranoid about why she's not been getting many bookings and to be fair she's taken a lot of the criticism on when she's asked for it.

I send her a longer email explaining some of the above and talking about how I just wanted a calmer booking with someone familiar after the crap with the family member and she didn't respond.

That was that, a very boring end to a fairly boring tale.

Summary:

Booking gets arranged.

I have to cancel due to unfortunate timing of bullshit.

I book my regular rather than rebook Charissa because i'm not in the mood to verbally abuse and humiliate a stranger.

She accuses me of lying.

End.


The reason it's a neutral is because while the accusation at the end was uncalled for she had been very good at comms and attitude up to that point, answering questions concisely and directly.



Offline Sinz

IMO I don't really see any issues from English Charissa's part. There is obvious miss understandings and faults from both ends.

tbh I don't think this should be classified as a review.

Waste of time reading this review as it not particularly helpful.

Offline baranabus96

IMO I don't really see any issues from English Charissa's part. There is obvious miss understandings and faults from both ends.

tbh I don't think this should be classified as a review.

Waste of time reading this review as it not particularly helpful.

Fair enough, I do understand that it isn't very helpful as it's a very specific circumstance.

I wrote the review because in her final message she said that it was clear I was lying despite that not being the case and there not being much reason at all to think that. To highlight the fact that her drop in business seems be making her a little paranoid about her bookings or lack thereof.

If this was reclassified as a regular post i'd not object, might have been a mistake for me to choose to make it as a review.

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She pries a bit and then tells me that it's clear i've been lying to her and that she dislikes disingenuous people.

The more they pry the more i lie.

There are some damn nosey people out there. 

Do agree though she is much more personable since her critique me thread.   :hi:

Offline Brazilian Martian

IMO I don't really see any issues from English Charissa's part. There is obvious miss understandings and faults from both ends.

tbh I don't think this should be classified as a review.

Waste of time reading this review as it not particularly helpful.

Even though she has mellowed out big time, when I used to be a member of UKE she had a major attitude problem she reminded me of a Jack Russell. Always wanting to argue with people to get her point across she was also very cosy with atticus finch and sweetheart. She did have a melt down and left the site this was almost a year ago.

Since she's been a member on UKP she's been on her best behaviour so can't really say nothing bad about her.

But op this should be a negative if you ask me

Offline Brazilian Martian

The booking never took place as I had to cancel it, but decided to write a review because it was scheduled on AW and because of what happened after I cancelled on her. Rather than the usual review format i'm going to write about what happened chronologically seeing as the entire thing happened over comms, it's going to be simplified a bit as there are a lot of irrelevant bits and pieces.

Summary in red at the bottom as it's a bit of a bastard to read through.

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Charissa had been on my HL for a month or so before I joined UKE, once I got on there I noticed that she was quite active and after reading some of her posts about what she was into (would be the 1st proper submissive I've booked) I expressed some interest in booking her at some point.

Some time later she contacts me to inform me via PM that after the 25th of April she'll be taking a break from escorting and possibly quitting. Seems she's had a dusty phone and was hoping i'd book her, I initially tell her that i'll be unavailable but then get the news that i'll be getting some medication that I had been expecting for a while (B12 for my energy issues).

I resume contact with her and after me fumbling around with some details we get a rough idea of what would happen in the booking. It was going to be my first time in a properly dominant role, verbally humiliating her as that's something she's known for on here and UKE.

Some crap with my family happens involving a family member's business suddenly being down by a few workers (she's a bit crazy so likely scared them off) and I offered to head over to volunteer just so it wouldn't fall to shit when they were understaffed. I inform Charissa about the cancellation (this being days in advance)after sorting out my travelling arrangements and prepare to set off the next morning.

Turns out that on the ride over to Bristol the family member got several of her friends to volunteer, leaving me unneeded and unwanted. I head back exhausted and stressed out as this was the first time in a long time that i've left London while being this unwell not to mention my first cancellation.

I briefly ponder whether I should get back to Charissa and try to rebook her but in my mind I thought i'd come across as some kind of fantasist or time waster, trying to fuck her over with games until she was going for her break. This wasn't the case but I was too tired and annoyed at my situation to get back to her and apologise for what had happened (as mentioned earlier I'd fumbled a bit with some details, specifically location, which probably looked suspicious too).

I say fuck it and book my regular for a standard GFE to help me destress. I wasn't in any state to properly prepare my flat for a first time booking with an escort and the regular is fine with me being messy, a lot less hassle to just book her especially considering the original plan of a fact paced dom booking.

The booking with my regular comes and goes, I mention on one of the UKE threads that I just had a booking with my regular thinking that was that. Charissa then gets back in contact with me asking if she had done anything to make me unsure about the booking forcing me to cancel, I told her that she had been fine.

She pries a bit and then tells me that it's clear i've been lying to her and that she dislikes disingenuous people. From what i've read she's been a little paranoid about why she's not been getting many bookings and to be fair she's taken a lot of the criticism on when she's asked for it.

I send her a longer email explaining some of the above and talking about how I just wanted a calmer booking with someone familiar after the crap with the family member and she didn't respond.

That was that, a very boring end to a fairly boring tale.

Summary:

Booking gets arranged.

I have to cancel due to unfortunate timing of bullshit.

I book my regular rather than rebook Charissa because i'm not in the mood to verbally abuse and humiliate a stranger.

She accuses me of lying.

End.


The reason it's a neutral is because while the accusation at the end was uncalled for she had been very good at comms and attitude up to that point, answering questions concisely and directly.

I would of made this a negative, what gives her the right to question you then make allegations that you're a liar. :thumbsdown:

Offline baranabus96

Even though she has mellowed out big time, when I used to be a member of UKE she had a major attitude problem she reminded me of a Jack Russell. Always wanting to argue with people to get her point across she was also very cosy with atticus finch and sweetheart. She did have a melt down and left the site this was almost a year ago.

Since she's been a member on UKP she's been on her best behaviour so can't really say nothing bad about her.

But op this should be a negative if you ask me

Only reason it's a neutral is because she was understanding about the cancellation and comms were good when organising the punt itself.

I can get her maybe suspecting that I was lying due to me saying I wasn't available then suddenly I was, then I had to cancel etc but her outright accusing me of lying based on that suspicion was crossing the line. Said she dislikes disingenuous people right after doing something far from genuine, accusing someone of lying based on nothing.

Offline Sinz

Even though she has mellowed out big time, when I used to be a member of UKE she had a major attitude problem she reminded me of a Jack Russell. Always wanting to argue with people to get her point across she was also very cosy with atticus finch and sweetheart. She did have a melt down and left the site this was almost a year ago.

Since she's been a member on UKP she's been on her best behaviour so can't really say nothing bad about her.

But op this should be a negative if you ask me

Was not aware of the history about this WG, makes more sense now

Thanks for sharing BM

Offline Brazilian Martian

Only reason it's a neutral is because she was understanding about the cancellation and comms were good when organising the punt itself.

I can get her maybe suspecting that I was lying due to me saying I wasn't available then suddenly I was, then I had to cancel etc but her outright accusing me of lying based on that suspicion was crossing the line. Said she dislikes disingenuous people right after doing something far from genuine, accusing someone of lying based on nothing.

That's the bit I don't like her calling you disingenuous, I can understand from her point but she could of handled the situation better. But I want to put it out there I'm not hating on this woman as she has been ok since she's been a member of UKP, even giving insightfull posts and opinions from a prossies view point.

Offline Rochelle

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That's the bit I don't like her calling you disingenuous, I can understand from her point but she could of handled the situation better. But I want to put it out there I'm not hating on this woman as she has been ok since she's been a member of UKP, even giving insightfull posts and opinions from a prossies view point.

I'm wondering why it should be a negative, or even a review, when the meeting was cancelled.
I thought it weird when he said that he had to cancel, but then he ended up booking someone else. Of course it's none of my business, guys book who they want. but when I messaged him, it was to find out if I'd done something to put him off, and he replied that I could ask him anything. I was polite in my approach, but at the end of the day I didn't believe him so I called him disingenuous. That's down to me thinking that there was probably some reason he cancelled, which was my fault, but he just didn't want to say. Him cancelling me then booking someone else when he said he wouldn't be around makes me think I must have done something. That's what I think. If I'm wrong, then that's my issue and I'm sorry.

I'm not afraid to admit I have a dusty phone. Apart from this week being bloody good for me, it's been quiet overall. I thought I put him off somehow, and I didn't believe him when he said I didn't. A review for that is a bit harsh, when there was no longer an actual meeting in place due to him cancelling. Basically he's reviewing me because I didn't believe him, if I'd believed him, there wouldn't be a review up right now. Obviously that's up to him, and it's a punters' site, just my opinion. Thanks.
« Last Edit: April 20, 2017, 12:14:20 am by Rochelle »

Offline baranabus96

Quote from the site rules regarding reviews "A meet does not need to take place, money does not need change hands, the only requirement is that the she had accepted the initial booking"

 I told you that you could ask me anything because I thought you were doubting yourself rather than me and because I had nothing to hide, you specifically asked me if you had put me off and not if I had been bullshitting.

"but he just didn't want to say. That's what I think. If I'm wrong, then that's my issue and I'm sorry." Except I did tell you, I told you initially that there was a family issue and that I would need to head over to Bristol for an unknown amount of time as well as that I hoped i'd be able to rebook you (which I wasn't comfortable doing for the reasons already stated). I followed up your goodbye message with a lengthier explanation to try to patch things up and you never responded.

You didn't just call me disingenuous, you said that it was clear I was lying. There is a difference between doubting whether someone is telling the truth and claiming they are a liar without reason.
« Last Edit: April 20, 2017, 12:17:51 am by baranabus96 »

Offline Rochelle

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Quote from the site rules regarding reviews "A meet does not need to take place, money does not need change hands, the only requirement is that the she had accepted the initial booking"

 I told you that you could ask me anything because I thought you were doubting yourself rather than me and because I had nothing to hide.

"but he just didn't want to say. That's what I think. If I'm wrong, then that's my issue and I'm sorry." Except I did tell you, I told you initially that there was a family issue and that I would need to head over to Bristol for an unknown amount of time as well as that I hoped i'd be able to rebook you (which I wasn't comfortable doing for the reasons already stated). I followed up your goodbye message with a lengthier explanation to try to patch things up and you never responded.

You didn't just call me disingenuous, you said that it was clear I was lying. There is a difference between doubting whether someone is telling the truth and claiming they are a liar without reason.

Fair enough, I didn't realise you could do a review when the punter is the one that cancels. Forgot the rule on that. I stand corrected.
« Last Edit: April 20, 2017, 12:23:11 am by Rochelle »

Offline baranabus96

Fair enough, I didn't realise you could do a review when the punter is the one that cancels. Forgot the rule on that. I stand corrected.

Okay, would you mind not ignoring the other points? I directly addressed everything you said and in return you only replied to the one that doesn't make you look bad rather than taking the intellectually honest option and possibly coming out respected.

I told you almost every detail about why I had to cancel the booking found above in response to your questions which you asked before this review was written so I find it odd that you are now saying that I didn't want to give you an answer.

Oh I did forget to respond to the final point, I didn't review you because you didn't believe me I reviewed you because you did that without good reason. If someone is spouting shit then by all means point it out, if they are being consistent and apologetic about the mess they have made then making  baseless accusations is not in any way reasonable.
« Last Edit: April 20, 2017, 01:02:25 am by baranabus96 »

Offline Rochelle

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Okay, would you mind not ignoring the other points? I directly addressed everything you said and in return you only replied to the one that doesn't make you look bad rather than taking the intellectually honest option and possibly coming out respected.

I told you almost every detail about why I had to cancel the booking found above in response to your questions which you asked before this review was written so I find it odd that you are now saying that I didn't want to give you an answer.

Oh I did forget to respond to the final point, I didn't review you because you didn't believe me I reviewed you because you did that without good reason. If someone is spouting shit then by all means point it out, if they are being consistent and apologetic about the mess they have made then making  baseless accusations is not in any way reasonable.

Huh? You've not read the sentence how I intended.
Let me try again. I figured that there was a reason you cancelled which was down to me, but you didn't want to tell me what it was I actually did to make you cancel.
That's what I meant.
« Last Edit: April 20, 2017, 01:24:13 am by Rochelle »

Offline baranabus96

Huh? You've not read the sentence how I intended.
Let me try again. I figured that there was a reason you cancelled which was down to me, but you didn't want to tell me what it was I actually did to make you cancel.
That's what I meant.

Fair enough, that does make it a little better. Though I did make it very clear that you had done nothing wrong up to that point.

Offline GMontag

Have tried booking her a number of times. I gave up after the last attempt recently. Emailed to make booking which she responded to with agreement for the next day. She then contacts later same day I emailed, to cancel on the meet, basically as she got a better offer.
Didn't and still don't hold it against her so I understand the neutral. It just created an opening for a punt with a different SP.
« Last Edit: April 20, 2017, 05:37:39 am by GMontag »

vw

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Even though she has mellowed out big time, when I used to be a member of UKE she had a major attitude problem she reminded me of a Jack Russell. Always wanting to argue with people to get her point across she was also very cosy with atticus finch and sweetheart. She did have a melt down and left the site this was almost a year ago.

Since she's been a member on UKP she's been on her best behaviour so can't really say nothing bad about her.

But op this should be a negative if you ask me

Shame you are banned, you missed that prick uncle with his vile stench attempting to manipulate the forum with  a french prossie that tried to bribe admin.

Offline undercoverpunter

IMO I don't really see any issues from English Charissa's part. There is obvious miss understandings and faults from both ends.

tbh I don't think this should be classified as a review.

Waste of time reading this review as it not particularly helpful.

Agreed,  adds no value given that you made the booking and then cancelled.

As to the comms after,  it's easy to see how she may interpret it that way given you've posted it in a forum that you're both on.

Offline undercoverpunter

Shame you are banned, you missed that prick uncle with his vile stench attempting to manipulate the forum with  a french prossie that tried to bribe admin.
Wow... Missed that. What happened?

Offline Placebo88

Technically this meets review criteria, but no guidelines are foolproof. Booking then canceling the booking because of a matter unrelated to the prossie seems a dubious starting position. If she had given you grief upon you cancelling I'd get your reasoning as it is still a part of the customer service process and could be relevant to other punters, but not this clap.

Why write up who you had just shagged on the other site, especially knowing who may read?

Offline Brazilian Martian

Shame you are banned, you missed that prick uncle with his vile stench attempting to manipulate the forum with  a french prossie that tried to bribe admin.

Dammmmn it I miss all the fun  :dash: did atticus join in to help with his best mate uncle or was it a solo affair ?

vw

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Dammmmn it I miss all the fun  :dash: did atticus join in to help with his best mate uncle or was it a solo affair ?

This prossie

https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=138247.0

No atticus this time, no idea if he is over there yet, he wont be able to hide his superior etiquette for long.

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Why write up who you had just shagged on the other site, especially knowing who may read?

Do idiots really announce their punts in real time ?   :wacko: :crazy:

Asking for trouble IMO

Offline Cunning Punt

From what i've read she's been a little paranoid about why she's not been getting many bookings and to be fair she's taken a lot of the criticism on when she's asked for it.

Mmm, up to a point.

Taking a look at a recent thread, she was asking why she wasn't get bookings - and was basically told:
No incalls, price was too high, no bookings under an hour (which is £150) and she was coming across as needy (which she does on UKE and her awank blog).

She was still then asking why she wasn't getting bookings!

She has said she is considering doing incalls, but wouldn't reduce her £150ph rate or do less than hour bookings. In fact I see on her profile that her shortest appointment is now 1.5 hour outcall @ £230!  :wacko:

Offline Rochelle

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Mmm, up to a point.

Taking a look at a recent thread, she was asking why she wasn't get bookings - and was basically told:
No incalls, price was too high, no bookings under an hour (which is £150) and she was coming across as needy (which she does on UKE and her awank blog).

She was still then asking why she wasn't getting bookings!

She has said she is considering doing incalls, but wouldn't reduce her £150ph rate or do less than hour bookings. In fact I see on her profile that her shortest appointment is now 1.5 hour outcall @ £230!  :wacko:

I only changed my rates last Thursday actually. I reduced my rates for a while and that didn't work, so I thought fuck it, let's raise them. Maybe crazy but guess what? I've been really good this past week.

I also never said I wouldn't reduce my rate for incalls. I only said I would never do thirty minutes.
« Last Edit: April 20, 2017, 11:51:54 pm by Rochelle »

Offline Cunning Punt

IMO I don't really see any issues from English Charissa's part. There is obvious miss understandings and faults from both ends.

tbh I don't think this should be classified as a review.

Waste of time reading this review as it not particularly helpful.

It is helpful because one doesn't want to get aggro messages from a WG if you cancel a review, but agree it should be a post, not a review.

The OP didn't help himself by giving far too much information - both on UKE saying he'd a punt and there's too much personal detail on the top post. Just say you cancelled because you had a number of stressful, personal issues.
« Last Edit: April 20, 2017, 11:52:34 pm by Cunning Punt »