Oh, Shirley (big knockers, no arse, quirky-cute face) told me that she knows of this site purely because she decided to Google herself after so many men going there and requesting her without having met her before. I feigned ignorance, naturally.
Seriously guys, work up a backstory in these cases: such as you did see her years ago (she won't remember) or your friend who has got you into TCM massage recommended her. Never fails