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Author Topic: Ignoring withheld numbers and texts  (Read 7025 times)

Offline marty

What you might find works better is that if when you text you text something like this  ("Sorry for texting but you  would like an appointment but you need to call from your work phone which is withheld number  to speak to them and ask for details as you cant ring out on this phone etc is that ok Let me know and i will call you straight away thanks Marty from UKP  :lol: )    They might then hang up and say fuck off I'm not seeing anyone from UKP or they might just swoon and give you a freebie
 

 
 (you can even have a pre -done template to save you time and just insert the escort's name)

   Someone texting me  something like that would probably be fine by me as i have your punting phone so if its a booking that need a confirmation text you can do it from the punting phone.     

I find that if you work from the basis that everyone is stupid  :D then the easier you make it for them to see your point you  often find that you get everything you want   

LOL  :D After that post I'd be texting you if you were anywhere near my area.   :thumbsup:

Offline ParisB

You send them a text so they they have your punting number  ( correct )    Yes

then you call them off a withheld phone - your work phone  to make a booking   ( correct )   Yes
 
when you get their which phone do you call them off  I'm assuming  its  your work phone which is whitheld or

I call from the private work phone or text from the punting phone.

There is one other option which has happened, the girl calls me on my punting phone, but some won't even do that they insist the client must call them, probably because they have not much credit.  I don't buy minutes on my PAYG sim because they are expensive and soon run out where I can have unlimited texts for a month for £5. I already pay out £45 a month on my work phone contract I'm not paying for another just to talk to escorts, I'm paying out £50 a month all in and that's enough in my view.

Basically if a escort insists on the only way of contact being the client must phone them from a displayed number it's either a scam fake profile or she's got so many strict rules its probably best not to meet her anyway in my view.  What bothers me is I think some new girls see this rule on Adultwork and places and then apply it to their ways without knowing why just because its what others are saying.  If punters avoid all girls who insist on it then girls would need to think again which would be a good thing in my view.


Thats fair enough  i think though in your initial post it wasn't clear  or it wasn't to me,    i thought you wanted to do the whole booking by text  and that something that i wouldn't do personally.
 
  I think though any reasonable escort,  if you put it the way that  so that its  clear so that they understand what your trying to do then you will get someone   It might be a pain for you to have to text something like what i suggested but as you said its give and take so your more likely to get somewhere with someone if they know  exactly what you want to do in order to make an appointment 

Offline ParisB

LOL  :D After that post I'd be texting you if you were anywhere near my area.   :thumbsup:


Sorry don't take bookings by text or answer blocked  numbers  :lol:

Offline ladyofthemansion

Security my arse.
You can buy a throwaway SIM card for around £5.
A pro$$ie with an ounce of brains will answer enquiries from withheld numbers but insist that the punter shows his number to make a firm booking.

Don't know where you buy your sims. You can get them for 99p.

Offline Jimmyredcab

Don't know where you buy your sims. You can get them for 99p.

I don't buy throwaway SIMs ---------------- no need.    :drinks:

Offline Marmalade

Other reasons she might not answer texts or withheld numbers:

She's a lazy cow
She's pissed
She sounds like a chav
She is a chav
She can't type in English
Her pimp can't type in English
She can't read English
She can't work her new phone
Her b/f reads her texts
Her pimp reads her texts
Her pimp reads her texts and replies
She doesn't like texting messages while watching the board for her number in the Benefits Office
She's busy spending the money from the previous punt   

in fact going through my phone and looking at some of the texts sent over the past 2 -3 days

So many numpty messages. How many texts do you get a month on average?


Call me I'm in the Hilton

Who does he think you are, batman?  :lol:

Wiltsboy01

So many numpty messages. How many texts do you get a month on average?

I love these pro$$ie facts too.  I would love to know how many calls/texts/emails/customers WGs get - just for curiosity really.

Oh that and I would love to be the 'messiah' punter who rings a dusty phone and pays a bill for the WG just in time - that has got to guarantee you a good fuck. 

Yeah, I know.  I need to punt more and type less.

Offline philboi

Indeed, i wouldnt punt with a newbie WG to me without speaking to her first, i have zero interest in emails. ;)

Speaking to a WG first is a must. I never could understand why some girls seem to do the whole booking process by text!!

Security my arse.
You can buy a throwaway SIM card for around £5.
A pro$$ie with an ounce of brains will answer enquiries from withheld numbers but insist that the punter shows his number to make a firm booking.

But with the throwaway SIM card principle it really doesn't matter! The WG would never be able to identify anyone if things went wrong by showing the number so it would be the same as a withheld number!

I agree totally -------------------------- however you can never be sure you are actually talking to the girl, it could be her flat mate or the maid.     :thumbsdown:

You can soon find out if it's the same girl when you arrive..... if it isn't, maybe a quick exit is required!

Offline manc36

Both smiths and I do this. You can tell a lot from a phone call.

Me too. I'd never see a WG without talking on the phone first. It helps both of you to at least get a feel for each other.

Offline philboi

Me too. I'd never see a WG without talking on the phone first. It helps both of you to at least get a feel for each other.

Exactly!!

Offline ParisB

So many numpty messages. How many texts do you get a month on average?


Who does he think you are, batman?  :lol:


honest  if you read some of the texts i get   you would never believe me,  those text were just a few from those people that sent a text  thurs and Fri   i have a load more that i haven't deleted yet as well 
Honestly when you get a text that is clear and precise and you can actually read it  & understand it without having to to resort to googling what dose xxx mean in text speak  your on to a good client 


Offline Dani

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honest  if you read some of the texts i get   you would never believe me,  those text were just a few from those people that sent a text  thurs and Fri   i have a load more that i haven't deleted yet as well 
Honestly when you get a text that is clear and precise and you can actually read it  & understand it without having to to resort to googling what dose xxx mean in text speak  your on to a good client

+1.  the amount of texts in a day is unbelievable at times especially as you know that 99% of them will not end in a booking for many reasons.

One text is ok then I ask them to call as it is far easier to sort everything out via a call than it is with texts.  I have also found that the majority of withheld numbers never actually turn up so I no longer accept bookings from them.

we each work in a way that suits us best.  Do I lose bookings by not accepting withheld numbers. Probably but I would sooner lose one booking than block up half my day with fake bookings that have no intention of turning up.

I have found it is better for me to not take texts bookings (unless we have met before) and to not take bookings via a withheld number.  I am sure some women find it better to take those bookings.  We are all different and work in different ways.  I just got fed up having my time wasted and in the end after having so many no shows from texters or withheld numbers I stopped taking them

It is nothing to do with security at all.  It is just an easier way of stopping timewasters.

Yes it might mean genuine men do not get a booking and therefor I lose money but that is a small loss compared to booking out half the day or more for bookings that are not going to turn up.  I don't actually receive calls from withheld numbers anyway as I have them all blocked on my phone now, so they go straight to voicemail

Offline Hetfield

I generally ring, but if no answer after a couple rings, I text - usually something simple like "Hi (WG name), I'm trying to call you about a booking for (date/time), are you available? If so, can you let me know when to call back please?". Quite often that gets a positive response fairly soon; either to call back, or to arrange the meeting by text.

Fuck, once I text a girl, realised it was sent via iMessage, so I FaceTimed her to set up the meeting!

Offline philboi

+1.  the amount of texts in a day is unbelievable at times especially as you know that 99% of them will not end in a booking for many reasons.

One text is ok then I ask them to call as it is far easier to sort everything out via a call than it is with texts.  I have also found that the majority of withheld numbers never actually turn up so I no longer accept bookings from them.

Can never understand why I hear punters text when they probs will need to call anyway... comment below is about the only reason I can think to text apart from if the punter is at work!

Same always works for me  :thumbsup:


I generally ring, but if no answer after a couple rings, I text - usually something simple like "Hi (WG name), I'm trying to call you about a booking for (date/time), are you available? If so, can you let me know when to call back please?". Quite often that gets a positive response fairly soon; either to call back, or to arrange the meeting by text.

Perfect :)


Fuck, once I text a girl, realised it was sent via iMessage, so I FaceTimed her to set up the meeting!

Nice one :)

Offline Ali Katt

Don't know where you buy your sims. You can get them for 99p.
I think he meant a phone + simcard for £5. Like most people I got a load for free.

The best way for the escort to ring you is to make a booking via adultwork. I personally don't use the booking system often, if at all these days, but they have always called me when I did, no speculative text nonsense.

Offline Olivia

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So many numpty messages. How many texts do you get a month on average?


Who does he think you are, batman?  :lol:


WOW!  A month?  I'm sure Paris and every single other prossie will have the exact same instant reaction to the thought of ho to begin ascertaining anything like an accurate figure in response to this.  If anything like me, though, I bet it's sparked a curiosity about the answer as well!  Hunderds a week, I'd say; easily!  As illustrated by Paris, the last text on my work phone is currently;

12:37 02/06/2013  "Do u do deepthroat whr wil i meet u"  :sarcastic:

Offline Olivia

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***** Just read my post back.:blush:  It's incredibly difficult to calculate but to be as honest and accurate as far as is possible, when using guess work, I'm more confident editing the figure quoted in my post above to 'over one hundred' (texts) per week, rather than 'hundreds' (of text per week) which, after seeing posted, doesn't feel to me to have conveyed reality accurately.  'More than a hundred' is much more accurate when averaged out, working on the general assumption, I can be sure of receiving significantly more than ten messages per day. *****

Offline ParisB


WOW!  A month?  I'm sure Paris and every single other prossie will have the exact same instant reaction to the thought of ho to begin ascertaining anything like an accurate figure in response to this.  If anything like me, though, I bet it's sparked a curiosity about the answer as well!  Hunderds a week, I'd say; easily!  As illustrated by Paris, the last text on my work phone is currently;

12:37 02/06/2013  "Do u do deepthroat whr wil i meet u"  :sarcastic:


Those were just the one that actually used more that 3 words in a text
I do get ones that text stuff like   sex now or  sex ££££    I couldn't even begin or be bothered  to work out the amount of texts I get that come from total idiots  and yes they defiantly rise when its the school holidays     
 Its those free texts packages  that encourage them.    If they actually had to pay for every text that was sent it would probably reduce by about 90 percent overnight 

Offline Adultwork_Couple

I mentioned this before and it's happened again, it really pisses me off!   :angry:

Texted a number on a profile, no reply. Rang from personal phone (number withheld) diverted to voice mail.  Emailed the girl via AW, asked what it takes to get an answer?  She won't reply to texts or withheld number "for her security".

Will someone explain what will happen to her if she responds to a text?  How is it helping her security or whatever other bollox she wants to claim if I ring her from a pay phone or from a brand new disposable PAYG sim card? 

Why do they want punters to ring them as (calls from withheld numbers and SMS messages will be ignored)?  It could be anyone at the other end recording punters voices or god knows what, much safer for BOTH parties to text in my view.

I use a sim with a credits for unlimited texts but no calls, she gets to see my number I get to protect my ID. To my mind punters should start boycotting girls who insist on this no texts rubbish.  end rant!

We NEVER respond to text messages, because a simple "hi how are you? I'm wondering if you're available" text messages leads onto (after a few texts) "Are you feeling horny? What is the slut wearing right now". So you see.....that's why we never get into texting ping-pong....it's easier to ignore the text.

Witheld numbers? Again, we don't answer the call, we just kill the incoming call. Why hide YOUR fucking number????


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