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Author Topic: Can someone educate me on why a WG would not offer FK/DFK?  (Read 4326 times)

Offline Jeff_withpetersen

Hi, after a bit of time at this I figure I'm pretty well versed in what it is to be a punter, how it all works, all that jazz. One thing I don't understand though is why a WG would happily suck a guy's cock, have (admittedly protected) sex, possibly have them cum on their face/body ... yet not offer french kissing/deep french kissing? Seriously what gives, am I missing something here?

Is there some sort of additional high level health risk with this that I'm unaware of, or women psychologically have something weird about kissing as a boundary not to be crossed or something? Don't get it, doesn't make any sense to me.

Offline crfc

Could be loads of reasons...
Bad hygiene of punters maybe a big one
I know one girl who said she doesn't kiss as she prefers to keep that bit of intimacy for her partner...

Offline Shearer1955

You have answered the question with your 2nd paragraph

They seem to think that there is something more emotionally involved with kissing which happens within a proper relationship

You would think sucking a guys cock would be the same but somehow the way they are wired up they can think of this as something physical without emotional attachment involved

Why is that?  :unknown:

vw

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Just book prossies that offer kissing, read reviews to confirm it happens and use mouthwash before and if offered use ! 

Offline Mansell

If they offer it on their profile but you are not getting it for several escorts then you need to ask yourself if you hygiene is off  :thumbsdown:  But assuming it is not this problem.

Then various reasons, mainly they just want to hold back part of themselves from the Punt. One trick is they do DFK but always keep their neck straight, your geting the DFK, but they are holding something back. Others will only do PSE as then it's "Just sex" to them. Loads of reasons, basically.

Offline Jeff_withpetersen

Well I've never been turned down for it but was looking at a well reviewed girl in an area I'll be later this week and there's debate about if she kisses or not - punting with someone refusing to kiss would just totally suck me out of the moment! If you'll excuse the expression.

Offline Bangers and Gash

I know one girl who said she doesn't kiss as she prefers to keep that bit of intimacy for her partner...

How sweet.  :dancegirl: Who said romance is dead..

Offline Littlefoot

Just get a burd that rims you! If she's prepared to rim you, she won't have any qualms about DFK you!

Just get the kissing done first!   :vomit:

Oralbgood

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DFK is a must for me. I like to immerse myself in a true GFE. If it's not offered I will never go back. Plenty more out there.
I suppose you have to click with the WG, to be offered DFK. It must be very hard on them, acting as though they are enjoying DFK if they aren't

vw

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Well I've never been turned down for it but was looking at a well reviewed girl in an area I'll be later this week and there's debate about if she kisses or not - punting with someone refusing to kiss would just totally suck me out of the moment! If you'll excuse the expression.

book someone else then, why risk it if there is a debate or maybe contact her before to confirm !

Offline Spacecowb0y

An absolute must for me is DFK, otherwise a girl that says she enjoys it and then withholds it gets a negative. Obviously my breath is minty fresh anyway,but particularly so prior to a punt.
If a girl doesn't kiss properly then I'm not getting the GF experience, more the pissed off wife experience
« Last Edit: March 28, 2017, 11:11:41 pm by Spacecowb0y »

Offline Malvolio

You're asking why some women aren't rational.  Buggered if I know...

Offline scutty brown

for most people the act of kissing involves some degree of emotional and affectionate attachment, especially for women. Kissing "means" something - it triggers feelings in the brain tied to long-term commitment. Sex doesn't. Sex is just immediate gratification

Online RedKettle

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I know one girl who said she doesn't kiss as she prefers to keep that bit of intimacy for her partner...
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Come across this a couple of times. Seems odd to me. But takes all sorts.

Offline Daffodil

I know one girl who said she doesn't kiss as she prefers to keep that bit of intimacy for her partner...

There was a prossie I used to see when in the north east on work. She'd do anal, but not vaginal. When I asked her why she said her pussy was for her boyfriend only  :wackogirl:

Offline MilleMiglia

Some years back, had a girl who told me no kissing at the start of the booking, but didn't have a problem with anal.

Offline JamesKW

Just get a burd that rims you! If she's prepared to rim you, she won't have any qualms about DFK you!

Just get the kissing done first!   :vomit:

I used to visit Sandra Dirty,who was famous for her rimming,I don't remember getting DFK from her,I am not sure I would have found it that pleasurable thinking about her rimming other mens bottoms.

Offline cueball

I know one girl who said she doesn't kiss as she prefers to keep that bit of intimacy for her partner...

I'll bet her boyfriend feels really special, knowing that after a hard day sucking cock after cock she saves the kisses for him  :wackogirl:  :D

Offline Shearer1955

I used to visit Sandra Dirty,who was famous for her rimming,I don't remember getting DFK from her,I am not sure I would have found it that pleasurable thinking about her rimming other mens bottoms.

The things we punters must put up with sometimes for the sake of enjoyment!  :sarcastic:

taplow

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They obviously regard it as on a different level to other services.  It seems to be the only one where they excercise "discretion".  Obviously this means no or highly unlikely but they don't want to say it in advance.  I don't understand why a different rule should apply to kissing as she's showing discretion in all her services. On seeing you she can always change her mind and cancel the whole thing.  Why single this out? 

Offline Itsnotshy



Is there some sort of additional high level health risk with this that I'm unaware of, or women psychologically have something weird about kissing as a boundary not to be crossed or something? Don't get it, doesn't make any sense to me.
There is,I believe,a very small risk of Meningitis and Glandular fever.However the intimacy aspect is the main thing IMO,even though most full service girls will regard you as a bit weird if you don't want a snog.Most times I just can't resist,love a good snog :)

Offline king tarzan

Hot cristal 4 u not kissing was the downer of my punting career...
The deep tongue french kissing wrestling I do on Sophia_lawrence has her gasping for breath!!

I really enjoy deep tongue wrestling kissing! !

It's a super must for me!!

My scary rough mug snogging there beautiful faces off !!!

It's just intimate!
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mikexxlong

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some whores don't offer proper kissing of any discription ,
as they think its too intimate/personnel or want to keep that particular act only for their OH/BF/pimp/whatever
 
or they (strangely considering) have a fear of catching something ,
it has been noted that apparently  most peoples mouths carry more germs and bacteria than most peoples assholes!

others offer it 'at discretion' which should mean if your oral hygiene is fine and no sores /open wounds etc on/in or around the mouth you get to snog
but can just simply mean if they feel like it you will get to kiss ,if not your out of luck

so if you like to kiss during the punt, make sure your oral hygiene  is of a good standard and have fresh breath
and be realistic if you have a gob that has any kind of issues such as broken, missing,dirty  and brown/black rotton teeth
and breath that smells like a rotton cabbage covered in shit on a hot day or any cuts/sores etc,
don't expect a pro$$ie(or any other female) to be enthusiastic  in wanting to snog your face off 
so do yourself a favour, just go and visit a dentist and sort yourself out

Offline dickrichard

Its their choice some just dont like it which is fine if its stated up front just shop round for what you want.

Offline Trotter671

DFK is a must for me. I like to immerse myself in a true GFE. If it's not offered I will never go back. Plenty more out there.
I suppose you have to click with the WG, to be offered DFK. It must be very hard on them, acting as though they are enjoying DFK if they aren't

+1 - thankfully never been refused (always fresh with mouthwash/mints anyway). A couple in the past have not been as full on as I like, but on the whole been lucky with getting proper snogfests :thumbsup: If the girl does not have it on her profile I don't book her - simples....

JW.Bobbitt

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most full service girls will regard you as a bit weird if you don't want a snog.

Well, I must be a bit weird! (or just lack the fertile imagination that allows me to immerse myself into a full GFE)
I go into meetings with few demands (or clutching my FukByNumbers script) and make it clear that FK/DFK is entirely up to them.
What is a real turn on, is when they then initiate it entirely spontaneously
(a meet earlier this week with a French WG was astonishing in this regard - review in a few days)

Or maybe I am just too cynical.
I remember a discussion a very long time ago with a WG on this subject.
She explained that when a bloke arrives and immediately gets in with deep tongue, she begins a competition to see how far down his throat she can stick hers in return.

All the while she has the sound of 'kerching' ringing in her head as she thinks
'I am making £2+/min doing this, thus not having to suck his cheesy cock/dive between his hairy arse cheeks to lick his ring/be pounded silly...'

Offline BP96

The one's i hate are where they just peck at you, close mouthed kisses, or on the other side of the scale try to eat my mouth/tongue.

Nothing like a few minutes of slow passionate kissing to kick-start a punt.

Offline cueball


Nothing like a few minutes of slow passionate kissing to kick-start a punt.

Indeed.... it's the route to good wood for me  :thumbsup:

Offline Gordon Bennett

Maybe it's hard for them to think about Tom Hardy when my ugly gob is literally locked to their face? Must be easier for them when either my head or their head is "downstairs". I'm not arsed about FK.... Don't mind a bit of gentle kissing but I find anything more intense, drawn out or invasive uncomfortable. It's really annoying when they pounce as soon as I'm there and stick their tongue down my throat - I assume most gents must like this approach but it really puts me on back foot for a few mins. Best ladies proceed gently and subtly explore my likes/limits.

Offline munterhunter

How sweet.  :dancegirl: Who said romance is dead..
Well put. Witty and to the point.

Offline king tarzan

It's entirely up to them if they want to kiss or not..
The intense deep tonguewrestling kissing I do has been questioned by dome ladies as to its so intense that they have never done that with even there partners..
Sophia_lawrence has complained she can't breath.
Angela escort london has gasped for breath..
Karenpretty and myself were super intense from the moment we entered her bedroom. ..

I know when I have had good extreme deep tongue wrestling kissing when my jaw aches afterwards. .
Thank heavens that has happened many times
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Offline scutty brown


The intense deep tonguewrestling kissing I do has been questioned by dome ladies as to its so intense............

See we knew he wasn't human.........he sounds like that Alien facehugger that made friends with Ripley & Co

Online Pondy

For me dkf is the make or break for me, saw a wg who advertised dfk, when I got there it didn't happen, I'd got the mouthwash out and was super minty, she was 21 and I'm in my mid 40s but if she advertises it as offered then I feel it should happen.

Offline bearcat69

I've always wondered about this too and found it strange to get my head around. I mean, like the OP says, a girl will suck your dick or let you put it inside her pussy, but not let you kiss her. To me kissing is just not that big of a deal when compared to actual penetrative sexual acts. It doesn't mean romantic 'love' to me, it just means a bit of sensual fun. I think, yeah, as many have said, it is about the level of intimacy a prossie can take whilst doing her job, and about hygiene. But I think it's also about money, some will say they don't do it and then spring it on you as an extra in a middle of fucking them, as happened to me on a recent punt. I also mean though that it's about money in terms of how much the prossie values the money she is being paid and how much she is willing to give back in return in order to be a prossie who gets lots of repeat business. Some, I feel, just don't particularly care, they're doing it just to get the money by selling their body, they could be well meaning people, but this just isn't the profession for them, or they could just be somebody who isn't very nice at all or a giving person.

There could be a thousand different reasons. But trying to understand what is going on inside the mind of a prossie is probably a fruitless endeavour. It is up to them what they are willing to do. But if they advertise it, then well, they should do it as far as I'm concerned, unless the punter is unclean, has a bad attitude, or there is some other good reason to deny services.
« Last Edit: April 03, 2017, 01:20:25 am by bearcat69 »

Offline scutty brown

If you want someone for the kissing experience, this girl is hard to beat as long as you don't mind the BB problem.
Over six feet tall, has her tongue against your tonsils as soon as she opens the door and pretty much keeps it there the whole meet.
There are a few downsides though - she's obviously lost a heck of a lot of weight which has required skin reduction surgery - it even looks like her navel has been resectioned as part of the remodelling. Lot of stretch marks all over as a result
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Offline Horizontal pleasures

The one's i hate are where they just peck at you, close mouthed kisses, or on the other side of the scale try to eat my mouth/tongue.

Nothing like a few minutes of slow passionate kissing to kick-start a punt.
+1

seward

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The whole point is if your oral hygiene is OK and its on the likes list then FK/DFK should be delivered, like all services they're charging very highly for the privilege, so any failure to deliver should be a negative review every time it happens. This "At discretion" clause makes it very ambiguous and allows for bad service to be excused. :unknown: