If you are on your own then the normal GFE still excites lots of guys but as Martian says if that is available at home you go to an escort to obtain something different - or are we wrong?
No, he said
he is not interested in it.
I can think of times I've enjoyed GFE. Overnights abroad -- I prefer not to wake up and find her in work mode. Or with Sweet n Petite before she got boyfriend-syndrome ( her massage + escort service was pretty near perfect ).
But back to thread topic, yes I like to try things sometimes. I had a good regular for a while. I got her into role plays. She had a go at 'come in, don't say anything, just get under my desk and suck me off' which was quite good though I could have used more space under my desk. (My security options covered before you ask.) With role plays, I usually give the prossie a choice of two when booking, that way I know she is comfortable enough to have a decent go at it. One option I gave her was to see how far a prossie could really get into a GFE. The instruction was, 'The door is open, come in without saying anything, find me pretending to be asleep in bed, undress quietly and snuggle up and give me a blow job and a fuck'. She chose the other one.
The point is, prossies don't really do great GFE unless they are kidding themselves (mostly very new beginners in my experience). PSE is better, but the large number have never been on an actual porn set and simply equate it with tick-box services. Nothing wrong with tick box services; but the sort of genuine PSE I get a real kick out of involves a certain emotional detachment and artistry.
An easier level of PSE that many prossies are still not comfortable with is the sort you see in the movie, The Girlfriend Experience by Steven Soderbergh. (Soderbergh is not exactly a b-grade brainless director so to appreciate it you have to look beyond the obvious even if it's not one of his best films.) There is a scene in there where the prostitute is treated just as a minor employee there to do a job and not be particularly noticed. I'd quite like to do a punt sometime on the same lines, not as a copycat, but same dynamics...:
Imagine you are chairing a high level meeting or similarly intense level work thing and the girl who makes your coffee comes in with the latté you ordered. You don't get into the whole 'treating her as a person, hi, that's so nice, and how are you' crap do you?? You just say (if anything) 'Thanks. Put it there.' And when she's done it you expect her to fuck off. It's not rude. She doesn't think it's rude
she's the coffee girl ffs she's paid to do that job, not make a song and dance like her presence in the room was on an equal level with your business partners.
So basically that's how I generally prefer to think of a prostitute. Unless I'm on holiday or something, I just want her to get on with it, deliver a top rate service, and no more bother me than the guy delivering a fucking pizza.
Rather than 'pretend' to work, I'd actually quite enjoy getting a first class blow job while I'm going through some work-related material or (one that a few more readers will identify with) watching the World Cup. I couldn't give a toss about the service provider, it's none of my business anyway, I don't see why I should pretend that she is 'important'. Her sense of self-respect should be in the service she delivers, not 'being appreciated as a person.' I appreciate her as a
prostitute and hope she's a good one. I expect her to deliver the services agreed and I show her politeness, I never force her to do anything, and if it's an incall I offer her a drink. It's not a fucking date.
Sadly most prostitutes have very low self respect. Society tells them they are the shit heap. They are not. They perform a valuable service. Like baristas. But they too often try to over-compensate their lack of self-worth by airs and graces.
