For me, its an essential part of the meeting to make the girl cum, multiple times. But my meetings are not the norm from what I can gather, in respect that I like to book longer times 2/3/4 hours rather than a “splash and dash”. I don’t do quickies or parlours but if I did, my attitude would be centred on my pleasure and “fuck the girl” – in all senses of the phrase!
I do love giving oral though I sometimes look back and wonder who should be paying who! As for being good actresses, I can tell the difference very easily. Whilst they may make the appropriate noises, their face, chest and breathing will give it away. Most girls will visibly “flush” on their faces and chest when they genuinely cum. Their breathing either goes very shallow or some seem to stop breathing. That’s apart from bucking like a mule. But, I do love giving oral.
I don’t know whether it is an ego thing or not, but if a girl hasn’t cum a few times at least, then the meeting isn’t as good for me. I wouldn’t say that I was a fluffy but I like to feel that there is some connection there for those few hours and a girl cumming means that I have achieved that on some level. Plus, I have to keep our side up that the more mature male knows what they are doing..