So you don't mind getting intimate with ugly people in your personal life but you wanted your customers to be studs? I would have expected it to have been the other way round.
It's the last time I will address this issue.
I never, ever expected my clients to be 'studs'; what I did say when I first joined the forum was that I do have a limit and I will not see people that are either morbidly obese or deformed somehow because I just knew I couldn't have gone through with it, hence why I used Skype or something similar to have a quick chat prior to the meeting (and also to assure them I am the one in my pictures.)
Now I have dropped this requirement after realising it is a bit ridiculous as a lot of punters care too much about their identity; I was absolutely new and didn't realise it at the time.
Now regarding my personal life, those were not morbidly obese or extremely ugly people (think Frankenstein-ish), but merely people that normally I wouldn't be attracted to at all which due to certain circumstances,(getting to know them better, liking their personalities) I have ended up having sex with and they turned out to be a lot better than some very attractive people.
It is clearer now? I'm tired of having to explain this to everyone that asks, and it's just clogging the threads. People took what I said and exaggerated it because I dared state my opinion.