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Author Topic: Should You Only Get The Time You Have Paid For?  (Read 9803 times)

Online Cactus

I think you're looking for something that you'll never find in punting.  That something is a girlfriend  ;)  I honestly think you should take a break & invest all your energy doing that instead  :drinks:

Agree WCL, Anth you should read this...

On the original subject, I think you should strictly speaking only get the time you have paid for.  However on the punts I've had that I would class as good, they have generally run over as things were clicking nicely, I've had a couple of 2 hour punts when only paying for an hour, where I've mentioned the time and they've said to forget about it and carry on.

If you are getting chased out the door 50 minutes into an hour booking that's not cricket. But on the flipside, we shouldn't be taking the piss unless we are being encouraged by the prossie.  If a punt runs past by 10 minutes, I will usually mention it.

I should point out however that I only punt with British girls, don't use agencies and don't use sauna's.  Not for everyone, but it works for me (except today when I must have tried about 10 girls and couldn't get a punt sorted   :dash:)

Offline Palace321

We should only expect to get the time we pay for. However if our time over runs that is a bonus. Generally that will happen if you are getting on with the wg, or you have spent time with her before. I did have a 2hour overrun on a second booking to a wg, but that was cos she fell asleep in my arms whilst I was stroking her back towards the end of my original time. In the end I had to wake her up so I could leave  :D I apologised but she just laughed and told me not to worry.

Offline Jimmyredcab

In 30 years of punting I have met just a few girls who are not bothered about the clock.

This does not surprise me, most pro$$ies are totally mercenary, ever noticed how they love to chat ----- until your time is up that is.   

Tony Montana

I was in a parlour with a clock on the wall having an hour. The girl nipped out after my first cum for a puss. I took the clock off the wall and wizzed it back 10mins. Was that aweful? :D

She had probably set it forwards 10 minutes while you were in the shower so you just corrected it.  :D

Offline ManBat

its important to remember that sex with a prostitute is basically a transaction - an exchange of money for services. if you book a hotel for 3 nights and have a great time and the staff are all friendly, would you expect to be invited to stay an extra night free of charge?

we complain when a prostitute wastes time or does things unrelated to the punt in our paid for time. that's fair enough, we should get what we paid for. us hoping for extra time is basically the same as them time wasting.

its a simple enough principle - you pay for 2 hours so you should get 2 hours. not 1.5 and not 2.5.
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Offline Lori

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She had probably set it forwards 10 minutes while you were in the shower so you just corrected it.  :D

 :lol: try setting it back by 20mins next time lex may be right!

Offline Hetfield

I would only expect to get the time I've paid for. 1) both punters and WG's alike often say we (the punters) are paying for the WG's time, not the services, so to expect to get longer for the time paid, is a bit hypocritical, and 2) In my job, I expect to only be there for the time I'm being paid, so why should it be different for the WG?

I have one regular I go to see, that time is not an issue. I don't pay at the beginning of the meet, she asks me how long I'm thinking of staying, to which I usually reply 30-40 mins, and often it ends up being an hour, sometimes more. Never does she look at the clock, or remind me of the time, and leaves it entirely up to me to get dressed and make moves to leave. When I do, I ask her what I owe her, and she reminds me I'm on "VIP rates" and then makes up a number that's lower than her normal rate anyway. Seems to work for both of us.

But I fully understand, and respect, that a WG can, and will, draw the line when the paid for time is reached. Thankfully it's never happened to me; I've either finished just before the time, or if we have run over, it's only been by a few, maybe 5, mins, and it's been fine. Granted, I may feel "hey, come on" or "little bit cold" if a WG was to say to me "right, that's the hour up" or whatever, but she is entitled to do so.

And I'm sure all of use, at one time or another, have been kept waiting by a WG for an appointment, which is probably caused by a booking overrunning. And I for one would rather wait that extra 5-10 mins while she showers than steam into the appt on time, without her showering. I put in the effort to be clean and smell nice, and I expect the same in return.

Offline Dani

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If a bookin runs over by the girls choice that is fine as it means she is either enjoying herself or is good at customer service but Anth to say if you book a 4 hour dinner date you should think it would be fine to stay for 5 -6hours?  Unless she really liked your company why on earth would she want to stay an extra two hours for free considering you would have got her social rate for the first two hours anyway yet expect two hours of shagging time for free?   
No one should expect to get this.   Imagine if she gave every client who books and extra hour or two.  She would soon not be earning that much at all as the majority of her time would be given away for free.

It is a business transaction at the end of the day.  When a mechanic quotes you the price for working on your car do you tell him he should do two hours work for free?  Of course you don't yet you expect prossies too do just that because you want them to.  Its not how business works.

I happily allow people to stay over a little bit of time say 20 - 30 minutes if we are getting on well but that is because they do not expect it and are happy when I do so.  If someone expects extra time for free it tends to make the booking very strained. 

Offline Hetfield

^ And for that reason, I book appt's for the length of time I expect to be there. I wouldn't book a 30 min appt but expect to be there for an hour. If I expect to be there for an hour, I book an hour's appt.

Online Cactus

If a bookin runs over by the girls choice that is fine as it means she is either enjoying herself or is good at customer service but Anth to say if you book a 4 hour dinner date you should think it would be fine to stay for 5 -6hours?  Unless she really liked your company why on earth would she want to stay an extra two hours for free considering you would have got her social rate for the first two hours anyway yet expect two hours of shagging time for free?   
No one should expect to get this.   Imagine if she gave every client who books and extra hour or two.  She would soon not be earning that much at all as the majority of her time would be given away for free.

It is a business transaction at the end of the day.  When a mechanic quotes you the price for working on your car do you tell him he should do two hours work for free?  Of course you don't yet you expect prossies too do just that because you want them to.  Its not how business works.

I happily allow people to stay over a little bit of time say 20 - 30 minutes if we are getting on well but that is because they do not expect it and are happy when I do so.  If someone expects extra time for free it tends to make the booking very strained.

Yep, it's a nice surprise to get a little extra at the end and can make a good punt great.  But by no means would I ever expect to get any time for free and if it happens should always be instigated by the service provider and not the punter.  If the punter tries to instigate it then it comes across as rather desperate and needy.

Offline Lori

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If a bookin runs over by the girls choice that is fine as it means she is either enjoying herself or is good at customer service but Anth to say if you book a 4 hour dinner date you should think it would be fine to stay for 5 -6hours?  Unless she really liked your company why on earth would she want to stay an extra two hours for free considering you would have got her social rate for the first two hours anyway yet expect two hours of shagging time for free?   
No one should expect to get this.   Imagine if she gave every client who books and extra hour or two.  She would soon not be earning that much at all as the majority of her time would be given away for free.

It is a business transaction at the end of the day.  When a mechanic quotes you the price for working on your car do you tell him he should do two hours work for free?  Of course you don't yet you expect prossies too do just that because you want them to.  Its not how business works.

I happily allow people to stay over a little bit of time say 20 - 30 minutes if we are getting on well but that is because they do not expect it and are happy when I do so.  If someone expects extra time for free it tends to make the booking very strained.

Think 2-3hrs extra for nothing is getting a tad hopeful.

Offline Jimmyredcab

its important to remember that sex with a prostitute is basically a transaction - an exchange of money for services.

I agree entirely ------------------ however if the girl does not have another booking it would be a nice gesture to offer a cup of coffee at the end of the punt, in normal business it is known as customer relations.   :hi:

Offline Lori

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I agree entirely ------------------ however if the girl does not have another booking it would be a nice gesture to offer a cup of coffee at the end of the punt, in normal business it is known as customer relations.   :hi:

Don't most do this anyway?

Offline smiths

Don't most do this anyway?

No, some do but not most in my experience and EE WGs rarely do as many are VERY business orientated i find. Which is no problem to me, if i cant understand them i am only interested in the sex on offer anyway.

It is nice to have a chat and drink with a regular after a punt though which has been a regular occurence over the years.

Offline Lori

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No, some do but not most in my experience and EE WGs rarely do as many are VERY business orientated i find. Which is no problem to me, if i cant understand them i am only interested in the sex on offer anyway.

It is nice to have a chat and drink with a regular after a punt though which has been a regular occurence over the years.

There you are I've learnt something new!

Offline ParisB

Anth,   I dont honestly think that you can really expect someone /anyone to give there time away for free regardless of what job they are doing  being it a prostitute,  a cab driver,  a lawyer or a plumber.  Yes prostitutes might make £100++ per hour but  you seem  want  2+hours for free just because you have booked a 4 hour appointment   

 I think you need to  clarify exactly what you want to do in this free time that you require because you/they are having a good time  by that i mean say you have booked 3hours  and have received exactly what you wanted with someone that you like 
   
  In  this free extra time, that you think should happen  because you have paid for 3 -4 hours  what exactly  do you expect from the person,  a blow job, more kissing, a massage, more sex,  to chat ,drink, or just chill out on the bed chatting and cuddling .  I think that needs to be clarified what you really expect from those extra hours that you want for free

« Last Edit: May 19, 2013, 03:37:59 PM by ParisB »

Offline IluvPussy

OP I think you are a bit hopeful to expect more than 4hrs but only paying for 4.

Even if you felt the dinner date gave you the feeling you'd clicked, perhaps the WG was just being good at her job and really wasn't into you? Or maybe she had another client or had to do something else?

For a four hour DD I would have planned it out to some degree and started to wind things up in the last 15mins so the punt came to a more natural end.
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Offline Whore Of Babylon

I'm more flexible with the time on longer bookings but would see staying for an extra 2 hours as a piss take in the extreme.
With short bookings I do find there are some guys who set out to get an hour booking from you for the price of a 30 minute one. I don't tolerate this.
I'm not a complete time Nazi and it does depend how busy I am that day. 15 or 20mins over is no big deal But not on a 30 min booking.
We're prostitutes and at the end of the day we are trying to make money and charge for time. If you get extra see it as a bonus but don't expect it.

I'm gonna vote no because i think i should be allowed 5 minutes for a shower  :timeout

Offline AnthG

In  this free extra time, that you think should happen  because you have paid for 3 -4 hours  what exactly  do you expect from the person,  a blow job, more kissing, a massage, more sex,  to chat ,drink, or just chill out on the bed chatting and cuddling .  I think that needs to be clarified what you really expect from those extra hours that you want for free

The thing is many people say the longer the booking the value for money drops considerably. And I agree, If I booked say for 4hours how much sex would she be doing in that time compared if she had 8 x 30 minute bookings. I am giving her an exorbitant amount of money for doing effectively not much than chatting for most part of it and a little bit of sex here and there. I just think that is worth either a tidy discount - which you don't get as the girl likes to save face, or more lax treatment of the time you spend. Which I think is more reasonable as nobody knows she has done this bar you and her and its good customer service.

You can argue we are paying for the time but really we are paying for sex. Everyone knows this. Given Taxi Drivers and Plumbers have been mention how about with footballers the moment the game stops, the referee stops the clock. And restarts it when the game gets going to ensure you get a full 90 mins of game time and not just real 90 mins.

How about if we are paying for her time given girls like to chat and timewaste we get a full 60 minutes of sex as per the stop and start clock of football referees. (I am being a bit jovial with that before people say are you mad).

But anyway I think if I suggested that to any girl she would be up in arms with offence. And there would be innocent excuses but the real reason is the girl knows the time paid for is made up of a lot of tricks of the trade to timewaste.

But everyone knows this so I just said the above to extend the conversation. But to be honest my post is prompted just because I actually want to have a laid back booking where chatting and a bit of sex goes on but I am not rich enough to want to pay like £300-£500 for it when its mostly chatting. And I know Cactus and WCL are saying to get a girlfriend but obviously the girls I book will be way out of my non paying league.

Another thing to add all you girls don't charge anyone for chatting on any of these forums, how come? if your time is so precious why give us all your company for free on forums?

So why is posting on a forum any different to being in person? Why charge £300-£500 if you know in advance the amount of sex is going to be limited and the amount of chat is going to be high.
« Last Edit: May 19, 2013, 09:05:12 PM by AnthG »

Offline IluvPussy

The thing is many people say the longer the booking the value for money drops considerably. And I agree, If I booked say for 4hours how much sex would she be doing in that time compared if she had 8 x 30 minute bookings. I am giving her an exorbitant amount of money for doing effectively not much than chatting for most part of it and a little bit of sex here and there. I just think that is worth either a tidy discount - which you don't get as the girl likes to save face, or more lax treatment of the time you spend. Which I think is more reasonable as nobody knows she has done this bar you and her and its good customer service.
Anth, you're paying for a girls time. If you want bang for your buck, try 30-60min punts. At the end of the day you ain't going to get a true GFE, it's the fake holy grail.
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Offline Dani

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Anth, first off we post on forums in our own time as we do have a private life outside of work and do not work 24/7 so the statement about why do we give our time for free on forums but not in person is very silly and actually came across as a child whining why cant I have it for free, when you come on here for free.

As for the rest, we set our rates, you decide to book or not.  no one is forcing you.  No one makes you pay for sex.  if you don't like the rates then don't book.

You would not get a taxi and tell the driver to drive to Asda while you went shopping and expect him to turn the meter off until you get back as you pay even if he is not driving and just sat waiting but you expect prossies to give you their time working for free.
You don't book a set of services like you do with a street girl, you book a set amount of time in which it is up to you if you have sex throughout the whole time or not.

Anth I really do think you have a very weird view of what punting and prossying is about.  It is about you paying for someone to pretend to like you and have sex with you.  Expecting someone who gets paid by the hour to give you free time for as long as you basically want is taking the piss as you would not expect it from any other service provider.  It is not a date.  It is a time for pay booking.  That is it.

If you want to spend time chatting book her social rate but be aware the social time is not in a bedroom where you can have a grope now and then or she is naked.  It is in a bar or somewhere public hence much cheaper rates for social hours.

You seem to want something for nothing and in the real world that doesn't happen. 

What makes us different to any other service provider so that you think we should give our time away.  Go see a Psychologist who normally charge around the same rates per hour and tell them as they are just talking you should have lots of extra free time.  It is quite obvious that you see us not as humans who are just doing a job but as something lower than that to expect us to do something you would not expect any other type of Service Provider to do
It is not showing your best side as you are really coming across as a spoilt child who expects everything for nothing.  As I said before it might be a lot of money to you but it is not that much to us and the hours you expect us to give for free is a lot of time lost we could be earning in another booking
We happily give extra time of about 20 minutes or so but you are wanting a few hours which is just taking the piss

Offline AnthG

Anth, first off we post on forums in our own time as we do have a private life outside of work and do not work 24/7 so the statement about why do we give our time for free on forums but not in person is very silly and actually came across as a child whining why cant I have it for free, when you come on here for free.

It meant to come across as a friendly put down. If WGs are so mercenary on their time how come you all post on forums for free.

Everyone knows a WG only posts on a forum to tout. But the reason often given on being challenged this is to socialise with men. So I expanded that to how come its not charged.

Offline Hetfield

I often post on forums in a professional capacity relating to my work, in my own free time and un-charged. And I'm not touting either - I don't benefit from any of those posts. If one is not working, and thus "not on the clock" why shouldn't one post on an internet forum, no matter what the content is?

Sorry Anth, I'm on the WG's side here, as it's the only logical side. Maybe some here will call me a fluffy for it, but that would just be deluded. Even the most hardened punter can see it's the only logical, and realistic, side. And you're just making yourself look foolish, ignorant, and a bit mental with your posts. Especially the last one......

Offline AnthG

Even the most hardened punter can see it's the only logical, and realistic, side. And you're just making yourself look foolish, ignorant, and a bit mental with your posts. Especially the last one......

The thing is I have already voted so expressed my opinion. My comments after this, i.e those this evening were aimed at simply furthering the discussion.

I think its clear anything that is said on a forum makes no change to anything.

If the no's won out this poll do you honestly think anyone would change their practices. Its a discussion poll and that is all. And all I am doing is adding discussion points to further the discussion.


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