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Offline Laid_back_bloke

See a fair few WG's over the years. A fair mix from Thai, EE, & a fair few English girls. Norm is to get kit off & get stuck in. Never have I felt uneasy standing there bollack naked. Also while I'm on with the job, find I end up chatting about everything from the job in hand, to the price of bread. Chat away like I've known them indefinitely.

Thing I'm getting at. Is it normal to feel so relaxed, or should there be some alkward or shyness. Even when I first visited. Aye apprehension. But not about getting kit off etc. More about maybe being seen by someone I know. Don't get me wrong, I'm no exibitionist. Never go commando in public, on beach etc. But 1-2-1 I'm totally at ease......

Anyone else like this?

Offline Littlefoot

Think it's dependant on your personality. If your a natural extrovert, you will have no problems. If your more of an introvert, like myself the first 20 odd punts could be awkward. But you soon become accustomed to it, it gets easier and easier the more you do it and also with the frequency you do it. I no longer feel awkward or nervous one jot!   :thumbsup:

Offline king tarzan

Dfk get what I want
Recharge talkies/ recharge talkies whilst getting blow job
Dfk and rest then bye bye  Vienna
Banned reason: Misogynist who gets free bookings from agencies for pos reviews.
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Offline NervousJ

Given my name you'd  expect it, but once I'm through the door il talk the legs off the hind donkey, yep usually talk all manner of bollocks... Again, think it depends on your personality and possibly the person you are seeing... I'm usually a bit more nervous if they are fucking stunners....

Maybe my chat and general making fun of stuff is how I deal with the nerves..I think we sometimes forget its only fun and should be enjoyable..

Offline king tarzan

Given my name you'd  expect it, but once I'm through the door il talk the legs off the hind donkey, yep usually talk all manner of bollocks... Again, think it depends on your personality and possibly the person you are seeing... I'm usually a bit more nervous if they are fucking stunners....

Maybe my chat and general making fun of stuff is how I deal with the nerves..I think we sometimes forget its only fun and should be enjoyable..

Your great for a prossie
Your eating in your own time
Less physical work for her
Banned reason: Misogynist who gets free bookings from agencies for pos reviews.
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Offline NIK

On a related note do you all still get the feeling of adrenaline before a punt? I used to get it before most punts, especially if it was someone I haven't seem before. However I have never experienced the feeling for years, which suggests I have become jaded.
Is it merely natural to experience less adrenaline as you grow older?
Certainly I barely feel it at all now.

I recall sitting in a pub with a mate when we were 18/19 or so and my mate thought a girl across the room was looking at him.
'Why do you feel like you want to shit when a girl looks at you like that?' He asked.
'It's the adrenaline,' I explained.

I still feel like I want to shit frequently, but I think it's down to old age rather than excitement now.  :blush:

Neal69

  • Guest
Always said adrenaline is coloured brown.  :lol:

Back on topic.

I feel that having a chat and developing a rapport with the WG usually leads to a better punt.

If there is no rapport or connection there then In my experience it usually leads to a pump and dump type of punt.

In answer to the OP I suppose the question of getting your kit off and not feeling self conscious about it "should" be normal as after all we are visiting these women for sex at the end of the day so no I don't feel at all bothered about getting my kit off.

I see no problem in having a chat then down to the action then having a chat afterwards even if it is a one pop one hour booking. If a second go happens then all well and good but I do not try to force it.

And yes I am a chatty type of person and a bit of an extrovert.

N

Offline king tarzan

Justhe minimal introductory small maximum 2 mins if that, then dfk heavy gentle but firm fondling..
Once round 1 done after 15 to mins of extreme gentle but firm foreplay then penetrative sex.
Then a little chat for 5 mi s, then dfk heavy breast sucking, mango lic king,  then on my banana beast and penetrative sex..
Altogether with introduction,  banana beast  recharge time and putting clothes on and bye.. all verbal sound time within the former mentioned period.
Out of 60 mins renting beautiful woman 10 to 15 altogether sound time..
I need and require 45 to 50 mins physical time..
I am an octopus around the beautiful lady for between 45 to 50 mins..
Miya rai I paid £250 for 60 mins..
Physically on to her like octopus dfk mango licking tit sucking hoovering gently sucking her flesh head to toes back to front owo on my banana beast and 2 times penetrative sex and 1 pop in Johnny altogether was 45 mins..
Rest 15 mins was banana beast  on recharge talking, getting clothes on and off and minimal formal pleasantries and going to and from bathroom...
I maximise my intake of the woman's beauty I rent..
I AM NOT THERE FOR TALKIES TALKIES/ I AM THERE FOR GIRLFRIEND EXPERIENCE SEXUAL ENCOUNTER OBTAINING THE BEST VALUE FOR MY HARD EARNED MONEY'S BODY RENTAL...
Banned reason: Misogynist who gets free bookings from agencies for pos reviews.
Banned by: daviemac

Offline threechilliman

I just wizz me kex off whilst chatting about the weather, doesn't bother me a bit. On a recent booking as the girl was coming upstairs with a drink I thought it fair to warn her I had no clothes on. Not sure why......

tcm

Offline Gordon Bennett

I prefer to leave my clothes on so she can move in and undo my jeans, pull my t-shirt off and undress me... I find that very horny. I don't ask them to undress me, I find it far more erotic if they just move in and do it without prompting, well, if you can avoid deeming me dumbly standing there NOT undressing a prompt! Them unbuckling my belt and whipping it right off is fantastic start!

Offline pewpewpew

I'm a natural shy introvert but I do believe that once you've been naked together and fucked a lot of the awkwardness is well behind you.

Offline cueball

I have no shame about getting my clobber off in the first couple of minutes. This is certainly the wrong hobby for the shy around strangers type.

Once I'm happy with lass who opens the door I'll get stuck in. I've no problem having a giggle and natter but that's predominantly after.

Once I've handed the money over its time to stop the talking and get on with the job in hand  :D

Offline scutty brown

make a habit of going naked on the beach and all your worries will disappear.



just make sure it IS a naturist beach though...........

Offline Home Alone

Think it's dependant on your personality. If your a natural extrovert, you will have no problems.  :thumbsup:


+1.

A number of the MILFs I've seen make us a cuppa before we get down to business and that breaks the ice.  It doesn't worry me too much about the time it takes; I'm an older punter who's no longer - if I ever was! - a 'wham, bam, thank you Ma'am' kinda punter.

To judge from the OP, I think my sessions are a bit like the poster's.  Mind you, as I often say to the WG I'm seeing, "If you think I'm talking too much during the punt, feel free to sit on my face!" :P  :D

Offline bearcat69

Not a big talker myself. I can be, if given good reason, but generally I am a man of few words. I do like a bit of a flirt and a giggle with the lady, but I tend to be more relaxed around women who get that I'm not really there for in depth conversations. I'm there to have some sexy lighthearted fun, with the focus on actual sex. It's not so much about nerves, I actually think of myself as a fairly confident guy generally speaking and consider myself reasonably comfortable talking to the opposite sex, but if the WG talks too much to me it can be a bit off putting and annoying to me. Although last thing I want is an awkward silent punt with no talking at all. I don't consider myself fussy and am usually rather easily pleased, but that can be a difficult thing to get right with me for the WG, and can easily lead to a punt I feel negatively about.

Punter115

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I started punting last year ,well in my sixties, not great body & not well endowed but what amazes me as soon as I enter the Escorts flat/room all nerves/inhibitions just seem to disappear.
She is a gorgeous sexy female at least half my age and I just get my kit off and start kissing,feeling her ...no problem . What also surprises me is I can be touching her up or half my cock down her throat and I am chatting away talking a load of crap ...granted that is normally a one way conversation....I really have surprised myself and that has been from punt 1.
But put me in a changing room with a lot of guys in the gym and I can't wait to get dressed....never ever comfortable ,as in my mind they all seem to have bigger cocks than me, well that is what I imagine!   
Just wish I had started punting 25 years ago!

Offline madmania

I have zero qualms being seen naked. Often I'm naked at home and I've spent large chunks of my life being looked at nude (doctors and nurses and the like). My only slight apprehension is when the girl see's my colostomy, most of the time they're ok with it but occasionally they're not and thats frustrating, especially when I've prewarned them and they said they were okay.

Oh and shower time is my time, I know lots of people enjoy shared showers but for me they can fuck right off - absolutely not my thing at all. Same as snogging the girl the second you're through the door, I want to come in take my coat and shoes off and sort out money - don't want you jumping down my throat there is plenty of time for that later.

Maybe I'm just a difficult fucker :D

Offline Sedition

Horses for courses, I suppose... if I don't know the girl then usually
BOSH! Into it asap.
But even with a regular it might be  chat and cuddle for 10 mins or more before getting into it. HOWEVER, sometimes even with the same regular it might be monkey sex within seconds of closing the door. Part of the fun really.