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Offline alan4

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Meeting never happened. Basically booked her last week for today, got the address a few hours before. I don't know what it was but I felt a bit uneasy about the meeting, like I was expecting it to fall through, something just didn't feel right. Her responses were slow. Anyway 3 hours before the arranged meeting I messaged her on AW telling her I was black and if that was a problem. Didn't get a response.

An hour before the punt she texts me asking if I'm still coming, I say yes but I notice she hasn't read the AW message. So I text message her telling her I'm black and wouldn't you know it, it's a problem. On her profile there is absolutely no hint or mention of such a preference. Of course I have no issue with this but why not put it on your profile. If it's not there people will assume all is good, it was only because I had a weird feeling about things that I decided to ask it. Otherwise I'd have strolled up to Central London and either been sent packing or given a shite service because she wasn't comfortable.

Anyway, her message was basically that she doesn't mind mixed race or Jamaican men, but she specifically said no Africans, I would strongly advise avoiding booking if any form of black. This was all irrelevant to me anyway because I wasn't gonna come after that bombshell. Funnily enough, despite being born and bred English I do have half Jamaican half African in me  :lol: which I told her.

But yeah, you must make these things clear on your profile, I told her that and she said normally people tell her first but that's BS IMO, I basically never mention my race to a girl before a booking. If she says in her profile, no blacks/africans/caribbeans etc I won't try and book.

Saying that she was very polite in her messages, explained things and I appreciated that but it doesn't change the fact the booking failed because of her. I hadn't left my house but still another person may not see fit to ask those questions.

Anyway she said she'll change her profile to get this message across, hopefully she does.


Offline king tarzan

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Meeting never happened. Basically booked her last week for today, got the address a few hours before. I don't know what it was but I felt a bit uneasy about the meeting, like I was expecting it to fall through, something just didn't feel right. Her responses were slow. Anyway 3 hours before the arranged meeting I messaged her on AW telling her I was black and if that was a problem. Didn't get a response.

An hour before the punt she texts me asking if I'm still coming, I say yes but I notice she hasn't read the AW message. So I text message her telling her I'm black and wouldn't you know it, it's a problem. On her profile there is absolutely no hint or mention of such a preference. Of course I have no issue with this but why not put it on your profile. If it's not there people will assume all is good, it was only because I had a weird feeling about things that I decided to ask it. Otherwise I'd have strolled up to Central London and either been sent packing or given a shite service because she wasn't comfortable.

Anyway, her message was basically that she doesn't mind mixed race or Jamaican men, but she specifically said no Africans, I would strongly advise avoiding booking if any form of black. This was all irrelevant to me anyway because I wasn't gonna come after that bombshell. Funnily enough, despite being born and bred English I do have half Jamaican half African in me  :lol: which I told her.

But yeah, you must make these things clear on your profile, I told her that and she said normally people tell her first but that's BS IMO, I basically never mention my race to a girl before a booking. If she says in her profile, no blacks/africans/caribbeans etc I won't try and book.

Saying that she was very polite in her messages, explained things and I appreciated that but it doesn't change the fact the booking failed because of her. I hadn't left my house but still another person may not see fit to ask those questions.

Anyway she said she'll change her profile to get this message across, hopefully she does.

I have come across escorts who prefer to see white/ brown men only..
They have stated with black guys there is problems related to bad aggressive attitude and also big cucumbers. .
Or some just don't find black guys physically attractive are reasons given. .
When I have rang eastern European ladies have asked my racial origin. .
I have had no issues with English ladies. .
And I must admit Megan and nancy treated me no different to any white men..
They basically ate me alive. .
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Offline king tarzan

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Meeting never happened. Basically booked her last week for today, got the address a few hours before. I don't know what it was but I felt a bit uneasy about the meeting, like I was expecting it to fall through, something just didn't feel right. Her responses were slow. Anyway 3 hours before the arranged meeting I messaged her on AW telling her I was black and if that was a problem. Didn't get a response.

An hour before the punt she texts me asking if I'm still coming, I say yes but I notice she hasn't read the AW message. So I text message her telling her I'm black and wouldn't you know it, it's a problem. On her profile there is absolutely no hint or mention of such a preference. Of course I have no issue with this but why not put it on your profile. If it's not there people will assume all is good, it was only because I had a weird feeling about things that I decided to ask it. Otherwise I'd have strolled up to Central London and either been sent packing or given a shite service because she wasn't comfortable.

Anyway, her message was basically that she doesn't mind mixed race or Jamaican men, but she specifically said no Africans, I would strongly advise avoiding booking if any form of black. This was all irrelevant to me anyway because I wasn't gonna come after that bombshell. Funnily enough, despite being born and bred English I do have half Jamaican half African in me  :lol: which I told her.

But yeah, you must make these things clear on your profile, I told her that and she said normally people tell her first but that's BS IMO, I basically never mention my race to a girl before a booking. If she says in her profile, no blacks/africans/caribbeans etc I won't try and book.

Saying that she was very polite in her messages, explained things and I appreciated that but it doesn't change the fact the booking failed because of her. I hadn't left my house but still another person may not see fit to ask those questions.

Anyway she said she'll change her profile to get this message across, hopefully she does.

Don't take it personally. ..
It's annoying but there are plenty more pretty ladies out there. .
Agreed she should put it on her profile..
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Offline Brazilian Martian

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Meeting never happened. Basically booked her last week for today, got the address a few hours before. I don't know what it was but I felt a bit uneasy about the meeting, like I was expecting it to fall through, something just didn't feel right. Her responses were slow. Anyway 3 hours before the arranged meeting I messaged her on AW telling her I was black and if that was a problem. Didn't get a response.

An hour before the punt she texts me asking if I'm still coming, I say yes but I notice she hasn't read the AW message. So I text message her telling her I'm black and wouldn't you know it, it's a problem. On her profile there is absolutely no hint or mention of such a preference. Of course I have no issue with this but why not put it on your profile. If it's not there people will assume all is good, it was only because I had a weird feeling about things that I decided to ask it. Otherwise I'd have strolled up to Central London and either been sent packing or given a shite service because she wasn't comfortable.

Anyway, her message was basically that she doesn't mind mixed race or Jamaican men, but she specifically said no Africans, I would strongly advise avoiding booking if any form of black. This was all irrelevant to me anyway because I wasn't gonna come after that bombshell. Funnily enough, despite being born and bred English I do have half Jamaican half African in me  :lol: which I told her.

But yeah, you must make these things clear on your profile, I told her that and she said normally people tell her first but that's BS IMO, I basically never mention my race to a girl before a booking. If she says in her profile, no blacks/africans/caribbeans etc I won't try and book.

Saying that she was very polite in her messages, explained things and I appreciated that but it doesn't change the fact the booking failed because of her. I hadn't left my house but still another person may not see fit to ask those questions.

Anyway she said she'll change her profile to get this message across, hopefully she does.

Ok looks like she's off my hit list, it's completely her choice and body to do what she wants with but she should have it listed on her profile to avoid these situations.
I was looking forward to seeing her but I'm will not jump through hoops to see a prossie I wonder if this has been mentioned on UKE as I know she's on that site

Offline king tarzan

Ok looks like she's off my hit list, it's completely her choice and body to do what she wants with but she should have it listed on her profile to avoid these situations.
I was looking forward to seeing her but I'm will not jump through hoops to see a prossie I wonder if this has been mentioned on UKE as I know she's on that site

She's made a school girl error

It's her choice who she gets naked with

Font miss out on a great experience

Don't make a hasty decision
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Offline alan4

I have come across escorts who prefer to see white/ brown men only..
They have stated with black guys there is problems related to bad aggressive attitude and also big cucumbers. .
Or some just don't find black guys physically attractive are reasons given. .
When I have rang eastern European ladies have asked my racial origin. .
I have had no issues with English ladies. .
And I must admit Megan and nancy treated me no different to any white men..
They basically ate me alive. .

Yes there's lots that avoid blacks. They usually make it clear on their profile though.. I have never ever been asked by any girl what my race was to be honest, why would they? If they didn't want blacks contacting them they say in their profile.
Reasons are largely due to them tarnishing a group with the same brush, whether it be mythically large penises or "bad experiences"  :lol: the stuff about sexual preference is complete bullshit. After all you don't ever come across profiles ruling out obese men do you?

Offline Brazilian Martian

She's made a school girl error

It's her choice who she gets naked with

Font miss out on a great experience

Don't make a hasty decision

Wtf fuck are you on about ,I'm black it's not a hasty decision if she's not gonna see him why am I gonna ask her to see me and beg and explain myself. :dash: :dash:
Like I stated I know it's her body but she's got so many positive reviews she should at least post it on her profile to save potential punters wasting time 

Offline Brazilian Martian

Yes there's lots that avoid blacks. They usually make it clear on their profile though.. I have never ever been asked by any girl what my race was to be honest, why would they? If they didn't want blacks contacting them they say in their profile.
Reasons are largely due to them tarnishing a group with the same brush, whether it be mythically large penises or "bad experiences"  :lol: the stuff about sexual preference is complete bullshit. After all you don't ever come across profiles ruling out obese men do you?

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Offline alan4

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  :thumbsup:
Glad I've saved someone else wasting their time.

Don't take it personally. ..
It's annoying but there are plenty more pretty ladies out there. .
Agreed she should put it on her profile..

Oh absolutely. Not taken it personally. Just glad I trust my instincts. I just had that gut feeling during contacting her and reading some reviews that something wasn't quite right.
« Last Edit: February 27, 2017, 11:21:43 pm by alan4 »

Offline king tarzan

Wtf fuck are you on about ,I'm black it's not a hasty decision if she's not gonna see him why am I gonna ask her to see me and beg and explain myself. :dash: :dash:
Like I stated I know it's her body but she's got so many positive reviews she should at least post it on her profile to save potential punters wasting time

Sorry I do apologise
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Offline acer123

She has now updated her profile:

"Q. Do you see black men.    A. In terms of race I do not discriminate however I do not see men of Nigerian or African backgrounds due to a recent bad experience. It's for my own peace of mind. I apologise for any inconvenience caused. Xx"



Offline hendrix

At least she's updated her profile. Shame I won't be joining the growing fan club now though :D

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"I do not discriminate" selectively discriminate then? makes it less of a sin in your mind? Politically correct BS... Came across so many of these and yet I am to find a single "no white men" or "no white lorry drivers..." it shows you we're living a lie as a society

Offline alan4

"I do not discriminate" selectively discriminate then? makes it less of a sin in your mind? Politically correct BS... Came across so many of these and yet I am to find a single "no white men" or "no white lorry drivers..." it shows you we're living a lie as a society

It's the classic prossie  discriminatory motto. "I am not racist BUT- INSERT 'bad experience' reference.
She has now updated her profile:

"Q. Do you see black men.    A. In terms of race I do not discriminate however I do not see men of Nigerian or African backgrounds [\b]due to a recent bad experience. It's for my own peace of mind. I apologise for any inconvenience caused. Xx"
I made the point about Africa being a large and diverse continent, good to see she took up the suggestion and changed it to West Africa. If you're gonna discriminate do it properly and cover yourself.

Offline puntingpumping1920

It's the classic prossie  discriminatory motto. "I am not racist BUT- INSERT 'bad experience' reference.I made the point about Africa being a large and diverse continent, good to see she took up the suggestion and changed it to West Africa. If you're gonna discriminate do it properly and cover yourself.
 
 
She doesn't see guys off West African origin, what about if your not from West Africa and have the same physical features as a west African. How would she even know for definite that every black guy she services is not from West Africa. 
 
I think she should be honest, and just say "No Black people", than saying no West African....It causes confusion
« Last Edit: February 28, 2017, 10:53:43 am by puntingpumping1920 »
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Offline hendrix

It's the classic prossie  discriminatory motto. "I am not racist BUT- INSERT 'bad experience' reference.

Exactly. She can see who she wants obviously, but even though I'm not black (albeit born in Africa) that's not an attitude I'll be rewarding with a booking.

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Sad state of affairs . I hope she reads this . I hold my hands up I was mugged by a black guy in my youth . I hated every single black guy . Then later in life I met my best mate . Yes he is Black . Megan if your reading this . You cant tarnish every black with the same brush . Get over your bad experience and treat everyone as an individual .

Offline Brazilian Martian

Exactly. She can see who she wants obviously, but even though I'm not black (albeit born in Africa) that's not an attitude I'll be rewarding with a booking.

Spot on, I'm the same brazilian born but to a black british mother of carribean descent and afro brazilian father. I accept her decision but I hate reading the due to a bad experience I am no longer seeing xyz. She would not get my money on principle alone  :hi:

Offline alan4

 
 
She doesn't see guys off West African origin, what about if your not from West Africa and have the same physical features as a west African. How would she even know for definite that every black guy she services is not from West Africa. 
 
I think she should be honest, and just say "No Black people", than saying no West African....It causes confusion
So true. Itd be so easy to lie.   I think you're right she should just say no black people but the initial 'Africans' was far more vague and would be even more confusing for readers. North African Arabs/ white South Africans... Etc.

Offline Whysoserious

I wonder any wg stated she won't see Chinese or oriental guys because their alleged undersize?    😏

Offline king tarzan

I wonder any wg stated she won't see Chinese or oriental guys because their alleged undersize?    😏

Indian and pakistani men are undersized apart from myself and a friend of mine..
Arguably we have the biggest curry kebabs in the UK. .
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Offline Othello1276

Well, this kind of sucks as I read a few great reviews about her. I'm not of African descent. (well, in honesty we all are) but I'm of West Indian(Guyana) and South American. I'm still black. I think she should just say she doesn't see black men and leave it at that. Personally saying "I don't discriminate and then saying no Nigerian or Africans is silly. You're doing just that. I'm sorry for her "bad experience" but painting a whole race with a single brush is just wrong. So, god forbid she has a bad experience with some white guy, will she stop seeing white men? I doubt it.

Offline king tarzan

Everyone can state their opinion on here
Fact is she won't be changing her mind.
She had a bad experience and it has left her scarred. .
She is still willing to see other races otherwise she is out of business. .
Wrong of her to judge a creed of a singled out color due to 1 or a few idiots..
But that's what she's done and it's her free choice to do so.

Over a duration of time she might change her mind..
Only she knows...
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Offline king tarzan

Sad state of affairs . I hope she reads this . I hold my hands up I was mugged by a black guy in my youth . I hated every single black guy . Then later in life I met my best mate . Yes he is Black . Megan if your reading this . You cant tarnish every black with the same brush . Get over your bad experience and treat everyone as an individual .

Your a bloke
Men we can still get over it due to physical power ready for next attempt
Women are by far the weaker sex physically
Very hard for a woman to get over a man far far more physically powerful than her..
Easy to say pal very difficult to do..

As men we can handle another difficult attitude man by various means..

For women because of there physical make up and emotions would certainly not be able too..

Be fair to her and her thought process..

Needs a long time to heel...
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Offline Brazilian Martian

Your a bloke
Men we can still get over it due to physical power ready for next attempt
Women are by far the weaker sex physically
Very hard for a woman to get over a man far far more physically powerful than her..
Easy to say pal very difficult to do..

As men we can handle another difficult attitude man by various means..

For women because of there physical make up and emotions would certainly not be able too..

Be fair to her and her thought process..

Needs a long time to heel...

Seriously please give it a rest as this is slightly coming across as white knighting she does not need you to speak for her. You paid fucked and ate her mango,your business transaction is done. I'm sure she does not need you offering your jeremy kyle psycho babble, just leave it this is another persons review he's rightly so to be annoyed. This does not need you explaining about the difference between women and men.

Offline king tarzan

Seriously please give it a rest as this is slightly coming across as white knighting she does not need you to speak for her. You paid fucked and ate her mango,your business transaction is done. I'm sure she does not need you offering your jeremy kyle psycho babble, just leave it this is another persons review he's rightly so to be annoyed. This does not need you explaining about the difference between women and men.

Firstly I don't watch jeremy kyle!!

Secondly pal your entitled to your opinion as I am entitled to my opinion!!

So don't get hung because it's WHAT YOU CALL


FREE SPEECH
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Offline Brazilian Martian

Firstly I don't watch jeremy kyle!!

Secondly pal your entitled to your opinion as I am entitled to my opinion!!

So don't get hung because it's WHAT YOU CALL


FREE SPEECH
FREE ENTITLEMENT TO OPINION

Very odd how you type correct english on this reply, no signs of jibble jabble nonsense like so many of your other posts

Offline king tarzan

Very odd how you type correct english on this reply, no signs of jibble jabble nonsense like so many of your other posts

Because I am reviewing the honeys..
Relax man
Ease up
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Offline Ed R

She has now updated her profile:

"Q. Do you see black men.    A. In terms of race I do not discriminate however I do not see men of Nigerian or African backgrounds due to a recent bad experience. It's for my own peace of mind. I apologise for any inconvenience caused. Xx"

Nigerian OR African? Well, I spose she is from Essex . . .
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Online Gentlelovemaking

I don't understand why the OP told her he was black.....especially a few hours before the booking. These are things you should find out/know at the booking stage.

That aside I imagine Megan is referring to West African nationals not Black British Africans or those (born/raised in the U.K. Who don't have an African accent.

That said OP I assume you'd have been ok and maybe a bit of doubt over the booking got the better of you

Offline Brazilian Martian

I don't understand why the OP told her he was black.....especially a few hours before the booking. These are things you should find out/know at the booking stage.

That aside I imagine Megan is referring to West African nationals not Black British Africans or those (born/raised in the U.K. Who don't have an African accent.

That said OP I assume you'd have been ok and maybe a bit of doubt over the booking got the better of you

Sorry but why should he divulge that when he's booking ? He's probably read all the other good reviews of her and thought it would not be a issue. It's normally eastern european and some latin women that have they no longer see black men or men of african backgrounds on their profiles. It's very surprising for me for this to come from a british pro$$ie

Online Gentlelovemaking

Sorry but why should he divulge that when he's booking ? He's probably read all the other good reviews of her and thought it would not be a issue. It's normally eastern european and some latin women that have they no longer see black men or men of african backgrounds on their profiles. It's very surprising for me for this to come from a british pro$$ie

I agree BM, if it doesn't mention a racial preference it should be taken as there is none. The problem I have is the OP asked if being black was an issue a few hours before the booking why do it then? I agree he shouldn't have to do it but what made him think to do this, just sounds odd to me.

Offline king tarzan

Sorry but why should he divulge that when he's booking ? He's probably read all the other good reviews of her and thought it would not be a issue. It's normally eastern european and some latin women that have they no longer see black men or men of african backgrounds on their profiles. It's very surprising for me for this to come from a british pro$$ie


Eastern European I have come across on profiles no black men

Latinas to be honest no
I have had no problems at all with them even to the point they have seen me and have started to speak Spanish or Portuguese. .

I just respond no espanol or nua portugueso
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Offline king tarzan

I reviewed a English woman on here, average facially fit body but way overpriced. .
An way cutting to the dragon I had a good time with her and I asked her if she could call me ' a paki' ( not offence to any south asians as I dont mind a bit of verbal humiliation)
She refused on the basis it's not her
I will always remember her words
"It's not in my blood to say that, we are all humans"
Did not bother me 1 bit...
If a man on the street said that then there is a issue. .
The point is I saw her other profile later on and she has specified "no Indians or pakistani " along the line of 4 or 5 bad experiences,  and she stated she is not racist and apologetic. .
I could testify that woman was not racist and she must of had bad experiences for her to take such action..
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Online Gentlelovemaking

I saw her other profile later on and she has specified "no Indians or pakistani " along the line of 4 or 5 bad experiences,  and she stated she is not racist and apologetic. .
I could testify that woman was not racist and she must of had bad experiences for her to take such action..

Interesting King Tarzan, I've seen the no Asian preference on some girls profiles but not nearly as much as the no black men preference, I spoke to one working girl who said she thought some Asian men showed a lack of regard for women and that some were sexually surpressed for whatever reason which led to their immaturity.

I'm sure racism isn't the reason for these preferences as your post suggests but maybe stereotyping

Offline king tarzan

Interesting King Tarzan, I've seen the no Asian preference on some girls profiles but not nearly as much as the no black men preference, I spoke to one working girl who said she thought some Asian men showed a lack of regard for women and that some were sexually surpressed for whatever reason which led to their immaturity.

I'm sure racism isn't the reason for these preferences as your post suggests but maybe stereotyping

The ladies I have seen over and over again are white and they are extremely comfortable around me...
I am not a depraved man..
They have even said if every client was like me there working life would be do much easier. .
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Online Gentlelovemaking

The ladies I have seen over and over again are white and they are extremely comfortable around me...
I am not a depraved man..
They have even said if every client was like me there working life would be do much easier. .

It's a shame that the odd bad experience can taint a girls perception of a particular race.

Offline Brazilian Martian


Eastern European I have come across on profiles no black men

Latinas to be honest no
I have had no problems at all with them even to the point they have seen me and have started to speak Spanish or Portuguese. .

I just respond no espanol or nua portugueso

Lol but your not black your asian so I don't really get your point. I can show you over 5 brazilian women's profiles that state no black men. Plus I have a negative review of when I got told by a fellow brazilian lady that she does not see black men.

I'm not sure what them speaking Spanish or Portuguese has to do with the discussion

Offline Brazilian Martian

It's a shame that the odd bad experience can taint a girls perception of a particular race.

It can happen to everyone but I would rather not read due to a bad experience rubbish. Just say I dnt see black men that comes across a lot better in my eyes

Online Gentlelovemaking

It can happen to everyone but I would rather not read due to a bad experience rubbish. Just say I dnt see black men that comes across a lot better in my eyes


 :lol: :lol: :lol: BM Always keeping it real

Offline Brazilian Martian



 :lol: :lol: :lol: BM Always keeping it real

Has to be that way, it's like trying to get a girls number if she says she's not interested I'm not gonna stand there and ask her why I'm not her type. A simple no or yes does the job

Offline alan4

I agree BM, if it doesn't mention a racial preference it should be taken as there is none. The problem I have is the OP asked if being black was an issue a few hours before the booking why do it then? I agree he shouldn't have to do it but what made him think to do this, just sounds odd to me.

I explained why twice already if you  bothered to read. Her communication through the day was odd. I had a feeling something was up and I read a few comments about her cancelling meetings so to be on the safe side I thought let me make sure this is good to go before I make a pointless journey. Hope that explanation  is satisfactory for you.

Offline king tarzan

Oddly enough I was once going to see a very pretty Italian or greek lady.
Anyway she asked what race I am
I said asian
She immediately said no
I asked why and she told me her boyfriend is asian and he don't like her fucking other asian men
If I was white or black it would of been fine to see me..

To be honest I just moved on immediately looking for another fit honey
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Offline Prince

Africans are the most genetically diverse humans on the planet.  :hi:
Irrelevant to this discussion but an interesting fact.
 :cool:

P

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Africans are the most genetically diverse humans on the planet.  :hi:
Irrelevant to this discussion but an interesting fact.
 :cool:

P

That's true Prince, however she was specific and said West African men.

Online Gentlelovemaking

I explained why twice already if you  bothered to read. Her communication through the day was odd. I had a feeling something was up and I read a few comments about her cancelling meetings so to be on the safe side I thought let me make sure this is good to go before I make a pointless journey. Hope that explanation  is satisfactory for you.

I understand your  reasoning OP, just out of curiosity do you think your ethnicity would be obvious if the punt went ahead i.e could you be distinguished as being other than West African?

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Offline alan4

That's true Prince, however she was specific and said West African men.

Actually she didn't, she said Africans. During our phone exchange I explained the diverse nature of Africa (South African White men/ Arabs etc) That's probably why the change was made.
I understand your  reasoning OP, just out of curiosity do you think your ethnicity would be obvious if the punt went ahead i.e could you be distinguished as being other than West African?

Very unlikely, due to my mixed heritage (White grandmother, Jamaican Father) I don't really 'look' West African. But I wouldn't have seen her regardless, I wouldn't want to see a girl who picks and chooses who she sees based on race, whether it be Black, Asian, Romanian, yes, its their choice and they're free to make it but I'd never spend my money on a person with those kind of principles.

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Actually she didn't, she said Africans. During our phone exchange I explained the diverse nature of Africa (South African White men/ Arabs etc) That's probably why the change was made.
Very unlikely, due to my mixed heritage (White grandmother, Jamaican Father) I don't really 'look' West African. But I wouldn't have seen her regardless, I wouldn't want to see a girl who picks and chooses who she sees based on race, whether it be Black, Asian, Romanian, yes, its their choice and they're free to make it but I'd never spend my money on a person with those kind of principles.

You're a man of principles which I respect, from the sound of things you won't be considered West African thus if I were you I'd have gone ahead with the punt as her racial preference doesn't bother me.