Should it be a negative review

[Bigballs69]

Hi there. First time poster. I had a punt booked with someone On  ukescorting and had to cancel a month before punt. The girl in question message me with a whole lot of lip even tho I gave more than enough notice to cancel. Should I put a review up and name and shame the person

[PLeisure]

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[vw]

Hi there. First time poster. I had a punt booked with someone On  ukescorting and had to cancel a month before punt. The girl in question message me with a whole lot of lip even tho I gave more than enough notice to cancel. Should I put a review up and name and shame the person

Would be interesting to know who gives lots of lip for a cancellation with a months notice.

[madmania]

Hi there. First time poster. I had a punt booked with someone On  ukescorting and had to cancel a month before punt. The girl in question message me with a whole lot of lip even tho I gave more than enough notice to cancel. Should I put a review up and name and shame the person

Depends on the extent of the abuse. Its your judgement call, for me if its just a bit of passive aggressive bitchiness then no I'll just chalk it down to a stupid moment but if its a full on rant of abuse then yes - review, name and shame and post logs to prove it. Nobody deserves that, especially if you were being courteous.

Although it says alot that I think I already know who you're talking about haha.

[claretandblue]

Who was it op?You are hardly living upto your name here 

[scutty brown]

possibly a silly question but......
who in this game books girls a month or more in advance? Personally I find it hard to be sure what I'm doing a day in advance, and most of the girls I know are working by the day or hour, not planning things a month hence.
I'm not suggesting that what the OP says is incorrect, but its certainly an unusual tale.

[stevedave]

Interesting first post.

A months notice? Jesus I don't know what I'm doing three days from now, let alone in a month! You've given MORE than enough notice.

Name the girl, she may have form for this.

[James999]

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[stevedave]

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Your detector seems to be broken, it's being quite generous?

[PLeisure]

Come correct, Ball-man... what's the real deal here

[Zeusthedoc]

I'm similar to others here. I've booked a day in advance a few times. Usually call about an hour or two beforehand these days.

Let's see what bigballs says...

[threechilliman]

possibly a silly question but......
who in this game books girls a month or more in advance?

Me for sure. As soon as her flights are booked.....

tcm

[Bigballs69]

It was someone who was touring in my area so that's why it was booked in advanced. I'm going to post a review tomorrow coz it was out of order the vile abuse that was thrown at me. I could understand if I cancled an hour before but 1 whole month was a piss take

[scutty brown]

the review can wait till tomorrow, but giving us the name now would be helpful to all

[NervousJ]

Plenty of time to cancel...

In fairness to the OP I've booked a girl 3 weeks in advance as I knew I'd be off and wanted a certain time..

Deffo name and shame, she's  having a laugh if she's giving you verbals a month before...

[Mansell]

Well this should be fun, waiting for toys out of the pram after the review 

[cueball]

See the rules.... if there's an agreed booking then a review is valid.

I too want to know who the gobby one is..... it could be handy info for all of us, especially as bigishballs says she's a tourer.

We'll await your input ballsy

[Rochelle]

I reckon he's talking about me. Strange he'd bring this up now considering my last message to him was on 8th February. OP is holding a grudge. I've no problem if he writes a review. I still have the messages. I was very standoffish in that moment and probably should have responded better, but I wasn't abusive. I had had my suspicions that the OP wasn't a genuine punter and I had had a feeling that I'd be cancelled on...so when he did cancel my exact words were, "To be honest I had a feeling you'd let me down. Goodbye and good riddance." That's hardly vile abuse. Heat of the moment and I admit not very polite but hardly something to still be thinking about 3 weeks later. I'd forgotten all about it until now. Glad I don't delete most of my messages now though.

[vw]

I reckon he's talking about me. Strange he'd bring this up now considering my last message to him was on 8th February. OP is holding a grudge. I've no problem if he writes a review. I still have the messages. I was very standoffish in that moment and probably should have responded better, but I wasn't abusive. I had had my suspicions that the OP wasn't a genuine punter and I had had a feeling that I'd be cancelled on...so when he did cancel my exact words were, "To be honest I had a feeling you'd let me down. Goodbye and good riddance." Heat of the moment and not very polite but hardly something to still be thinking about weeks later.

Up to the punter how long her holds a grudge, sonny crocket held one for 18 months, his grudge was ended by admin here, maybe he still has not got over it, who knows.

Anyway a review can be a good healer i find.

[Rochelle]

Fair enough. May make a good read.
 

[Zeusthedoc]

This thread just got interesting

[Jumping Jack Flash]

I suspect the OP will bottle it now. We might get nasty and call him horrid names.

[Zeusthedoc]

I suspect the OP will bottle it now. We might get nasty and call him horrid names.

And in his defense he would have given us a month's notice....shit happens I guess.

[hungrypunt]

I reckon he's talking about me. Strange he'd bring this up now considering my last message to him was on 8th February. OP is holding a grudge. I've no problem if he writes a review. I still have the messages. I was very standoffish in that moment and probably should have responded better, but I wasn't abusive. I had had my suspicions that the OP wasn't a genuine punter and I had had a feeling that I'd be cancelled on...so when he did cancel my exact words were, "To be honest I had a feeling you'd let me down. Goodbye and good riddance." That's hardly vile abuse. Heat of the moment and I admit not very polite but hardly something to still be thinking about 3 weeks later. I'd forgotten all about it until now. Glad I don't delete most of my messages now though.

Better than just "fuck off" as the discussion on UKE.... 

[James999]

I reckon he's talking about me.

Oh now you've spoilt his little game, it's clear that he's a manipulative timewaster and your correct response should have been "Fuck off" and then block him 

He's clearly coming on here to put pressure on you, but forgotten that this forum isn't the fluffy playground that UKE is, and as such people will see straight through his shit and call him out on it. 

[PLeisure]

I suspect the OP will bottle it now. We might get nasty and call him horrid names.

+1. Ball-ache - can you say, "integrity"? 

[cueball]

Well, good old big bollocks has logged on this morning, read his thread, looked at his big balls shrivalling into incy wincy likkle pea balls, not posted and run away   

Whoops.... didn't quite go to plan did it billy big bollox 

[Rochelle]

Well, good old big bollocks has logged on this morning, read his thread, looked at his big balls shrivalling into incy wincy likkle pea balls, not posted and run away   

Whoops.... didn't quite go to plan did it billy big bollox 

He probably didn't think I read UKP and he certainly didn't think I'd comment and tell everyone it was me. He also probably thought I'd delete the messages. No such luck.

[vw]

He probably didn't think I read UKP and he certainly didn't think I'd comment and tell everyone it was me. He also probably thought I'd delete the messages. No such luck.

who gives a fuck if a pro$$ie reads UKP and posts on UKP, don't think it will stop honest reviews or comments, sensible punters will book anonymously anyway.

Notice you like letting people know you are here, maybe you are expecting more, or thats just your nature.

[Rochelle]

It's not about stopping honest reviews. I don't care if he reviews. I have proof I wasn't abusive. Just saying he's being vindictive.

[madmania]

It's not about stopping honest reviews. I don't care if he reviews. I have proof I wasn't abusive. Just saying he's being vindictive.

Not surprised its you.

Why don't you post the proof?

[vw]

It's not about stopping honest reviews. I don't care if he reviews. I have proof I wasn't abusive. Just saying he's being vindictive.

Well that maybe a matter of opinion, some people are more sensitive than others, can imagine some may be intimidated by your general tone. Not me think its amusing!

Maybe he will post them on his review and we can judge as individuals if they scare us or not.

[Brazilian Martian]

Not surprised its you.

Why don't you post the proof?

Why are you not surprised it's her   

[OakTree]

Not surprised its you.

Why don't you post the proof?

That would be a bit previous. Big balls hasn't named the WG involved. Charissa is merely assuming it's her.

[mediumjoe]

 She does sound pretty confident that it's her,  i'm very interested to hear what  Big balls has to say .

[Mansell]

She does sound pretty confident that it's her,  i'm very interested to hear what  Big balls has to say .

Sorry would I but Bigballs has turned into Noballs 

[Gordon Bennett]

possibly a silly question but......
who in this game books girls a month or more in advance? Personally I find it hard to be sure what I'm doing a day in advance, and most of the girls I know are working by the day or hour, not planning things a month hence.
I'm not suggesting that what the OP says is incorrect, but its certainly an unusual tale.

I know what I'm doing every day for next week, month, year and decade.....Providing round the clock care 24/7 for my severely disabled son. I suspect a lot of us are not gallivanting around living the life of Riley wondering what fresh adventure each new day will bring. Same as the last flipping day for me!

[Northerndave666]

And in his defense he would have given us a month's notice....shit happens I guess.

I've left jobs with less notice ffs !

[Gatchaman]

who in this game books girls a month or more in advance?

Done that a few times, generally for touring girls.  Had fewer (none, actually) of those cancelled than I have punts booked a day or two in advance.

[Zeusthedoc]

I know what I'm doing every day for next week, month, year and decade.....Providing round the clock care 24/7 for my severely disabled son. I suspect a lot of us are not gallivanting around living the life of Riley wondering what fresh adventure each new day will bring. Same as the last flipping day for me!

My work schedule is fucked up. I often have to travel on short notice. I have a single office but spend more time on sites. No discernible pattern really.