why queue for part of the time you are paying for... unless you are satisfied being a voyeur.
Indeed. If you have to queue it's a crap party indeed.
I am zero per cent gay but like to be with girls who like some hot action.This response is not particularly aimed at frendofafrend - just using his post to make a point - since this is a common paininthebuttock IMO - definitely no pun intended!!
IMHO this is just something for you to get over, should you want to. Being gay is about sex with other men; not being in a room where many men are screwing many women, or several men screwing one woman. The homophobic reaction even in some parties and swinger club scenes can be over the top. One can practically sense a guy thinking, "Oh dear, I mustn't let my eyes catch sight of his wily or that will mean I'm gay;" Or, "I mustn't let a man's thigh brush against mine while we shag two women in the same bed or he will think I'm gay."
Sorry. Bollocks. If you start caressing and can't see quite whether it's a male or female limb you are caressing it might well be worth checking so as to avoid embarrassment - but if it happens accidentally just laugh it off (and point it out with a laugh if it happens (it will only happen very rarely if at all) vice versa). Gay and bi men don't go to hetero parties.
Why would they? They can get that sort of action at parties aimed at that preference. And by and large, gay men don't even fancy hetero men. It is this ego thing that we tend to have as straight vs gay, "Oh!!! they all fancy me and want to shag me!!! - Errr, no. Get a life.
Watching a video of a man fucking a chick doesn't make anyone gay, and neither does it do so if the man is in the same room or the same bed. Think rugby scrums at school - or whenever you last had wholesome physical contact with men. Think of it as male bonding if you like - "Let's fuck these babes, yeah!"
I'm sure that people reading thisare neither gay or homophobic. But I think these natural tendencies to be shocked by one's own gender in action are simply something to get over. And if you can't or don't want to, simply avoid - no problemo.