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Offline NIK

Just seen this FR.

http://www.auto-censored.com/frs/fr_view.php?recnum=101691

I think it's one of the first negative ones I can remember for a party, but personally I can never understand the appeal of parties. I don't care how many girls are on, there will always be more men at a party.

I think I'd give up punting altogether rather than attend a party. The thought of parties actually makes me shudder.
I feel uncomfortable enough sitting in a parlour waiting with other men, never mind being surrounded by them with their cocks out!    :(

Maybe some one who does attend them can explain the appeal?

Offline distressed

Just seen this FR.

http://www.auto-censored.com/frs/fr_view.php?recnum=101691

I think it's one of the first negative ones I can remember for a party, but personally I can never understand the appeal of parties. I don't care how many girls are on, there will always be more men at a party.

I think I'd give up punting altogether rather than attend a party. The thought of parties actually makes me shudder.
I feel uncomfortable enough sitting in a parlour waiting with other men, never mind being surrounded by them with their cocks out!    :(

Maybe some one who does attend them can explain the appeal?

I went to a couple of parties run by HoD about 5 years ago or so.I felt quite comfortable there as I had punted with all the ladies previously,and the ratio was 2:1.I'm not an exhibitionist or an extrovert, but the opporunity to party for 2 hours with 4 fab ladies was too good to miss.I had sex with all 4 ladies and,as some of the men drifted away,at one stage had one sitting on my face as another sat on my cock.I attended a second party at the same venue a couple of weeks later with 4 other ladies,2 of which I had punted with,and enjoyed that much too.No real interest in attending any parties in the near future.   

I guess ratios are the thing.  2:1 being a good one, 3:1 if there are sufficient ladies but over that, why queue for part of the time you are paying for... unless you are satisfied being a voyeur.

I rather liked Steve2's soirées, usually one girl, usually two but sometimes three guys... and on a couple of lucky occasions, it was one-to-one for part of the time.  He's done other formats (bukkake, multi-girls, etc) but I'm not too interested.

A couple of guys and a girl can be very good. I am zero per cent gay but like to be with girls who like some hot action.  At my age, I can't supply that solo for as long as I used to ;-)

AFoAF

Offline Marmalade

I've tried a few though not as keen on them as I used to be. The only ones I've really liked are LMP ones and the ratio has varied a lot but has often (especially in the earlier days) been anything from slightly more women, to 2 to 1 (which I think is prob the max - they turn people away of it gets too many.) LMP never has the long queue that the FR refers to. (There again, it's not cheap by party standards.)

One of the main ways of enjoying sex is the emotional connection. This can ramp up sexual desire tremendously. It's why we like 'gfe' or civvy street over prossies. But another very enjoyable aspect of sex can be purely gymnastic. In a party, you do not have the one-to-one emotional connection. But you do have the chance to screw many women, to enjoy voyeuristic or performance tendencies, and to enjoy the company of other adults where the subject is sex in a physical rather than verbal sense of the word.

There is some similarity with swinging (at least the club scene of swinging) - but the emotional aspect there is somewhat different. You do not have a straight one-to-one emotional connection with the woman - but you have, in a sense, an emotional connection with the couple, and especially with the fact that he has felt comfortable about sharing his wife with you and the trust from both of them. This is not something replicated if one or more partners are prossies, and so swingers generally object to prossies taking part at swinger parties. But the group orgy scene does have a certain attraction. Including the simple physical challenge of arms and limbs and positioning to get the multiple connection. The LMP organisers are former swingers and try to re-create the atmosphere as far as possible but for a paying crowd and with one important difference: swinging is all about (believe it or not) the women getting what they want - but a good prossie party keeps the sense of mutuality yet centres around what the men want. Emma says that was her motivation in starting LMP.

I don't want to follow the thread if it gets into the usual comparison of who's party is the best. But I thought I'd try to answer Nik's query as far as I can.
« Last Edit: January 02, 2011, 09:01:59 PM by Marmalade »

Offline Marmalade

why queue for part of the time you are paying for... unless you are satisfied being a voyeur.
Indeed. If you have to queue it's a crap party indeed.

Quote
I am zero per cent gay but like to be with girls who like some hot action.

This response is not particularly aimed at frendofafrend - just using his post to make a point - since this is a common paininthebuttock IMO - definitely no pun intended!!

IMHO this is just something for you to get over, should you want to. Being gay is about sex with other men; not being in a room where many men are screwing many women, or several men screwing one woman. The homophobic reaction even in some parties and swinger club scenes can be over the top. One can practically sense a guy thinking, "Oh dear, I mustn't let my eyes catch sight of his wily or that will mean I'm gay;" Or, "I mustn't let a man's thigh brush against mine while we shag two women in the same bed or he will think I'm gay."

Sorry. Bollocks. If you start caressing and can't see quite whether it's a male or female limb you are caressing it might well be worth checking so as to avoid embarrassment - but if it happens accidentally just laugh it off (and point it out with a laugh if it happens (it will only happen very rarely if at all) vice versa). Gay and bi men don't go to hetero parties. Why would they? They can get that sort of action at parties aimed at that preference. And by and large, gay men don't even fancy hetero men. It is this ego thing that we tend to have as straight vs gay, "Oh!!! they all fancy me and want to shag me!!! - Errr, no. Get a life.

Watching a video of a man fucking a chick doesn't make anyone gay, and neither does it do so if the man is in the same room or the same bed. Think rugby scrums at school - or whenever you last had wholesome physical contact with men. Think of it as male bonding if you like - "Let's fuck these babes, yeah!"

I'm sure that people reading thisare neither gay or homophobic. But I think these natural tendencies to be shocked by one's own gender in action are simply something to get over. And if you can't or don't want to, simply avoid - no problemo.

Offline Wayang

I read the FR and it is so at variance with other FRs on Pam's Parties that I just wonder if it may be a fake review.  The description of the women and the number of men leaves a question...............

Offline Marmalade

wonder if it may be a fake review
particularly given that it is the only review he has posted of any punt he's had

Offline distressed

particularly given that it is the only review he has posted of any punt he's had
I'm sure I'll get slaughterted, but £70 seems way too cheap and, imho,you only get what you pay for.

Offline Keen Punter

I used to go to quite a few parties and also the Private Club in Birmingham. I have had some fantastically raunchy nights there, but the novelty wore off after a while. It got to the point that when you added up the amount of time you would spend in the act with the girls, it would be barely more than a 30 min 1 on 1 if not less, for the same price.

The Private Club was good, especially when unexpectedly couples would play, Jerboa still hates me for that night with Faye. :D Over the years though the quality of girls who would do those events have dropped, it is rare now to get a good quality young girl who performs.

Oh for that night with Justine and her mate again.

Offline Steve2

I feel uncomfortable enough sitting in a parlour waiting with other men

I think that says most of it NIK

Parties aren't for everyone. For me, I enjoy the whole party and swinging scene. Very social, and lots of fun to be had. Normally a good crowd of guys and girls who are up for the fun as much as the money


Offline Steve2

I used to go to quite a few parties and also the Private Club in Birmingham. I have had some fantastically raunchy nights there, but the novelty wore off after a while. It got to the point that when you added up the amount of time you would spend in the act with the girls, it would be barely more than a 30 min 1 on 1 if not less, for the same price.

The Private Club was good, especially when unexpectedly couples would play, Jerboa still hates me for that night with Faye. :D Over the years though the quality of girls who would do those events have dropped, it is rare now to get a good quality young girl who performs.

Oh for that night with Justine and her mate again.

Justine from Bristol ?

She was definately on the wild side. Used her and  a couple of her mates at parties in London a while back and they were amazing

Offline PuntingPete

I used to go to quite a few parties and also the Private Club in Birmingham. I have had some fantastically raunchy nights there, but the novelty wore off after a while. It got to the point that when you added up the amount of time you would spend in the act with the girls, it would be barely more than a 30 min 1 on 1 if not less, for the same price.

The Private Club was good, especially when unexpectedly couples would play, Jerboa still hates me for that night with Faye. :D Over the years though the quality of girls who would do those events have dropped, it is rare now to get a good quality young girl who performs.

Oh for that night with Justine and her mate again.

Never been to the Private Club, not my thing really but do you know what happened to Courtney? - I met her at a few parties & she was always one of my favourites.  ;)

Offline Steve2

Never been to the Private Club, not my thing really but do you know what happened to Courtney? - I met her at a few parties & she was always one of my favourites.  ;)

She is still about. Used her a few times. She wants to do some more London parties

Offline Keen Punter

Justine from Bristol ?

She was definately on the wild side. Used her and  a couple of her mates at parties in London a while back and they were amazing
Thats the girl. She certainly enjoyed her work.

The best night was when she brought a mate up one night who wasn't down to work. One of the girls cried off and her mate stepped in and got all the attention. Justine wasn't best pleased so went out of her way to please. I remember being on the floor with her for about 40 mins at the end of the night and she wouldn't let me leave !!!!!

Not that I really made that much of an effort to. :D

Offline PuntingPete

Thats the girl. She certainly enjoyed her work.

The best night was when she brought a mate up one night who wasn't down to work. One of the girls cried off and her mate stepped in and got all the attention. Justine wasn't best pleased so went out of her way to please. I remember being on the floor with her for about 40 mins at the end of the night and she wouldn't let me leave !!!!!

Not that I really made that much of an effort to. :D

Ah yes Justine

An ex-Bath Babe if I am not mistaken.

Had a couple if good parties with her too.  :P

Offline Stiltskin

Does anyone here recall seeing the gang bang scene in the film 'Sex Lives of the Potato Men'? http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0368259/

There are about 10 blokes and one ropey old women. Johnny Vegas arrives late and ends up at the back of the queue, making small talk about parking and allen keys, whilst the women is getting shagged sensless. I know it's just a film, but it has really put me off any kind of group sex  :(


Offline NIK

Does anyone here recall seeing the gang bang scene in the film 'Sex Lives of the Potato Men'? http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0368259/

There are about 10 blokes and one ropey old women. Johnny Vegas arrives late and ends up at the back of the queue, making small talk about parking and allen keys, whilst the women is getting shagged sensless. I know it's just a film, but it has really put me off any kind of group sex  :(



I have never seen this film, but I distinctly remember reading a review of it as it was given one of the worst reviews I've ever seen!


Offline PuntingPete

Does anyone here recall seeing the gang bang scene in the film 'Sex Lives of the Potato Men'? http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0368259/

There are about 10 blokes and one ropey old women. Johnny Vegas arrives late and ends up at the back of the queue, making small talk about parking and allen keys, whilst the women is getting shagged sensless. I know it's just a film, but it has really put me off any kind of group sex  :(

If Johnny Vegas ever turned up at a party I was at, I would be out of the door pretty damn quick.

Imagine shagging a girl after Vegas has been there.  :( :(

hmm, im sure theres other hidden scenario's we could deem more unpleasant than jonny vegas's sloppy seconds...

I tempted to risk an LMP at 2:1 ratio, as i hear they dont over book and there is a good chance the ratio could be better!

I went to one LMP party.  Had a good time with a MILF (sarahsback) and shot a CIM in a young pornstar (Jools) and fucked a couple of Brazilian girls that were not memorable.  There were a couple of black girls there that I didn't have a go with.  Well run, girls eager to please, ratio as advertised.

AFoAF

Offline Phil Atio

I've been attending parties now for a couple of years, and I thoroughly enjoy them. I accept they aren't for everyone and not for the faint hearted. The ratios are never more than 2 to 1 and the girls are always more than willing to play, and they'll seek you out rather than waiting around. I've heard horror stories of some parties over numbers and also reluctance of the girls wanting to play. I can't comment on Pams in the FR but there's been many differing reports from poor to good and I suppose a 70 quid it's cheap, but I'd say there's no guarantee of numbers of guys attending because of the low rate. Whereas parties at a higher rate should be able to ensure ratios because their rate is higher accordingly.

To take Nik's point about the number ofguys with girls, I attended one party where I was one of two guests, and at one time had 5 girls working on me, luckily I lived to tell the tale. I accept that this isn't the norm, but at most parties blokes will stop for a breather. But it's got to be remembered it's a party not a series of 1-2-1's, and finally the worst thing at a party is a hogger. Any party organiser worth their salt will soon stop hoggers in their tracks.

Offline Shade

What amount of time would see you deemed as a hogger? I'm tempted to go to a party in the future, but wouldn't want to get carried away with one lass and then have everyone else there pissed off at me.

Offline Phil Atio

Timewise it always easy to quantify as some guys will try and play with the same girl more than once at the expense of other guests. A good host will normally spot this and send in "reinforcements".

Offline smiths

I've been attending parties now for a couple of years, and I thoroughly enjoy them. I accept they aren't for everyone and not for the faint hearted. The ratios are never more than 2 to 1 and the girls are always more than willing to play, and they'll seek you out rather than waiting around. I've heard horror stories of some parties over numbers and also reluctance of the girls wanting to play. I can't comment on Pams in the FR but there's been many differing reports from poor to good and I suppose a 70 quid it's cheap, but I'd say there's no guarantee of numbers of guys attending because of the low rate. Whereas parties at a higher rate should be able to ensure ratios because their rate is higher accordingly.

To take Nik's point about the number ofguys with girls, I attended one party where I was one of two guests, and at one time had 5 girls working on me, luckily I lived to tell the tale. I accept that this isn't the norm, but at most parties blokes will stop for a breather. But it's got to be remembered it's a party not a series of 1-2-1's, and finally the worst thing at a party is a hogger. Any party organiser worth their salt will soon stop hoggers in their tracks.
Good post Phil. You are so right about those damn hoggers, low in number mercifully but able to spoil a good party.

I go to parties as i can shag multiple ladies and live my fantasy of a reverse gangbang on occassion. Their is also a good social aspect to partying where you meet other punters and share recommendations. I say never knock it till you have tried it.

Its logic that the lower the punter ratio the more the party costs which is why LMP is by far the most expensive of the main London providers with the shortest party running times, plus they provide 7 ladies at each party.

On the other hand i have attended parties at London Adult Party Club (LAPC) that are £60 for 3 hours on a Wednesday night or £80 for 3 hours on  other days and which were ok and certainly value for money. £60 to shag up to 8 WGs if you wish cant be beaten  as far as i know in the UK. Bear in mind some arent stunners though, it is hit and miss budget partying.

What i do know from attending 100s of parties is that most wouldnt let openly gay/bi guys in. I say most as one i attended unfortunately had a guy wearing stocking,  suspenders, high heels and a tutu which put me off. I didnt attend that providers parties again. So all it comes down to is are you able to take your kit off in front off other guys. I was shitting myself before my first but once in their i found i was able and within half an hour or so i  wasnt worrying about it anymore. I am also a fat, bald ugly fucker. :D



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