'Experienced punters or noobs, opinions?'
OK - you asked for opinions, so..
1. I don't think you should have stuck the PM from martha on here. I don't know what the UKP rules are about all this - it just seems wrong to me, in the context of the exchange you had with her.
2. I think her reason for the mixup is perfectly fine. In fact, it’s more than fine.
3. We all know people in their 20's – their lives are often all over the shop. We might expect WG's to be at the worse end of this spectrum, for obvious reasons.
4. I think Martha is right to get the hump.
5. I've only joined in here because I saw her on Saturday, and she seems a genuine and decent young woman. Although we didn't spend a lot of time talking.

6. Some of the language used in this thread is over the top. I'm no fluffy - I'm here 'cos I like paying women to let me fuck them - but...
