What always surprised me on other sites is number of guys that don't seem to be aware that there are punting deserts.
Punter A.... might "say" something like "took half a day off off work, travelled to see somebody who I thought would be okay, but...."
Then Punters B, C, D, E, etc queue up to say things like "I would never do that. Only see women with 50 positive reviews, never see them for more than 30 mins on first meeting, etc, etc.."
This always baffles me. Punters have to adapt to the terrain. Glad to see one board not in denial about the issue.