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Jeez. What am I doing wrong?????

Just one decent punt - is that too much to ask for???

In the space of 3 days: 1 last minute cancellation, 2 wouldn't answer phones when I arrived and one one lady about 10 dress sizes larger than her photos. :scare: And when I politly told her so I got a series of abusive texts.

Seriously, this is harder than my day job .

Offline AnthG

Jeez. What am I doing wrong?????

Just one decent punt - is that too much to ask for???

In the space of 3 days: 1 last minute cancellation, 2 wouldn't answer phones when I arrived and one one lady about 10 dress sizes larger than her photos. :scare: And when I politly told her so I got a series of abusive texts.

Seriously, this is harder than my day job .
To be honest I have found independents the biggest pains to book. I remember for my very first booking, two years ago to this very day, it being cancelled three times in a row and each time totally unprofessionally by the girl

While many hate them. Agencies are my preference as you phone on the day and you see a genuine girl usually in the next hour. The only downside is they can bait and switch and rarely display the face pics of the girl so its a total lottery who you see.. But there is an actual girl at the end of that booking unlike independents.

AW is just too unreliable and too full of scammers as the thread above shows

https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=12934.0

But if you do want to see AW independents, I would say as your first booking, only book those with feedbacks over 20 and only phone them up on the day. With a feedback over 20 you are at least assured to get someone decent.

Offline NIK

Jeez. What am I doing wrong?????

Just one decent punt - is that too much to ask for???

In the space of 3 days: 1 last minute cancellation, 2 wouldn't answer phones when I arrived and one one lady about 10 dress sizes larger than her photos. :scare: And when I politly told her so I got a series of abusive texts.

Seriously, this is harder than my day job .

Welcome to the reality of punting.
Presumably you won't subscribe to the 'never had a bad punt' nonsense?

Offline EnglishRebecca121

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But if you do want to see AW independents, I would say as your first booking, only book those with feedbacks over 20 and only phone them up on the day.

id recommend calling a couple of days in advance as some may have to find a suitible incall or have day jobs etc

Offline Lz-129

Was in the same boat, tis harder than it should be but I've found after a few punts under your belt it gets a little easier

Its is so annoying once you've made your excuse to get out of the house only to get the dreaded cancelling text :dash:

Plan b,c and even d works for some

Offline rpg

Welcome to the reality of punting.
Presumably you won't subscribe to the 'never had a bad punt' nonsense?

But there's lots you can do to minimise this shit.

Offline skittish

I punt the same area, I've given up looking Ipswich is the pits for punting. The best thing you can do is go without for a few weeks and with the money you save jump on the train to London.

Offline smiths

Jeez. What am I doing wrong?????

Just one decent punt - is that too much to ask for???

In the space of 3 days: 1 last minute cancellation, 2 wouldn't answer phones when I arrived and one one lady about 10 dress sizes larger than her photos. :scare: And when I politly told her so I got a series of abusive texts.

Seriously, this is harder than my day job .

No idea as i dont know you, but now you are on here use the site to ask for recommendations in your area is my advice. Punting especially with a newbie to you will always hold a risk, you can limit the risk by taking the advice of other punters.

Well there you go. Sometimes its better to go to a well run brothel with about 6 girls on. That way you won't ever come away with a,hard-on :D

Offline Melb

I'm with you on this bro, I find fucking hard work.

Offline tda666

Seems I am fortunate working between Maidstone and Gatwick as there does always seem to be options available albeit EE in most cases. My biggest problem is actually fitting it in between work and family, and as finances are not what they were it is also critical not to waste cash on a lousy punt.

Offline Steve2

I think I live in a very fortunate location nr London

within 10 miles of my postcode there are 672

and within 20 there are 3378

who show as able to accomodate on Adultwork

So it is not too hard to find a few very suitable options
« Last Edit: May 06, 2013, 09:13:00 AM by Steve2 »

I live in west London and won't do incalls so I'm restricted to the few girls who are prepared to travel - which is less than you may imagine. Many profiles have outcall rates but the girls simply won't travel.

I'd say for every successful booking (in terms of the girl actually walking through my front door) I have two unsuccessful attempts. There are professional independent girls out there, but yes, for reliability you've got to go for an agency girl. Of course not many of the outcall girls advertise the fact they are working for an agency, but with a bit of detective work you can spot the hallmarks on the profile. They are almost always Polish which is fine by me.

Offline Uglybugball

Jeez. What am I doing wrong?????

Just one decent punt - is that too much to ask for???

In the space of 3 days: 1 last minute cancellation, 2 wouldn't answer phones when I arrived and one one lady about 10 dress sizes larger than her photos. :scare: And when I politly told her so I got a series of abusive texts.

Seriously, this is harder than my day job .

I can only respond from my own experience.

You're own circumstances could be putting pressure on you, ie: marriage, girlfriend. The area you live in could be a factor. Only you know that of course.

Everyone has different experiences in punting. Good/bad, indifferent. By the sounds of it, getting through the door and getting the escort you expect is the main problem. With indies, there will be cancellations by them and you, that is part and parcel. That is their loss. The abusive texts are from small minded escorts, you were honest, they were being deceitful.

AnthG mentions parlours. You go when you want, maybe with a phone call before hand to check ahead. Their website galleries indicate pretty much what you get. So maybe that's best for you.

If you search this forum. there is plenty of good/advice about planning ahead, and research. Establishing an escort you like as a regular is always a good one.

Punting with escorts is good fun, but watch out for those Albanians..  :hi:


Offline Marmalade

I think I live in a very fortunate location nr London

within 10 miles of my postcode there are 672



I only have 311 but I'm not complaining.

No way I'd go 10 miles though.

Offline Marmalade

Re the OP:

maybe he has no feedback or shit feedback or bad notes on his file that girls share. So they cancel on him after checking him out. Otherwise, as you say, his researching and interacting skills might need some brushing up.

We had a guy up here in Scotland with a similar story who was blocked by most escorts, banned from most forums (including here, twice) and could only get a shag in the parlours. Probably most of them have banned him as well by now . . .

Offline smiths

I can only respond from my own experience.

You're own circumstances could be putting pressure on you, ie: marriage, girlfriend. The area you live in could be a factor. Only you know that of course.

Everyone has different experiences in punting. Good/bad, indifferent. By the sounds of it, getting through the door and getting the escort you expect is the main problem. With indies, there will be cancellations by them and you, that is part and parcel. That is their loss. The abusive texts are from small minded escorts, you were honest, they were being deceitful.

AnthG mentions parlours. You go when you want, maybe with a phone call before hand to check ahead. Their website galleries indicate pretty much what you get. So maybe that's best for you.

If you search this forum. there is plenty of good/advice about planning ahead, and research. Establishing an escort you like as a regular is always a good one.

Punting with escorts is good fun, but watch out for those Albanians..  :hi:

Anth mentioned Agencies not Parlours, they arent the same thing as i assume you know.

Seriously, this is harder than my day job .

Does your day job involve the phrase "Do you want fries with that?"

It ain't that difficult to book & shag a prostitute  :rolleyes:

Offline Marmalade

Does your day job involve the phrase "Do you want fries with that?"

It ain't that difficult to book & shag a prostitute  :rolleyes:

 :lol: :lol: :lol:

Offline skittish

Does your day job involve the phrase "Do you want fries with that?"

It ain't that difficult to book & shag a prostitute  :rolleyes:

Mock all you like, I've had a few discussions with Mounteverest exchanging info via PM's I believe him to be a genuine switched on punter. I'm sure this post is him venting his frustration. Most of you have given the usual good and helpful advice but he's punting in a desert.

Unless I'm missing something there are no existing parlours or agencies here in Ipswich and the the indies are old, fat, overpriced or flakey at best. So yeah it's easy to book and shag a prossie if you're not fussy, finding a decent one is the challenge.

Does your day job involve the phrase "Do you want fries with that?"


 :lol:  :lol:  :lol:  Superb, WCL!

I've just done the proximity test for Milfs [my preferred category] who "don't like" BDSM [not my scene at all!  :scare: ] & who "like" protected penetration [to exclude those who only offer massage]: 63 within 10 miles; 146 within 20.

Living in a conurbation with good public transport facilities, I'd never punt any closer to home than 10 miles.  "Don't shit on yer own midden", as I'm sure they say somewhere oop north! ;)

Offline Marmalade

Fair comment skittish. But the fries comment was funny anyway. I hope he takes it on the chin.

Punting close to home - it depends on the area. A busy conurbation full of shops and businesses is different to living in a quiet residential bit where all the window-hangers know your every move ;) Just a thought.

Offline Marmalade

Mock all you like, I've had a few discussions with Mounteverest exchanging info via PM's I believe him to be a genuine switched on punter. I'm sure this post is him venting his frustration. Most of you have given the usual good and helpful advice but he's punting in a desert.

Unless I'm missing something there are no existing parlours or agencies here in Ipswich and the the indies are old, fat, overpriced or flakey at best. So yeah it's easy to book and shag a prossie if you're not fussy, finding a decent one is the challenge.

Yeah Ipswich does look a bit off the beaten fanny track. Maybe write to the chief constable complaining about the prostitution situation. After he makes a thorough search and replies saying he can find no evidence of any prostitution in Ipswich, you can write back saying, "Exactly!"

Offline skittish

Fair comment skittish. But the fries comment was funny anyway. I hope he takes it on the chin.


To be fair it made me chuckle too and I wasn't having a dig at WCL I enjoy his posts.

Mounteverest is a new member in my area I want him to feel welcome for my own selfish reasons, there's not too many members from my region.

Offline smiths

Mock all you like, I've had a few discussions with Mounteverest exchanging info via PM's I believe him to be a genuine switched on punter. I'm sure this post is him venting his frustration. Most of you have given the usual good and helpful advice but he's punting in a desert.

Unless I'm missing something there are no existing parlours or agencies here in Ipswich and the the indies are old, fat, overpriced or flakey at best. So yeah it's easy to book and shag a prossie if you're not fussy, finding a decent one is the challenge.

I have just done a quick check on FRs for Ipswich on auto-censored and in July 2011 there was a FR on a place in Norfolk Road, Ipswich called Cleopatras which sounds like a Parlour at www.cleopatras-ipswich.com phone 01473 400395/261 plus there are FRs on 2 Agencies www.momentsescorts.co.uk on 07505 396921 and www.stanstedescorts.co.uk phone 07989 407601. If i recall correctly Stansted posted on auto-censored a few years back they did an election roll check on ALL punters which i said i would never allow under any circumstances.

No idea if any of these Establishments are any good or even still open, but worth a look or a call if interested i would of thought.


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