@ the OP. if you dont want a girl using lots of lube then you need to get her wet so she doesn't have a need for it. The use of a lot of lube is because they are dry and the condom can break if there is not sufficient lubrication
I tend to only use lube when a man who is cut wants a bit of wanking inbetween sessions
Dani, there are girls who pre-lube before you even arrive, or more likely when they leave the room while you undress. Sometimes it's not around the entrance, they must use a cake icer or something to get it right up inside, but you feel it as soon as it's right in.
Sorry about the graphic detail, but as you obviously don't do this I thought I'd explain what some girls do, which is why the OP mentioned it.
I don't mind it when girls do things to get you to cum. It's all part of the game and can be fun, and it would bad day if that wasn't the goal anyway. It's when they do it frantically right at the beginning of the session that it's totally unacceptable. Like those that think if they can complete the job in the first six minutes they can throw you out with 50 mins to go.