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Author Topic: Prossies trying to make you come to soon  (Read 5512 times)

Offline ONeil

Just wondering how many of you guys have encounted/ encounter this?


Something I've experienced with quite a few working girls in both 30min and 1 hour bookings is the following:


After between 30 seconds and a minute or two of shagging they ask "have you cum yet"? or "can you cum" or something similar

After x amount of time offering to finish you off with a hand job/ bj

Pounding away at you in a desperate attempt to make you cum

Or just generally being unhappy in one way or another that you want to have sex for longer than a few minutes (although they express this in a diplomatic way so as not to kill the mood)

I can understand that these girls are in some cases having sex with multiple punters per day so might not be looking to get completely ragged by every guy, but it's not like i'm trying to bang them for 30 minutes straight, I'm talking closer to 7-10 minutes with a few different positions.

But it seems like some of these girls have the idea that there's going to be something like 3-5 minutes of sex... and the rest of the time is for???

Also a lot of the prossies I've seen seem to use a lot of lube, which takes away a lot of the sensitivity, which makes it harder to climax.

Obviously the thing to do is to just stick with the girls that are happy to provide a decent sustained service, but it just seems bizarre to me (someone who is new to doing this) that these girls would think that paying for 1hr or even a 1/2 hr and then spending less than 5 mins actually having sex was actually acceptable (maybe they get away with doing this with a lot of guys??).

Offline twine1971

You are right, there are some girls who are there just to spread their legs. In a weird way you can't blame them because some of these girls work 6 or 7 days a week. However you will also come across those who really care about the service they provide. Look for girls who specialize in real GFE in my experience they tend to provide an un rushed service with lots of kissing before and after etc...

Good luck

Offline rpg

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but it just seems bizarre to me (someone who is new to doing this) that these girls would think that paying for 1hr or even a 1/2 hr and then spending less than 5 mins actually having sex was actually acceptable (maybe they get away with doing this with a lot of guys??).

It's a sad fact that lots of guys are prepared to put up with this and a lot worse. Then write them up as the best ever.

Offline Marmalade

I quite agree. Such pro$$ies should be named and shamed.

As a punter, one way to sidestep it as much as possible is to keep hold of the lead. I mean figuratively, not applying a dog lead. For instance, when she starts off (for instance by telling you what to do eg make yourself comfy lie down do this do that), turn it round. Even just to say, why don't I give you a backrub first. So you get to rub and enjoy looking at her slowly working up to thighs brush the fanny turn her over suck her tits. Or invite her to take your kegs off when she's stashed the cash and, while she's on her knees, if she is a bit slow on the plot suggest she say hello to your Rodger. These are both ways of staying politely but firmly in charge. Its quite a good starter to let her suck your cock for five mins when you've just walked in from the cold. Even before you have your kit off. A sort of intro that establishes why you're there and who's there to please who. But make your own scenario and have suggestions to hand so as to lead.

After some sucking (both ways if she's tasty) I might say shall we have some missionary just for starters - emphasising the 'just for starters' bit slightly so she gets used to the idea that there's more to come. Too many guys have all these fantasies and then go in with a wish and a prayer and thank the silly woman just for emptying their balls. Keep her off balance and she will be too busy keeping up to do the fake moaning shit. Then when your time is nearly up suggest a facial to finish off. When she's wiped up she'll even feel pride at obviously having done a good job and worked for her money for a change. I never try to take advantage once my time is up but many girls will enjoy a relaxing cuddle after the job is done and that's rather nice its genuine and you don't have to pay any more when it is offered gratis. In her time.

Offline smiths

Its very simple for me, i come when i am ready, no woman can make me come unless i choose to.

Yes i have met WGs that want me in, pop asap and out asap. Unfortunately for them i dont oblige them.

Offline Lurtz

Trying to make a punter cum as quickly as possible is not an unusual stratagem among the less reputable ladies. You can - as Marmalade points out - use your own techniques to stymie her tactics, but occasionally you will encounter a girl who will block every avenue of escape: "I don't like being massaged", "My tits are sensitive today", "No fingering on Tuesdays" etc.

In this situation I have tried several things:

1. When she was trying to suck me off and wouldn't stop, I would stand up, walk around the room a couple of times, then go back and start kissing her or squeezing her tits etc.

2. Fuck her in silence at the same speed and depth, while ignoring her questions.

3. Turn her questioning into a session of dirty-talking, e.g. "Have you cum yet?" "Not yet, sexy baby." "Have you cum yet?" "When I cum, it's like a fire hydrant exploding." "Have you cum yet?" "Tickle my balls, you dirty girl."

Offline Dani

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It makes no sense to me to ask a punter "have you cum yet" as we would both be aware if he had.  Plus it would have the opposite effect if you were trying to hurry up as it would be a right turn off.

I know myself if a guy is trying to make me cum and he keeps asking are you going to cum or have you cum then I have no chance of getting there as it just turns me off so in my head it would do the same to a man. 

If I paid for a punt and a girl kept saying this I would purposely leave it until the very last minute of my booking and then cum.  Even if it did mean having to keep getting off the bed and having a walk around or popping to the loo for a couple of minutes to calm down.

Basically it is bad prossies that do this as they are the ones who normally have a cum once policy.

@ the OP.  if you dont want a girl using lots of lube then you need to get her wet so she doesn't have a need for it. The use of a lot of lube is because they are dry and the condom can break if there is not sufficient lubrication

I tend to only use lube when a man who is cut wants a bit of wanking inbetween sessions

Offline Lurtz

It makes no sense to me to ask a punter "have you cum yet" as we would both be aware if he had.  Plus it would have the opposite effect if you were trying to hurry up as it would be a right turn off.

I know myself if a guy is trying to make me cum and he keeps asking are you going to cum or have you cum then I have no chance of getting there as it just turns me off so in my head it would do the same to a man. 

If I paid for a punt and a girl kept saying this I would purposely leave it until the very last minute of my booking and then cum.  Even if it did mean having to keep getting off the bed and having a walk around or popping to the loo for a couple of minutes to calm down.

Basically it is bad prossies that do this as they are the ones who normally have a cum once policy.

@ the OP.  if you dont want a girl using lots of lube then you need to get her wet so she doesn't have a need for it. The use of a lot of lube is because they are dry and the condom can break if there is not sufficient lubrication

I tend to only use lube when a man who is cut wants a bit of wanking inbetween sessions

Some girls pre-lube before the punter arrives, presumably so they don't wear out their fannies.

Offline LL

What I find is that sometimes when a WG is giving you oral she might switch to a hand job and do it very quickly to try and get you to cum.  If this happens to me I will always just gently hold her hand to slow down her action and if she doesn't slow down I'll ask her to stop.  It's always my aim to cum just the once on a punt (even if more than one cumshot is on offer) - and I'll try to cum as near to the end of it as I can. 

The worst experience I've had where a WG was just trying to make me cum was when I went to a massage parlour in Marylebone which I had booked for a 1 hour tantric massage.  This would include a handjob at the end.  When I got there and met my masseuse, after a few minutes of "treatment", she asked me after a few minutes whether I wanted "more service" and I told her I just wanted what I had booked.  She seemed pretty pissed off and shortly after that proceeded to wank me furiously to try to make me cum.  I held her hand, slowed it down, then gently moved it away from my cock.  Then her other hand grabbed my cock and started wanking it, so I repeated my method of holding her hand gently, guiding it away from my cock.  Guess what, her other hand went back in for cock action again.  By this point it was becoming a bit like something out of a cartoon (albeit not one suitable for family viewing).  After a couple of minutes of this she shouted at me, "WHAT!".  This was 15 minutes into the 1 hour session.  I actually managed to make the session last for another half an hour - 45 minutes in total.  She was wanking me but I was trying really hard not to cum, concentrating on anything but sex - bacon sandwiches, what I'd seen on TV - anything but what was happening to me - and all this just to spite the girl who was trying to rip me off.  After half an hour, the excruciating look of disgust, impatience, frustration and anger on the face of my "masseuse" became too much for me.  At this point she was using both hands and going at it like a steam train.  I was thinking that any minute now she's going to utilise the bow-drill method - like trying to start a fire with my cock.  I came on her hands and that was the end of the session.  Needless to say I never went back.

Offline Lurtz

What I find is that sometimes when a WG is giving you oral she might switch to a hand job and do it very quickly to try and get you to cum.  If this happens to me I will always just gently hold her hand to slow down her action and if she doesn't slow down I'll ask her to stop.  It's always my aim to cum just the once on a punt (even if more than one cumshot is on offer) - and I'll try to cum as near to the end of it as I can. 


Yes, I've tried this method myself and it is very effective. If I encounter a particularly stubborn girl, I push away her hand and say, "Shall I show you how to do it properly?" The look of wounded pride is worth the price of a 15 minute punt.

Offline Ali Katt

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What I find is that sometimes when a WG is giving you oral she might switch to a hand job and do it very quickly to try and get you to cum.  If this happens to me I will always just gently hold her hand to slow down her action and if she doesn't slow down I'll ask her to stop.  It's always my aim to cum just the once on a punt (even if more than one cumshot is on offer) - and I'll try to cum as near to the end of it as I can. 
It's a classic alright. If there was a SAAFE school for bad pro$$ies this would be lesson number 2. I say don't wank me off at the start - never been a problem so far. The worst ones will wank you off at every opportunity, slipping it in before cowgirl, when getting undressed, if you kiss them for that passionate embrace early on - not an issue for me anymore.

Offline seeker

I tell them in the comunication before the punt what im looking for .Then again ask them is it ok before the reddies are parted with and remind them if they are not complying with our deal during the punt and have to say it works most of the time .If they dont agree then i am Always prepaired to walk  :hi:

Best bet is to set the alarm on your phone for 29 mins and 30 secs (for a 30 min punt), then when she says are you going to cum, just say "when you hear the alarm, brace yourself".

Best bet is to set the alarm on your phone for 29 mins and 30 secs (for a 30 min punt), then when she says are you going to cum, just say "when you hear the alarm, brace yourself".

 :D  :D  :D

Offline LL

Best bet is to set the alarm on your phone for 29 mins and 30 secs (for a 30 min punt), then when she says are you going to cum, just say "when you hear the alarm, brace yourself".
You could even set the phone to vibrate and then attach it underneath your nutsack with an elastic band*.  Alarm goes off, vibrator kicks in, shooting your load right on queue!  :hi:


* not recommended!

Offline Warwick

if you dont want a girl using lots of lube then you need to get her wet so she doesn't have a need for it. The use of a lot of lube is because they are dry and the condom can break if there is not sufficient lubrication

I tend to only use lube when a man who is cut wants a bit of wanking inbetween sessions

Some girls see so many guys that they need to use lube. I think it's quite okay, although it is a bit naff when they apply it just before entry. The ones that do it the best way put it right up inside before the appointment begins.

Offline Louise 100% British

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Some girls see so many guys that they need to use lube. I think it's quite okay, although it is a bit naff when they apply it just before entry. The ones that do it the best way put it right up inside before the appointment begins.

There are a lot of guys who do not give the girl any kind of foreplay, so therefore lube will of course be needed...
Bit crap of a wg to then use it if the guy has already given her foreplay though.

Offline lovelysofia92

There are a lot of guys who do not give the girl any kind of foreplay, so therefore lube will of course be needed...
Bit crap of a wg to then use it if the guy has already given her foreplay though.

It always cracks me up how some men think they can just stick it in without any kind of foreplay  :sarcastic:

And they're boyfriends/partners that usually do this, I've never had it happen with a client thankfully.

Offline Louise 100% British

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It always cracks me up how some men think they can just stick it in without any kind of foreplay  :sarcastic:


Hehe, yes but the ones who don't are generally the ones who have a  30 minute appointment with me.
My best mate who I used to share a working flat with, (independently if i may add) never needed any lube, ever. Regardless of foreplay or not!


Offline Warwick

There are a lot of guys who do not give the girl any kind of foreplay, so therefore lube will of course be needed...
Bit crap of a wg to then use it if the guy has already given her foreplay though.

I always make a point of going down on a girl before sex if she'll let me. You get very few refusals, and it tends to be the ones that have already stuck some lube in. It feels to me to be an important part of the encounter, and it feels more complete.  If it's a quicky though, using lube is absolutely fine.

Offline Warwick

And they're boyfriends/partners that usually do this, I've never had it happen with a client thankfully.

Would you say some clients are more thoughtful in that respect then?

Offline Louise 100% British

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Would you say some clients are more thoughtful in that respect then?

I know it wasn't a question for me...

However, I would say, that in an hours appointment minimum I generally always receive some sort of foreplay...
If a wg is offering a gfe, then getting the girl wet enough is sort of expected?!! If you have to use lube it sort of takes the GF part away!!
But again, if the client doesn't cooperate in the foreplay department, as much as i would rather not, occasionally I will have to use lube (hey it is my livelihood I do not want to make it sore and force it in :))

Offline Tailpipe

Hehe, yes but the ones who don't are generally the ones who have a  30 minute appointment with me.
My best mate who I used to share a working flat with, (independently if i may add) never needed any lube, ever. Regardless of foreplay or not!


Why did your flat mate not need Lube , was she just up for it every time. :D

Offline Louise 100% British

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Why did your flat mate not need Lube , was she just up for it every time. :D

Exactly that, she is actually my best mate now, basically my next door neighbor. So she won't mind me saying on here...regular sex life with the (ex) bf but not hitting the actual spot. She is/was a squirter, but now in a normal job as she is now in a different relationship and gave it up.

Now, she is proof that you don't have to be size 0, 18 years old and no flaws on the body, because she is 34, size 14 with some marks on the stomach, but she always had people "cumming" back :)
« Last Edit: May 09, 2013, 08:20:29 PM by Louise »

Offline Lurtz


Why did your flat mate not need Lube , was she just up for it every time. :D

A government-sponsored study found that working girls were 'up for it' 93% of the time. I was told by a girl who worked in a brothel that if a punter didn't turn up for an appointment most girls would still go into the bedroom, lock the door and rub themselves silly.


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