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Offline softlad


tonyofstoney

Bill Goldberg, who's posted to this thread, has been compared on PN to JRC.  Personally, apart from an attraction to Thai ladies, I don't see any similarities, the guy's a twat and not in Jimmy's league.

Offline Jimmyredcab

There is a world of difference between having feelings for a prossie and falling in love, over the years I have met quite a few gorgeous girls but I have the sense to know that they are simply hookers and if I had no money they would not piss on me to put out a fire -------- that applies to Thailand and the UK. ;)

Ive been punting for three years now, its taken me that long to get to the position that Jimmy says, but now I fully understand that he's exactly right!
There is a world of difference between having feelings for a prossie and falling in love, over the years I have met quite a few gorgeous girls but I have the sense to know that they are simply hookers and if I had no money they would not piss on me to put out a fire -------- that applies to Thailand and the UK. ;)

Offline brungle

After many years of punting and seeing a different girl each time, I realised that once you find quality, go with it. So I stuck to regulars I really got on with for the past four years. In each case I had a good relationship with the ladies, I bought them Christmas and Birthday presents and other little treats such as theatre visits and good restaurants. They in turn reduced their fees and bought me presents on those same occasions also. Two of them brought back gifts from their home countries when they went home. However, it was always a relationship rooted in financial understandings. The customer relations operated by some of these girls are superb, and that's how it is. Naturally, I was fond of these ladies and I know they liked me. One cannot spend time having a sexual relationship with a person every week for over a year and not form a bond of some kind. When it finishes, as it always does, the right attitude is to say to oneself "that was great, it is over, now on to the next one". The best consolation is that there always is another one out there somewhere. My last regular and I finished two months ago, and already I have another one sorted out and I will have an overnight every week at half her normal rate, and she was happy to suggest that.

Offline Lurtz

After many years of punting and seeing a different girl each time, I realised that once you find quality, go with it. So I stuck to regulars I really got on with for the past four years. In each case I had a good relationship with the ladies, I bought them Christmas and Birthday presents and other little treats such as theatre visits and good restaurants. They in turn reduced their fees and bought me presents on those same occasions also. Two of them brought back gifts from their home countries when they went home. However, it was always a relationship rooted in financial understandings. The customer relations operated by some of these girls are superb, and that's how it is. Naturally, I was fond of these ladies and I know they liked me. One cannot spend time having a sexual relationship with a person every week for over a year and not form a bond of some kind. When it finishes, as it always does, the right attitude is to say to oneself "that was great, it is over, now on to the next one". The best consolation is that there always is another one out there somewhere. My last regular and I finished two months ago, and already I have another one sorted out and I will have an overnight every week at half her normal rate, and she was happy to suggest that.


I think it takes a strong will and a level head to do what you do and I praise you for your modus operandi. Not all men are able to grasp the punter-WG relationship. I myself prefer not to have regulars for fear the line will become blurred.

Offline Jimmyredcab

I myself prefer not to have regulars for fear the line will become blurred.

The problem is that so many girls offer a really poxy service, so when I find a good one I am inclined to return. :P

Offline Lurtz

The problem is that so many girls offer a really poxy service, so when I find a good one I am inclined to return. :P

In your situation I would probably throw caution to the wind and stick with a decent girl. However, I find it difficult to find a bad girl - not that I've been looking.

Offline Marmalade

The problem is that so many girls offer a really poxy service, so when I find a good one I am inclined to return. :P
True. Except good service one day doesn't automatically equal good service the next. Given a decent supply, i don't automatically equate good service with the girl. She might have just be in a good mood.

The problem is that so many girls offer a really poxy service, so when I find a good one I am inclined to return. :P

Yeah, been down that slippery slope... and Marm's comments are also valid (good punts with a good regular are not always guaranteed).

And the comment from the other site vis a vis re-punt only 6 wks is a gem... alas, the shortage of non-poxy indie WGs in my vicinity make that problematical and drives me into the arms (or till) of the usual suspects in MK.

As I used to lecture my regular, dependability beats a new hairdo, fancy web site and a long list of "discretionary" services.  Do what it sez in the profile and be available when you say you are going to be and punters will beat a path to your door almost regardless of the (reasonable) fee structure .

AFoAF

Offline ladyofthemansion

l have made friends with a small handful of punters ie met for coffee and social events, but for some reason l could not see them as clients again. Mentally unable. Am more than pleased with the friendships though even if it did mean losing regs.
l know many ladies who can do both, ie see a gent as a client, plus socialise on non payment terms with same guy. I simply cant do that. Dont know why.

Offline Jimmyredcab

In your situation I would probably throw caution to the wind and stick with a decent girl. However, I find it difficult to find a bad girl .

Maybe you are very easy to please, I only wish I was. :P

Offline Lurtz

Maybe you are very easy to please, I only wish I was. :P

Actually, I sense we are probably very similar in what we would consider a good punt and a bad punt; and we probably share similar tastes in the majority of cases. Perhaps I'm more adept at panning for gold.  ;)

For the record, my preference is for girls in their 20s, attractive, good bodies with a good attitude and a full menu of services. Are your requirements similar?

Offline Jimmyredcab

Actually, I sense we are probably very similar in what we would consider a good punt and a bad punt; and we probably share similar tastes in the majority of cases. Perhaps I'm more adept at panning for gold.  ;)

For the record, my preference is for girls in their 20s, attractive, good bodies with a good attitude and a full menu of services. Are your requirements similar?

Fairly similar ----------- but a full menu of services is not essential, french kissing and reverse oral are the only services that I really seek, anything else is a bonus. ;)

Offline Lurtz

Fairly similar ----------- but a full menu of services is not essential, french kissing and reverse oral are the only services that I really seek, anything else is a bonus. ;)

Yes, proper kissing is on my tick list, as is OWO. RO is not essential but its nice to know it's available if I am in the mood. After saying that, I've never been refused it. CIM is a nice bonus if the girl is comfortable with it. If I were a WG I wouldn't provide CIM but it can result in a very powerful orgasm. In fact, my definition of a good punt is when a girl walks in the room and we just get straight on with the punt and it flows naturally without all the 'No fingers', 'No tongues', etc. I've found that girls who are broadminded and a little adventurous can be tremendous fun, but I won't start sulking if the odd thing is not on the menu.

Fairly similar ----------- but a full menu of services is not essential, french kissing and reverse oral are the only services that I really seek, anything else is a bonus. ;)

Go on, Jimmy. Surely there's more icing required for your particular cake ;-)

AFoAF

Offline Jimmyredcab

Yes, proper kissing is on my tick list, as is OWO. RO is not essential but its nice to know it's available if I am in the mood. After saying that, I've never been refused it. CIM is a nice bonus if the girl is comfortable with it.

Only one small problem with the CIM service.
I might be the next punter who requires deep french kissing -------- the mere thought of it makes me cringe.  :D

Offline softlad

Only one small problem with the CIM service.
I might be the next punter who requires deep french kissing -------- the mere thought of it makes me cringe.  :D

One would  hope she hasn't rimmed the previous client also...... :P

Offline Marmalade

I've found it rather disappointing that many girls most keen to offer DFK taste the worst. Much as I like DFK, I'm fussy who I tangle tonsils with that much.

I think it takes a strong will and a level head to do what you do and I praise you for your modus operandi. Not all men are able to grasp the punter-WG relationship. I myself prefer not to have regulars for fear the line will become blurred.


easy line to blur ......

Offline Wayang

Fairly similar ----------- but a full menu of services is not essential, french kissing and reverse oral are the only services that I really seek, anything else is a bonus. ;)

If there is one thing that I hate it is a menu of services after I arrive.  All reminiscent of the Innkeeper's song in Les Miserables. I have to know what is on offer before the punt - and nothing at discretion!

Offline Jimmyredcab

If there is one thing that I hate it is a menu of services after I arrive.  All reminiscent of the Innkeeper's song in Les Miserables. I have to know what is on offer before the punt - and nothing at discretion!

It is rare for me to support prossies but I do understand the "at discretion" get out clause.
It is a fact that some guys have questionable hygiene so some of the more intimate services would have to be withdrawn ------------- of course there are girls who say "at discretion" when they have no intention of offering that particular service.

Offline softlad

It is rare for me to support prossies but I do understand the "at discretion" get out clause.
It is a fact that some guys have questionable hygiene so some of the more intimate services would have to be withdrawn ------------- of course there are girls who say "at discretion" when they have no intention of offering that particular service.

I think the "at discretion" get out clause, warrents a thread of it's own,
plenty to debate within that title.

Offline Wayang

It is rare for me to support prossies but I do understand the "at discretion" get out clause.
It is a fact that some guys have questionable hygiene so some of the more intimate services would have to be withdrawn ------------- of course there are girls who say "at discretion" when they have no intention of offering that particular service.

90 percent of the time it is a get out clause - but I totally agree that a WG ought o reject the smelly punter.

Offline Wayang

l have made friends with a small handful of punters ie met for coffee and social events, but for some reason l could not see them as clients again. Mentally unable. Am more than pleased with the friendships though even if it did mean losing regs.
l know many ladies who can do both, ie see a gent as a client, plus socialise on non payment terms with same guy. I simply cant do that. Dont know why.

I has a nice surprise today - I called a WG that I have not seen for 18 months after moving house.  She recognized the incoming tel., number and we had a great chat culminating in an appointment next month at her house (rather than the sterile working flat)  with mutual promises of mutual pleasure.  Maybe because I was one of her first clients some six years back ....
Did we ever become 'friends'?  Yes.  Did it always stay a 'pay for sex' relationship? Yes.  Did I ever expect or get more than was her normal service?  Yes.  But we never crossed that fragile border between WG sex and other sex.


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