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Offline Marmalade

Another old tip is to say in advance what you'd like her to wear. Then she can feel chuffed at getting something right even before hello. Keep it simple though so you don't overload her braincell.  :wacko:

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Another old tip is to say in advance what you'd like her to wear. Then she can feel chuffed at getting something right even before hello. Keep it simple though so you don't overload her braincell.  :wacko:

I tried this before and its worked a treat, then last week I spoke to a girl to confirm, all was good for a few hours time, I text her about what she would wear and I got the dreaded "landlord coming" text and that was the end of that

Offline Warwick

Not sure if this has been covered before but sometimes I find that when seeing a new escort, they seem a little apprehensive when the door opens and I step in. I try not to look nervous or anything, in fact I do smile and be cheerful but it sometimes doesn't work. It's possibly a natural response to a situation as the escort will never really know what the guy is like. Is there a certain way to break the ice and tactics fellow punters might use to turn slightly awkward situation in to a more less tense one? Is the escort at fault here for not being as welcoming/professional as they should be or am I not trying hard enough?

This is one of the problems with the way we meet prostitutes in this day and age. It would be much better if there were places to meet where it's possible to have a chat and get to know each other.

Years ago near Heathrow there was a hotel which had a very large reception area and a bar at the side, and you could also sit in there and drink coffee. It was quite a busy place with people coming and going to/from flights all the time. Those in the know could go there and usually in the afternoon and evening there would be two or three prostitutes there at any one time. They dressed smart to fit in but not difficult to spot them because sometimes they'd deliberately catch your eye to see if you're interested. Those girls were mostly quite astute at sussing out which guys were into it. Then you could get talking and maybe she'd offer to take you up to her room. Sometimes they operated in pairs. I used to entertain myself watching them seduce guys when business was a bit slack. The hotel staff didn't take a blind bit of notice, although it was fairly discreet and you'd only notice if you were looking for it. It stopped around the mid 90's, not sure why exactly. Need some places like that though.

Offline lovelysofia92

This is one of the problems with the way we meet prostitutes in this day and age. It would be much better if there were places to meet where it's possible to have a chat and get to know each other.

Years ago near Heathrow there was a hotel which had a very large reception area and a bar at the side, and you could also sit in there and drink coffee. It was quite a busy place with people coming and going to/from flights all the time. Those in the know could go there and usually in the afternoon and evening there would be two or three prostitutes there at any one time. They dressed smart to fit in but not difficult to spot them because sometimes they'd deliberately catch your eye to see if you're interested. Those girls were mostly quite astute at sussing out which guys were into it. Then you could get talking and maybe she'd offer to take you up to her room. Sometimes they operated in pairs. I used to entertain myself watching them seduce guys when business was a bit slack. The hotel staff didn't take a blind bit of notice, although it was fairly discreet and you'd only notice if you were looking for it. It stopped around the mid 90's, not sure why exactly. Need some places like that though.

There must be something in the water, but London's nicest bars and lounges, especially the ones situated in 5* hotels, are literally swarming with prossies!
There are soooo many of them, whenever I go out for drinks or dinner I can easily spot them and they usually sit in grops of 3, 4, dressed to the nines.

I remember meeting a friend for drinks one Friday night and she was terribly late; about an hour. Around 5 men came and inquired, some discretely, others not so discretely, whether we could go somewhere more ''private''. It's still a really common practice in London IMO.

Offline EnglishRebecca121

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There must be something in the water, but London's nicest bars and lounges, especially the ones situated in 5* hotels, are literally swarming with prossies!
There are soooo many of them, whenever I go out for drinks or dinner I can easily spot them and they usually sit in grops of 3, 4, dressed to the nines.

I remember meeting a friend for drinks one Friday night and she was terribly late; about an hour. Around 5 men came and inquired, some discretely, others not so discretely, whether we could go somewhere more ''private''. It's still a really common practice in London IMO.

were you by any chance at harvey nicks bar

Offline lovelysofia92

were you by any chance at harvey nicks bar

No, it was at the Aqua lounge on Regent street; but the Harvey Nichols bar (I think you mean the one on the 5th floor) is filled with pro$$ies as well. They're so pretty as well  :kissgirl:

Offline EnglishRebecca121

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harvey nicks harrods the dorchester and a few others are where to spot working girls

I had an amercian friend visit me in london and she is a well know model and we got approached in these places the worst was the Mandarin Oriental  on her like flys  ;)

Offline Tailpipe

Same happeneds to me in Harvey nicks as it the place all my customers seem to want to go
, but I love it  :wacko:

Offline Warwick

There must be something in the water, but London's nicest bars and lounges, especially the ones situated in 5* hotels, are literally swarming with prossies!
There are soooo many of them, whenever I go out for drinks or dinner I can easily spot them and they usually sit in grops of 3, 4, dressed to the nines.

I remember meeting a friend for drinks one Friday night and she was terribly late; about an hour. Around 5 men came and inquired, some discretely, others not so discretely, whether we could go somewhere more ''private''. It's still a really common practice in London IMO.

Just shows you. I didn't know that. I've not encountered that in London. It's good to hear it's becoming more accepted.

I like meeting prostitutes on neutral ground - not street girls I hasten to add -  lol. It's also better if they approach you. In the place I mentioned, all you had to do was catch their eye and they would sidle up to you after a couple of mins, or ask if they can sit next to you, and you'd take it from there.


Offline Festisio

I'm guessing these hotel ho's are pricier than a typical AW indie brit?

I do like the idea, lets you see their face before agreeing to anything.  Might have to try it when I move down to London.

Offline Warwick

I'm guessing these hotel ho's are pricier than a typical AW indie brit?

I do like the idea, lets you see their face before agreeing to anything.  Might have to try it when I move down to London.

I would imagine so. I've done it a couple of times, and it wasn't too bad for the rates of those times. Plus of course it depends how long you have. Most of those girls can complete the job quite nicely within half an hour. One thing that is nice is that if one comes and sits with you she will use her charms to entice you into going with her, including a bit body contact - hand on knee etc. That can be quite exciting in itself, and prepares you for what's to follow without going in cold.

Offline Warwick

harvey nicks harrods the dorchester and a few others are where to spot working girls

I had an amercian friend visit me in london and she is a well know model and we got approached in these places the worst was the Mandarin Oriental  on her like flys  ;)
That's not much good.

I think it's better if the pros approach the guys. It's not difficult to make brief eye contact to signal interest, and they know the signs to look for, and they are much better at making the initial contact because they do it all the time.

Offline toolboy55

I suppose that's a good thing about parlours, you get to try before you buy so to speak. I don't tend to go to parlours now but used to find that it's hard to make a decision as you feel that the maid wants a quick answer, difficult if there's more than one fit bird.

Offline smiths

I'm guessing these hotel ho's are pricier than a typical AW indie brit?

I do like the idea, lets you see their face before agreeing to anything.  Might have to try it when I move down to London.

Indeed they are, £500 an hour has been asked of me to pay a couple of times, a polite no thanks was my reply. One of the most expensive ways of punting, plus although a minute chance of it happening its also illegal to solicit in public which could draw the punter into getting mixed up with the police. For example the hotel may have had complaints from customers so rang the police who decide to observe. Not a way of punting i would recommend, but of course your business.

Offline Ali Katt

Not sure if this has been covered before but sometimes I find that when seeing a new escort, they seem a little apprehensive when the door opens and I step in. I try not to look nervous or anything, in fact I do smile and be cheerful but it sometimes doesn't work. It's possibly a natural response to a situation as the escort will never really know what the guy is like. Is there a certain way to break the ice and tactics fellow punters might use to turn slightly awkward situation in to a more less tense one? Is the escort at fault here for not being as welcoming/professional as they should be or am I not trying hard enough?
I open a bottle champagne and place the wire cage over my cock. I tell her it is my impression of a greyhound.

In all seriousness, sex is awkward, I think the day I don't feel nervous or excited is the day I become celibate, because that's the day it's lost its edge.

I'm guessing these hotel ho's are pricier than a typical AW indie brit?

I do like the idea, lets you see their face before agreeing to anything.  Might have to try it when I move down to London.

I have never been to these places in London but remember the Gaumont Long Bar in Manchester in my mis-spent youth.

Offline toolboy55

I open a bottle champagne and place the wire cage over my cock. I tell her it is my impression of a greyhound.

In all seriousness, sex is awkward, I think the day I don't feel nervous or excited is the day I become celibate, because that's the day it's lost its edge.

Agree

Offline hollysbeenabadgirl

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Hi,

Ye gawds we all work differently.

I'm no prude, but I can not go from 0-60 in a second and I refuse to fake that. I've also found that a lot of gentlemen are like that too. Depending on how the gentleman sounds on the telephone prior to meeting depends on whether he will get a kiss (peck), hug, simply a light touch on the arm/shoulder etc. Not every chap is a seasoned punter and rushing in can alarm them. A seasoned punter can always take the plunge first, after all it is his time.

I like a quick cuppa (caffeine whore) or glass of something (those I am visiting are told so too lol) as often we are rushing around prior (both parties) and we need some time to settle in to the environment and bounce off of each other a little bit. I make it quite clear that chit chat prior and after is on my time, not theirs so they do not feel they are losing sexy time. I find that offering up that time in order to become more acquainted means that the time getting dirty flows better and if anyone falls of a bed/wacks the other in the face/has a coughing fit/whatever, you can smile or laugh it off easier if you have already had a giggle, it helps awkwardness.

To the OP, when I used AW initially I found a few of my gents used to read my long profile and interview (bless). They would pick up on things and would use them to spark up a conversation or would give me a pack of malted milk biscuits (I found amusing and sweeter than an expensive gift) as I am a sucker for them. Now they may even pick up things to natter about from blog posts etc. Yes, whilst it is MY job to make them feel at ease, it is certainly appreciated when effort is made from the other side.

You are paying for the time and if you are not the type of gent who doesn't want to anonymously shag for an hour and bugger off immediately then so be it, take a bit of control and set the pace yourself. I know I am bloody lucky with my regulars, so perhaps the ladies you have seen are used to gents who simply want to pop and run.

Holly x

why should breaking the ice with an escort be any different to breaking the ice with any other new person you meet?

How about confident, well mannered and clean?

It is always a good sign when within minutes of entering the room the girl is deep-throating your knob without any money having changed hands.

I know its a grey area, but there has always been something special about girls who are that confident in there service that they never ask for money.  A rare breed. :thumbsup:

Offline Ali Katt

why should breaking the ice with an escort be any different to breaking the ice with any other new person you meet?

How about confident, well mannered and clean?

It is always a good sign when within minutes of entering the room the girl is deep-throating your knob without any money having changed hands.

I know its a grey area, but there has always been something special about girls who are that confident in there service that they never ask for money.  A rare breed. :thumbsup:
Great reply. Breaking the ice doesn't have to mean talking for 20 mins.

Offline akauya

Great reply. Breaking the ice doesn't have to mean talking for 20 mins.

Absolutely, I'm there to have sex and I'm paying for the time. Past the initial pleasantires, the paperwork and getting my kit off (pushing 5 minutes) I'm raring to go.

Maybe sounds harsh but I'm not made of money and there will be time to chat after I had a pop and I'm in the recovery mode. :) It would be different if I booked a WG for a few hours then I would take more time initially and wouldn't be in a hurry to jump her bones.

Don't get me wrong I'm never rough or impolite or rude; far from it but to me once I hand over the money the ice has broken.


Offline smiths

why should breaking the ice with an escort be any different to breaking the ice with any other new person you meet?

How about confident, well mannered and clean?

It is always a good sign when within minutes of entering the room the girl is deep-throating your knob without any money having changed hands.

I know its a grey area, but there has always been something special about girls who are that confident in there service that they never ask for money.  A rare breed. :thumbsup:

Good post, because its sex is why some punters cant get their heads round it, and some uber fluffies are happy to chat their paid time away, which is of course up to them. With some WGs who have seen these fluffies they try it on with all punters. For me its very simple i punt for sex but am happy to chat in the breaks i need and in the WGs own time after the punt. ;)

Offline Melb

Holly - if you want to get on with people here I would advise you avoid lol and bless.

Offline Melb

The method I choose to break the ice depends on the girl, the amount of the fee and my mood.
For example, a 30 minute quicky for £50 quid means get my cock out and expect immediate attention whereas an hour for a hotel outcall for £150 means a dink and a chat.

Offline Tailpipe

The method I choose to break the ice depends on the girl, the amount of the fee and my mood.
For example, a 30 minute quicky for £50 quid means get my cock out and expect immediate attention whereas an hour for a hotel outcall for £150 means a dink and a chat.


There was me thinking you were a die hard punter , But theres a little fluffy in there somewhere  :D

Only pulling you leg, your point is taken and yes I am a fluffy , but I am working on it.  :rolleyes:


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