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Offline Louise 100% British

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A couple of things.
Surely they ring/text for the door number, I've never been rung.

Secondly, there was a thread on here only last week (can't be assed to look for it atm) where without exception all the WG's were saying how unprofessional it was to ring a guy and that none of them, would ever do it.

What??
Please park next to "x" car and phone me once arrived for door number.
I miss call, I phone back. Not hard to understand is it??
Also I'm allowed to contact some regulars if needed, WITH
permission.

So next time i will leave the guy parked next to my car and not ring him back???

Oh and for the record if I have missed a call and it is within few minutes I will give a call back, any longer than that I leave it.

Offline toolboy55

What??
Please park next to "x" car and phone me once arrived for door number.
I miss call, I phone back. Not hard to understand is it??
Also I'm allowed to contact some regulars if needed, WITH
permission.

So next time i will leave the guy parked next to my car and not ring him back???

Oh and for the record if I have missed a call and it is within few minutes I will give a call back, any longer than that I leave it.

Every girl I've seen uses txt

Its not impossible to know the real name of a WG and find her on Facebook as 'her' - but why would anyone want to cause another person so much grief?

What was the OP thinking - mailing her FB friends and her mum saying f.y.i. I fucked your Sarah in the ass for £100.

Whole thing is gross.  Forget the idea now, please.


I did also post the reason for the thread Wiltsboy - it was the posters and signs up in my area showing where a WG lived.  I have no need to contemplate such a thing - just thought it was an interesting and, if honest, amusing, topic.  Only amusing in the fact it wasn't anything to do with me.  If I was in the situation I would find it far from amusing.  I certainly have reason to contemplate such action.

Offline smiths

A couple of things.
Surely they ring/text for the door number, I've never been rung.

Secondly, there was a thread on here only last week (can't be assed to look for it atm) where without exception all the WG's were saying how unprofessional it was to ring a guy and that none of them, would ever do it.

Am I correct in thinking that guys, or have i gone do-lally?

IMO its very unprofessional to ring a punter unless he has agreed to it, this is the crucial point as far as i am concerned, it gives the punter the option. A punter COULD be with his partner or family for all a WG would know including dropping them off as i have in the past just 10 minutes before a punt.

 In the scenario Louise mentions i see it as the onus being on the punter to ring and/or text not the WG to ring and/or text the punter back. How i see it is if i get to her place and she isnt answering the phone or responding to texts i will give her about half an hour to do so then go to my plan B. Her ringing and/or texting me will just piss me off enough to not wish to proceed anyway. Clearly some punters arent bothered, i am.

Offline Louise 100% British

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IMO its very unprofessional to ring a punter unless he has agreed to it, this is the crucial point as far as i am concerned, it gives the punter the option. A punter COULD be with his partner or family for all a WG would know including dropping them off as i have in the past just 10 minutes before a punt.

 In the scenario Louise mentions i see it as the onus being on the punter to ring and/or text not the WG to ring and/or text the punter back. How i see it is if i get to her place and she isnt answering the phone or responding to texts i will give her about half an hour to do so then go to my plan B. Her ringing and/or texting me will just piss me off enough to not wish to proceed anyway. Clearly some punters arent bothered, i am.

I am independent- I have no one answering my phone for me.

A punter phones. I give a 5 minute gap. Amy longer than that I don't bother,unless they have sent a text.
99% appreciate an efficient phone call back anyway, because yes not like I phone them an hour later, that could then lead to an awkward moment for then.

I don't text, I prefer phone calls. Nothing wrong with that. Every girl communicates differently.
« Last Edit: April 27, 2013, 11:01:31 PM by Louise »

Offline Mystique46m

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Its not impossible to know the real name of a WG and find her on Facebook as 'her' - but why would anyone want to cause another person so much grief?

What was the OP thinking - mailing her FB friends and her mum saying f.y.i. I fucked your Sarah in the ass for £100.

Whole thing is gross.  Forget the idea now, please.


I did also post the reason for the thread Wiltsboy - it was the posters and signs up in my area showing where a WG lived.  I have no need to contemplate such a thing - just thought it was an interesting and, if honest, amusing, topic.  Only amusing in the fact it wasn't anything to do with me.  If I was in the situation I would find it far from amusing.  I certainly have reason to contemplate such action.

In that last sentence, do you mean you DON'T have reason to contemplate such action?!
Quite frankly I find it quite creepy that you find the topic of 'outing' a WG or a punter who isn't yourself,
'amusing', that's of course just in my opinion.

Offline smiths

I am independent- I have no one answering my phone for me.

A punter phones. I give a 5 minute gap. Amy longer than that I don't bother,unless they have sent a text.
99% appreciate an efficient phone call back anyway, because yes not like I phone them an hour later, that could then lead to an awkward moment for then.

I don't text, I prefer phone calls. Nothing wrong with that. Every girl communicates differently.

I know your an Indie. If i call and dont get an answer i might text and say please text or call me back, thats then fine obviously if the WG does so. In the meantime i would call again as i need to get a reply asap. I have OCD regarding things starting as agreed on time in and outside of punting so start to get anxious if booking start times overrun. Even waiting half an hour is half an hour too much in my thinking.

Offline Mwtp

How would you know what name they have on Voicemail unless you have rung them. I thought that ringing a punter is a cardinal sin for WG's?

Do you really think that every single client in the country won't allow a call?  Even if it's 1 in 100 000, that'd still be a lot of people.  I have been called while running late, and that's fine.  I have made a booking and I'm a few minutes behind, so they want to be sure I'm coming (I don't have voicemail set).  I do give my first name though.

Offline toolboy55

Do you really think that every single client in the country won't allow a call?  Even if it's 1 in 100 000, that'd still be a lot of people.  I have been called while running late, and that's fine.  I have made a booking and I'm a few minutes behind, so they want to be sure I'm coming (I don't have voicemail set).  I do give my first name though.

No I don't think that.
However, it was only last week that WG's on this forum were falling over themselves to say how unprofessional it was.
It doesn't affect me, I have a separate phone, which has never been rung by a WG.

Offline Louise 100% British

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I know your an Indie. If i call and dont get an answer i might text and say please text or call me back, thats then fine obviously if the WG does so. In the meantime i would call again as i need to get a reply asap. I have OCD regarding things starting as agreed on time in and outside of punting so start to get anxious if booking start times overrun. Even waiting half an hour is half an hour too much in my thinking.
its not like I would ring if I had a missed call and it was by half hour...
5 min to me is acceptable and has never caused any upset, majority still book an appointment.
Us girls do what works for us personally, and what I do does work.

Offline Louise 100% British

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No I don't think that.
However, it was only last week that WG's on this forum were falling over themselves to say how unprofessional it was.
It doesn't affect me, I have a separate phone, which has never been rung by a WG.


Yes unprofessional to tout businesses unrequested.

I never have and never will do that!

Offline sarahjayneleeds

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Do you really think that every single client in the country won't allow a call?  Even if it's 1 in 100 000, that'd still be a lot of people.  I have been called while running late, and that's fine.  I have made a booking and I'm a few minutes behind, so they want to be sure I'm coming (I don't have voicemail set).  I do give my first name though.

That's how everyone is different I would never call if you were late for an appointment to check if you were still coming. I would either wait for you to call to say your running late or take it as a no show. How would I know where you were? What if you had to go home because your wife or child were sick?

Offline Louise 100% British

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That's how everyone is different I would never call if you were late for an appointment to check if you were still coming. I would either wait for you to call to say your running late or take it as a no show. How would I know where you were? What if you had to go home because your wife or child were sick?
I don't bother with no shows either, just assume
If they are coming then they would have shown up :)

Offline toolboy55

That's how everyone is different I would never call if you were late for an appointment to check if you were still coming. I would either wait for you to call to say your running late or take it as a no show. How would I know where you were? What if you had to go home because your wife or child were sick?

Thats the way all the girls I have seen operate. I always tell them that I have a separate phone and that its Ok to call but even then no-one ever has.

Offline smiths

That's how everyone is different I would never call if you were late for an appointment to check if you were still coming. I would either wait for you to call to say your running late or take it as a no show. How would I know where you were? What if you had to go home because your wife or child were sick?

Indeed Sarah, shows how people view things differently. As i said the onus is on me to call or text in my view, as you say if i didnt which i wouldnt then i should be viewed as a no show. Its all very simple to me, punting is about discretion, i ensure i am discreet and expect the same in return. Again as i said some punters arent bothered and thats their business of course.;)
« Last Edit: April 27, 2013, 11:42:18 PM by smiths »

Offline smiths

Thats the way all the girls I have seen operate. I always tell them that I have a separate phone and that its Ok to call but even then no-one ever has.

Whereas i have had SPs especially a couple of arsehole Party providers cold contact me, they obviously had no idea what i might of been doing and with whom, they clearly werent bothered. They didnt know i had a punting phone that was safely turned off.

Offline smiths

its not like I would ring if I had a missed call and it was by half hour...
5 min to me is acceptable and has never caused any upset, majority still book an appointment.
Us girls do what works for us personally, and what I do does work.

I wont ever be punting with you so how you work wont affect me, it would if i was considering a WG and she cold contacted me though. At the end of the day i am the one paying, and its quite simply nowadays my way or no way.

Offline Cactus

its not like I would ring if I had a missed call and it was by half hour...
5 min to me is acceptable and has never caused any upset, majority still book an appointment.
Us girls do what works for us personally, and what I do does work.

I'm with Smiths on this one, wouldn't want you calling me even if I was outside.  The emphasis should be on the punter to instigate all contact IMO, if you missed my call, I'd call back.  I can handle a text asking where I am if running a bit late, but I'd no be keen on a phone call.  Again though unless you ever come to Scotland/NE England it's unlikely I'll ever have that issue with you.

Good thing your iPhone is playing up when making calls  :cool:

Oh and every punter, regardless of their domestic/relationship situation should have a punting phone.  I've had the same punting number for years, but would have no qualms about changing should a WG start to cause me hassle, which happened to me about 5 years ago.

Offline marty

If you give your real number out you're an idiot, sorry but that's my view. Free sims are easy to obtain over the net or from high street shops, anonymously. I use a punting phone, £20 plastic thing from Tescos wich is unlocked so I swap sims and network every couple of months.  WGs can text ring do what they want it doesn't matter as it's hidden and switched off.

On the OP there was a thread on another board where a WG outed a punter, she accused him of doing something can't remember what but when the dust settled turned out it wasn't the guy she had outed. The claims are that she didn't give a toss about the innocent guy whos life she ruined plus his family so the moral is don't think your safe if you do all the reasonable things it don't work like that.

Someone else said in this thread don't trust anyone with anything that's bang on. My other habit is don't ask anything as it's easier to not know stuff than to try to forget. If a girl tells me anything real I make an effort to forget it which works but the downside is it becomes a general habit as well though.

Just as way of further news on this but there's a lot more to this than meets the eye.
Obviously the local rag got wind of the posters etc etc - and ran a bit of a story.
Seems whoever put the posters etc up also made their own webpage using the WG's real name (www.joebloggs.co.uk) for instance (i aint putting it up here) and "tipped off" the papers....this is one pissed off person and pre meditated "attack"

Kinda scary what lengths people go to and only put it on here to further the point of not telling anyone anything (both punter and WG)

I ain't judging either party - but food for thought


Offline smiths

If you give your real number out you're an idiot, sorry but that's my view. Free sims are easy to obtain over the net or from high street shops, anonymously. I use a punting phone, £20 plastic thing from Tescos wich is unlocked so I swap sims and network every couple of months.  WGs can text ring do what they want it doesn't matter as it's hidden and switched off.

On the OP there was a thread on another board where a WG outed a punter, she accused him of doing something can't remember what but when the dust settled turned out it wasn't the guy she had outed. The claims are that she didn't give a toss about the innocent guy whos life she ruined plus his family so the moral is don't think your safe if you do all the reasonable things it don't work like that.

Someone else said in this thread don't trust anyone with anything that's bang on. My other habit is don't ask anything as it's easier to not know stuff than to try to forget. If a girl tells me anything real I make an effort to forget it which works but the downside is it becomes a general habit as well though.

Good post which to me is basic common sense. It is amazing what some WGs even on first meetings will tell me though sometimes, show me ID even though i didnt ask to see it being an example. Personally i would rather not see it or know their real details, they arent relevant to my punting with them. I spin them a load of bollocks about myself and am quite happy if they do the same. ;)

Offline Lori

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If you give your real number out you're an idiot, sorry but that's my view. Free sims are easy to obtain over the net or from high street shops, anonymously. I use a punting phone, £20 plastic thing from Tescos wich is unlocked so I swap sims and network every couple of months.  WGs can text ring do what they want it doesn't matter as it's hidden and switched off.

Totally agree, I regularly suggest to clients to get a second sim, and to make extra sure if they want to save my number put it down as physiotherapist and to contact me. Only time I contact is when I am ten mins away (I do outcalls)  and I simply say 10. If I do not hear back something has gone wrong and I usually get an explainations later on. Unless I know its ok to text a more full text or call I will not.

If I get an unfamiliar text or call where they do not know my name I play the card of I am a physio.

But second sim is advisable nice and easy to hide in a car, behind the cover plate on the radio it fits perfectly and how often does that get taken out? Or a total new phone in the spare tire well then least if you get a flat and then mrs finds it you can say I keep a prepaid one there just incase we break down where my network is outta signal! I infact keep one there for that very reason.

Offline toolboy55

Good post which to me is basic common sense. It is amazing what some WGs even on first meetings will tell me though sometimes, show me ID even though i didnt ask to see it being an example. Personally i would rather not see it or know their real details, they arent relevant to my punting with them. I spin them a load of bollocks about myself and am quite happy if they do the same. ;)

Yeah totally agree, although I've never had a girl show me ID yet though. It would be nice to see a girl that looked like I might not believe she's over 18!!

As regards the spinning load of bollox, I have a punting alta ego with complete back story, job, where I live etc. In fact it comes so naturally now that when I was in another town the other week after punting went for a bite to eat where they heat up toasties for you, the guy asked my name and I gave my fake one without even realising.
Makes sense, after all I wouldn't think that many (any?) girls use their real name, age, etc. I may be wrong, perhaps they really are all doing a degree in astro physics at a top uni or running their own successful business.

Offline Dani

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Of ocurse we dont give our real names and when asked by a reg we normally have a second made up name to give them.  When I am asked about my real life I always just smile tut at them and say now lets not spoil the fun or I quickly whip down, put my mouth around their cock and say its rude to talk with my mouth full.  For the persistant ones though I have a back story that is similar to my own life but different enough that they wouldnt be able to find me.

As for calling a client at any time unless he has specifically asked me to call him i.e he got lost and has hardly any credit left and needs directions, I owuld rather poke my eyes out.  I would never contact a client by calling.   If I had literally missed his call as did nto get to the phone quick enough and I knew him and knew it was ok I might send a balnk text with a question mark?  This owuld only be with clients who I know it would be safe to do so with though and who have asked that if I miss a call to text when I am free to talk.

To me it is very poor form to contact a punter without him asking you to.  Be it only 5minutes later as he may already be back with the wife by the time you call.  If they really want to see you they will ring back in an hour or so and if not there is no need to chase clients up for bookings as not only is it indiscreet it looks a bit desperate too. 

Offline smiths

Of ocurse we dont give our real names and when asked by a reg we normally have a second made up name to give them.  When I am asked about my real life I always just smile tut at them and say now lets not spoil the fun or I quickly whip down, put my mouth around their cock and say its rude to talk with my mouth full.  For the persistant ones though I have a back story that is similar to my own life but different enough that they wouldnt be able to find me.

As for calling a client at any time unless he has specifically asked me to call him i.e he got lost and has hardly any credit left and needs directions, I owuld rather poke my eyes out.  I would never contact a client by calling.   If I had literally missed his call as did nto get to the phone quick enough and I knew him and knew it was ok I might send a balnk text with a question mark?  This owuld only be with clients who I know it would be safe to do so with though and who have asked that if I miss a call to text when I am free to talk.

To me it is very poor form to contact a punter without him asking you to.  Be it only 5minutes later as he may already be back with the wife by the time you call.  If they really want to see you they will ring back in an hour or so and if not there is no need to chase clients up for bookings as not only is it indiscreet it looks a bit desperate too.

Good post, as i said unless previously agreed with the punter the onus is on him to contact the WG irrespective of the reason. Its a fact a WG cant know what a punter COULD be doing and who with and by contacting him she COULD get him in the shit. That COULD is more than enough for me to view it as bad practice to do so. Good WGs ensure they are discreet in my experience, a discretion i always ensure back to them.


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