Girls dont make a sound

[Cda1966]

I have been visiting a girl in a place many times over the past few months. Her services are a bit limited but I'm relaxed with her and she's friendly, we always have some form of sex and I always finish but she doesn't really make any moans at all and yet I am told by a well informed source that she is usually quite loud with everybody else, please don't laugh it genuinely is making me think I'm doing something wrong, any words of advice or suggestions guys.

[hungrypunt]

Tell her you like noise, and talk, etc etc, ask her if she likes to or not ?

I have a girl I see, and one time I asked her to not make any noise at all, just turn up, not one word, fuck..... not one word and leave. Turned me on that one? Tick.

[bod666]

Your best bet is surely to talk to her about it? It's a good habit to get into to ask the girl if she likes what you're doing or would like you to do it in a different way (foreplay mostly).

I can understand quiet punts if it's in a hotel and they're trying to be discreet but if she's normally noisy with others that's a bit odd.

[cueball]

If she welcomes you back you're doing nothing wrong.

[peter purves]

I have been visiting a girl in a place many times over the past few months. Her services are a bit limited but I'm relaxed with her and she's friendly, we always have some form of sex and I always finish but she doesn't really make any moans at all and yet I am told by a well informed source that she is usually quite loud with everybody else, please don't laugh it genuinely is making me think I'm doing something wrong, any words of advice or suggestions guys.

It's hard to come to a conclusion for a number of reasons:

1. The well-informed source could be exaggerating and/or even lying
2. Maybe she is a reluctant WG who does not like sex
3. Maybe she is a woman sexually who is quiet in and/or outside her profession

If you really wish to approach the subject, as some here as suggested previously in other contexts that humour can often work. Though bear in mind if she is a very serious person she could also take it the wrong way.

Don't worry about it mate - My conclusion 

[Cda1966]

Your best bet is surely to talk to her about it? It's a good habit to get into to ask the girl if she likes what you're doing or would like you to do it in a different way (foreplay mostly).

I can understand quiet punts if it's in a hotel and they're trying to be discreet but if she's normally noisy with others that's a bit odd.

I was sceptical about what the other girl said, but I was in the place waiting for her on a particularly day, and I heard her for myself, I did ask her why with others and not with me and all she said was i don't know, so now what you think ?

[Steely Dan]

Agree with others.  Don't worry.  But if it will make you enjoy your punts more, perhaps you are wanting tips on being a sex-god?  There are loads of tips on the interweb - you could start here:

External Link/Members Only
(if link does not work, Just google HOW TO GIVE CUNNILINGUS PORNHUB and do everything it says   )

[Home Alone]

And, at the end of the day, does it matter what "a well-informed source" [Who he?  That's a rhetorical question, btw - "Frankly, mah dear; I don't give a damn!" ] says?
If you are enjoying what you've paid the lass for, surely that's the important thing?

Me; I know I'll never be a stag like some punters may have you thinking they are, but it's a long time since I came away from a punt which I, and hopefully the lass I was seeing, didn't enjoy.  And isn't that the main thing?

[scutty brown]

you're not nibbling her clit hard enough

[cartmanbra]

I have been visiting a girl in a place many times over the past few months. Her services are a bit limited but I'm relaxed with her and she's friendly, we always have some form of sex and I always finish but she doesn't really make any moans at all and yet I am told by a well informed source that she is usually quite loud with everybody else, please don't laugh it genuinely is making me think I'm doing something wrong, any words of advice or suggestions guys.

Stick it in her ass - no lube. She will be screaming like a feminazi at a trump rally in no time.

[southampton.guy]

I have to agree with "Home Alone" - as long as YOU enjoy it.

I.m a GFE type of punter and hence want the lady to enjoy it as well as me  - but first and foremost, its your money, your punt so if you are enjoying it, just relax and continue enjoying it.

[horsa]

Your best bet is surely to talk to her about it? It's a good habit to get into to ask the girl if she likes what you're doing or would like you to do it in a different way (foreplay mostly).

I can understand quiet punts if it's in a hotel and they're trying to be discreet but if she's normally noisy with others that's a bit odd.

I think a lot of people - (doesn't matter if they are male of female), would be to worried/embarrassed to ask their partner if they like what they are doing to them. I think there is a stigma attached to scenarios like this - people think that if they ASK their partner they might come across as 'inexperienced or 'green'....

[horsa]

I believe communicating with each other is key in sex...EXAMPLE: if you are giving oral sex and your partner doesn't seem to be enjoying it that much.. but doesn't speak out to you and tell you how you should be doing it/how they like it - how are you at all ever going to know what they like/dislike??

[Likesvariety]

Prostitute moaning is usually fake.  Let's face it, they are not (usually) nymphos, they just want to make money.  Moaning is a way of conning the punter into thinking they really appreciate him as a lover, so that he will come back and pay them again.

Of course, sometimes the woman might have an orgasm.  Just don't expect her to be capable of this with every one of her six punters a day.

Personally, I hate fake moaning.

[Jonestown]

I believe communicating with each other is key in sex...EXAMPLE: if you are giving oral sex and your partner doesn't seem to be enjoying it that much.. but doesn't speak out to you and tell you how you should be doing it/how they like it - how are you at all ever going to know what they like/dislike??

What does the WG care about your RO technique, you're only going to be there another 20 minutes or so, then someone else will take your place.

[Cda1966]

Cheers for all the replies, the question really though was why with others and not with me ? Perhaps because she knows me quite well she doesn't feel she needs to do any fake moaning ? Or maybe I'm just crap at it, also she doesn't do anal

[horsa]

What does the WG care about your RO technique, you're only going to be there another 20 minutes or so, then someone else will take your place.

as you can see, I said EXAMPLE. It could be something other than oral, positions, kissing etc (My point was communication is key)

[horsa]

What does the WG care about your RO technique, you're only going to be there another 20 minutes or so, then someone else will take your place.

I also said 'partner' doesn't have to be a WG

[Jonestown]

as you can see, I said EXAMPLE. It could be something other than oral, positions, kissing etc (My point was communication is key)

With a proper partner yes of course, but I doubt many WG's are going to be interested in discussing relative techniques, other than if it ends up with you paying them more money.

[OakTree]

you're not nibbling her clit hard enough

Nibbling??

Well yeah I guess it will bring out some vocal action from her. Perhaps not quite what want but loud all the same.

[willie loman]

I once told a moaner, that she didn't have to do that for my benefit, she huffily replied that she wasn't doing it for my benefit, as others have said , its getting them to belt up that's the problem.

[Gordon Bennett]

Well what noises are YOU making? She might be following your lead.  I prefer quietly getting on with our business..... I don't like moaners, odd little sigh works for me. As long as she's not fixated on ceiling with a 1000-yard stare I wouldn't worry.
But, it's your gig so it should go how you want.... If you want a bit of soundtrack from her just tell her but be careful what you ask for; you might find a sudden stream of filth and shrieking distracting!

[mrfishyfoo]

Interesting post MrCda1966 as I had exactly the same "issue" with a lass I used to see.

I'd be giving her head and licking and slurping away and not a sound would she utter. I know she must have been liking it as she always got ridiculously wet and the twitching and shuddering, if faked, seemed to be genuine to me. So I asked her why she made no noise and her response floored me. What she said to me was something along the lines of "With you it's so relaxed I just never saw the point".

Hmm draw your own conclusions from that. 

[Cda1966]

Interesting post MrCda1966 as I had exactly the same "issue" with a lass I used to see.

I'd be giving her head and licking and slurping away and not a sound would she utter. I know she must have been liking it as she always got ridiculously wet and the twitching and shuddering, if faked, seemed to be genuine to me. So I asked her why she made no noise and her response floored me. What she said to me was something along the lines of "With you it's so relaxed I just never saw the point".

Hmm draw your own conclusions from that.

I guess I hope the one I see is doing the same, and I'm not sending her to sleep, but thanks guys for all the replies, I've been thinking it could be an age thing with perhaps younger men being a bit more physical and dare i say it harder.

[peter purves]

I guess I hope the one I see is doing the same, and I'm not sending her to sleep, but thanks guys for all the replies, I've been thinking it could be an age thing with perhaps younger men being a bit more physical and dare i say it harder.

If this was a scientific research we would have you test another WG, or several to compare and contrast outcomes, as opposed to the other way you have done it, same WG different punter

[mrfishyfoo]

I guess I hope the one I see is doing the same, and I'm not sending her to sleep, but thanks guys for all the replies, I've been thinking it could be an age thing with perhaps younger men being a bit more physical and dare i say it harder.

I had to stop seeing mine. We ended up being so relaxed and so familiar with each other that "the intensity of the punt" was lost.

As for giving her a good fucking that was never an issue. Kamagra was, and still is, my friend. 

[Marmalade]

I had a prossie at LSS on one occasion who broke off her moans at one point and said matter of factly, "do you like it with or without moans"?

Personally if there's no natural sound coming out of it I'd rather it just shut the fuck up as long as I can see it is still breathing.

The only fake noises that I find attractive are Japanese squeaky noises. Japanese seem to specialise in them according to the porn channel movies but we never get any real Japanese prossies so one has to tolerate blow-up doll Romanians and overcharging Brits thinking about their shopping or talking ten to the dozen.

Be glad she's not making stupid noises. Or tell her to fake it. YOU are paying HER to please YOU, not trying to "do something right to please her" ffs.

[Cda1966]

I had a prossie at LSS on one occasion who broke off her moans at one point and said matter of factly, "do you like it with or without moans"?

Personally if there's no natural sound coming out of it I'd rather it just shut the fuck up as long as I can see it is still breathing.

The only fake noises that I find attractive are Japanese squeaky noises. Japanese seem to specialise in them according to the porn channel movies but we never get any real Japanese prossies so one has to tolerate blow-up doll Romanians and overcharging Brits thinking about their shopping or talking ten to the dozen.

Be glad she's not making stupid noises. Or tell her to fake it. YOU are paying HER to please YOU, not trying to "do something right to please her" ffs.

thanks for your reply but less of the "FFS" please

[Marmalade]

thanks for your reply but less of the "FFS" please

An acronym here and there saves enough energy to answer another few newbie posts for fuck sake. 

Feel better now?   

Seriously mate, you are going to hear a lot more than ffs if you stick around. It was a bit of a wet blanket question suggesting you put the prossie's pleasure before your own, which is maybe gfe stuff within limits but the forum tends to be more real world. It's not personal. You are free to use the same language or stronger if I ever get pussywhipped. It is meant kindly. Brother in arms and all that shit -- wipe your shoes and move on. 

[Cda1966]

An acronym here and there saves enough energy to answer another few newbie posts for fuck sake. 

Feel better now?   

Seriously mate, you are going to hear a lot more than ffs if you stick around. It was a bit of a wet blanket question suggesting you put the prossie's pleasure before your own, which is maybe gfe stuff within limits but the forum tends to be more real world. It's not personal. You are free to use the same language or stronger if I ever get pussywhipped. It is meant kindly. Brother in arms and all that shit -- wipe your shoes and move on. 

ok, good to hear back from you

[Sir Lance-a-lot]

It could be that she genuinely enjoys your company and doesn't feel the need to put in the fake moaning that others get.  It could even mean that she's having a genuine orgasm and forgets to moan!

On each of the occasions where I've been 90% convinced that a genuine orgasm was happening, there wasn't a lot of moaning going on.  A little gasp, a shudder, a sudden increase in wetness and vaginal dilation, and sometimes a quiet "um, you made me come" afterwards.

[Home Alone]

And, at the end of the day, does it matter what "a well-informed source" [Who he?  That's a rhetorical question, btw - "Frankly, mah dear; I don't give a damn!" ] says?
If you are enjoying what you've paid the lass for, surely that's the important thing?

Me; I know I'll never be a stag like some punters may have you thinking they are, but it's a long time since I came away from a punt which I, and hopefully the lass I was seeing, didn't enjoy.  And isn't that the main thing?

I should have added that from time to time, I give RO to a Regular with the most sensitive clit I've ever had the pleasure of giving RO to!

She never makes a sound; she just moves my head when she reckons that I've gone on for longer than she can cope with.  Even so, it makes me feel like $1 million!

As I say, she's a Regular; and as cueball points out,

If she welcomes you back you're doing nothing wrong.

[Punter115]

Doesn't bother me , I make enough noise for both of us as I am huffing and puffing trying to fuck her and cum in the bag which never fuckng happns .
I am sure I will get a heart attack sometime as I am pushing it in and grabbing her hips to keep me balanced in doggy while she is saying, every five seconds " you cumming good  baby" , ....fuck me I ain't got the puff to tell her to "shut the fuck up " as her prattling is destroying any chance of me shooting in the bag .
 So get her down on her knees and I am standing off the bed and get my cock in her mouth ( she is very quiet then).......
apart for a bit of gagging as I push her head closer and then "I am cumming good baby" about 4 days worth and I keep her head deep in until I am emptied ....lovely .

[LAUREN SPENCER]

Maybe she's actually enjoying herself and very close to cumming, or actually cumming!

I can be pretty quiet "in the moment".

Loud can mean faking it as it requires a conscious effort; cumming is an out of the room moment where you can't think straight enough to come out with a load of words and screams.

 

[bearcat69]

Have never had a WG not make noise. But I have with civvies. There was this one time when I was pestering a former GF for sex all day long and she finally gave in. She just laid there with a moody look on her face and not making a sound. I did my business and to be honest I actually kinda enjoyed it.. I got mine. I suspect she enjoyed it too in a weird kinda way.

If it happened with a WG, well it would depend on what she's advertising and what I am excepting out of her. If I was just going for a pump and dump with a moody Romanian, well I guess I could deal with that, as long as she was hot and I cum. But if it was a highly rated Polish or British WG who advertises a sensual GFE, I might be a bit annoyed. But if you're enjoying it then I wouldn't worry about it. If it does disconcert you, then well, just find another WG. That's what I'd do, there's always other WG's who will take your money and put on a different kind of performance for you.

[nedster80]

A girl I used to see regularly was virtually silent throughout, despite me pounding her vigourously.  Best I could muster was the odd soft moan.  When I finally quizzed her on it, she said she would only moan if you made her cum....and that only her boyfriend could make her cum.  She meant it in a nice way, but it certainly removed any guilt the next time I banged the shit out of her.

[stevedave]

I remember seeing a lass a good few years ago who told me that, when getting close, she'd go quiet. And if I dared change what I was doing at that point, she'd slap me 

So, rightly or wrongly, I've always taken the sign of a girl going quiet as a good thing. Admittedly, if there was no sound at all, at any point, I'd be worried.

[redmist81]

Use an hitachi wand on her while you pound her
You can buy a cheap copy of the hitachi on for around £20 bet she moans then

Or see a different lady an do the same positions etc an see if she makes noise

[Cda1966]

I spoke to this girl I see about why she is quiet with me, she said that for her being quiet shows she enjoys the sex over times when she is moaning with people ?? You think that is possible or just to make me feel a bit better ?

[nedster80]

I spoke to this girl I see about why she is quiet with me, she said that for her being quiet shows she enjoys the sex over times when she is moaning with people ?? You think that is possible or just to make me feel a bit better ?

I think this is absolutely possible as although you can never truly know, less sound is a better indication than over exaggerated moans.

It's only my theory, but I tend to go by the expression on her face when you're taking her from behind.  She might still moan, but she doesn't think you're looking at her, so feels no obligation to act.  I see some girls look around with vacant stares letting out the odd moan, but the ones with squinted eyes or who bow/bury their head are more likely feeling it.  Just a theory though.

[howrude]

I do like lots of noise from the girls. The fact that it might be fake doesn't bother me. They're paid. It's entertainment.