I have to agree in general terms that it does seem to be more "mechanical" these days but it does still very much depend on the girl.......and in my view, dare i say it, how we (as a client) treat them. As a newcomer to this site, one of my early impressions was of the general disrespect that many members (well from those that comment/post) seem to have towards escorts. If (and I stress if) that attitude is taken to an actual meeting, then i.m not surprised many guys get treated as a "walking wallet" as they seem to regard the ladies like a piece of meat rather than as a real person.
Call me fluffy if you want, but i have had and still get some ladies doing some of the things "Skills" refer to in his original post above. And i.m well into my 50's and unfortunately not a George Clooney look alike. One example of me being treated as a client rather than a walking wallet... and its an extreme example and probably a one off with that one specific lady only, ...... was that on our second meeting, i was on my way home when i realised i hadn.t paid her. I stopped and called her to apologise and said i would come and pay her tomorrow and she said "don't worry. just next time will be ok". Well as she was lovely in all the ways i like and with that sort of attitude, I then saw her every week for about 3 months....then unfortuntately my financial circumstances changed and that meant i couldn.t now afford to see her so often. When i told her, she said to my amazment.... "thats ok, still come, i enjoy seeing you. just pay me in the future when you can"
I have another lady who "retired" from being an active escort but continues to sees me and one other guy because she says she enjoys seeing us.
so there are a few lovely girls out there who are not just only after your money...... yes i agree they are few and far between. Maybe its in part because i like GFE (reather than PSE) and if i find a lady i like i return as much as i can. And i have always taken a lot of care and done a fair bit of research on them before seeing them. (and they have always been mid priced, not the expensive one)
I was punting 10 and 15 years ago and don.t remember anything like that happening to me then but do remember cups of tea/coffee being offered then and now but it does seem less nowdays.