I am two people to. By day at work I am .............. but when my stockings come off I revert back to being a wife, mother and boring old fart that prefers staying in reading than going out living it up
I think compartmentalising this job is thr right way to go, after all people in normal jobs dont go home and still want to thinking about work. if others can leave their job at the door each day then so can we.
We get called, escorts or prossies etc but we dont normally call others by their job, you dont define your friends by the factory worker, bin man, dentist etc, they are not the job they are doing, they are people. Same for us, we are not prossies, we work as prossies as we are not defined by our job and some of us can happily leave it behind when we go home