Thanks for your comments
no FR as no actual visit. This morning she apologised by text and asked to see me. But too late. Plan B is in operation. I have had oodles of replies, maybe 10 or a dozen to a reverse booking most of which were entirely desirable and suitable, a couple really really nice, just a one from Birmingham for Bristol I ask you!.
And I also shot out a couple of email as invitations so it will be decision time soon and await a FR next week, I think I might surprise you