Interesting thread. Thanks to Daffodil for starting it.
As has been pointed out 'Not A Neanderthal But Never A Fluffy' implies I am somewhere between. Kissing, cuddling and gfe are important to me. Gfe does exist, but only with the very best girls and many who claim to offer it provide no such thing. For example the most reported Sheffield parlour is actually called GFE. During my many visits there the gfe I've received hasn't been in the same league as that I received from any of the best girls I've seen.
Those of you who have read my book will be aware that I did really fall for a wg once, but even then I was mature and sensible enough to resist and keep the relationship professional, the trouble was she simply didn't act like a prossy - at least none I've ever met before or since. Had I been fifteen or even ten years younger than I was at the time I might probably have made a fool of myself, so it's quite lucky I was already a cynical old sod.
Yes all prossies are in it for the money, many spout bollox and tell lies, and many give a crap service and ought to be doing something else, but simply aren't capable of anything else. But I have met good girls who seemed genuine and seemed to enjoy sex, however as we often say maybe they are just bloody good actresses?
When all said and done though I hate punts that are just about a quick rub, tug, suck and clinical sex - I've had far too many of them in the early days, before I knew there was an alternative type of punt, and these days if there was no kissing, cuddling, RO, body to body contact I would feel it was a waste of money. I like to give pleasure as much as receive, and if this is off limits I don't want to know as just to receive doesn't give me pleasure.
Howeve although I don't subscribe to his preferences for punts I do agree with Swagman about
'all the crap about buying presents and needing to ‘feel special’ from punters on auto-censored and just thought it came with the territory on a site full of pussy whipped saddos.'