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Author Topic: Roles reversed - punters acting like girls  (Read 7394 times)

Offline LL

LL states that one of the top three things he looks for in a punt is 'being made to feel like I'm special to her' and quite a lot of guys agreed.
I feel I should qualify my comment so you have some context. I haven't always felt this way about punting. Years ago I just did it for the sex. I had a break from it for a while. Recently I've been feeling lonely. Needy. Fluffy? (Such a derogatory term on here - I hate that). Anyway this is despite being married. I spend a lot of time away from my family and don't feel I have many good friends. Recently I got back into punting, sort of - I don't have sex with the girls. Anyway the companionship has helped me feel a bit better. Sex I think would make my situation worse. I have met many young WGs who are needy too. Most WGs in London are young girls away from home without real friends they can trust. Sounds similar to my own situation (well apart from the young girl bit).

By the way, as far as I can tell, many of the WGs on here by contrast are British (or have been here a long while) and/or they are older. They seem more headstrong. Different to the ones I tend to meet. We do not have an accurate representation of WGs in general.

As for being a 'man' and just fucking the girls and forgetting about them. Personally if I get back to that level of self confidence then I'll quit punting as I won't need it any more.


A bit of warmth, politeness, respect, consideration, humour, friendliness helps with every human interaction. Girls are human and despite being professionals, they do respond to what they're presented with, so anything that helps it go smoothly and means they give their best to me is all good.

+1
maybe BECAUSE of their profession?

Offline Mystique46m

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I guess some guys fall into the cold, mechanical sex robot category, others into the delusional fluffy category, but most of us are somewhere in between. As NIK says, 'not a neanderthal, but never a fluffy'!  :)

A bit of warmth, politeness, respect, consideration, humour, friendliness helps with every human interaction. Girls are human and despite being professionals, they do respond to what they're presented with, so anything that helps it go smoothly and means they give their best to me is all good.

Good post!

Offline Swagman

Totally agree with the OP. I used to read all the crap about buying presents and needing to ‘feel special’ from punters on auto-censored and just thought it came with the territory on a site full of pussy whipped saddos. To my surprise, in terms of general punter preferences, it’s pretty much the same on here. For a lot of you, no kissing/dfk is very much a deal-breaker, you want to have good conversation and want to know the wg has had a good time as well. I’ve learned that a significant number of men really do crave more than just the sex. 

Me on the other hand, I’m basically a cheapskate looking to get as good a service as I can for as cheap as possible without resorting to Soho. I don’t care if she kisses or looks into my eyes or speaks English (one girl I saw even communicated via a translator on her laptop which was hilarious!) as I’m not after a girlfriend or even a gfe, just someone decent I can have sex with. Whether or not she enjoys it too is also largely irrelevant. Saying that, I need to stress that I’m not some heartless cunt, I shower whoever I meet with compliments - be they genuine or otherwise - as I know that someone flattered and relaxed is more likely to provide a better service.

The funny thing is that when I first started out, I was with great girls who did provide a great gfe (Smiley Miley, Kama of Aldgate anyone?) and there’s no doubt whatsoever that such punts and experiences are vastly superior to the less intimate kind. To me, however, they are not important enough to justify the extra cost and I can still have a very good time without them.

As ever, to each his own.
« Last Edit: April 20, 2013, 10:10:01 PM by Swagman »

Offline Daffodil

Totally agree with the OP. I used to read all the crap about buying presents and needing to ‘feel special’ from punters on auto-censored and just thought it came with the territory on a site full of pussy whipped saddos. To my surprise, in terms of general punter preferences, it’s pretty much the same on here. For a lot of you, no kissing/dfk is very much a deal-breaker, you want to have good conversation and want to know the wg has had a good time as well. I’ve learned that a significant number of men really do crave more than just the sex. 

Me on the other hand, I’m basically a cheapskate looking to get as good a service as I can for as cheap as possible without resorting to Soho. I don’t care if she kisses or looks into my eyes or speaks English (one girl I saw even communicated via a translator on her laptop which was hilarious!) as I’m not after a girlfriend or even a gfe, just someone decent I can have sex with. Whether or not she enjoys it too is also largely irrelevant. Saying that, I need to stress that I’m not some heartless cunt, I shower whoever I meet with compliments - be they genuine or otherwise - as I know that someone flattered and relaxed is more likely to provide a better service.

The funny thing is that when I first started out, I was with great girls who did provide a great gfe (Smiley Miley, Kama of Aldgate anyone?) and there’s no doubt whatsoever that such punts and experiences are vastly superior to the less intimate kind. To me, however, they are not important enough to justify the extra cost and I can still have a very good time without them.

As ever, to each his own.

Very good post, imo.

Prossies are for fucking only. gfe sex is fine, gfe in general is deluded.

Don't blur the lines!  :hi:

Offline NIK

Interesting thread. Thanks to Daffodil for starting it.
As has been pointed out 'Not A Neanderthal But Never A Fluffy' implies I am somewhere between. Kissing, cuddling and gfe are important to me. Gfe does exist, but only with the very best girls and many who claim to offer it provide no such thing. For example the most reported Sheffield parlour is actually called GFE. During my many visits there the gfe I've received hasn't been in the same league as that I received from any of the best girls I've seen.
Those of you who have read my book will be aware that I did really fall for a wg once, but even then I was mature and sensible enough to resist and keep the relationship professional, the trouble was she simply didn't act like a prossy - at least none I've ever met before or since. Had I been fifteen or even ten years younger than I was at the time I might probably have made a fool of myself, so it's quite lucky I was already a cynical old sod.

Yes all prossies are in it for the money, many spout bollox and tell lies, and many give a crap service and ought to be doing something else, but simply aren't capable of anything else. But I have met good girls who seemed genuine and seemed to enjoy sex, however as we often say maybe they are just bloody good actresses?

When all said and done though I hate punts that are just about a quick rub, tug, suck and clinical sex - I've had far too many of them in the early days, before I knew there was an alternative type of punt, and these days if there was no kissing, cuddling, RO, body to body contact I would feel it was a waste of money. I like to give pleasure as much as receive, and if this is off limits I don't want to know as just to receive doesn't give me pleasure.

Howeve although I don't subscribe to his preferences for punts I do agree with Swagman about
 'all the crap about buying presents and needing to ‘feel special’ from punters on auto-censored and just thought it came with the territory on a site full of pussy whipped saddos.'
« Last Edit: April 21, 2013, 09:00:33 AM by NIK »


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