Not so nice to leave you waiting while watching you from her window.
In fact utterly out of order and you did not deserve this whatsoever however I do not think it is accurate to state she is a racist for her having her boundaries of who she shall spend time with.
I understand that you the buyer wish to buy a produce, in particular the time/services of a specific woman,however what would you prefer?
This lady see you and give you a shockingly bad service due to not wishing to Black men or not see you and you save your moolah?
To clarify again, this lady behaved in a really bad way by watching you from the window ignoring your texts/phone calls to then bluntly refusing your custom, maybe she feels weird putting it on her profile as many will cry "Raaysiss".
I think the issue here is not her choice as a woman but more so she failed to disclose this fact,I could be wrong but I am sure that you would not have contacted her if she had "no Black men" in her profile", or would you have?
I can not speak for her lips, they are bigger than mine and mine are naturally full but it is her choice to do botox/surgery/etc and many do seem to love this overt look so..live and let live.
I trust your next meeting will go well.