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Online AnthG

Obviously not as you've had to write war and peace and break it down into five points  :hi:
Well to be honest I figured people could read when I was saying my points over and over. So because they could not I listed them.

My argument is that prostitutes cannot just turn a guy away at the door as he is ugly. I have repeated that over and over, and over.  Its not my fault people read what I say and twist it to mean what they are wanting it to say.

And read my first post. It was not ambiguous on that

The guy turns up at the door and he is unattractive. He is clean, he has the cash. But he looks like Mick Jagger  :)  is she ok to turn him away and refuse to see him?

I will also say this poll is currently

Yes; 22 (46.8%)
No; 25 (53.2%)

And the suggestion is I have somehow cleavly twisted the words to get people to vote No, Suggesting people are that easily duped. I think the poll being split like this is genuine not due to duping.
« Last Edit: April 13, 2013, 08:31:23 pm by AnthG »

1. If a lady does not want to see certain men. She needs to say so in advance in an FAQ and word it sensibly and professionally. --

Agree.

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2. If she does not word it in an FAQ and guys turn up to her door she cannot then turn guys away at the door as that will literally destroy their confidence.

Disagree.

Prostitutes are not responsible for a mans confidence, and they always have a choice, in my opinion.

This is not to say that prostitutes cannot be considered time wasters in this case.

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3. If she does not want to see ugly men. Then do not put it into your profile you do not want to see ugly men. Be professional and tact about it. My thoughts are Married men will not likely be ugly. So say I will only say Married Men. As it is acting professional and putting a positive spin on things.

 :dash:  :dash:  :dash:  :dash:

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4. My belief is when prostitutes are saying they do not want to see ugly men. What they really means is they do not want to see guys with disabilities that affect their appearance. So come out and say it in an FAQ and say, sorry no disabled guys book me please.

If you considered yourself to be ugly, then that would be easier to accept, I guess.  :unknown:

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5. If a girl does not want to see Black men, put it in a FAQ. That advice is not me being racist saying her to do this. I have no problem with black men whatsoever. If the girl does not want to see black men, again do not turn them away at the door put it in an FAQ so they can see it in advance and not get their confidence destroyed.

I disagree, I think they should be upfront about not seeing black men so black men don't get their time wasted.

Again, prostitutes are not responsible for a mans confidence, in my opinion.

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I honestly thought my argument was easy to follow but apparently not.

Your argument was easy to follow, but not everyone agreed with it.

That's life.   :hi:
« Last Edit: April 13, 2013, 08:56:42 pm by JohnShaft »

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I could always sing the uncensored version of Cee lo Green as I left...

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Offline Daffodil

jeez me louise now anth ....whos next? :unknown:

Stop painting yourself as a victim. You've claimed Me, James, and Marmalade are all out to get you. Now you think Anth is  :dash:

I don't agree with the vast majority of what you say. You post crap at such a high rate that inevitably it is going to be picked apart more than others.

You pursued Sophia with a vengeance. Don't dish it out if you can't take it.

I could always sing the uncensored version of Cee lo Green as I left...

[[Link hidden, login to view]]   :hi:

If you could record it, upload it to youtube, and provide a link before you left, that would be great.

Thanks.  :rose: :D

edit: oops, I thought you were rebecca.  :lol:  :lol:
« Last Edit: April 13, 2013, 09:15:33 pm by JohnShaft »

It's a tricky one but if a guy shows up to a booking and doesn't like the look of the WG he has the right to turn round and walk away. While I would be mighty peeved if it ever happened to me I think that the WG has the right to decide who she does and does not entertain as a client, if she is that repelled by his appearance that she wants to turn him away then there is no point going ahead anyway as she is not going to be giving her best and if I am paying for a service I sure want the best.

Offline Uglybugball

Stop painting yourself as a victim. You've claimed Me, James, and Marmalade are all out to get you. Now you think Anth is  :dash:

I don't agree with the vast majority of what you say. You post crap at such a high rate that inevitably it is going to be picked apart more than others.

You pursued Sophia with a vengeance. Don't dish it out if you can't take it.

I think Rebecca knows how this forum "ethic" goes. You've can't be too sensitive or you won't last long, that applies to all members on here. I followed the posts where Sofia was concerned and some of what rebecca said was fair comment. It was essentially the same reception most escorts get when they come here for the first time, more so if they are advertising their prices at too higher rate.

My rule of thumb is, if I ain't got nothing good to say, I keep it zipped. But if everyone followed the same rule, the forum would be a boring place. We are all made differently.

Constructive criticism is different, I'll dish that out all day and all night long.

As rebecca's morphed up in hospital at the moment, she may be a little fragile and off key. I wish her a speedy recovery.


Offline Dani

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I dont discriminate on any basis as I never judge anyone by their skin colour, looks etc, I judge them by their behaviour. 
If a prossie does nto want to see a certain type of guy then she should state it clearly at the top of the profile so that people are aware that if they go ahead and book they would be turned away

By not putting it on their profile they are then wasting punters time by allowing to drive to them to be turned away.  Not only does it mess the punter around it could also upset some.

Of course every woman has the right to say no and my point on the other thread was if you are superficial and only see men who are considered attractive then put it on your profile where everyone can see it.  No one likes to travel to find out thir time has been wasted and this would be the best option.

I see a lot of disabled guys and some are bloody gorgeous but they have missing limbs etc that mean some women would be repulsed.  It takes a hell of a lot of effort for these guys to get to me and to be turned away at the door would be awful for them.

Forget putting it in the FAQs Put it is bold at the top of your profile so it is easily seen.  That way the problem is solved as only guys who know they are good looking will book so no one will be left to travel for nothing

Offline lovelysofia92

my mistake her page is there

but shes vanished from here where as me and loiuse havent as we actually try to contribute to this site

I was actually out doing an outcall. What have you done today? And for the love of God, get that grammar of yours in order please. It's been bugging the hell out of me.


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Louise and Rebecca, you obviously don't think highly enough of yourselves or your bodies to even be able to accept that others have the right to choose. Very sad in my opinion.

Louise, in particular, seems to think its not even her body and that she will bestow ownership of it to anybody with a few quid  :wackogirl:

Reading Louises post again not only do i find it odd, i find it a worrying view from a WG, if she really believes it she has problems in my view.

Offline Mwtp

I dont discriminate on any basis as I never judge anyone by their skin colour, looks etc, I judge them by their behaviour. 
If a prossie does nto want to see a certain type of guy then she should state it clearly at the top of the profile so that people are aware that if they go ahead and book they would be turned away

By not putting it on their profile they are then wasting punters time by allowing to drive to them to be turned away.  Not only does it mess the punter around it could also upset some.

Of course every woman has the right to say no and my point on the other thread was if you are superficial and only see men who are considered attractive then put it on your profile where everyone can see it.  No one likes to travel to find out thir time has been wasted and this would be the best option.

I see a lot of disabled guys and some are bloody gorgeous but they have missing limbs etc that mean some women would be repulsed.  It takes a hell of a lot of effort for these guys to get to me and to be turned away at the door would be awful for them.

Forget putting it in the FAQs Put it is bold at the top of your profile so it is easily seen.  That way the problem is solved as only guys who know they are good looking will book so no one will be left to travel for nothing

That says it all.  Every woman does have the right to say no.  Work in a shop... even if you're not the owner, you have the legal right to not serve somebody for any item.  It might not be fair, or necessarily right, but you can't take away the right for them to say no, whether they're paid or not.

I do agree that posting on a profile any instant no's is better.  Try to minimise insulting somebody, but it will happen regardless.

Offline Louise 100% British

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Reading Louises post again not only do i find it odd, i find it a worrying view from a WG, if she really believes it she has problems in my view.

No.
Not all all.
I just didn't explain myself properly. Please, don't take it out of proportion. I have already said one, it just didn't come out out right. That is all  :hi:
I would never want to put myself in a dangerous situation.
It might be the coedine. It does funny things to my head  :unknown:
Feeling rather rough.
« Last Edit: April 13, 2013, 09:48:29 pm by Louise »

Bloody hell........................

Rebecca on morphine, Louise on codeine, am I the only one on UKP not getting smacked out my eyeballs  :wackogirl:

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Well to be honest I figured people could read when I was saying my points over and over. So because they could not I listed them.

My argument is that prostitutes cannot just turn a guy away at the door as he is ugly. I have repeated that over and over, and over.  Its not my fault people read what I say and twist it to mean what they are wanting it to say.

And read my first post. It was not ambiguous on that

I will also say this poll is currently

Yes; 22 (46.8%)
No; 25 (53.2%)

And the suggestion is I have somehow cleavly twisted the words to get people to vote No, Suggesting people are that easily duped. I think the poll being split like this is genuine not due to duping.

Your argument is irrelevant though as WGs CAN turn punters away at the door if they so wish, the word cannot you use isnt applicable if a WG has free choice. If you had used the word shouldnt then fair enough thats your opinion, the word cannot is an instruction here which isnt in your power to command in reality.

I dont discriminate on any basis as I never judge anyone by their skin colour, looks etc, I judge them by their behaviour. 
If a prossie does nto want to see a certain type of guy then she should state it clearly at the top of the profile so that people are aware that if they go ahead and book they would be turned away

By not putting it on their profile they are then wasting punters time by allowing to drive to them to be turned away.  Not only does it mess the punter around it could also upset some.

Of course every woman has the right to say no and my point on the other thread was if you are superficial and only see men who are considered attractive then put it on your profile where everyone can see it.  No one likes to travel to find out thir time has been wasted and this would be the best option.

Totally agree.

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I see a lot of disabled guys and some are bloody gorgeous but they have missing limbs etc that mean some women would be repulsed.  It takes a hell of a lot of effort for these guys to get to me and to be turned away at the door would be awful for them.

You sound like a true proffessional.  :hi:

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Forget putting it in the FAQs Put it is bold at the top of your profile so it is easily seen.  That way the problem is solved as only guys who know they are good looking will book so no one will be left to travel for nothing

I know I am good looking, but I don't expect everyone to agree with me.  :D


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No.
Not all all.
I just didn't explain myself properly. Please, don't take it out of proportion. I have already said one, it just didn't come out out right. That is all  :hi:
I would never want to put myself in a dangerous situation.
It might be the coedine. It does funny things to my head  :unknown:
Feeling rather rough.

I would advise engaging your brain before you post, glad to hear you dont believe what you posted previously as it came out.

Your feeling rough and i am giving the Elephant Man a run on the looking rough stakes, i wish you better. ;)

Offline Louise 100% British

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Bloody hell........................

Rebecca on morphine, Louise on codeine, am I the only one on UKP not getting smacked out my eyeballs  :wackogirl:

Yes looks like I am going to be off work for a few days.
Caught a virus from somebody. Most likely a punter.
My throat is fucked, my ear is infected :(
And to top it all off I am all bunged up  :dash:

I don't know why anyone would see a wg when ill :(

Your argument is irrelevant though as WGs CAN turn punters away at the door if they so wish, the word cannot you use isnt applicable if a WG has free choice. If you had used the word shouldnt then fair enough thats your opinion, the word cannot is an instruction here which isnt in your power to command in reality.

+1

I would like to give anth the benefit of the doubt in this regard, but I am not sure.  :unknown:
« Last Edit: April 13, 2013, 10:00:25 pm by JohnShaft »

Offline Louise 100% British

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I would advise engaging your brain before you post, glad to hear you dont believe what you posted previously as it came out.

Your feeling rough and i am giving the Elephant Man a run on the looking rough stakes, i wish you better. ;)
Eeeek yes.
It was one of those moments when it sounded right in my head but just came out stupid.
Modify was gone.
I'm just hoping its one of these 48 hour bugs.
Codeine is one good medicine though.
Think I will sleep like a log tonight  :thumbsup:
Mind you I probably resemble the elephant man tonight, think I look rather rough lol.
« Last Edit: April 13, 2013, 10:00:55 pm by Louise »

Yes looks like I am going to be off work for a few days.
Caught a virus from somebody. Most likely a punter.
My throat is fucked, my ear is infected :(
And to top it all off I am all bunged up  :dash:

Just be glad you can't catch man flu, that's some seriously bad shit  :P

Offline Louise 100% British

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Just be glad you can't catch man flu, that's some seriously bad shit  :P

Yes that is true. :thumbsup:
Off to bed, sleep both the codeine and the virus off

Offline Jerboa

3. If she does not want to see ugly men. Then do not put it into your profile you do not want to see ugly men. Be professional and tact about it. My thoughts are Married men will not likely be ugly. So say I will only say Married Men. As it is acting professional and putting a positive spin on things.

I quote only this paragraph, sometimes Anth you do come across as totally clueless, so do you think only good looking men get married? That made me laugh.  :D

As for your question, I agree with the others who said you have set this thread to get the most to agree with you, but I think every girl has the right to choose who she sees, but one who discriminates due to a punter being very ugly Is also clueless, naive and Inexperienced as a hooker, as I said In the original thread I think Sofia should stick to meeting some sugardaddies who will spoil her, and leave escorting alone, If she couldn't face shagging very ugly and fat men.

Online AnthG

I would like to give anth the benefit of the doubt in this regard, but I am not sure.  :unknown:

Benefit of doubt over what? I spelt out my position. You said you understood it? Obviously you did not.

And why is it "Anth". There are 55 people who have voted in this poll. And the poll is effectively split. Do not blame the poll creator for the results of said poll!

And @Daffodil saying in the other thread

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Exactly. Hypocritical to say its ok to choose on one basis, but not on another.

IMO [that abusive guy from [banned-site-auto-censor]] he made an interesting post.

People (inc. Anth) are not untouchable on here. Anth is one of the main proponents of the opposite view which is probably why he was named.

I will spell it out again. If a women doesn't want to see ugly men she should put it in her profile in advance. But not do it in such an imbecilic way of "I don't want to see ugly men so send me a photo first" she should do it via strategic tact on her part. How is that so difficult for people to understand! Why constantly twist that statement to mean whatever you want it to mean! I said as an example she can say I don't want to see non married men as statistically speaking they wont be ugly because who'd marry them if they were. It was an example of professionally and tactfully saying no ugly guys please.

Plus also @Daffodil and that [banned-site-auto-censor] guy. My comments about an escorts right to not see Muslim men were because quite a few girls have all told me they hate seeing them because they treat them like dirt and with no respect during the booking. These are not my comments these are of the girls telling me this. So if guys are going to treat them with disrespect then yes I think a women has the right to refuse to see them. Stop twisting my being told a certain category of men are treating escorts with immense disrespect as a racist comment on my part. I have nothing against asians I have actually booked an asian girl and gave her a very positive review.

Getting back to the issue. As far as I am aware ugly guys usually are also quite shy. So will not treat escorts with abuse and disrespect during bookings. As far as I am also aware ugly guys are usually pleased to be with a girl out of their league so will treat them with huge respect during the booking too. They are probably unmarried so have a load of free cash. They are effectively a girls dream client if she was not being so stupid and stuck on her high horse.

I agree with the others who said you have set this thread to get the most to agree with you

I think I have the ability to wipe the poll clean and reset it. And if so I can ask whichever worded question you want if it will please you?  It was just meant as a simple poll.
« Last Edit: April 13, 2013, 11:36:31 pm by AnthG »


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