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Author Topic: WG says she really likes me  (Read 14746 times)

Except that it's not a date; it's a punt.

Try asking her to see you without a payment and see what her reaction will be.

I understand the difference, I just prefer to use softer terminology. I don't think of the girls I see as whores, I think of them as girls, as real people.

For me the money is merely a facilitator and once it's paid I treat the lady in question exactly as I would any other girl kind enough to invite me into her bed.
« Last Edit: April 13, 2013, 01:53:50 PM by Cruel_Toby_Kind »

Sounds like you may have it in perspective. It's quite pleasant to be liked by those one does business with, though not the most important thing (politeness is number 1, together with actually providing the service to an acceptable or above-acceptable standard).

It's not a 'date' but I'm aware that Americans use that term for a punt, so I will try not to gag.  :rolleyes:

Indeed, but even in any other business one can enjoy doing business with some customers more than others and even without blurring the boundaries of the relationship (such as it is) one can like people one does business with.

I'm not looking for a romantic attachment nor am I hoping for anything for free. I understand the nature of the relationship but within that I'm looking for somebody I click with and who can enjoy the time that we spend together.

I believe I'm pretty successful in achieving that aim. Maybe sometimes that's down the ability of the girls to make me believe that and that they're just acting a role but I don't think that's the case most of the time. If it is I'd prefer not to know. Ignorance is bliss and all that :)

In any case, I prefer not to use terms such a "punt" or "WG" or "prossie", I think it's dehumanising, I'm a soft, gentle fella and I prefer not to think of people in such terms.

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Indeed, but even in any other business one can enjoy doing business with some customers more than others and even without blurring the boundaries of the relationship (such as it is) one can like people one does business with.

I'm not looking for a romantic attachment nor am I hoping for anything for free. I understand the nature of the relationship but within that I'm looking for somebody I click with and who can enjoy the time that we spend together.

I believe I'm pretty successful in achieving that aim. Maybe sometimes that's down the ability of the girls to make me believe that and that they're just acting a role but I don't think that's the case most of the time. If it is I'd prefer not to know. Ignorance is bliss and all that :)

In any case, I prefer not to use terms such a "punt" or "WG" or "prossie", I think it's dehumanising, I'm a soft, gentle fella and I prefer not to think of people in such terms.

I agree with you.  I want to see them as people.  Removing that would make me feel worse about it. 

Unlikely to be anything more you being a 'nice guy' in WG terms - as pointed out above.

However has happened a few times to me, usually translates into a chats over coffee before/after on their time.  The only time it went any further was a wild few months after an initial paid meet, just clicked, but we had nothing else in common.

Offline Marmalade

I agree with you.  I want to see them as people.  Removing that would make me feel worse about it.

I dont think the regulars on this board are dehumanising people or not seeing them as people. I doubt if many people use those terms during all their punts if any. I think the usage comes about when you separate thinking with your cock and thinking with your head.  this forum is at pains to encourage the latter, at least until you have made a sensible decision, taken any necessary precautions and handed over the money. as long as you are polite in your dealings and act with integrity their is no reason to feel bad about calling a prostitute a prostitute. but it is very common when people start punting especially.
« Last Edit: April 13, 2013, 08:55:08 PM by Marmalade »

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I always like to see the WG as a person first, but hopefully someone who will do filthy sex with me. When I meet a WG it's more about her personality and how she interacts with me. If I feel good with her, the sex will most likely be great. I only see indies now, and visiting a WG in her private flat often just feels like popping round to a friends.

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I dont think the regulars on this board are dehumanising people or not seeing them as people. I doubt if many people use those terms during all their punts if any. I think the usage comes about when you separate thinking with your cock and thinking with your head.  this forum is at pains to encourage the latter, at least until you have made a sensible decision, taken any necessary precautions and handed over the money. as long as you are polite in your dealings and act with integrity their is no reason to feel bad about calling a prostitute a prostitute. but it is very common when people start punting especially.

Ahh yes, I didn't mean to imply otherwise.  I just have issues with women.  I'm a little on the short side for a male, but fairly average in most respects.  I just have difficulty seeing women in an approachable way, as just another person.  I am therefore having to work up the courage to actually approach them.  This is a kind of middle step.  I can approach them, have no massive risk of rejection, and can see that they're all just like me really.  Tonight I sat naked just chatting, something I'd never have done, being too weirded out by women.

Maybe one day I'll work out my issues, but until then, this helps. :D

Offline Marmalade

tom cruise must be one of the most famous short arses. his speech about worshipping the cock in magnolia is a bit ott but interesting

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I recently had an experience with one of the wg that said she really likes me. Prior to our meeting we exchanged some emails asked her a few things and we ended up in a *ping pong* mail string, we were talking like *friends* and I knew this will be a great punt. She kept me waiting when I got there but it did not bother me at all, and when we finally met she let me do things to her that are not on her likes list and I also asked before and she said she does not do, imagine my happy face when she DID let ME, she said that she really really likes me she also came so hard, I never seen a woman cum so hard. This was the best punt I ever had, even tho I have seen just 4 wg so far, she kept saying that she really likes me and cant wait to see me again. I would imagine she says this to everyone but for me it felt very real. She stated that she doesn't always meets or has a good experience in this line of work and from time to time someone like me comes along but that is very rare to happen.

If I would ever ask a wg out it will be purely for pleasure I would never be able to call her my gf cause im an extremely jealous guy probably that's why im single huh. Anyway I would not recommend to anyone to *date* a wg but more like friends with benefits I think that will work more or less. 

I dont think the regulars on this board are dehumanising people or not seeing them as people. I doubt if many people use those terms during all their punts if any. .......
no reason to feel bad about calling a prostitute a prostitute. but it is very common when people start punting especially.
I didn't mean to moralise or to lecture anybody, I was just defending my use of the word "date", trying to explain how *I* feel abut these things.

My idea of what a "punt" is would be an hour or 30 minute session in which you basically walk in, fuck whatever is in front of you and leave.

Whereas I always make long bookings and am quite happy within that time to spend time chatting, sipping wine and getting to know the girl I am seeing. I put as much effort into a date with a girl I meet on AW as I would for a date with any other girl.

As I say, I know that she wouldn't be there if it wasn't for the money but I'm not concerned with that. She *is* there, she's a pretty girl and I make the effort to treat her as a gentleman should treat a lady. I always take care of my appearance and personal hygiene, I bring a bottle of wine, some snacky food and on an overnight I've even been known to cook dinner.

I don't tend to set the pace, I leave that to her. When she's relaxed and ready to play she will let me know one way or another. I've never found a girl that tried to spend the whole date talking, never had a bad experience in that regard.

I want to make a connection with the person, both mentally and physically. I want what happens in the bedroom to feel natural and intimate and I'm quite sure that if my date is enjoying herself then I too will have a much better time.

So for me, money aside, it is just like a real date.

Hey, it works for me.  :)
« Last Edit: April 14, 2013, 09:52:13 AM by Cruel_Toby_Kind »

I didn't mean to moralise or to lecture anybody, I was just defending my use of the word "date", trying to explain how *I* feel abut these things.

My idea of what a "punt" is would be an hour or 30 minute session in which you basically walk in, fuck whatever is in front of you and leave.

Whereas I always make long bookings and am quite happy within that time to spend time chatting, sipping wine and getting to know the girl I am seeing. I put as much effort into a date with a girl I meet on AW as I would for a date with any other girl.

As I say, I know that she wouldn't be there if it wasn't for the money but I'm not concerned with that. She *is* there, she's a pretty girl and I make the effort to treat her as a gentleman should treat a lady. I always take care of my appearance and personal hygiene, I bring a bottle of wine, some snacky food and on an overnight I've even been known to cook dinner.

I don't tend to set the pace, I leave that to her. When she's relaxed and ready to play she will let me know one way or another. I've never found a girl that tried to spend the whole date talking, never had a bad experience in that regard.

I want to make a connection with the person, both mentally and physically. I want what happens in the bedroom to feel natural and intimate and I'm quite sure that if my date is enjoying herself then I too will have a much better time.

So for me, money aside, it is just like a real date.

Hey, it works for me.  :)


That's a lot of downtime you are paying for



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So for me, money aside, it is just like a real date.
But it's not though really, is it?
If you're after a real date, why not just go looking for a real date?

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But it's not though really, is it?
If you're after a real date, why not just go looking for a real date?

I have a regular and he always books me for the day.
So normally we go out for dinner/theatre etc and although yes he pays a fee, to spend that long with someone you cannot pretend to like the person for that amount of time. It just wouldn't work.
I genuinely get on with him very well.

Offline Mwtp

But it's not though really, is it?
If you're after a real date, why not just go looking for a real date?

To some that's the equivalent of asking "why don't you just go out and find a girlfriend willing to do all the dirty things you like?"
It's not as simple as you suggest.

I have a regular and he always books me for the day.
So normally we go out for dinner/theatre etc and although yes he pays a fee, to spend that long with someone you cannot pretend to like the person for that amount of time. It just wouldn't work.
I genuinely get on with him very well.

And he pays by the hour at full rate? (Fook me I'm not surprised you get on well with him). Does he pay for the Theatre/dinners too? :thumbsdown:

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I have a regular and he always books me for the day.
So normally we go out for dinner/theatre etc and although yes he pays a fee, to spend that long with someone you cannot pretend to like the person for that amount of time. It just wouldn't work.
I genuinely get on with him very well.

I think at your hourly rate I could do a pretty good job of pretending to like somebody  :hi:

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So normally we go out for dinner/theatre etc and although yes he pays a fee, to spend that long with someone you cannot pretend to like the person for that amount of time. It just wouldn't work.
I genuinely get on with him very well.

Of course you can.  Its quite easy.  As long as you can talk to each other and be able to get on with him that is all you need.  being able to get on is totally different to liking someone.  I get on with all my clients but I only genuinely like about 5 of them. 
I get on with my milkman and all my neighbours etc but it does not mean I like them I can however be polite and interested for as long as I need to

If you genuinely liked them you would not be charging them for the time out, you would say that as they are paying for the theatre and dinner that you would not charge them at all for your time.  After all that is what we do when we genuinely like people isnt it?  We would never charge someone we genuinely like to take us to the theatre and if they did something for us i.e pay for the trip out then we would do something in return for them i.e free sex.
Friends do favours for each other and do not charge for it

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And he pays by the hour at full rate? (Fook me I'm not surprised you get on well with him). Does he pay for the Theatre/dinners too? :thumbsdown:

No I do get on with him. You can't pretend when you are with someone 12 hours once a month.
No of course I don't charge full rate! Longer bookings get cheaper

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Of course you can.  Its quite easy.  As long as you can talk to each other and be able to get on with him that is all you need.  being able to get on is totally different to liking someone.  I get on with all my clients but I only genuinely like about 5 of them. 
I get on with my milkman and all my neighbours etc but it does not mean I like them I can however be polite and interested for as long as I need to

If you genuinely liked them you would not be charging them for the time out, you would say that as they are paying for the theatre and dinner that you would not charge them at all for your time.  After all that is what we do when we genuinely like people isnt it?  We would never charge someone we genuinely like to take us to the theatre and if they did something for us i.e pay for the trip out then we would do something in return for them i.e free sex.
Friends do favours for each other and do not charge for it

I have given extended hours before, for free but it is still my business. Not going to do 12 hour day with someone for nothing.
It would be crossing the business line it you did everything for free...

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That is the difference to getting on with a client and liking him.  If you liked him you would nto dream of charging but as you get on of course you want him to pay.
I have clients I like that I meet for coffee and lunch and that time is free as I LIKE THEM.  Ok I charge for the sex part but social time is free as I do enjoy time with them.

I am not saying you should do all day bookings for free but you should be careful how you word your posts.  You get on with these guys and it is different to liking them. 

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That is the difference to getting on with a client and liking him.  If you liked him you would nto dream of charging but as you get on of course you want him to pay.
I have clients I like that I meet for coffee and lunch and that time is free as I LIKE THEM.  Ok I charge for the sex part but social time is free as I do enjoy time with them.

I am not saying you should do all day bookings for free but you should be careful how you word your posts.  You get on with these guys and it is different to liking them.

I don't need to re word my post.
I stated that I have given him "free hours" and escorting at a discounted rate, therefore I do like him.
But I still would never do a while day for free with a client.  For me that would overstep the line.
Of course I only speak for myself and it is only my opinion.
« Last Edit: April 14, 2013, 01:25:01 PM by Louise »

But it's not though really, is it?
If you're after a real date, why not just go looking for a real date?

Convenience. I'm very busy and married and I don't want any complications; this way has clearly defined parameters and boundaries which both parties respect.

It might not be everybody's approach and I appreciate that but like I said, it works for me.


Offline Daffodil

Convenience. I'm very busy and married and I don't want any complications; this way has clearly defined parameters and boundaries which both parties respect.

It might not be everybody's approach and I appreciate that but like I said, it works for me.

My approach too.

There are plenty on here who blur the boundaries (intentionally or not), but I much prefer to keep it simple.

To some that's the equivalent of asking "why don't you just go out and find a girlfriend willing to do all the dirty things you like?"
It's not as simple as you suggest.

lol, I have found that for me, it's not what you're doing but who you're doing it with. I have met some girls with whom I have done some very kinky things yet it felt quite normal and natural and not at all dirty.

I don't make any demands really on what should happen in the bedroom, I'm happy just to let things take their course.

Also, I guess I like the variation, I seldom meet the same girl more than once or twice. It has happened but not often.


That's a lot of downtime you are paying for

Depends what you consider to be downtime. I don't think of it that way, for me it's part of the experience.

In any case I am fortunate enough that I don't have to worry too much about money. Money is just a tool.

If I didn't spend it on girls I'd only squander it.


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