I dont think the regulars on this board are dehumanising people or not seeing them as people. I doubt if many people use those terms during all their punts if any. .......
no reason to feel bad about calling a prostitute a prostitute. but it is very common when people start punting especially.
I didn't mean to moralise or to lecture anybody, I was just defending my use of the word "date", trying to explain how *I* feel abut these things.
My idea of what a "punt" is would be an hour or 30 minute session in which you basically walk in, fuck whatever is in front of you and leave.
Whereas I always make long bookings and am quite happy within that time to spend time chatting, sipping wine and getting to know the girl I am seeing. I put as much effort into a date with a girl I meet on AW as I would for a date with any other girl.
As I say, I know that she wouldn't be there if it wasn't for the money but I'm not concerned with that. She *is* there, she's a pretty girl and I make the effort to treat her as a gentleman should treat a lady. I always take care of my appearance and personal hygiene, I bring a bottle of wine, some snacky food and on an overnight I've even been known to cook dinner.
I don't tend to set the pace, I leave that to her. When she's relaxed and ready to play she will let me know one way or another. I've never found a girl that tried to spend the whole date talking, never had a bad experience in that regard.
I want to make a connection with the person, both mentally and physically. I want what happens in the bedroom to feel natural and intimate and I'm quite sure that if my date is enjoying herself then I too will have a much better time.
So for me, money aside, it is just like a real date.
Hey, it works for me.