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Author Topic: Has punting increased your sexual confidence or behaviour?  (Read 2533 times)

Ravanelli

I've never been someone lacking in confidence but I have become more aware lately that punting has perhaps increased my sexual confidence or awareness to possible opportunities even at work. I keep my work and personal life very separate and wouldn't dream of dating someone at work, though I have dated female ex-colleagues. Lately though I'm struggling to compartmentalise professional life from personal and pretty much want to pump half my HR team. I employed a senior female manager recently through an Agency and I've come very close on a couple of occasions to having a crack at her, something I previously would never have done. In fact I'm hoping she's not with me very long so I can definitely have a crack at her!  I find myself checking out her tits and arse rather more than I should and I'm pretty sure that punting has made me sexualise all women a lot more than I used to. Anyone else had similar experiences?

Offline Lurtz

Has punting increased your sexual confidence or behaviour?

As a consequence of having sex with WGs, I find I don't feel the need to engage in flirtatious behaviour with females at work. It's a nice feeling to have that couldn't-give-a-toss-how-much-cleavage-is-spilling-out-of-your-dress attitude. I feel like I'm inside an invisible bubble that protects me from manipulation.


Ravanelli

I feel like I'm inside an invisible bubble that protects me from manipulation.



Fuck me, it's had the opposite affect on me only I want to manipulate them!     :unknown:

Offline Melb

You're on a slippery slope mate.
Don't fuck where you eat.

Offline Acer

You're on a slippery slope mate.
Don't fuck where you eat.

Definitely don't!

I have actually improved my MO by punting. If ever I date (which is rarely) I can relax and enjoy the peripheral niceties knowing full well that I can read signals and respond accordingly.

Only trouble is the fact that with a WG you can play out your real time demand, whereas with a date you have to react.
« Last Edit: April 10, 2013, 02:06:53 AM by Acer »

Offline Uglybugball


Overall punting has increased my self belief/confidence.

This is borne out when socialising with others. Have noticed more women showing an interest in me as I know when/how to join in and circulate with others.

I'm safe in the knowledge I'm guaranteed a shag at any time in the future just by picking up the phone or logging on to AW. It makes you bolder when you see a hottie in civvy life you want to talk to.

If they tell you to fuck off...no big deal..their loss.  :rose:

Offline smiths

I've never been someone lacking in confidence but I have become more aware lately that punting has perhaps increased my sexual confidence or awareness to possible opportunities even at work. I keep my work and personal life very separate and wouldn't dream of dating someone at work, though I have dated female ex-colleagues. Lately though I'm struggling to compartmentalise professional life from personal and pretty much want to pump half my HR team. I employed a senior female manager recently through an Agency and I've come very close on a couple of occasions to having a crack at her, something I previously would never have done. In fact I'm hoping she's not with me very long so I can definitely have a crack at her!  I find myself checking out her tits and arse rather more than I should and I'm pretty sure that punting has made me sexualise all women a lot more than I used to. Anyone else had similar experiences?

I started punting at 19, 30 years ago and have never lacked confidence so no punting hasnt increased it. It hasnt made me sexualise all women either. I always eye-up women i find attractive though but not so they see me doing so, unless i am ready to make a move. ;)

Offline vt

Yep, punting has definitely improved my confidence in civvie circles. I love women but wasn't particularly good at interacting with attractive ones. Punting with numerous stunners over the past 2 years, particularly at parties, has taken me a stage further in demystifying the opposite sex.

As others have said the fact that I know that the ultimate prize is available at the end of a phone takes away so much pressure, not in a sneering, imperious way, but just gives you a kind of invincibility and makes it possible to just relax and be the kind of quietly confident man that will naturally attract women. Although I may feel a passion for attractive ladies, the lust doesn't get in the way of the interactions and I've had some favourable responses as a result.

Technique-wise, getting to know a great variety of WGs, their different responses to different stimuli and the open, receptive and non-judgmental way that they work has enabled me to learn very quickly to read all the signals. I've also read a few self-help books to see if there are areas I could improve, as a result of the combination of theory and practice, I feel as if I've become a more perceptive lover and I have every confidence that I could get the best out of any woman sexually, which again makes you feel invincible.

Overall punting has increased my self belief/confidence.

This is borne out when socialising with others. Have noticed more women showing an interest in me as I know when/how to join in and circulate with others.

I'm safe in the knowledge I'm guaranteed a shag at any time in the future just by picking up the phone or logging on to AW. It makes you bolder when you see a hottie in civvy life you want to talk to.

If they tell you to fuck off...no big deal..their loss.  :rose:
Yep, punting has definitely improved my confidence in civvie circles. I love women but wasn't particularly good at interacting with attractive ones. Punting with numerous stunners over the past 2 years, particularly at parties, has taken me a stage further in demystifying the opposite sex.

As others have said the fact that I know that the ultimate prize is available at the end of a phone takes away so much pressure, not in a sneering, imperious way, but just gives you a kind of invincibility and makes it possible to just relax and be the kind of quietly confident man that will naturally attract women. Although I may feel a passion for attractive ladies, the lust doesn't get in the way of the interactions and I've had some favourable responses as a result.

Technique-wise, getting to know a great variety of WGs, their different responses to different stimuli and the open, receptive and non-judgmental way that they work has enabled me to learn very quickly to read all the signals. I've also read a few self-help books to see if there are areas I could improve, as a result of the combination of theory and practice, I feel as if I've become a more perceptive lover and I have every confidence that I could get the best out of any woman sexually, which again makes you feel invincible.

I can identify with these two posts.  I began punting at a bad time for me; I'd never been the most self-confident bloke in the world; it was just over 18 months since we'd lost Mrs R L and I was at a very low ebb.  Subsequently, I went for some counselling and between them, counselling and punting did the trick for me, making me a bloke who's more confident with women and who, today, is much more comfortable with where he is than before he began punting.


As a consequence of having sex with WGs, I find I don't feel the need to engage in flirtatious behaviour with females at work. It's a nice feeling to have that couldn't-give-a-toss-how-much-cleavage-is-spilling-out-of-your-dress attitude. I feel like I'm inside an invisible bubble that protects me from manipulation

Agree with this. Women have a lot more tools in their armoury in the workplace. They can be total unreasonable bitches, then next minute they are throwing strops and turning on the waterworks (its fighting dirty and men couldn't get away with it). It's nice that at least abusing their sexuality is one thing that I can be aloof and indifferent to.

Offline Scarlet_Rose

from the other side....

becoming a WG is giving me confidence.

thanks to the men that PAY me ... i am begining to think 'I am worth it' xxx

Yes and No. I've had a lot of sexual experience but it's all been payed for. I'm not good at dealing with rejection. I don't like drinking and don't go out clubbing much anymore and never really did on a regular basis. Punting for me became an easy way out to avoid possible rejection. So i didn't tackle the real issue and still haven't. Some days i'm more confident then others.

'Sometimes a fake reality is better then a real sadness'

Ravanelli

Yep, punting has definitely improved my confidence in civvie circles. I love women but wasn't particularly good at interacting with attractive ones. Punting with numerous stunners over the past 2 years, particularly at parties, has taken me a stage further in demystifying the opposite sex.

As others have said the fact that I know that the ultimate prize is available at the end of a phone takes away so much pressure, not in a sneering, imperious way, but just gives you a kind of invincibility and makes it possible to just relax and be the kind of quietly confident man that will naturally attract women. Although I may feel a passion for attractive ladies, the lust doesn't get in the way of the interactions and I've had some favourable responses as a result.

Technique-wise, getting to know a great variety of WGs, their different responses to different stimuli and the open, receptive and non-judgmental way that they work has enabled me to learn very quickly to read all the signals. I've also read a few self-help books to see if there are areas I could improve, as a result of the combination of theory and practice, I feel as if I've become a more perceptive lover and I have every confidence that I could get the best out of any woman sexually, which again makes you feel invincible.

Interesting post. I suspect it would have worked this way for me if I'd started punting at a younger age.

Ravanelli

from the other side....

becoming a WG is giving me confidence.

thanks to the men that PAY me ... i am begining to think 'I am worth it' xxx

Yes, the trick for you is to value the confidence it gives but to stay grounded and normal... Assuming you are normal now of course  ;)

Offline tightfoot69

No, I am still aware I look hideous  :(


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