Had this discussion with one of the girls, and she said she had one regular that would see her once or twice a month with the odd text in between etc, then nothing ? So sooner or later we're all going to stop punting , I'd like to think when the time comes I could say good bye and clear all evidence , but if I was to drop dead ( I say drop dead as at my age there's more chance of me dropping dead than leaving the o h for love ! ) well no one would know why we have vanished, just left hanging !