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Author Topic: Overnight what is the etiquette?  (Read 17707 times)

True, but i would be doing my best not to. :lol:

Forget the wine or the Pepsi, get a crate of Red Bull in  :drinks:

Tony Montana

Pay a girl to watch a DVD with you??????

No, I pay* the girl for the sex and the intimacy of sleeping together.  The extra hours watching DVDs, chatting etc I consider free.

* Actually I didn't pay, it was a freebie as she had previously cancelled a couple of times and arrived late.

My next fear. And this one is also daft. Its a ensuite hotel room. (and I appreciate this is so embarrassing to even ask for potential answers) And what happens in the night or in the morning before 8an when she leaves what happens if I wake up and need the loo. Should I try and find a reception loo or what exactly as it can hardly be conductive to a 19 year old my stinking the place out - surely someone else has these concerns than me??

I'm pretty sure girls poo too so don't worry about it.  :thumbsup:
There is no need to try and appear perfect, she wont think any less of you for being a human being.

And before people suggest it. The girl is being booked via an agency (Amour) so cannot liase with her in advance.

Of course you can  ;)

This girl has 'days off' just like everyone else and can do what she likes. Ask her and see what she says, obviously abide with all her security checks so she's happy.
Why give your money to middle men, especially for an overnight rate that's serious punting money. If they won't let you speak with her then they are acting more like pimps than an agency. If you need an excuse just say you wanted to confirm certain services with her.


It will be a booking in a Travelodge and I have read they can be finicky to allow your own devices to work but I was planning on taking either my Apple TV 3 or most likely my Rasberry Pi with XBMC on there and then chucking a 720p Blu-Ray rip of the Princess Bride on there that I have made last week for us to both watch -  its one of my favourite movies. The girl I am wanting to book is 19 so unlikely to have seen it. And its a rather safe movie to watch with a lady. But then again she might think its daft movie as it is rather otherdated from the 80s and soppy.

Watching a film is not really a good idea. That time would be better spent nipping out for something to eat with her and interacting a bit outside to help break the ice for you. Perhaps use those two hours to practise flirting, hold her hand, walk and joke, build your confidence. By the time you get back to the hotel all the touching and teasing will make you want to fuck her brains out. I think that's a better plan of action than having her turn into a starfish after watching the Green Mile in silence for two hours.  ;)

If you are worried about her looking 'too hot' in public just arrange for her to dress down, hair tied back, wear less make up and bring very casual clothes.


From reading your post I think you are more after an overnight GFE rather than 6 hours of continuous sex. And that's ok but overnnights are a long time so you really need to plan them if sex isn't the highest prioirty.



« Last Edit: April 05, 2013, 11:49:10 AM by sucky2dollar »

Offline Nokia10

The overnights I've had were with girls I'd met for more than 1 30minute session. I knew that the overnight would go well as i'd got along with the girls during the previous meetings, had a lot of chat and a fair bit of craic with them. So I knew whatever we did I'd have things to talk about during the non-sexual moments.

We did various things at them - couple of times went for meals, couple of times went to a few bars for a drink and a dance, and then again also stayed in the room with room service, and sat out on the balcony casually drinking wine and chatting (it was a warm evening !).

I usually consider 3 sessions of sex to be quite reasonable for an overnight - once to start with, once before sleeping and then when you wake up before the overnight ends. Times have generally been 14 hours (7pm while 9am or 8pm while 10am) but have been longer once - met at 5pm and ended at 11am (having sex right up until we had to leave the room !) and then I spent rest of day with her, just having lunch and went shopping together...

AnthG - sure you will have a great time but remember - you can plan, but dont overplan, I would probably try and do what others have advised and perhaps have a slightly shorter booking with her first before to get to know her a bit more and to chat to her and maybe get a few ideas what she likes and then you can pick something that you know you both will enjoy and get the best out of your booking... thats the idea

Offline englandfan

I once did an overnight with a girl from Brighton - whos now trying to make it as a porn star i hear......

i was staying in the same hotel and went to her room, and within 30 mins she was slurring her words - ended up fucking for a few hours in various positions but im damn sure she was drugged up to the eyeballs......or very drunk.

any WG that allows anal even though they dont advertise it, either fancies the pants off u, or doesnt know what they are doing. 

Dont get me wrong I had a great time, but after a few hours i felt i was taking advantage, and so being a nice guy, i tucked her up in bed and kissed her goodnight.

Next morning she was apologetic but thanked me for being a gent, said her drink must have been spiked from a punt she'd just had before i saw her.


Offline mh

... after a few hours i felt i was taking advantage,

 :lol:

Are you quite slow on the uptake then? Don't get me wrong, I'm sure I'd have spent a few hours checking too.

Did she sort out your morning glory as a thank you?

Offline englandfan

no to be fair we kept in contact and a few month later gave me a freebie 2 hour session as a thank you

lol - to be fair she was quite chatty for the first couple of hours, but she was then falling asleep !

Offline mh

lol - to be fair she was quite chatty for the first couple of hours, but she was then falling asleep !

A man could get quite upset by someone paid to be shagged falling asleep on the job... It's like the exact opposite of the fake "oh baby you're turning me on so much" you sometimes get as "encouragement"!

Offline englandfan

yes exactly

i convinced myself it was her being drunk / drugged that did it, and not my technique !

shes gone a little pricey now anyway, and advertises that she doesn't do half the things that we did, so i'd always feel like i was missing out if i saw her again

Offline AnthG

Why give your money to middle men, especially for an overnight rate that's serious punting money. If they won't let you speak with her then they are acting more like pimps than an agency. If you need an excuse just say you wanted to confirm certain services with her.
Its not that they wont let me speak to her its more so there are no means to do so when an agency works as an intermediary.

I will ask the agency manager to look over this topic for suggestions on how to best handle the outcall as she is a member here.

https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?action=profile;u=7872

Watching a film is not really a good idea. That time would be better spent nipping out for something to eat with her and interacting a bit outside to help break the ice for you. Perhaps use those two hours to practise flirting, hold her hand, walk and joke, build your confidence. By the time you get back to the hotel all the touching and teasing will make you want to fuck her brains out. I think that's a better plan of action than having her turn into a starfish after watching the Green Mile in silence for two hours.  ;)

Like I say I really do not know. It just seemed like 8hrs was not that long and obviously I will be wanting sex and sleep. So I was not sure on the others for the booking. So I just figured stick a good movie on for the inbetween.

I do not know of much bars/clubs etc around the Silverlink. I know there is a cinema there and possibly a McDonalds. But its hardly a classy place to take a girl.

With regards to people saying I do not really need to impress - or words to those effect. My take on it is, I do not want her counting down the minutes until she can get out of the room. Plus if I was to book again and hoping for a reduced rate. I would want her to enjoy the time with me to offer me that reduced rate. She is not going to do it if she hated every second around my presence.

Offline skittish

I wouldn't go to a bar/club either Anth, how about bowling or something that requires you to be proactive? Personally if someone I didn't know plonked me in front of the TV I'd reward them with my snoring.

Offline AnthG

I wouldn't go to a bar/club either Anth, how about bowling or something that requires you to be proactive? Personally if someone I didn't know plonked me in front of the TV I'd reward them with my snoring.
But an overnight is 8pm to 8am. And I plan it to be on a Sunday. Do bowling alleys open at 8pm on a Sunday?

I *think* there may be a bar at this particular Travellodge itself thinking about it.

Offline skittish

But an overnight is 8pm to 8am. And I plan it to be on a Sunday. Do bowling alleys open at 8pm on a Sunday?

I *think* there may be a bar at this particular Travellodge itself thinking about it.

You'd have to check that out my local one is open til midnight week days and 10pm Sundays

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Its not that they wont let me speak to her its more so there are no means to do so when an agency works as an intermediary.

I will ask the agency manager to look over this topic for suggestions on how to best handle the outcall as she is a member here.

https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?action=profile;u=7872

Like I say I really do not know. It just seemed like 8hrs was not that long and obviously I will be wanting sex and sleep. So I was not sure on the others for the booking. So I just figured stick a good movie on for the inbetween.

I do not know of much bars/clubs etc around the Silverlink. I know there is a cinema there and possibly a McDonalds. But its hardly a classy place to take a girl.

With regards to people saying I do not really need to impress - or words to those effect. My take on it is, I do not want her counting down the minutes until she can get out of the room. Plus if I was to book again and hoping for a reduced rate. I would want her to enjoy the time with me to offer me that reduced rate. She is not going to do it if she hated every second around my presence.

I think a reasonable overnight is minimum 12 hours ( I state on my site that it is negotiable)
Why don't you book a girl for the day instead? No sleeping involved, and no tiredness involved with the service.
I get a few of these day dates and I much prefer it to an overnight.

Offline AnthG

Why don't you book a girl for the day instead? No sleeping involved, and no tiredness involved with the service.
I get a few of these day dates and I much prefer it to an overnight.
As this is not in the rates and servies offered for an overnight

http://www.newcastleescortsagency.co.uk/rates

12hrs (8pm-8am)    £500    £550

£500/£550 is really going to hurt as is, I am not 100% I can even afford that come May. But I will try to afford it. As I am not rich. But I just fancied trying an overnight as a something to scratch off my bucket list. And as a birthday treat to myself. (but then found the girl I wanted to see is not avialable on my Birthday, so it will be a late birthday treat the week later).

Booking it for the day would likely cost way-way more that I could afford. And only afford if I got over 5 numbers on the lottery.

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As this is not in the rates and servies offered for an overnight

http://www.newcastleescortsagency.co.uk/rates

12hrs (8pm-8am)    £500    £550

£500/£550 is really going to hurt as is, I am not 100% I can even afford that come May. But I will try to afford it. As I am not rich. But I just fancied trying an overnight as a something to scratch off my bucket list. And as a birthday treat to myself. (but then found the girl I wanted to see is not avialable on my Birthday, so it will be a late birthday treat the week later).

Booking it for the day would likely cost way-way more that I could afford. And only afford if I got over 5 numbers on the lottery.

I doubt it.
My day rate is only £80 more than an over night.
I am sure other girls  (indies) would do the same.
If you are booking through an agency then yes I may be more expensive.

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Why would day rates be more expensive?  I have two day rates.  One for some sex, then some time out for lunch and another activity and then back for sex until the end of the booking and a rate for sex throughout the whole booking without leaving the apartment and both are lower than my incall overnight rate as all day bookings tend to be a couple of hours shorter than overnight rates.


Offline AnthG

Why would day rates be more expensive? 

As the agency doesn't seem to offer it. Just 24hours for a whopping 1600 for 24 hours outcall. So 12 hours is £550 and 24 is £1,600. But confusingly a 24hr incall is £1000. So for some reason £600 has been added to take the girl out.

I could never, ever afford or justify £1600 for a booking. I would also never pay it even if I could. It is hard justifying the £550 to myself. In an ideal world I would want it 6pm to 8am for £500 on the understanding that I use the first two hours taking her out for a meal and then the final 12 is all in the bedroom. But again not likely going to happen.

The thing is for me I can see the reason and justification for the £100 for an hour. And ~£180-£200 for 2rs and three hours. But when it gets to people wanting oversight's and 24 hours it gets stupid people quoting 500 to a thousand and the like. Its one night of your life. I don't mean to be cruel but escorts are more inclined to meet guysin bars and spend the night. Do they feel, damn I lost out on £1000 for that. Its stupid money.

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Anth if you ask the agency to do it during the day instead of overnight then I doubt they will say no as they will not want to lose their cut of the money.  It makes no difference to them if its day or night and in fact it iwll free her up to take extra bookings in the evening so I am sure they will be happy with the arrangement. 
They probably dont have it on their website as not many guys ask for it.  Try asking.  The worst they can do is say no. 
Mind you then you will need two days in a hotel as most wont let you book in before 2pm in Travelodges and even paying extra for early check in only allows you to check in at 12

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Anth if you ask the agency to do it during the day instead of overnight then I doubt they will say no as they will not want to lose their cut of the money.  It makes no difference to them if its day or night and in fact it iwll free her up to take extra bookings in the evening so I am sure they will be happy with the arrangement. 
They probably dont have it on their website as not many guys ask for it.  Try asking.  The worst they can do is say no. 
Mind you then you will need two days in a hotel as most wont let you book in before 2pm in Travelodges and even paying extra for early check in only allows you to check in at 12
Ibis you can check in at 12. Or a serviced apartment :)

Offline AnthG

Anth if you ask the agency to do it during the day instead of overnight then I doubt they will say no as they will not want to lose their cut of the money.  It makes no difference to them if its day or night

I have linked this topic in a PM to the agency manager earlier on today so when she reads it she can consider this too.

To be honest I am all not too sure on everything. I am just wanting something memorable. And while people consider it a waste of money I was actually looking forward to sleeping with the girl. And by sleeping I mean that as no euphamisms.

To also be honest thinking about it some more I guess the 8 till 8 is probably there expecting some randy guy to want to keep her up all those 12 hours and that is why it is so much.

Offline skittish

I have linked this topic in a PM to the agency manager earlier on today so when she reads it she can consider this too.

To be honest I am all not too sure on everything. I am just wanting something memorable. And while people consider it a waste of money I was actually looking forward to sleeping with the girl. And by sleeping I mean that as no euphamisms.

To also be honest thinking about it some more I guess the 8 till 8 is probably there expecting some randy guy to want to keep her up all those 12 hours and that is why it is so much.

Anth stop worrying about what other people think. You earned your money spend it how you wish. I couldn't give a fuck if others thought I was wasting money I'm not asking them to pay. You've said it's a one off treat it's not like you're a completely deluded numpty.

Offline AnthG

Anth stop worrying about what other people think. You earned your money spend it how you wish. I couldn't give a fuck if others thought I was wasting money I'm not asking them to pay. You've said it's a one off treat it's not like you're a completely deluded numpty.
My reason for saying that was more so as I am thinking when people factored in the cost of these things (i.e all these agencies). They are not expecting guys like me to actually want to sleep during this time.

I am kind of Mr value for money. So am saying it in the hope of getting a long booking for the lowest amount I possibly can. But that is because I do not have a load of money not out of cheek (as people in the past have taken my comments - talking about auto-censored here, nobody here)

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Anth if you are only being charged £550 for 12 hours then you are getting a really good deal and the girl you are seeing is getting a shit rate as she will probably not even see £360 of that rate so I do think the agency and the girl will be expecting plenty of sleep in that time


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