Very sorry I completely forgot I started this thread and never checked back oops
I'm new please forgive me.
The overnight didn't happen so I'm still yet to even do an overnight.
Think I'd have to do it with someone I'd seen before anyway
How nice of you to pop back.
so do tell, now you've used us as a free agony aunt service for a non-exisyent situation, are you intending to contribute at all? Probably not.
My own overnights are always abroad where the cost doesn't equal a new living room suite or holiday to Europe. They are never with someone I haven't short sessioned with. It is almost impossible to know if a prossie is going to be tolerable company, much less worth paying, before sampling her and getting an idea of how well she does what she says she's going to do for you if you don't know each other.
a prossie's first priority once you waft the idea of a money all nighter is, what time will I finish work? In some countries she is more likely to stay over, but it's probably beneath her dignity here, so get that sorted first.
I usually say, so you'll be staying for breakfast? (Unless I know I'll want shot of her). This leads on to, I usually have breakfast at about xxx so we'll have time for some more sex first, right?
In reality, the breakfast thing can be discarded in the morning, she probably won't care and you want her out the way before neighbours/other hotel guests recognise you as someone with a dirty slag, but it fixes the idea if something nice in her mind while you are nailing down times and morning sex.
After she has agreed, you can always sweeten it, of course, you can take a shower or whatever you need (ie that's free haha) before you leave. She probably won't want one, but again it cheers her up into thinking you are Mr NiceGuy
With all that hammered out, fill in the gaps according to what you want. Eg, If we meet at 8pm we can fuck stupid till we're exhausted, order in pizza, then have nice cuddly sex till we pass out. Get her to actually say the word YES (not just nod or give a general ok to your email which she will later claim she only read 'quickly.'