Hi, I'm a 24 year old guy from London.
Just a little backstory: I didn't have a good teenage life, it was filled with problems and bullying, and I spent most of my time alone becoming a musician. I'm over most of my past, I have a good life now, a good career, and great friends and networks, but I guess there are some lingering emotions, and I guess there are some "belief" issues. I am confident, firm, attractive, but also introverted. Not a good combination - Attractive + Introverted = Unapproachable
As a teen, I didn't have a girlfriend, nor have I kissed a girl, but I do desire sex. I think it was also my religious upbringing. I was wondering if you guys could give me some advice in seeking someone. Money is not an issue, and I don't mind how many goes it takes to eff my past out of me. I really need to man up, and that is another reason why I'd like to. I think it'll make me comfortable with being around women as well, and be comfortable in social situations.
My main issue is health. I am overly health conscious and I take it seriously. I would use a condom, but generally, what's the safety like? A lot of the girls offer kissing, and oral sex... so I don't know how to take that all. Could you pro's give me some advice, please?