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Author Topic: I think I might have gone over board - Just how much have I spent?  (Read 5118 times)

Offline A new world

So was sitting down last night trying to work out my next punt and decided while everything is reasonably fresh in my mind to work out how much have I spent in the last two months. I fired up excel and made a list of the ladies I had seen and the cost and was astonished to realise that I had spent £810 in less then 8 weeks. Then I remembered to prior walk in session in Soho totaling £70.

Thankfully Jan and Feb have no council tax and when I got over the shock I picked a girl for this evening. Worst things was I got cancelled on tonight and all I could think about was lining up someone else. Although I failed miserably on that who would have thought it would be so hard to give a way money to have your cock sucked?

It has been a fun few months but I think I need to find a balance of just one or two punts a month or at least find some VFM ones, I am already thinking of one for Friday and one on Sunday, it is like being in a candy store and trying one of everything. One good think has come of this I am eating less takeaway and making more food at home.

Anyone have any good pointers on restraining themselves?

Offline AnthG

It has been a fun few months but I think I need to find a balance of just one or two punts a month or at least find some VFM ones, I am already thinking of one for Friday and one on Sunday, it is like being in a candy store and trying one of everything. One good think has come of this I am eating less takeaway and making more food at home.

Anyone have any good pointers on restraining themselves?
I wouldn't worry about it. It will die down. Like you say you are in the kid in a candy store stage. I was the same when I started. And I think I used the exact same term "kid in a candy store". I never thought I would be able to find moderation with this hobby then too.

How many appointments is too many

I think basically things hit home and you lose your candy store feeling after your first mediocre punt, which will unfortunately invariably come sooner or later. And you realize how much you spent for that mediocre punt. After that moderation seems to come with it.
« Last Edit: March 19, 2013, 10:32:42 PM by AnthG »

Offline zootie

Anyone have any good pointers on restraining themselves?

Get married  :D

Offline cumbrianguy


Anyone have any good pointers on restraining themselves?

Redtube     :drinks:

Offline Urban_G

You just need a bit of self control :timeout
Just do a bit of DIY more often, don't let it get out of hand (no pun intended) so that it becomes an addiction and think about quality based punts rather than quantity.

Offline A new world



How many appointments is too many

I think basically things hit home and you lose your candy store feeling after your first mediocre punt, which will unfortunately invariably come sooner or later. And you realize how much you spent for that mediocre punt. After that moderation seems to come with it.

Interesting read there. I had my first mediocre one on Sunday night and my first reaction was to chill a bit and reflect and space them out. But by the time I hit the sack that night I was already thinking on one for today.

Get married  :D

Been there twice, the second one had so little sex I feel like I have lost time to make up for.

Anyone have any good pointers on restraining themselves?

Redtube     :drinks:

 :blush: Had to go there today as this evenings punt got cancelled and even phoning around I couldn't find anyone else  :dash: Then a voice in my head started saying just knock one out you won't want to punt after that  :dance:
« Last Edit: March 19, 2013, 10:56:54 PM by A new world »

Offline smiths

So was sitting down last night trying to work out my next punt and decided while everything is reasonably fresh in my mind to work out how much have I spent in the last two months. I fired up excel and made a list of the ladies I had seen and the cost and was astonished to realise that I had spent £810 in less then 8 weeks. Then I remembered to prior walk in session in Soho totaling £70.

Thankfully Jan and Feb have no council tax and when I got over the shock I picked a girl for this evening. Worst things was I got cancelled on tonight and all I could think about was lining up someone else. Although I failed miserably on that who would have thought it would be so hard to give a way money to have your cock sucked?

It has been a fun few months but I think I need to find a balance of just one or two punts a month or at least find some VFM ones, I am already thinking of one for Friday and one on Sunday, it is like being in a candy store and trying one of everything. One good think has come of this I am eating less takeaway and making more food at home.

Anyone have any good pointers on restraining themselves?

It all comes down to your own self control obviously but reading punting forums is like an alcoholic going to a pub and craving an alcoholic drink. Just wank to porn is my advice if you really want to cut down on punting.

Offline Lz-129

After a slow start I've now splashed out £700 in the last few weeks, including 3 punts this weekend just gone :scare:

I couldn't help it but now money is getting tight and I've gotta slow down, hope I can lose the candy store feeling soon before its too bloody late

It comes to about £600/mth for me.

But living on my own this equates to the disposable part of my income. Anymore and it starts to hurt. - for the mean time anyway.

Not sure how long my 'candy store' feeling will last though. But, after each time I can't help thinking about the next one...


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« Last Edit: March 20, 2013, 12:10:04 AM by domino999 »

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« Last Edit: March 20, 2013, 01:05:18 AM by joshwinkers »

Offline Urban_G

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Get married  :D

Brilliant, zootie! :lol:  +10

Seriously, this can be as real problem and it's something which you need to nip in the bud early before it gets out of hand.  As the OP indicated, there's a bit extra cash in February & March when there's neither Council Tax nor water rates to pay.  I also wonder whether there's a seasonal factor involved in that, because it's spring, the sap's rising.

I know I've recently spent more than I should on punting but I'm in a different situation from many of you; as a widower in his mid-60s with no kids, I've no family members expecting to inherit anything.  And as I've no ambition to be the richest corpse in the undertakers, I'm enjoying myself at present on this pastime of ours, as anyone who reads my recent contribution to this thread https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=11672.0 will see.

Even so, I know that all the punting I've done recently will have to be curtailed soon or it'll impact on my "Holiday 2013" fund. :thumbsdown: 

So I close by reiterating what I put above, immediately after congratulating zootie on his wit.

Offline A new world

It all comes down to your own self control obviously but reading punting forums is like an alcoholic going to a pub and craving an alcoholic drink. Just wank to porn is my advice if you really want to cut down on punting.

If only, I have been going through a long break up and wanking to porn became almost a daily thing and on a day off more then once. I was permanently horny. Now at least I don't feel the urge to crack one out everyday. But I know what you mean.

Not sure if cam sites are my thing might try out one to see, I remember in the days of freeserve chat when I was in my 20s you could start chatting to a girl and if you got on well a meeting and sex was possible, met my first wife that way.

Hopefully the candy in a store feeling will go soon I went for a 5K run today to get out of the mood but maybe I should have done that before arranging a punt for tomorrow night   :yahoo:

Offline k

Why do people take up hobbies?  Because it makes them feel good and probably does them a lot of good too, health-wise.  Think of a world without music, restaurants, pubs, football, performance cars, etc. and it would be a pretty awful place to live.  Humans need stimulation which is not related to "survival of the fittest" - we have moved away from being hunter gatherers and a pure subsistence existence and these interests, and others are our methods of keeping sane.  Look at football.  How much do people spend on football?  Look at Top Gear - just how much do people spend on cars which has got no relation to the ability of the car to get from a to B, and you will see that punting is not top of the list of "guilty pleasures" that people have.  So go into your Excel spreadsheet, press Alt-F4 and don't think about it anymore... unless of course you live in Manchester and you drive to London in your Ferrari to see all of Chelsea's home games and have every single team member's kit... but then again, if you can afford it, do it.  You can't take it with you when you die, that's for certain.

Offline k

Go into this link and find "Ranking of Authors with 20 or more Field Reports currently online:"
 
http://www.auto-censored.com/frs/fr_stats.php

indianlover has produced 171 field reports since 18 Feb 2005 with the last one dated 14 Feb 2013.  Total declared cost: £21,849.  How many punts has he had that he hasn't reported on?  Feeling any better yet?

EDIT: Lower down it says he's had 223 reports since 28 Jan 2004 at a cost of £28,078.
« Last Edit: March 20, 2013, 09:46:52 PM by k »

Offline A new world

Actually I am not that worried it is only money that would have gone in the bank toward a new car, the ex is getting my beloved Mercedes  :angry:

I am sure in a few months I will be over the spontaneous urge, it would probably help if I didn't live in London where there is just so much choice even by just walking a few street  :dancegirl:

I am probably going to set a limit of no more then 2 punts a month come next payday.

Offline muzzya57

What can you afford is the salient question? I think, nay, I know i have spent , ohh, ( 20 x 10k ) over the years. Using a reasonable discount rate, a quarter of a million. That's quite a lot. And, do , you know, mostly forgettable. But then, I have spent that on restaurants too, also forgettable. My point being, if I have one, is that this is a waste of time, but often quite enjoyable. Not important, not meaningful, often costly but it makes the evenings shorter.
Banning reason: Twat

Offline k

I am probably going to set a limit of no more then 2 punts a month come next payday.
Oh yeah?  Adam, can we have a flying pig emoticon pls?

"Probably" are "come next payday" are a bit vague.  "Will" and "from today" are words used by someone who means business. 

Offline A new world

Oh yeah?  Adam, can we have a flying pig emoticon pls?

"Probably" are "come next payday" are a bit vague.  "Will" and "from today" are words used by someone who means business.

 :D That is how I live my life vague and without promise. Your right more like flying pigs then limiting myself to just two.

Last night I went for a run to get over the urge, I had a fantastic sleep and feel so good this morning. Not sure I can manage 5k each time I am horny although I would lose all this winter weight very quickly.

Offline Lz-129

I am probably going to set a limit of no more then 2 punts a month come next payday.

Best of luck with that, last week I said I'll only punt after Aprils pay day but then I had 3 in the weekend and we havnt even got to April yet! It's a tough game to play

Offline A new world

I just had the most amazing experience this evening I think tonights girl could be very damaging to my wallet and health. Probably the best sex I have ever had.

I just had the most amazing experience this evening I think tonights girl could be very damaging to my wallet and health. Probably the best sex I have ever had.

I apologise if this comes across as more censorious than I intend it to, A n w; but I can't work out what you're trying to tell us in this post.

Your original post, only two days ago, included the following:
Quote
I think I need to find a balance of just one or two punts a month or at least find some VFM ones
and ended with a request for help with restraining your punting, having spent nearly £900 in eight weeks before tonight.

Now you seem to be almost reconciled to your punting being out of control.  Were you serious in your OP, or not?

Offline Secondskin69

Get married  :D

...then you have to pay to keep a frigid wife AND your punting hobby  :thumbsdown:
Banning reason: Making pedophile allegations

Offline A new world

I apologise if this comes across as more censorious than I intend it to, A n w; but I can't work out what you're trying to tell us in this post.

Your original post, only two days ago, included the following:  and ended with a request for help with restraining your punting, having spent nearly £900 in eight weeks before tonight.

Now you seem to be almost reconciled to your punting being out of control.  Were you serious in your OP, or not?

No it was more of a topic of discussion to see if others had the same problem. I will never let this hobby get to a point where I cant pay the bills. With everything in life you go off the rails and indulge a bit. And then you do overtime to make up for it.


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