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Author Topic: Severe caning - waht ever floats your boat.  (Read 1991 times)

Offline advent2016

At the weekend, I was invited by a m8 to a bdsm party, I was to view only. I enjoy a bit of two way spanking, so long as there is a BJ or release, but nothing harder. I know many providers put "no sexual services", like those oriental massage places, there invariably is. What followed was very different.

 I arrived at said venue in North London, and into a room, where this guy, complete with ball gag was tied over a log horse. In came the lady, very slender, and started warming him up with a paddle, then a tawse , then a cane. It looked real, and his ass was really red and messy after 20 strokes. Then she removed his gag, and he had to count each stroke up to 50, in between screams, as some strokes fell on his legs and lower back. There was no sex or relief after, although he did  appear to have ejaculated.

At the venue there was a mixture or men and ladies, most like me 40+

Throughout this , I had to have several strong drinks, as even I found this a bit strange, although this "victim" bloke seemed to enjoy it. He wore a mask throughout. 

Tonight, although I won't be attending, there is to be a 100 and 200 stroke session.

Anyone else been to anything similar?

Offline rogercock00

It is truly bizarre and quite amazing in one respect how different people have different fetishes and fantasies. I have to say that this does nothing for me (receiving a caning) but I have to admit that some of the dominating women, dressed in heels, pencil skirts etc. do make for a horny site - the trouble is, I would want to exact my revenge on them afterwards in a doggy fashion way  :crazy:

Offline dieseldriver

Many years ago when younger and fitter joined a few spanking clubs. Wasn't on the receiving end, but met some lovely girls who were. And some arranged one-to-ones with a HJ at the end. Best encountered was more mature, probably around 60 now, who done one-on-ones in a hotel. Blimey, must be coming on ten years back now?
Got to fuck her doggy after her arse was turned scarlet! These days satisfied with the occasional WG.
However if the OP is interested, Redstripe, Moonglow, and Two Kings hold parties different parts of the UK. Or join Fetlife for more of the BDSM scene and some of what you previously seen...

longballs

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I've been seeing a girl for a couple of months who is really in to BDSM (not a prossie) and she loves bare hand spanking and paddles, but what she enjoys equally as much or possibly more, is the bruises it leaves behind. I find it totally bizarre but I've never seen anyone get wetter than she does when I'm spanking her and telling her well she's taking her correction.

StiffSteve88

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 Some BDSM types are very intense, sometimes against any form of erotica & I've seen them in action, not on my wavelength though. Milder forms include all sorts of role play etc & if the sub likes spanking, then it's adjusted to suit the individual.

 I found the intense BDSM types to be boring & unimaginative, but each to their own. There have been suggestions of serious psychological control going on in some cases, but it's been years since I've seen them in action so cannot comment with any authority on that aspect. Role play, kink & fetish clothing can be lush though.

Offline dieseldriver

I've been seeing a girl for a couple of months who is really in to BDSM (not a prossie) and she loves bare hand spanking and paddles, but what she enjoys equally as much or possibly more, is the bruises it leaves behind. I find it totally bizarre but I've never seen anyone get wetter than she does when I'm spanking her and telling her well she's taking her correction.

Join Fetlife, and browse the pics on members profiles. You'd be surprised the amount of ladies that post pics of their recent spanking/paddling/caning. Bright red asses, bruising, cane marks, welts. Most taken in a club event where it happened.  With the comments beneath the pics usually stating a thank you to the dom what did it, and the lady saying how much she enjoyed it. Other members can also comment on the pic. Another site is Btitishspanking. No need to join. Login as a guest. Look at members albums. Plentiful of both men and women proudly displaying a well thrashed ass!   :wacko:

Offline Belgarion

We all have our kinks but I do not associate pain with pleasure

Not for me at all

Offline Jimmyredcab

We all have our kinks but I do not associate pain with pleasure


There are different degrees of pain.    :hi:

I have seen an extreme caning session carried out, not something I will be trying.  :scare:

Offline Jimmyredcab

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Offline dieseldriver

There are different degrees of pain.    :hi:

I have seen an extreme caning session carried out, not something I will be trying.  :scare:

Like in Lupas and RGE films. Produced in Russia and some eastern block countries. Its mostly MF/FF stuff. Very extreme! Read somewhere the ladies on the receiving end do it for the money?

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Offline S.X. MacHine

 Well, I do have a dominant side which I've been able to express of late with specialist WGs in central Scotland. Now, guess how many submissive WGs are available here? Four. Bloody four. To arrive at the number in England I'd multiply by 10, giving 40 subs south of Gretna. Not a lot.
When I say 'submissive WGs' I'm talking ones who get off on having their arses well marked with implements up to and including the cane. And get off they do!
Doesn't stop me enjoying a vanilla punt too.

Offline Jimmyredcab

Like in Lupas and RGE films. Produced in Russia and some eastern block countries. Its mostly MF/FF stuff. Very extreme! Read somewhere the ladies on the receiving end do it for the money?

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The severe caning that I saw was not a film ------------- this was a tranny caning a man with people walking around drinking and pretty much ignoring them.
This was the venue, first Sunday of the month, £10 entry fee, 5 star venue in The City ----------- no sex takes place.

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Offline dieseldriver

Think I'll stick to antique markets..... :D :D :D

Online Colston36

I have been to several events like this, and I'm curiously unstirred by watching others doing it. In fact I felt vaguely cheated. Why didn't I enjoy it more? However, getting personally involved is different and can be exciting. For some reason, as someone else has commented, there are a LOT of girls who like to be thrashed, and worse - or better from their perspective. I know one very well.

Offline S.X. MacHine

Yes, Colston, I'm one of nature's thrashers. From personal experience, I can say some of my thrashees have gotten more out of their end of the experience than I did. And I bloody loved it!

Online Colston36

Yes, Colston, I'm one of nature's thrashers. From personal experience, I can say some of my thrashees have gotten more out of their end of the experience than I did. And I bloody loved it!

Well you're a lucky sod. There are far more submissive girls than dominant ones.

I feel vaguely cheated. I see one girl regularly who originally said she wanted me to piss on her and cum in her hair, than decided she wanted to dominate me. She has a huge collection of floggers, canes and so on and it's been very interesting but not what I signed up for.

I get the impression most people on here are inclined to fairly straight sex, which doesn't interest me as much as used to. With age comes depravity. Thank goodness.