Thanks for the comments, feedback suggestions, PMs, etc! I can appreciate the viewpoints expressed. I am happy to share my US experiences. Actually, the best experience I've had to date was in Mississauga (next to Toronto, CA) in 2012 with an agency (Torontopassions) and a girl by the name of "Joey". She said she was a teacher from Vermont in the US and spent summers in Canada legally supplementing her salary. First punt ever, good memories. Punting legal there in CA of course. It seems the less restrictions/legal issues, the better the punting experiences.
When I got started back in 2012 most agencies only listed for services simply just "GFE" or "PSE". PSE generally meant what we in the US call BBBJ... which you Brits call OWO, along with things like COB, CIF, a chance of CIM but always an extra fee. My experience, if an agency listed 20 girls, 2 or 3 might offer PSE. By listing only GFE or PSE it leaves all other services vague and protects the agency somewhat from being legally outside the law. Of course that just means all services have to be negotiated once the provider showed up at the hotel room as no one, agencies or independents, will discuss any detail over the phone... again due to the legalities and potential for wiretapping by LEO. The agency/independent girl has to assume I'm a LEO. So this creates a situation where the girl shows up and you then have to negotiate services along with "tips" above and beyond the "appearance fee". Quite insane. Girls do not like outcalls to hotel rooms with a door to an adjoining room as that creates a possibility I could be LEO running a sting for them. I've done one outcall in such a room setup and it happened the person in the next door room was using the deadbolt to hang his ironing on. Every time he would add a hanger you could hear the rattle in my room and the girl would reflectively look up to make sure the door wasn't about to be flung open.
But at the same time... that's the only game in town. Los Angeles, Houston, NYC, Cincinnati, the same business model all over. Going by what I've seen listed on Adultwork and some London agencies and the fine reviews here I might end up paying $5-600 for similar service as a 1/2hr incall which includes a nice outfit + OWO, rotate through a couple positions.
By far the best looking girls are in LA. Lots of young women trying to get into film need work so they can afford to run around to casting calls during the weekdays. And you'll find a lot..almost without exception in my experience, that got their start in the strip clubs out there or in Las Vegas and then "had a friend" who got them into escorting. That helps weed out those that don't really have the looks.
Absolutely no FK/DFK, rimming or fingering. None. By agency girls or independents.
Independents (booked through a site like backpages, usasexguide, craigslist) will likely ask you to text a pic of your junk to prove you're not LEO under the misguided assumption it is illegal for them to do so. And of course if it turns out the incall is actually a sting op, if you do follow through by sending the pic you have now exposed yourself to prosecution even if you end up not showing up as courts take the view have now expressed intent. I've never done an incall. Every attempt has had flags all over it. I would't even consider it in the US now unless through an agency and even they will assume you want outcall by default. No discount for an incall.
Generally a 1 hr appointment is the shortest available. Independents who do incall will advertise a shorter app but due to the legal issues I've never tried - and have no desire to find out. A 1hr appointment means you get to blow your load once. If you want to have a 2nd round, you need to extend an hour... even if it only took 15 minutes to hit the mark the 1st time. I had to edit my post to add this in... but if you go to any of the US-focused sites like the ones mentioned earlier, the whole 2nd round in a standard 1 hr booking is a mythical fable.. I don't think anyone has experienced it and any reviews of any girls that say otherwise are guaranteed fake.
I've punted 9 times, and had good experiences on 4. 1 was so-so. After reading through this site and some of the experiences posted I figure you gents would probably rate my "good" experiences around a 6/10. There are some phenomenal reviews out here.
What else can I answer?
Thanks to all,