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Hi everyone,

New here.

I want to get started with my first punt (body to body massage) but I'm quite insecure and feeling apprehensive. I'm completely clean, healthy and hygienic - however I have acne and acne scars all over my back. I also have eczema on my neck and elbow, and am extremely hair. It all just doesn't look very flattering and may give someone who doesn't have (context) on these issues the impression that I don't take care of myself. Which makes me nervous only because its the furthest thing from the truth.

Do you think escorts would care about this? Especially those that offer body to body services ?

Thanks

Offline rathbone

I think most folk are a bit apprehensive the first time they approach an escort (I certainly was) - if you're particularly concerned about acne scars or similar, you could mention it when you make the booking although there's probably a lot of truth in the saying that escorts will have "seen it all" already, so should be discerning enough to distinguish harmless scars from something more serious.

Offline NigelF

I think most folk are a bit apprehensive the first time they approach an escort (I certainly was) - if you're particularly concerned about acne scars or similar, you could mention it when you make the booking although there's probably a lot of truth in the saying that escorts will have "seen it all" already, so should be discerning enough to distinguish harmless scars from something more serious.

This.

At worst, you might surprise a newbie. The fact is these girls are used to seeing all sorts of naked men and have seen plenty of them. Bad acne and bad eczema are par for the course. Also, the main factor they use to determine whether you look after yourself is simply if you smell bad and so on that front you should be fine. They'd much rather you than a smelly client (who aren't that uncommon).
« Last Edit: October 12, 2016, 09:57:39 PM by NigelF »

Offline Malvolio

Just think about how many men a WG will have seen in the course of her job.  You are not going to be the most repulsive individual she has seen naked - this is something you shouldn't worry about.

Offline kingsland

I'm a hairy git with eczema too, never has a WG bothered about it.


Don't worry about it just go for it. The first I ever saw a WG she seemed to sense the fact and said 'you won't have anything I haven't seen before'. And that will go for pretty much ever WG.

Also, in my experience, a lot of the time you'll find that they have dimmed the lights so low to hide their own imperfections that they may not even see it.

As long as you have good hygiene and are not stinky they usually don't mind.  :hi:

Offline madmania

Hi everyone,

New here.

I want to get started with my first punt (body to body massage) but I'm quite insecure and feeling apprehensive. I'm completely clean, healthy and hygienic - however I have acne and acne scars all over my back. I also have eczema on my neck and elbow, and am extremely hair. It all just doesn't look very flattering and may give someone who doesn't have (context) on these issues the impression that I don't take care of myself. Which makes me nervous only because its the furthest thing from the truth.

Do you think escorts would care about this? Especially those that offer body to body services ?

Thanks

For what its worth man I'm an overweight/obese, balding, small penis, limp dicked guy with bad scarring and 2 colostomy bags and I have yet to have an issue :lol:

In my experience as long as you are open and honest, as well as clean and respectful, most WG's are happy to see you.

If you are particularly worried you can let them know before you book that you have eczema and was this okay with them? From what I've heard though they have seen it all and even im not the worst they've had so I'm sure you'll be fine buddy!

Don't worry about the nerves, be yourself and have fun no matter what  :thumbsup:
« Last Edit: October 17, 2016, 09:48:07 PM by madmania »

Offline MrClive

Hi everyone,

New here.

I want to get started with my first punt (body to body massage) but I'm quite insecure and feeling apprehensive. I'm completely clean, healthy and hygienic - however I have acne and acne scars all over my back. I also have eczema on my neck and elbow, and am extremely hair. It all just doesn't look very flattering and may give someone who doesn't have (context) on these issues the impression that I don't take care of myself. Which makes me nervous only because its the furthest thing from the truth.

Do you think escorts would care about this? Especially those that offer body to body services ?

Thanks

Ive had similar issues to you in the past. For excessive body hair I use a beard/body hair trimmer. Bit of a hassle but only have to do it once every few weeks. Works well for me.

For acne on the back, a combination of 3 things worked wonders for me:

1) Diet. I cut down on dairy mainly. But excessive sugar apparently also is a factor. Took me years to realise this.
2) Wash bedsheets regularly (every two weeks if possible)
3) Shower twice per day and use a shower gel that contains Benzoyl Peroxide, preferably high in strength (10%). Wouldn't know if this may affect your eczema mind.

Thanks for all the tips guys! I really appreciate the kind words.

@MrClive, I've tried all that. Back acne is still horrible. The only thing I haven't tried is completely cutting out dairy and sugar.


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