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Offline BriWizzle

So, since the escort that I see regularly won't be available this week to me, I thought that I should arrange a meeting with another escort I've seen previously. So I text her to see if she was available and to be my surprise, she basically refused just because I was seeing someone else. Looks like she has been reading my feedback and the escort I've been seeing regularly feedback too. This was the first time that an escort has declined meeting you but oh well, I'm definitely only seeing one escort now.

Has anyone else been declined by an escort before?

Offline mh

So, since the escort that I see regularly won't be available this week to me, I thought that I should arrange a meeting with another escort I've seen previously. So I text her to see if she was available and to be my surprise, she basically refused just because I was seeing someone else. Looks like she has been reading my feedback and the escort I've been seeing regularly feedback too. This was the first time that an escort has declined meeting you but oh well, I'm definitely only seeing one escort now.

Has anyone else been declined by an escort before?

To answer your question, no and if a girl refused me for seeing someone else, I'd see someone else!

I assume she is not seeing other punters either then, in this exclusive arrangement...?  :sarcastic:

Offline BriWizzle

To answer your question, no and if a girl refused me for seeing someone else, I'd see someone else!

I assume she is not seeing other punters either then, in this exclusive arrangement...?  :sarcastic:

Haha, maybe it was my fault since I did put that the escort I've been seeing was the best escort I've seen. Sorry for being honest!  :rolleyes: :sarcastic:

Offline James999

she basically refused just because I was seeing someone else.

She may have told you that so as not to offend you, the reality is you probably freaked her out, had bad hygeine, scared her, came accross like a stalker, were just weird or something like that, pro$$ies don;'t turn away ££££££££££ without good reason  :hi:

Offline mh

She may have told you that so as not to offend you, the reality is you probably freaked her out, had bad hygeine, scared her, came accross like a stalker, were just weird or something like that, pro$$ies don;'t turn away ££££££££££ without good reason  :hi:

Or she could be a bunny boiler...

Offline Dani

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She may have told you that so as not to offend you, the reality is you probably freaked her out, had bad hygeine, scared her, came accross like a stalker, were just weird or something like that, pro$$ies don;'t turn away ££££££££££ without good reason  :hi:

All of the above or you have negative comments from someone else in your notes section since you last saw her and she has decided to not risk it.

I have heard of escorts refusing to see a client for visitng girls who offer BB but never just because he saw another girl.  After all even if she was upset you saw someone else she would still want your money wouldnt she
« Last Edit: March 11, 2013, 05:32:13 PM by Dani »

Offline BriWizzle

All of the above or you have negative comments from someone else in your notes section since you last saw her and she has decided to not risk it.

I have heard of escorts refusing to see a client for visitng girls who offer BB but never just because he saw another girl.  After all even if she was upset you saw someone else she would still want your money wouldnt she

If I was that bad, she wouldn't have seen me more than once before, surely? I have no negative comments on my profile either.




Offline James999

If I was that bad, she wouldn't have seen me more than once before, surely? I have no negative comments on my profile either.

It's easy for you to make the events suit your agenda now, the reality is you did something that has pissed her off, perhaps you saw her a few times and she thougth you were weird / stalker type, whatever reason it is it won't be you seeing another pro$$ie, but I can appreciate how your ego would like that to be the case  :hi:

Offline BriWizzle

It's easy for you to make the events suit your agenda now, the reality is you did something that has pissed her off, perhaps you saw her a few times and she thougth you were weird / stalker type, whatever reason it is it won't be you seeing another pro$$ie, but I can appreciate how your ego would like that to be the case  :hi:

Ha, funny. If she thought I was weird then fair enough, but the last contact I had with her was in January. So yeah. She did seem to be upset with the "best escort" comment though considering that's what she put in her text.

But hey, looks like you don't believe me anyway.

Offline Dani

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If I was that bad, she wouldn't have seen me more than once before, surely? I have no negative comments on my profile either.

You cant see the notes on your profile only escorts can.  Perhaps as I said the new girl put the notes on so this girl read them and then refused to see you again.  After all none of us know if you have any and if you do what they say.

f used properly they are great for protecting us against those who we would not want to risk seeing and are less likely to be as false as feedback as punters cant read them although I guess some girls will abuse them to try and keep other girls from seeing a well paying client most will use them properly

I know I will never ignore them again as I did once and ended up with a very nasty stalker

Offline James999

Ha, funny. If she thought I was weird then fair enough, but the last contact I had with her was in January. So yeah. She did seem to be upset with the "best escort" comment though considering that's what she put in her text.

But hey, looks like you don't believe me anyway.

What do you want me to say "Wow you sound terrific, I can appreciate how a pro$$ie will give up seeing you (and charging you for doing so) as you have been unfaithful and seen another girl, you are such a loss to a girl I can understand why she has done this, in fact you are so great I am surprised you even have to pay for sex"

As outlined above, you probably freaked her out for some reason and she wont see you, even if you pay to see her (Ouch that must dent your ego)  if you don't want to hear the truth don't post the question  :dash:

Offline BriWizzle

You cant see the notes on your profile only escorts can.  Perhaps as I said the new girl put the notes on so this girl read them and then refused to see you again.  After all none of us know if you have any and if you do what they say.

f used properly they are great for protecting us against those who we would not want to risk seeing and are less likely to be as false as feedback as punters cant read them although I guess some girls will abuse them to try and keep other girls from seeing a well paying client most will use them properly

I know I will never ignore them again as I did once and ended up with a very nasty stalker

I apologise, I thought you meant the feedback since I didn't know about the notes. I don't know whether or not the new girl did put notes on but I'm planning on seeing her again and I have seen her a few times already.

Was the stalker arrested, by the way?

Offline BriWizzle

What do you want me to say "Wow you sound terrific, I can appreciate how a pro$$ie will give up seeing you (and charging you for doing so) as you have been unfaithful and seen another girl, you are such a loss to a girl I can understand why she has done this, in fact you are so great I am surprised you even have to pay for sex"

As outlined above, you probably freaked her out for some reason and she wont see you, even if you pay to see her (Ouch that must dent your ego)  if you don't want to hear the truth don't post the question  :dash:

You can say anything you want, I just wondered whether or not other people have experienced the same situation, that's all. Ha yeah, it really dented my ego. Oh, the pain.

Offline James999

Who is the Pro$$ie who won't see you ?

Who is the other pro$$ie who you said was the best sex ever ?

Offline CatBBW

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I actually have heard of some silly bitches getting all jealous about punters seeing other prozzies, and refusing future bookings. I couldn't give a shit if my regs see other ladies, I hope they have loads of fun!

Some WGs do forget that it's not a DATE and the PUNTER is PAYING for no strings and to be able to walk away at the end of the appointment.

Offline Dani

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Now I know I am unwell as I am again agreeing with James.

We often see a punter and he leaves good feedback then he sees someone else and leaves her better feedback but then books us again.  The fact that you wanted to see her again shows she must be good so there is no way she would refuse just because you saw someone else.  Unless of course she is mentally unstable and you are her only client but then she would really need your money so would agree anyway.

Perhaps you think your bookings are great but perhaps she or the other girl thought you were a bit freaky?  perhaps as I said it is on your notes.  perhaps she is using this as a politer excuse than saying no way you are a freak as she is worried you may cause her problems. 

Sometimes you may think your meet was great but she may well have a different version of it.

Ill give you a scenario of why I refused a client who thought we got on fantastically.

Everytime we met he would say things like you really miss me dont you, you want me as your boy toy dont you, Im your fav client arent I?
Now once or twice this can be ignored but said a lot gets quite freaky and scarey and leads to a booking being refused next time.  He could not understand why I refused him as he knew (his words) that we connected on so many levels and both loved our time together.  In the end I had to explain out last meeting was spent with gritted teeth so I did not actually honestly reply to his unending quiestions about how much I adored him.

So although you probably wont have said any of that (unless you are insane) things that you did or said that you thought were ok may not be taken that way by her.

Offline smiths

So, since the escort that I see regularly won't be available this week to me, I thought that I should arrange a meeting with another escort I've seen previously. So I text her to see if she was available and to be my surprise, she basically refused just because I was seeing someone else. Looks like she has been reading my feedback and the escort I've been seeing regularly feedback too. This was the first time that an escort has declined meeting you but oh well, I'm definitely only seeing one escort now.

Has anyone else been declined by an escort before?

I punt anonymously so this wouldnt happen nowadays, but i have experienced WGs in group flats in particular getting the hump because i decided to punt with one or more of their colleagues. Obviously totally stupid on a WGs part, she is sucking and fucking any Tom, Dick and Harry but concerns herself with my business, fuck that shit. I punt with who suits me.

Offline smiths

I actually have heard of some silly bitches getting all jealous about punters seeing other prozzies, and refusing future bookings. I couldn't give a shit if my regs see other ladies, I hope they have loads of fun!

Some WGs do forget that it's not a DATE and the PUNTER is PAYING for no strings and to be able to walk away at the end of the appointment.

Some punters forget as well, although its delusion in their cases, treating punting like dating. Up to them of course, but i view them as massive tools.

Offline BriWizzle

I actually have heard of some silly bitches getting all jealous about punters seeing other prozzies, and refusing future bookings. I couldn't give a shit if my regs see other ladies, I hope they have loads of fun!

Some WGs do forget that it's not a DATE and the PUNTER is PAYING for no strings and to be able to walk away at the end of the appointment.

I agree with you Catherine! That's all I wanted to know, I thought I was the only one.

Now I know I am unwell as I am again agreeing with James.

We often see a punter and he leaves good feedback then he sees someone else and leaves her better feedback but then books us again.  The fact that you wanted to see her again shows she must be good so there is no way she would refuse just because you saw someone else.  Unless of course she is mentally unstable and you are her only client but then she would really need your money so would agree anyway.

Perhaps you think your bookings are great but perhaps she or the other girl thought you were a bit freaky?  perhaps as I said it is on your notes.  perhaps she is using this as a politer excuse than saying no way you are a freak as she is worried you may cause her problems. 

Sometimes you may think your meet was great but she may well have a different version of it.

Ill give you a scenario of why I refused a client who thought we got on fantastically.

Everytime we met he would say things like you really miss me dont you, you want me as your boy toy dont you, Im your fav client arent I?
Now once or twice this can be ignored but said a lot gets quite freaky and scarey and leads to a booking being refused next time.  He could not understand why I refused him as he knew (his words) that we connected on so many levels and both loved our time together.  In the end I had to explain out last meeting was spent with gritted teeth so I did not actually honestly reply to his unending quiestions about how much I adored him.

So although you probably wont have said any of that (unless you are insane) things that you did or said that you thought were ok may not be taken that way by her.


Fair enough if that is what the escort thinks, but did she need to mention about the new escort?

Wow, that does sound freaky. I understand why you did refuse to meet him again then. I really don't know what I have said to her that may have offended her though.

Offline NIK

Only ever been refused by the sisterhood.

Not that I've ever tried to book them, but they told me they wouldn't let me.  :cry:

Never been refused by a proper prossy, cos I'm lovely.  :dancegirl:

Offline lovingfacials

Bri,

I wouldnt worry or over analyse it, just move on, if she dont want to see you, there are plenty who will...........

Offline Mystique46m

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Bri,

I wouldnt worry or over analyse it, just move on, if she dont want to see you, there are plenty who will...........

+1

Offline haystacks79

Never been refused so far; quite the opposite, I've had suggestions of others they think I'd like. And I'm pretty sure that wasn't because they wanted to stop me seeing them!

Offline AnthG

She may have told you that so as not to offend you, the reality is you probably freaked her out, had bad hygeine, scared her, came accross like a stalker, were just weird or something like that, pro$$ies don;'t turn away ££££££££££ without good reason  :hi:
I have often been fearful that I have caused this. And everytime I have asked for advice on this it has always been I am just being paranoid. So will say the same to BriWizzle now.

But it would be interesting/revealing instead of paraphrasing, posting up the full text you received. Maybe you are reading stuff into it all - we all do it. Did she actually say, no I wont see you as you have seen someone else.

Or did she say something along the lines of, no I cannot see you as I am busy.

I say this as some escorts have very little customer relations skills and will just say, nope sorry busy. As opposed to putting any positive spin to it.

Offline BriWizzle

I have often been fearful that I have caused this. And everytime I have asked for advice on this it has always been I am just being paranoid. So will say the same to BriWizzle now.

But it would be interesting/revealing instead of paraphrasing, posting up the full text you received. Maybe you are reading stuff into it all - we all do it. Did she actually say, no I wont see you as you have seen someone else.

Or did she say something along the lines of, no I cannot see you as I am busy.

I say this as some escorts have very little customer relations skills and will just say, nope sorry busy. As opposed to putting any positive spin to it.

The full text was "Why isn't the best escort available to you?" so she didn't really refuse but I presume that she didn't want to see me anyway.


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