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Offline EnglishRebecca121

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Offline happyguy48

Are these girls English or Foreign prossies looking to marry you for your passport especially now after the brexit vote?
I think the common word for these ladies are predators. They tell you what you want to hear and then you start helping them out with their finances. I hope I am wrong, even just once.  :thumbsup:

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quote "And yes, plenty of WGs will see you as some kind of meal ticket or way out of the business. It's hard to explain such a big gap in your CV isn't it?

grrrr why do you all think none of us have a day job pay taxes etc really gets my back up

I didn't say all of you, but let's be real, the vast majority of escorts either don't have a regular job because they're lazy and 'full time' escort, don't pay taxes on their WG earnings, or couldn't do any job but minimum wage-& if you've spent all day on your feet doing minimum wage, you don't want 19 stone, 70yo sweaty bob humping you for a couple of hours.
Those WGs who actually do a proper job, and just Escort part-time (and actually pay tax on the money they earn from Escorting) are a miniscule minority.

Offline happyguy48

It does happen ....

I dated a client for almost 2 years recently and am out on a date with one this weekend ....

I find it easier to date a man who i dont have to hide my 2nd "job" from

we are humans as well and some of us want to be loved " :kiss:
Good for you  :rose:

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A simple test will always work.

Ask them to see you for free and you'll see how much they love you.

Thats pretty much the acid test.

The look on their face or response will hit home the cold hard truth.

Offline Murray Mint

I’ve known 3 WGs over the years who have fallen in love with one of their punters.

One had married him, and was still working. A second was about to get married. I actually met him with her in a threesome. I heard that she did marry, with another WG as her matron of honour, and sailed off into the sunset. The third left her husband for a punter, although from what she told me it was a pretty flaky marriage anyway.

So it's not that uncommon.

Offline bangstick


I did date an escort I used to see, and as English Rebecca says, she was a real person and very different from her work persona - in fact she felt really nervous having sex out of character the first time, go figure.

She did have her own issues which forced us to split, but it was nothing job related - I couldn't care less in that respect, in fact it would have been arrogant of me to cast judgement especially as it was the way we'd met to start with!
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Offline Sdk5000

It does happen ....

I dated a client for almost 2 years recently and am out on a date with one this weekend ....

I find it easier to date a man who i dont have to hide my 2nd "job" from

we are humans as well and some of us want to be loved " :kiss:

I love this, well said.

Offline AVGscot

Not daft enough to have fallen in love with a prossie but I have gotten on really well with some and felt some sort of connection so can understand it happening both ways.
•One 2hr meet with a tourer turned into 7hrs, lots of talking and shagging.
•Met the same woman 3 times before she changed location. First meet an hour paid, second meet an hour paid turned into an overnight, third meet was a free overnight all I had to pay for was the chinky.
•Started seeing a girl regularly my age, get on well always go well over time. Even got a drunken booty call from her.

Guess I passed the test of free sex so they must like me but obviously I'm not going anywhere further with someone who gobbles dick for money but I am gonna keep being a bastard and take advantage of it when it happens  :cool: :dance:

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Interestingly, I've had my best sex since reaching 50, both with civvies and wg's, so we don't all become hideous after that age.

I have one 26 year old who regularly contacts me and wants to meet and this has lasted for over two years, so there is life after 50 as many of us know!

SM

Offline NIK

Has anyone else had problems where a girl that you've met a few times has fallen in love with you..?

Being totally honest, a long time ago, one girl I met fell in love with me, quit escorting, moved in, we made plans to marry, etc. It fell through in the end as I couldn't forgive her past - and she couldn't forget it easily either.

So, since then, I've tried to keep punting as a hobby... definitely not somewhere to find love.

But... recently, this year, I've had 2 different girls tell me that they've fallen for me ... I like them - but would never take it any further. It's hugely annoying because I really enjoy my time with each of these girls, the things we do together are incredible... but now I feel like I'll have to stop seeing them. One of them I already told a few months back that I wanted to keep things professional ... she's quite well known in the North East, although originally she's from Poland, so that would cause problems for me anyway - eg. what if one of my friends recognises her  :scare: .. right now, since I'm doing quite well in the non-punting scene, I'm thinking that I'll just stop seeing both and scrap my "burner" phone for a new one ... just to stop the hassle ..

It's definitely happening more now that I'm 40. These girls do seem to like my age group - they often spend their time complaining about the younger guys and their 5-seconds-of-passion and the older guys with their disgusting teeth/skin/smells/etc... so hopefully the problem will just go away when I'm 50 so that I can just concentrate on enjoying this hobby...

Anyone else had this problem..? How do you deal with it?

Had it hundreds of times. That's why I've stopped punting.  :rolleyes:

will-ow

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I once had a WG tell me she loved me, but it ended up with a lot of crying and her basically trying to get me to pay her rent. No no no! :angry:

Offline bobdavid

It's kinda funny that everyone thinks escorts/prossies are only interested in money from life ... compared to, say, bankers, politicians, accountants, plumbers, electricians, beauticians or unemployed/unemployable loafers...  :lol:

I'm obviously just as guilty of this as others, given that I've admitted above that I'd never (again) have a relationship with one, but it is amazing that lots of punters still seem to think of prossies as second-class citizens - even though it's US that's paying THEM ...  :angry:


Offline maxxblue

I once had a WG tell me she loved me, but it ended up with a lot of crying and her basically trying to get me to pay her rent. No no no! :angry:

Why were you crying?  :unknown:

Offline Turtle Z


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It's kinda funny that everyone thinks escorts/prossies are only interested in money from life ... compared to, say, bankers, politicians, accountants, plumbers, electricians, beauticians or unemployed/unemployable loafers...  :lol:

I'm obviously just as guilty of this as others, given that I've admitted above that I'd never (again) have a relationship with one, but it is amazing that lots of punters still seem to think of prossies as second-class citizens - even though it's US that's paying THEM ...  :angry:

Are you saying that punters should be considered second-class to whores? Seems a bit against the ethos of this site.

Anyway, it's not just prossies who are interested in money, but women in general; they care mainly about resources.

Offline bobdavid

Are you saying that punters should be considered second-class to whores? Seems a bit against the ethos of this site.

Anyway, it's not just prossies who are interested in money, but women in general; they care mainly about resources.

Yep, re: women generally I can totally agree - though there are still exceptions of course. And no, I'm not saying that we should be considered second-class... just that I don't believe that all whores/escorts are second-class to other women in all cases. Perhaps in a lot of cases, yeah, but I've met genuinely nice/decent escorts too.

bod666

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Jesus Christ escorts aren't aliens! They're women (& people) with feelings and all the random shit that goes with being a person. We pay them to pretend to like us for a period of time. Some of them will be very good at pretending and some of them (Romanians) not so much.

I don't look down on escorts like I don't look down on a cleaner, or the girls that work at tescos.

All people, got some nice ones and got some twats like you will with any generic group.

I personally prefer a punt if i can like the girl I'm seeing, I try to avoid those who appear to be up themselves or seem to have other traits I don't like.

I suppose this is what differentiates those of us who are a bit fluffy from the pump and dump crowd.

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Yep, re: women generally I can totally agree

AWALT

All women are like that

Online RedKettle

Jesus Christ escorts aren't aliens! They're women (& people) with feelings and all the random shit that goes with being a person. We pay them to pretend to like us for a period of time. Some of them will be very good at pretending and some of them (Romanians) not so much.

I don't look down on escorts like I don't look down on a cleaner, or the girls that work at tescos.

All people, got some nice ones and got some twats like you will with any generic group.

I personally prefer a punt if i can like the girl I'm seeing, I try to avoid those who appear to be up themselves or seem to have other traits I don't like.

I suppose this is what differentiates those of us who are a bit fluffy from the pump and dump crowd.

Agree with this completely - well done for having the nerve to post it, I must admit I hesitated.....

I have got more cynical about WGs over time and would always question motive if they were being friendly outside the paid relationship.  However as you say they are just people and frankly their life choice is not that bad, it is not as if they are bashing people over the head and robbing them.  I take at face value albeit with some caution (like punting name, phone) applied.

Offline bobdavid

All women are like that

Strongly disagree. Back when I was bedding Deborah Meaden, when she was a millionairess, she definitely wasn't interested in my money ... it was all about my massive c---.

Back in reality, though, I still hope you're wrong.

will-ow

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Why were you crying?  :unknown:

oh no i wasn't!! she was!! she kept trying to manipulate me, feel sorry for her etc.

Online badsin

As one of the previous posts, whilst it's free - fill your boots :hi:

Obviously keeps your wits about you, and disengage if needed!

Also, as mentioned on the thread, we pay to walk away :hi:

Offline EnglishRebecca121

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Are you saying that punters should be considered second-class to whores? Seems a bit against the ethos of this site.

Anyway, it's not just prossies who are interested in money, but women in general; they care mainly about resources.

such a bloke thing to say  :(
your clearly not meeting the right women !
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Jesus Christ escorts aren't aliens! They're women (& people) with feelings and all the random shit that goes with being a person. We pay them to pretend to like us for a period of time. Some of them will be very good at pretending and some of them (Romanians) not so much.

I don't look down on escorts like I don't look down on a cleaner, or the girls that work at tescos.

All people, got some nice ones and got some twats like you will with any generic group.

I personally prefer a punt if i can like the girl I'm seeing, I try to avoid those who appear to be up themselves or seem to have other traits I don't like.

I suppose this is what differentiates those of us who are a bit fluffy from the pump and dump crowd.

well said that man!
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Offline stevedave

Jesus Christ escorts aren't aliens! They're women (& people) with feelings and all the random shit that goes with being a person. We pay them to pretend to like us for a period of time. Some of them will be very good at pretending and some of them (Romanians) not so much.

I don't look down on escorts like I don't look down on a cleaner, or the girls that work at tescos.

All people, got some nice ones and got some twats like you will with any generic group.

I personally prefer a punt if i can like the girl I'm seeing, I try to avoid those who appear to be up themselves or seem to have other traits I don't like.

I suppose this is what differentiates those of us who are a bit fluffy from the pump and dump crowd.

On the whole, I agree bod, very sensible post.

I'd say, of the girls I've met (in the last year or so - memories of my previous punting life are hazy)  there are probably two or three that I'd say I've got on with, well enough to chit chat about real life - both of us.

It's the exception not the norm, but they aren't machines at the end of the day.

Neal69

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I have actually enjoyed my punting experience.

Sex has on the whole been good and I have met some great women.

Yes I know we pay to walk away and we had better not forget that but meeting some genuinely interesting women has added a bit extra for my whole experience and has added to my already high regard for "The Profession".

Yes of course there is a down side but on the whole it has been a great ride . Pun intended.

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Back on topic.

No I have never to my knowledge has a WG fall in love with me.  It then I suppose because I am over 50 I am bald, smelly and have no teeth.

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A lot of simple truths in this thread I guess  :hi:

I don't particularly enjoy rushed meets and prefer WGs who can actually converse. There's something sexy about a bright woman who is the traditional lady in the street and slut between the sheets  :thumbsup:

I can't say that any have ever fallen in love but yes, I have had the freebies (just good business sense on their part maybe??) and met WG's who have left AW and moved on but kept in touch.

None have stung my wallet but yeah they've had a nice meal maybe and I've had my fun as a result - as kind of civvie mates I suppose.

Humans do human stuff - just the way of the world and as long as everyone is happy why worry.

I suspect that may not be entirely the case for many WGs, as they'll want you for a reason, maybe security issues or something other than cash in the basic sense. Love??? hmmm I must admit I doubt it happens often though OP.


Offline Turtle Z

Jesus Christ escorts aren't aliens! They're women (& people) with feelings and all the random shit that goes with being a person. We pay them to pretend to like us for a period of time. Some of them will be very good at pretending and some of them (Romanians) not so much.

I don't look down on escorts like I don't look down on a cleaner, or the girls that work at tescos.

All people, got some nice ones and got some twats like you will with any generic group.

I personally prefer a punt if i can like the girl I'm seeing, I try to avoid those who appear to be up themselves or seem to have other traits I don't like.

I suppose this is what differentiates those of us who are a bit fluffy from the pump and dump crowd.

I find this post slightly ridiculous, but only from the perspective that someone felt the need to say it.

bod666

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I find this post slightly ridiculous, but only from the perspective that someone felt the need to say it.

Meh  :hi:

Offline Plan R

I wish I had your problems OP
Reminds of the Warren Zevon song in which he invites the listener to pity him... (Poor Poor Pitiful Me)

Poor, poor pitiful me
Poor, poor pitiful me
These young girls won't let me be
Lord have mercy on me
Woe is me


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Offline Garden69

No disrespect intended to the OP but I'm sure I recall seeing a very similar post sometime back. It therefore has a ring of Jackanory to it. Unless that is, it's a coincidence and many WG are affected that way !

Offline bobdavid

No disrespect intended to the OP but I'm sure I recall seeing a very similar post sometime back. It therefore has a ring of Jackanory to it. Unless that is, it's a coincidence and many WG are affected that way !

Jackanory?!? Because someone posted a similar story?

How about: "Met the girl, I licked her out, she came, we fucked, she was amazed at my massive dick, I came, I came again, and then I came a third time all over her face and breasts." :wacko:

Offline Garden69

It was my opinion, sorry if I caused offence - that was not my intention. I will attempt to find the previous similar post (not quite sure how I'll be able to do that). But unless I was dreaming it was strikingly similar - got married, she couldn't forget her past, i couldn't trust her, ended in divorce etc etc.

Fair play to you, must be something in your looks and personality that makes you good marriage material   :thumbsup:

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Never going to happen... I am amazed those that have seen me have managed to control their gag reflex enough at the sight of me to perform the act. ROFL

can see it happening either way though, especially if you see them more than once.

Offline Gordon Bennett

No way falling in love! Absolutely ridiculous... I'd be fuming. Likelihood of SP falling for me is negligible but I still make sure I maintain boundaries. I never overstay, never message outside of making bookings and decline any offer to join them socially no matter how innocuous it sounds. I just don't understand why any guy would allow things to creep beyond paid for bookings. Doesnt reflect well on SP either - they're supposed to be professional.

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" Doesnt reflect well on SP either - they're supposed to be professional."

yes but we are human ..... :unknown:
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Offline fairfield

Gotta be one of funniest topics in a long time, given in my limited experience once the 'paperwork' is over most wgs can hardly stand to be in the same room.
How the other half lives. Plz keep the posts coming.

Bobby, you got a goose that lays golden eggs? or just a pipe that leads rats out of town? (anyway it certainly charms the pro$$ies)?  You are one lucky so-and-so.   But ....
...... And no, I'm not saying that we should be considered second-class... just that I don't believe that all whores/escorts are second-class to other women in all cases. Perhaps in a lot of cases, yeah, but I've met genuinely nice/decent escorts too.
....really think you got it right first time. Bcs again most wgs i've come across, don't regard punters even as 2nd class citizens - just something that crawled out from under the nearest rock.  You really are Mr Lucky.
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Offline doughboy

Loving this thread  :D

I'm still a newbie to punting and a bit fluffy, I admit, but there have been a handful of WG's that I've had a great connection with. Now, there's a very good chance that it's all an act on their behalf (to ensure I make return visits) and I acknowledge this. But I'm a 44 year old, 'been there, done that' and I have a good success rate with civvies on night's out, so I'd like to think I can spot the fake connections. With the aforementioned handful, a couple of WG's went over and above what they'd normally do and one gave me her number. Like a fool, I engaged in some texting but soon got bored/felt dubious and so stopped texting and seeing her.

It's entirely possible for a WG to start having feelings towards a punter, if they see each other enough and there's some chemistry. After all, it's human nature to be attracted to someone. But I'm not naive, they're WGs for a reason and usually they're after one thing, and one things only.....your wallet!

Offline Gordon Bennett

yes but we are human ..... :unknown:
That's just a cop out. Using that as an excuse can justify literally anything...... Airline Pilot turning up for work pissed, Electrician not wiring up your house safely etc etc
I'm sure loads of people develop a crush or feelings for colleagues at work, I know I have, but they have the maturity, sense and professionalism to keep a lid on it. Only the selfish, greedy, predatory and weak willed seek to take it further.

Offline HighlyMotivated

That's just a cop out. Using that as an excuse can justify literally anything...... Airline Pilot turning up for work pissed, Electrician not wiring up your house safely etc etc
I'm sure loads of people develop a crush or feelings for colleagues at work, I know I have, but they have the maturity, sense and professionalism to keep a lid on it. Only the selfish, greedy, predatory and weak willed seek to take it further.

Dating a colleague is selfish, greedy and predatory? Glad I never took that attitude into the work place  :sarcastic:

Offline nodrah

That's just a cop out. Using that as an excuse can justify literally anything...... Airline Pilot turning up for work pissed, Electrician not wiring up your house safely etc etc
I'm sure loads of people develop a crush or feelings for colleagues at work, I know I have, but they have the maturity, sense and professionalism to keep a lid on it. Only the selfish, greedy, predatory and weak willed seek to take it further.
I have just looked at a survey which states 18% of married couples met at work ....... if GB is trying to say that anyone who attempts to simply shag his way round the office to register as many notches on his bed post as possible is being selfish, greedy, predatory and weak willed then I might agree with him ... if not I think he owes a fifth of the population an apology .......

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Even if she's genuine; why would you back there again, if you couldn't "forgive" your Ex's past?

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That's just a cop out. Using that as an excuse can justify literally anything...... Airline Pilot turning up for work pissed, Electrician not wiring up your house safely etc etc
I'm sure loads of people develop a crush or feelings for colleagues at work, I know I have, but they have the maturity, sense and professionalism to keep a lid on it. Only the selfish, greedy, predatory and weak willed seek to take it further.

jeez i bet your fun at parties  :( :( :(
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Offline OakTree

That's just a cop out. Using that as an excuse can justify literally anything...... Airline Pilot turning up for work pissed, Electrician not wiring up your house safely etc etc
I'm sure loads of people develop a crush or feelings for colleagues at work, I know I have, but they have the maturity, sense and professionalism to keep a lid on it. Only the selfish, greedy, predatory and weak willed seek to take it further.

Crikey Gordon that's a bit holier than thou!

How do you find it within yourself to pay for prostitutes with that Victorian outlook? 

As for people acting professional. This pastime is anything but professional. It's not regulated, there's no training scheme, it's not a recognised trade. It's basically a seedy, sometimes grimy, secret underground indulgence.

As for Falling in love? An occupational hazard!

Offline fairfield

Dating a colleague is selfish, greedy and predatory? ...
Sorry but gotta agree with G B there. Work now well behind me, but 30 years in offices and 99% of intra colleague relationships always ended badly for working environment. Often it was female trying to get a leg up and male boss trying to get leg over - would cause no end of trouble in the office and outside (in their domestic lives.)

One Xmas party the senior shop steward - real john Prescott bully boy type - took one of the computer input clerks up the arsenal right under the table in the computer room. After, she said she was drunk and afraid to say no. But that table was then off limits  and her female colleagues blamed her. And we all couldn't help but choke on the words "data input" ever afterwards.   

So think GB is right. Work and relationships aren't a good mix especially if you're a bloody WG. Surely bobdavid IS being selfish - what kind of services are other punters gonna get, if these lovesick pro$$ies are mooning over him all the time?

WhattheFlip

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I love this, well said.

Bloody hell. Your first post too. :lol: Angling for a freebie?

Offline Alvin

Like most I pay for not having the grief that comes from a relationship.  I've had a couple of times where I've been given extra free time including a couple of times where I've called the end to it (she actually asked if I wanted to spend the night, said I was nicer than others she had seen, got out of there fast).  If I had the impression that feelings were developing from either side that would be the last time I would punt with her.

With regards to dating people from work have seen the good and bad, as long as it doesn't impact on work or colleagues then who are we to judge.  Having said that I've had where they insisted on sitting next to each other at work, only spoke to each other and when they split it caused chaos in the office.

Offline livlad

An old regular that i used to see one time i went for a punt with her she said she would still see me but warned me she was under the weather that day so may not bring her usual a game.
When i got there i could see she was clearly i no condition to give a top punt but instead of calling if off i offered to look after her for a few hours grab her lunch etc.
She was surprised but extremely grateful as i really did enjoy her company and wanted to show her she is more than a pair of tits and ass to me.
She did offer me a freebie the next time i was there but still gave her half as i didnt want her to think thats the reason i did it.