A lot of simple truths in this thread I guess
I don't particularly enjoy rushed meets and prefer WGs who can actually converse. There's something sexy about a bright woman who is the traditional lady in the street and slut between the sheets
I can't say that any have ever fallen in love but yes, I have had the freebies (just good business sense on their part maybe??) and met WG's who have left AW and moved on but kept in touch.
None have stung my wallet but yeah they've had a nice meal maybe and I've had my fun as a result - as kind of civvie mates I suppose.
Humans do human stuff - just the way of the world and as long as everyone is happy why worry.
I suspect that may not be entirely the case for many WGs, as they'll want you for a reason, maybe security issues or something other than cash in the basic sense. Love??? hmmm I must admit I doubt it happens often though OP.