Has anyone else had problems where a girl that you've met a few times has fallen in love with you..?
Being totally honest, a long time ago, one girl I met fell in love with me, quit escorting, moved in, we made plans to marry, etc. It fell through in the end as I couldn't forgive her past - and she couldn't forget it easily either.
So, since then, I've tried to keep punting as a hobby... definitely not somewhere to find love.
But... recently, this year, I've had 2 different girls tell me that they've fallen for me ... I like them - but would never take it any further. It's hugely annoying because I really enjoy my time with each of these girls, the things we do together are incredible... but now I feel like I'll have to stop seeing them. One of them I already told a few months back that I wanted to keep things professional ... she's quite well known in the North East, although originally she's from Poland, so that would cause problems for me anyway - eg. what if one of my friends recognises her
.. right now, since I'm doing quite well in the non-punting scene, I'm thinking that I'll just stop seeing both and scrap my "burner" phone for a new one ... just to stop the hassle ..
It's definitely happening more now that I'm 40. These girls do seem to like my age group - they often spend their time complaining about the younger guys and their 5-seconds-of-passion and the older guys with their disgusting teeth/skin/smells/etc... so hopefully the problem will just go away when I'm 50 so that I can just concentrate on enjoying this hobby...
Anyone else had this problem..? How do you deal with it?