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Offline bobdavid

Has anyone else had problems where a girl that you've met a few times has fallen in love with you..?

Being totally honest, a long time ago, one girl I met fell in love with me, quit escorting, moved in, we made plans to marry, etc. It fell through in the end as I couldn't forgive her past - and she couldn't forget it easily either.

So, since then, I've tried to keep punting as a hobby... definitely not somewhere to find love.

But... recently, this year, I've had 2 different girls tell me that they've fallen for me ... I like them - but would never take it any further. It's hugely annoying because I really enjoy my time with each of these girls, the things we do together are incredible... but now I feel like I'll have to stop seeing them. One of them I already told a few months back that I wanted to keep things professional ... she's quite well known in the North East, although originally she's from Poland, so that would cause problems for me anyway - eg. what if one of my friends recognises her  :scare: .. right now, since I'm doing quite well in the non-punting scene, I'm thinking that I'll just stop seeing both and scrap my "burner" phone for a new one ... just to stop the hassle ..

It's definitely happening more now that I'm 40. These girls do seem to like my age group - they often spend their time complaining about the younger guys and their 5-seconds-of-passion and the older guys with their disgusting teeth/skin/smells/etc... so hopefully the problem will just go away when I'm 50 so that I can just concentrate on enjoying this hobby...

Anyone else had this problem..? How do you deal with it?

Offline Matrix

A simple test will always work.

Ask them to see you for free and you'll see how much they love you.

Offline Corus Boy

I know a couple who fell in love with my wallet.

Divorce would follow quickly when I closed it up!

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Offline bobdavid

Ask them to see you for free and you'll see how much they love you.

Already did that ... and, yeah, they see me for free, want to come over late at night (after work......), want me to do stuff that they don't allow in work, want to travel to conferences and meetings with me, etc... I guess my first mistake was to allow some of that. Part of the agreement with Em was that by making it professional again I'd pay her... she wasn't exactly happy, I think she's about ready to quit the job and settle down and perhaps I was her best chance at that, but I definitely think that it's better for both girls to do that with someone who doesn't know about their work... likewise, I wouldn't expect them to trust me not to punt in the future either.

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You think when we hit 50 we automatically develop disgusting skin, teeth and smells? Charming.

Offline hungrypunt


It's definitely happening more now that I'm 40. These girls do seem to like my age group - they often spend their time complaining about the younger guys and their 5-seconds-of-passion and the older guys...

Anyone else had this problem..? How do you deal with it?

Had this many times on SA but nah..not full time escorts

Offline bobdavid

You think when we hit 50 we automatically develop disgusting skin, teeth and smells? Charming.

Haha, no, maybe not ... but you can't deny it gets worse over time...

vw

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You think when we hit 50 we automatically develop disgusting skin, teeth and smells? Charming.

Wouldn't know  :unknown:

One things for sure nobody will admit it and no prossie in their right mind will confirm the rumours.    :D

Offline HighlyMotivated

Are you sincerely asking for advice on this "problem" or are you just bragging?   :D

Offline bobdavid

Are you sincerely asking for advice on this "problem" or are you just bragging?   :D

I was really hoping for advice... but I guess it's one of those things where putting it all down on paper/screen lets me answer the Q for myself.

See, when something's available for free and you know that others are paying a lot of money for it - whether it be ink for your printer, tools for your car workshop, or prossies - it feels crazy to turn it down... but that is, sometimes, what you have to do... I guess...

fredpunter

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Haha, no, maybe not ... but you can't deny it gets worse over time...

Then you need to make hay while the sun shines cos you've only got 10 years left where lasses will love you before you suddenly turn in to a cesspit. Stay out of the sun though ... bad for the skin and sweating makes you smelly.

Jeez .... just cos you're 50 doesn't mean you forget where the soap and toothpaste are kept.

fredpunter

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I was really hoping for advice... but I guess it's one of those things where putting it all down on paper/screen lets me answer the Q for myself.

See, when something's available for free and you know that others are paying a lot of money for it - whether it be ink for your printer, tools for your car workshop, or prossies - it feels crazy to turn it down... but that is, sometimes, what you have to do... I guess...

You pay prossies for hassle free sex .... not just for sex.

If you could get free ink but it was demanding your attention 12 hours a day in other ways wouldn't you rather pay for it?
« Last Edit: October 04, 2016, 02:28:41 pm by fredpunter »

Offline heisenberg.

I was really hoping for advice... but I guess it's one of those things where putting it all down on paper/screen lets me answer the Q for myself.

See, when something's available for free and you know that others are paying a lot of money for it - whether it be ink for your printer, tools for your car workshop, or prossies - it feels crazy to turn it down... but that is, sometimes, what you have to do... I guess...

Are you George Cloony ?

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Offline AgedCases

Already did that ... and, yeah, they see me for free, want to come over late at night (after work......), want me to do stuff that they don't allow in work, want to travel to conferences and meetings with me, etc... I guess my first mistake was to allow some of that. Part of the agreement with Em was that by making it professional again I'd pay her... she wasn't exactly happy, I think she's about ready to quit the job and settle down and perhaps I was her best chance at that, but I definitely think that it's better for both girls to do that with someone who doesn't know about their work... likewise, I wouldn't expect them to trust me not to punt in the future either.

Fuck me, what a stud you are! Enjoy it, mate.  :hi:

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The closest I ever had to this was with a girl who I saw for an outcall and we both had a bit too much to drink, and towards the end of the meet she started crying and babbling on about what a nice guy I was and how she wished she met me some other way but that "you only see me as a whore". 

I was a bit taken aback as although we had fun I didn't really think there was some deep connection between us.  Anyway, it was a one off, I never saw her again (that whole episode made me feel a bit uncomfortable), and I don't for a second think that if she had been sober she would have come out with such a load of rubbish.

Offline Itsnotshy

The closest you will get to a WG falling in love with you is if they stop clock watching and give you an extra 10 minutes.That is true love in this hobby :rose:
BTW I'm over 50 still have good skin,all my own teeth,see a dentist regularly and don't smell of stale pee...........yet :)

Offline RedKettle

I would probably always be cynical about their motives.

One of my regulars who is a similar age to me is single and I do wonder whether one or two of things she says are openings for me to try and develop into a relationship.  However if so I am under no illusions that love is involved, or that she fancies my body.  She sees a decent bloke earning a decent income who would be capable of making her life that bit more secure and comfortable.

As someone said above - I pay for hassle free sex, last thing I want is another relationship.

Offline OakTree

Anyone else had this problem..? How do you deal with it?

The simple reason for this is that you've allowed it to happen.

I'm assuming that you're single otherwise if you was married you'd never let them get that close. I suggest you start using a bit of self discipline and forgo having your ego polished.

Offline AnthG

But... recently, this year, I've had 2 different girls tell me that they've fallen for me ...

Anyone else had this problem..? How do you deal with it?

A: She is lying

B: She is manipulating you to get something from you.

Cold hard upsetting truth. It would be great if it was true what you say. But unfortunately it wont be. And three working girls "falling in love with you" either you are completely rich and look like George Clooney. Or you are putting it out there you are a soft touch open to manipulation from unscrupulous girls.

a long time ago, one girl I met fell in love with me, quit escorting, moved in, we made plans to marry, etc. It fell through in the end as I couldn't forgive her past - and she couldn't forget it easily either.

And this to me sounds like, so she got a free place to stay. Free meal each day. And all sorts extra just because she "fell in love with you".
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Offline sushi

Are these girls English or Foreign prossies looking to marry you for your passport especially now after the brexit vote?

Offline Brazilian Martian

A: She is lying

B: She is manipulating you to get something from you.

Cold hard upsetting truth. It would be great if it was true what you say. But unfortunately it wont be. And three working girls "falling in love with you" either you are completely rich and look like George Clooney. Or you are putting it out there you are a soft touch open to manipulation from unscrupulous girls.

And this to me sounds like, so she got a free place to stay. Free meal each day. And all sorts extra just because she "fell in love with you".

Great post as usual  :thumbsup:

Offline Students Notebook

Has anyone else had problems where a girl that you've met a few times has fallen in love with you..?

Being totally honest, a long time ago, one girl I met fell in love with me, quit escorting, moved in, we made plans to marry, etc. It fell through in the end as I couldn't forgive her past - and she couldn't forget it easily either.

So, since then, I've tried to keep punting as a hobby... definitely not somewhere to find love.

But... recently, this year, I've had 2 different girls tell me that they've fallen for me ... I like them - but would never take it any further. It's hugely annoying because I really enjoy my time with each of these girls, the things we do together are incredible... but now I feel like I'll have to stop seeing them. One of them I already told a few months back that I wanted to keep things professional ... she's quite well known in the North East, although originally she's from Poland, so that would cause problems for me anyway - eg. what if one of my friends recognises her  :scare: .. right now, since I'm doing quite well in the non-punting scene, I'm thinking that I'll just stop seeing both and scrap my "burner" phone for a new one ... just to stop the hassle ..

It's definitely happening more now that I'm 40. These girls do seem to like my age group - they often spend their time complaining about the younger guys and their 5-seconds-of-passion and the older guys with their disgusting teeth/skin/smells/etc... so hopefully the problem will just go away when I'm 50 so that I can just concentrate on enjoying this hobby...

Anyone else had this problem..? How do you deal with it?

Happens to me all the time.

I thought it was normal.  NOT.

S.N.

bod666

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I think this is quite plausible if we're talking about a girl who wants to get out of the game; however I doubt if it's genuine love - more she's identified a punter as a cash cow.

I suppose it's possible for a girl and punter to develop feelings for each other if they've spent a lot of time with each other, overnights, genuine dates involving conversation rather than just sex. However that's pretty rare.
Ive been on dating sites recently and come across lots of Russian scammers - you know it's bollocks because they quickly come out with out pourings of undying love based on nothing much.
It's easy to fall in lust with someone but genuine emotions take time, effort and honesty. None of which are in abundance in this hobby.

Offline Roth

Happens all the time with me. ;) ;)  On no!  I'm just dreaming. :blush: :blush:

Offline cueball

No surprise, especially if you're a bloody charming bugger like me :sarcastic:

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It does happen ....

I dated a client for almost 2 years recently and am out on a date with one this weekend ....

I find it easier to date a man who i dont have to hide my 2nd "job" from

we are humans as well and some of us want to be loved " :kiss:
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ClarkeOfTheCourse

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A simple test will always work.

Ask them to see you for free and you'll see how much they love you.


Yes, ask them on a dinner date and see how that goes. If she says ok, then try and go back to hers for some free sex. Watch as she fobs you off or the excuses like family emergency or illness or car crash are brought out.

It's just a sales pitch. Unfortunately some mugs fall for it and the prossies get a nice lap dog who provides them with regular income and gifts and cheerleading reviews on punting sites :lol:

ClarkeOfTheCourse

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It does happen ....

I dated a client for almost 2 years recently and am out on a date with one this weekend ....

I find it easier to date a man who i dont have to hide my 2nd "job" from

we are humans as well and some of us want to be loved " :kiss:

Of course you would say that wouldn't you? I bet a few regulars are building up the stamps on their loyalty cards to try and win the grand prize of being cuckholded 7 days a week

uksaldn

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A simple test will always work.

Ask them to see you for free and you'll see how much they love you.

Well said, they are only after your money, shag and move on.

Offline bobdavid

Just to be clear, the girls that I'm talking about don't charge me... we go on regular dates and we have sex - still without money involved. I'm not rich, I drive a Renault Megane, I have a simple apartment and, yeah, I'm single. I see a lot of escorts, I'm a member of SeekingArrangement, but I'm not one of those punters who looks to shove something in every hole, cover a girls face in cum or anything like that ... I prefer to have a mutually good time without trying to reenact scenes out of porn movies. I'll often go for overnight appointments and take a girl out for dinner, or cook for her, rather than tie her to the bed for 12 hours.

That all being said, the issue isn't with whether or not I'm a good lover, fit or handsome ... it's whether or not both of us can be accepting and trusting of what we've done, what we're doing or what we're going to do in the future ... that's where it's broken down for me in the past and why I won't risk it again.

And that answers my own original question, I guess - it's simply not worth risking a second time, for either party... the girls are better to meet guys who they've not met through punting and I'm better to meet a girl who wasn't an escort.

Offline stevedave

I think this is quite plausible if we're talking about a girl who wants to get out of the game; however I doubt if it's genuine love - more she's identified a punter as a cash cow.

I think this sums up my opinion on the matter pretty much.

OP, if you've managed to get three - for want of a better term - hard nosed business women to fall for you, you'd surely have no problem finding a non WG on civvy street. Less AW, more tinder/match etc.

bod666

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I couldn't date a girl who was still escorting but I'd have no problem dating an ex escort. Obviously I'd have to quit punting too but then I've only ever punted because I was in a sexless relationship. I've not shagged anywhere near as many women as a wg has guys but it's enough that I'd feel hypocritical being hung up over it.
if the ops problem is not getting past a girl being an escort then it's never going to work - which is a bit of a shame really. Both of you being able to admit your sexual past would be quite liberating I'd think.


Offline itk

Had this many times on SA but nah..not full time escorts

SA is a bit of nightmare for this I agree. Had one WG going back years and years  ago who I took out for a meal, and had a freebie but never followed it up any further.

Offline Brazilian Martian

Of course you would say that wouldn't you? I bet a few regulars are building up the stamps on their loyalty cards to try and win the grand prize of being cuckholded 7 days a week

 :sarcastic: :sarcastic: :sarcastic: :sarcastic: :sarcastic: :sarcastic: :sarcastic: :sarcastic: :sarcastic:  so true


James999

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It does happen ....

I dated a client for almost 2 years recently and am out on a date with one this weekend ....

I find it easier to date a man who i dont have to hide my 2nd "job" from

we are humans as well and some of us want to be loved " :kiss:

You may see it as a date, they see it as a freebie  :thumbsup:

Offline sub_marine

Never had a WG treat me as anything other than a customer, but did have a punt recently where she asked why I wasnt having more sex with my wife, didnt know how to take that

Offline mrdiamond77

No, but I had one that fell in love with my wallet.  Had to distance myself from that girl.

Offline Brazilian Martian

You may see it as a date, they see it as a freebie  :thumbsup:

Dnt you will destroy her fairytale story about prince charming and living happily ever after.

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Dnt you will destroy her fairytale story about prince charming and living happily ever after.

A girl can dream  ;)
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Offline ralhar

"want to travel to conferences and meetings with me"

LOL

Offline stevedave

"want to travel to conferences and meetings with me"

LOL

This is my PA, Anal Slut Sarah...

  :D

Offline cat1144

I'm sure WGs do fall for clients every now and then...but I doubt they fall for the poorer ones

My bet would be the OP has a well paid career....of which said WGs are aware of

I can't see WGs earning upwards of £100 an hour giving it all up for a bus conductor somehow  :D

Offline Nooilpainting

I used to see a girl quite regular, when I was having a financial shortfall I didn't book her. She text me and I said I didn't have the spare income, she said she wanted to see me anyway. It ended up being an overnighter and was free, she told me she liked me and wasn't escorting forever. It felt weird and I never saw her again.

WhattheFlip

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Anytime I've ever thought about the subject of dating/marrying a WG, I'm reminded of the scene in Analyse This where De Niro is talking about why he does things with his mistress and not his wife:
"Are you kidding me!? That's the mouth that kisses my kids goodnight!" :lol:

And yes, plenty of WGs will see you as some kind of meal ticket or way out of the business. It's hard to explain such a big gap in your CV isn't it?
Angel in Bracknell (who i wrote a depressing review of a while back) was notorious for telling all sorts of guys that she wanted to see them outside of punting, "let's go bowling", "let's have a bottle of wine and a movie", "let's go for a drink together". It's all for her benefit long-term, creating a bond they can exploit etc, and you'd be a bit of an idiot to fall for it imo.

Having said that, take all the free shags you can get, play the game back and string her along! Just keep your wits about you.
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Quote from: stevedave
This is my PA, Anal Slut Sarah...

  :D

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quote "And yes, plenty of WGs will see you as some kind of meal ticket or way out of the business. It's hard to explain such a big gap in your CV isn't it?

grrrr why do you all think none of us have a day job pay taxes etc really gets my back up
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vw

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It does happen ....

I dated a client for almost 2 years recently and am out on a date with one this weekend ....

I find it easier to date a man who i dont have to hide my 2nd "job" from

we are humans as well and some of us want to be loved " :kiss:

Good luck and hope you are over the pneumonia by then.   :drinks: