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Offline EnglishRebecca121

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Offline happyguy48

Are these girls English or Foreign prossies looking to marry you for your passport especially now after the brexit vote?
I think the common word for these ladies are predators. They tell you what you want to hear and then you start helping them out with their finances. I hope I am wrong, even just once.  :thumbsup:

Offline WhattheFlip

quote "And yes, plenty of WGs will see you as some kind of meal ticket or way out of the business. It's hard to explain such a big gap in your CV isn't it?

grrrr why do you all think none of us have a day job pay taxes etc really gets my back up

I didn't say all of you, but let's be real, the vast majority of escorts either don't have a regular job because they're lazy and 'full time' escort, don't pay taxes on their WG earnings, or couldn't do any job but minimum wage-& if you've spent all day on your feet doing minimum wage, you don't want 19 stone, 70yo sweaty bob humping you for a couple of hours.
Those WGs who actually do a proper job, and just Escort part-time (and actually pay tax on the money they earn from Escorting) are a miniscule minority.

Offline happyguy48

It does happen ....

I dated a client for almost 2 years recently and am out on a date with one this weekend ....

I find it easier to date a man who i dont have to hide my 2nd "job" from

we are humans as well and some of us want to be loved " :kiss:
Good for you  :rose:

A simple test will always work.

Ask them to see you for free and you'll see how much they love you.

Thats pretty much the acid test.

The look on their face or response will hit home the cold hard truth.

I’ve known 3 WGs over the years who have fallen in love with one of their punters.

One had married him, and was still working. A second was about to get married. I actually met him with her in a threesome. I heard that she did marry, with another WG as her matron of honour, and sailed off into the sunset. The third left her husband for a punter, although from what she told me it was a pretty flaky marriage anyway.

So it's not that uncommon.

Offline bangstick


I did date an escort I used to see, and as English Rebecca says, she was a real person and very different from her work persona - in fact she felt really nervous having sex out of character the first time, go figure.

She did have her own issues which forced us to split, but it was nothing job related - I couldn't care less in that respect, in fact it would have been arrogant of me to cast judgement especially as it was the way we'd met to start with!
« Last Edit: October 04, 2016, 11:28:07 PM by bangstick »

Offline Sdk5000

It does happen ....

I dated a client for almost 2 years recently and am out on a date with one this weekend ....

I find it easier to date a man who i dont have to hide my 2nd "job" from

we are humans as well and some of us want to be loved " :kiss:

I love this, well said.

Offline AVGscot

Not daft enough to have fallen in love with a prossie but I have gotten on really well with some and felt some sort of connection so can understand it happening both ways.
•One 2hr meet with a tourer turned into 7hrs, lots of talking and shagging.
•Met the same woman 3 times before she changed location. First meet an hour paid, second meet an hour paid turned into an overnight, third meet was a free overnight all I had to pay for was the chinky.
•Started seeing a girl regularly my age, get on well always go well over time. Even got a drunken booty call from her.

Guess I passed the test of free sex so they must like me but obviously I'm not going anywhere further with someone who gobbles dick for money but I am gonna keep being a bastard and take advantage of it when it happens  :cool: :dance:

Offline stokiemike

Interestingly, I've had my best sex since reaching 50, both with civvies and wg's, so we don't all become hideous after that age.

I have one 26 year old who regularly contacts me and wants to meet and this has lasted for over two years, so there is life after 50 as many of us know!

SM

Offline NIK

Has anyone else had problems where a girl that you've met a few times has fallen in love with you..?

Being totally honest, a long time ago, one girl I met fell in love with me, quit escorting, moved in, we made plans to marry, etc. It fell through in the end as I couldn't forgive her past - and she couldn't forget it easily either.

So, since then, I've tried to keep punting as a hobby... definitely not somewhere to find love.

But... recently, this year, I've had 2 different girls tell me that they've fallen for me ... I like them - but would never take it any further. It's hugely annoying because I really enjoy my time with each of these girls, the things we do together are incredible... but now I feel like I'll have to stop seeing them. One of them I already told a few months back that I wanted to keep things professional ... she's quite well known in the North East, although originally she's from Poland, so that would cause problems for me anyway - eg. what if one of my friends recognises her  :scare: .. right now, since I'm doing quite well in the non-punting scene, I'm thinking that I'll just stop seeing both and scrap my "burner" phone for a new one ... just to stop the hassle ..

It's definitely happening more now that I'm 40. These girls do seem to like my age group - they often spend their time complaining about the younger guys and their 5-seconds-of-passion and the older guys with their disgusting teeth/skin/smells/etc... so hopefully the problem will just go away when I'm 50 so that I can just concentrate on enjoying this hobby...

Anyone else had this problem..? How do you deal with it?

Had it hundreds of times. That's why I've stopped punting.  :rolleyes:

Offline will-ow

I once had a WG tell me she loved me, but it ended up with a lot of crying and her basically trying to get me to pay her rent. No no no! :angry:

Offline bobdavid

It's kinda funny that everyone thinks escorts/prossies are only interested in money from life ... compared to, say, bankers, politicians, accountants, plumbers, electricians, beauticians or unemployed/unemployable loafers...  :lol:

I'm obviously just as guilty of this as others, given that I've admitted above that I'd never (again) have a relationship with one, but it is amazing that lots of punters still seem to think of prossies as second-class citizens - even though it's US that's paying THEM ...  :angry:


Offline maxxblue

I once had a WG tell me she loved me, but it ended up with a lot of crying and her basically trying to get me to pay her rent. No no no! :angry:

Why were you crying?  :unknown:


Offline DannyJames

It's kinda funny that everyone thinks escorts/prossies are only interested in money from life ... compared to, say, bankers, politicians, accountants, plumbers, electricians, beauticians or unemployed/unemployable loafers...  :lol:

I'm obviously just as guilty of this as others, given that I've admitted above that I'd never (again) have a relationship with one, but it is amazing that lots of punters still seem to think of prossies as second-class citizens - even though it's US that's paying THEM ...  :angry:

Are you saying that punters should be considered second-class to whores? Seems a bit against the ethos of this site.

Anyway, it's not just prossies who are interested in money, but women in general; they care mainly about resources.

Offline bobdavid

Are you saying that punters should be considered second-class to whores? Seems a bit against the ethos of this site.

Anyway, it's not just prossies who are interested in money, but women in general; they care mainly about resources.

Yep, re: women generally I can totally agree - though there are still exceptions of course. And no, I'm not saying that we should be considered second-class... just that I don't believe that all whores/escorts are second-class to other women in all cases. Perhaps in a lot of cases, yeah, but I've met genuinely nice/decent escorts too.

Offline bod666

Jesus Christ escorts aren't aliens! They're women (& people) with feelings and all the random shit that goes with being a person. We pay them to pretend to like us for a period of time. Some of them will be very good at pretending and some of them (Romanians) not so much.

I don't look down on escorts like I don't look down on a cleaner, or the girls that work at tescos.

All people, got some nice ones and got some twats like you will with any generic group.

I personally prefer a punt if i can like the girl I'm seeing, I try to avoid those who appear to be up themselves or seem to have other traits I don't like.

I suppose this is what differentiates those of us who are a bit fluffy from the pump and dump crowd.

Offline DannyJames

Yep, re: women generally I can totally agree

AWALT

All women are like that

Offline RedKettle

Jesus Christ escorts aren't aliens! They're women (& people) with feelings and all the random shit that goes with being a person. We pay them to pretend to like us for a period of time. Some of them will be very good at pretending and some of them (Romanians) not so much.

I don't look down on escorts like I don't look down on a cleaner, or the girls that work at tescos.

All people, got some nice ones and got some twats like you will with any generic group.

I personally prefer a punt if i can like the girl I'm seeing, I try to avoid those who appear to be up themselves or seem to have other traits I don't like.

I suppose this is what differentiates those of us who are a bit fluffy from the pump and dump crowd.

Agree with this completely - well done for having the nerve to post it, I must admit I hesitated.....

I have got more cynical about WGs over time and would always question motive if they were being friendly outside the paid relationship.  However as you say they are just people and frankly their life choice is not that bad, it is not as if they are bashing people over the head and robbing them.  I take at face value albeit with some caution (like punting name, phone) applied.

Offline bobdavid

All women are like that

Strongly disagree. Back when I was bedding Deborah Meaden, when she was a millionairess, she definitely wasn't interested in my money ... it was all about my massive c---.

Back in reality, though, I still hope you're wrong.

Offline will-ow

Why were you crying?  :unknown:

oh no i wasn't!! she was!! she kept trying to manipulate me, feel sorry for her etc.

Offline badsin

As one of the previous posts, whilst it's free - fill your boots :hi:

Obviously keeps your wits about you, and disengage if needed!

Also, as mentioned on the thread, we pay to walk away :hi:

Offline EnglishRebecca121

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Are you saying that punters should be considered second-class to whores? Seems a bit against the ethos of this site.

Anyway, it's not just prossies who are interested in money, but women in general; they care mainly about resources.

such a bloke thing to say  :(
your clearly not meeting the right women !

Offline EnglishRebecca121

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Jesus Christ escorts aren't aliens! They're women (& people) with feelings and all the random shit that goes with being a person. We pay them to pretend to like us for a period of time. Some of them will be very good at pretending and some of them (Romanians) not so much.

I don't look down on escorts like I don't look down on a cleaner, or the girls that work at tescos.

All people, got some nice ones and got some twats like you will with any generic group.

I personally prefer a punt if i can like the girl I'm seeing, I try to avoid those who appear to be up themselves or seem to have other traits I don't like.

I suppose this is what differentiates those of us who are a bit fluffy from the pump and dump crowd.

well said that man!


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