Have you ever met any 'friendly / genuine' escorts?

[Ungy]

Okay so this topic is a bit sensitive, im not talking about the type who texts you when your at home, to genuinely ask how you are etc....

my point is that nearly 95% of women ive paid for sex have a one track mind. Its simply money. There is no loyalty bonus, I dont get any 'real' feeling. Yes they might enjoy it, yes they might like your company more than the other guys they see, yes they don't clock watch, but does anyone else feel that 99% of any emotive experiences are just to keep the punter on side and returning?

I happen to have the opinion that you may be a 20 time revisiting regular, but if a better offer comes along, they will fuck your booking off for the next one. Doesnt matter how many times you have seen her, how much she claimed to enjoy your last meeting etc etc

Ive also found that sometimes an escort will be really nice, pretend to take an interest to entice the punter to make a booking. In reality its
all a 'fix' to get the business...

Then you get the two way respect thing, dont treat me like a whore, but its ok for an escort to treat you like a number?

P.S Im not pissed off or anything like that lol  , i just wondered what others think on this site.

[Al Reet]

Yes

[Mi-Go]

I've met plenty of friendly escorts.  But at the end of the day you are taking part in a business transaction with them.  Never forget that. 

Whether they genuinely like you or not is irrelevant.

[Tbickle]

It's all a work. Don't get caught up in it.  It's fake like WWE.

[OakTree]

I've met plenty that seem friendly and seem to enjoy it. As to wether that's how they really feel? I've no idea.

[vw]

P.S Im not pissed

I think you may be ! 


Anyway sober up and realise it is a business transaction !

[Ungy]

Thanks for the replies, yes as most of you say, one must drill it inside their heads that its a business transaction, yes it cant be enjoyable, but don't kid yourself that its anything more than that.

One should not fall for the any of the sentimental bullshit about how much they enjoyed your visit.

Back in the day in the old Network54 days, many of the seniors used to refer to escorts as prossies, whores and alike, and i always used to think it was perhaps a tad harsh, but given the fact that 10 years have elapsed since then and i've become more wiser, i think those words were apt. You can dress it up as you like, the rules to the game are still the same.

[Ungy]

I think you may be ! 


Anyway sober up and realise it is a business transaction !

Honestly im not lol the Louise thread bought back a few memories thats all. I remember driving about 50 miles and wasting nearly 2 hours just for her to fuck me off for a longer booking, but whilst i was arranging the meet she was really nice and receptive. And like i said above regarding the old N54 days. I thought it was perhaps a bit harsh at the time, but all things considered they were not far wrong.

[Ungy]

Also see my other thread about how much an escort earns.

I know for a fact that soo many of them still claim benefits whilst on the job. Some claim benefits under the guise that they dont fall off the unemployed radar and get scrutinised about how they survive without a job.

So basically we are dealing with 'on the most part' put it politely 'dodgy' people at best. Most wont pay taxes, most will claim benefits, and most will do what it takes to get the business, without the moral factors of course.

[Blackpool Rock]

WG's come in all character types just like on civvy street, some are cold fish and some seem to be friendlier.
While I know it's an act the friendly ones tend to become regulars or at least girls that I see more than once, i'm buying a "dream" that includes giving me the illusion they genuinely want to spend 30 minutes in my company sucking my cock and letting me fuck them then spunking in their mouth (extra of course  ).
I turn up clean and on time plus i'm friendly and pleasant, i'm sure some guys are pretty awful for a girl to see so from her point of view it's simply good business sense to make the better guys feel welcome and get return business

[Ungy]

WG's come in all character types just like on civvy street, some are cold fish and some seem to be friendlier.
While I know it's an act the friendly ones tend to become regulars or at least girls that I see more than once, i'm buying a "dream" that includes giving me the illusion they genuinely want to spend 30 minutes in my company sucking my cock and letting me fuck them then spunking in their mouth (extra of course  ).
I turn up clean and on time plus i'm friendly and pleasant, i'm sure some guys are pretty awful for a girl to see so from her point of view it's simply good business sense to make the better guys feel welcome and get return business

You sure your not going soft BR haha

I agree that the clean, punctual ones are the repeat business candidates. However, how much of it is the friendlier and how much of it is the cold calculating bit. I think i should have been a psychologist. lol

Put it another way, I do business with loads of different salesmen, some are honest, reliable and expensive. Others are dishonest less reliable and cheap. Some may be honest, unreliable and cheap, you see where im going with this.....

Based on the feedback im getting so far and my own 12 years punting, im inclined to think that 90% of escorts are dishonest, unreliable (you may think WTF, but try offering a longer booking and see how im busy becomes free) there are soo many reverse booking examples of how £150 ph becomes £120 or even £100. Your only needed if there isnt a better option available.

My conclusion is that for the most part (not to be confused with 'ALL'), its a cold calculated effort to entice punters and get repeat business, from women you would not / should not entertain in real life. I know for a fact if my business associate was a liar (at times) and was cheating the system i would avoid them like the plague.

Its funny how when you put all this into context, the whore, prossie comments are not far off the mark. Needless to say im never making a booking on my UKP credentials. I'll probably have a queue of escorts wanting to kill me.

Obviously all this becomes irrelevant when you have balls that need emptying.

[Carpy]

I have had a regular that I genuinely thought was sincere and honest, we discussed a lot of thing about personal stuff with each other and the such. Then when it started to become obvious that she was just doing it to string out the time and never let us over run, I wised up and moved on.

I have a regular now, who is she hasn't got a booking following on with usually give me a good half hour extra for free as she said she likes the sex, but sometimes she will just say straight that she has another booking and moves me on. I have no issue with it as with her it's purely a fuck we rarely discuss personal things etc.

End of the day different girls have different mind sets, as long as you accept that it's a transaction and your getting what you pay for anything extra can only be seen as a bonus

[BeastWilkinson]

WG's come in all character types just like on civvy street, some are cold fish and some seem to be friendlier.
While I know it's an act the friendly ones tend to become regulars or at least girls that I see more than once, i'm buying a "dream" that includes giving me the illusion they genuinely want to spend 30 minutes in my company sucking my cock and letting me fuck them then spunking in their mouth (extra of course  ).
I turn up clean and on time plus i'm friendly and pleasant, i'm sure some guys are pretty awful for a girl to see so from her point of view it's simply good business sense to make the better guys feel welcome and get return business

    agree with you

[VOLPONE]

It's all a work. Don't get caught up in it.  It's fake like WWE.

The perfect analogy.

[cueball]

I don't give the genuine /friendly angle too much thought.

I go in a good frame of mind, I turn up clean, smiling, punctual and looking for a good time.

If she's friendly, enthusiastic, clean and gives me a good time at the right money then I'll likely return.

There's a few that I have a good giggle with but it's not the giggle that makes me return, it's the sex.

I do think that once you've been back a couple of times you're very much less likely to be fucked about as you're regular, steady income.

It's generally much much easier to arrange subsequent return punts

[Ungy]

I don't give the genuine /friendly angle too much thought.

I go in a good frame of mind, I turn up clean, smiling, punctual and looking for a good time.

If she's friendly, enthusiastic, clean and gives me a good time at the right money then I'll likely return.

There's a few that I have a good giggle with but it's not the giggle that makes me return, it's the sex.

I do think that once you've been back a couple of times you're very much less likely to be fucked about as you're regular, steady income.

It's generally much much easier to arrange subsequent return punts

Hi cueball,

This is something that BR raised also, and I'll address it in more detail tomorrow.
The point is your making the effort, you turn up clean, on time, in the right frame of mind.

Being a regular doesn't mean your less likely to be messed around, it just means that your likely to be given more reasons to return, and thats only until someone offering more and better options turns up or takes your place.

I can guarantee 100% that if your a regular with someone, and your booked in, if someone else offers more you won't be seen, or if you do it'll be like clock work to make sure the next booking isn't jeopardised. Plenty of guys reading this will think I'm talking shite. Try offering more to a regular and see how she blows out the other punter.

You might go in clean but there are plenty of ladies who only wipe themselves down after a punt. There was a thread on a Preston girl who charged £140 or £150 ph and she only wiped herself down in between punts. I saw someone once who went for a piss before the punt and I didn't hear any taps running as she exited the loo.

As punters we would love to think that we are getting a personal bespoke service, but the truth of the matter is that it's nothing more to the girl than a job, we should try asking for a freebie next time and see what kind of reaction we get, and anything friendly is just to entice you to return to spend your money again. in my other thread the average girl stands to earn about 80k tax free a year, and if they were any good at their jobs it's probably double that.

This reminds me of ruperts threads on N54 days about guys holding out and stopping punting to bring things back to an even keel.

[Ungy]

They don't pay tax
Many continue to claim benefits
Most earn at least 50k a year, but many more are on around 80, 100 to 150k a year
Most are still on tough times supposedly
They get offended if you call em a hooker, whore or prostitute
Minimal loyalty in this trade for existing clients

In any other walk of life you wouldn't touch these types of people with a barge pole.
Before anyone thinks it...I have zero issue with how much they earn. My issue is with the manner with which they earn.

One escort once told me her daughter had died so she couldn't see me, only turns out that her daughter was never dead because a few months later she was saying her only daughter was coming to stay over so she couldn't meet.

Just this week one escort text me and asked if I'd like to meet, she proposed a time after her child had gone to bed. When I questioned this I was told that we know each other really well so it's ok. I politely refused the meet.

It's all cold calculated business, and even with the vast amounts of money exchanging hands it doesn't actually make escorts better people... Infact if you judge this without the punter tshirt it's rather disturbing.

[maxQ]

Most earn at least 50k a year, but many more are on around 80, 100 to 150k a year

Any WGs making 150K a year must be very good at what they do, these are the escorts we all want to see

In any other walk of life you wouldn't touch these types of people with a barge pole.
Before anyone thinks it...I have zero issue with how much they earn. My issue is with the manner with which they earn.

How can you say this as a punter, if you don't like it, just stop giving them your money

[Blue Moon]

I happen to have the opinion that you may be a 20 time revisiting regular, but if a better offer comes along, they will fuck your booking off for the next one. Doesnt matter how many times you have seen her, how much she claimed to enjoy your last meeting etc etc

Ive also found that sometimes an escort will be really nice, pretend to take an interest to entice the punter to make a booking. In reality its
all a 'fix' to get the business...

Plumbers are just the same.  It's business and that's all it is.    Bm

[OakTree]

They don't pay tax
Many continue to claim benefits
Most earn at least 50k a year, but many more are on around 80, 100 to 150k a year
Most are still on tough times supposedly
They get offended if you call em a hooker, whore or prostitute
Minimal loyalty in this trade for existing clients

In any other walk of life you wouldn't touch these types of people with a barge pole.
Before anyone thinks it...I have zero issue with how much they earn. My issue is with the manner with which they earn.

One escort once told me her daughter had died so she couldn't see me, only turns out that her daughter was never dead because a few months later she was saying her only daughter was coming to stay over so she couldn't meet.

Just this week one escort text me and asked if I'd like to meet, she proposed a time after her child had gone to bed. When I questioned this I was told that we know each other really well so it's ok. I politely refused the meet.

It's all cold calculated business, and even with the vast amounts of money exchanging hands it doesn't actually make escorts better people... Infact if you judge this without the punter tshirt it's rather disturbing.

You seem to have a lot of issues with them and most of them outside the time you pay. Im amazed you can overcome such turmoil and actually visit a prostitue.

[Ungy]

You seem to have a lot of issues with them and most of them outside the time you pay. Im amazed you can overcome such turmoil and actually visit a prostitue.

My issue is with how they go about doing their business. Since when has it been ok to lie, dodge tax, and anything else i listed above and folk not cry foul?

I hope you dont mind me asking, but could you call a working girl a prostitute to her face?

[Ungy]

Plumbers are just the same.  It's business and that's all it is.    Bm

Cant argue with that sir.

[Kingstone]

In line with what previous poster said about they're the same as plumbers I thought they're the same as most women. i did the internet dating many moons ago and over 12 months I saw about 60 women. In my youth I was Mr Average on a good day, in my 40's being solvent, sane and not a criminal, drug-user, alcoholic or violent I was catch of the century. Each woman I met, even the balanced ones, were looking for someone to take care of them, deal with their family, deal with their ex, help with the finances, etc. In return they offered sex and flattery.
With an escort I'm buying the opportunity to play and walk away with the walk away part being sometimes the best part of the deal.

[OakTree]

My issue is with how they go about doing their business. Since when has it been ok to lie, dodge tax, and anything else i listed above and folk not cry foul?

I hope you dont mind me asking, but could you call a working girl a prostitute to her face?

How do you know how they go about their business? As in all walks of life there's good and bad. I honestly couldn't care less what they pay in tax and what they earn. I visit a WG for an hour of fun, fantasy and sexual relief, that's all that concerns me.

This isn't some sort of regulated industry where you can get your money back for false representation. It's cash for gash and on the whole it's a seedy business. As for lying and deception, well I'm not exactly squeaky clean on that matter myself.

I don't know what relevance me referring to them as prostitutes and wether I'd say that to their face or not has? I will answer your question though. I don't refer to them as prossies, whores, bitches or any other derogatory term. That's just me, I wouldn't say that to their face so I don't use it on here. That said I'm not offended by those that do use those terms. In all honesty by and large, my punting experiences are very enjoyable and a positive experience. I find it enormous fun and that's probably a major contributing factor as to why I couldn't give a shit about issues outside the room. If my view became akin to the points you're making then punting would no longer be the fun the buzz I look for and I would find another outlet.

Perhaps you should consider the same.   

[babehunter66]

Hear hear 

[Al Reet]

How do you know how they go about their business? As in all walks of life there's good and bad. I honestly couldn't care less what they pay in tax and what they earn. I visit a WG for an hour of fun, fantasy and sexual relief, that's all that concerns me.

This isn't some sort of regulated industry where you can get your money back for false representation. It's cash for gash and on the whole it's a seedy business. As for lying and deception, well I'm not exactly squeaky clean on that matter myself.

I don't know what relevance me referring to them as prostitutes and wether I'd say that to their face or not has? I will answer your question though. I don't refer to them as prossies, whores, bitches or any other derogatory term. That's just me, I wouldn't say that to their face so I don't use it on here. That said I'm not offended by those that do use those terms. In all honesty by and large, my punting experiences are very enjoyable and a positive experience. I find it enormous fun and that's probably a major contributing factor as to why I couldn't give a shit about issues outside the room. If my view became akin to the points you're making then punting would no longer be the fun the buzz I look for and I would find another outlet.

Perhaps you should consider the same.   

Good post and exactly my thoughts.

[threechilliman]

I hope you dont mind me asking, but could you call a working girl a prostitute to her face?

Yes. And a whore. We had a good laugh about it.

Ungy, you're over-thinking things.

tcm

[JohnEv]

A number of members have lived with girls they met on the game, including me. There are all sorts , some good, some bad and some terrible.

Memories are fading now but:-

Lived with one for about 3 years.
Another became GF for about 1.5 years.
Another became a very close friend for about 3 years (business and personnel relationships were kept separate).
Another I never paid instead I gave lifts etc.
Another who hugely discounted me as a regular.

Then a list of about 30 I wouldn't trust, 2 others that I would trust and 3 that attempted to scam me.

Odds are definitely against you in finding a genuine person, I don't recommend looking for them but don't bomb someone off on a preconception either.

[binbag]

In 40 yrs of punting I have met 3 who I'd refer to as 'genuine'. They were genuinely friendly but equally they genuinely viewed me as a client, not a friend or lover. We both understood I was there for a sexual service and they professionally delivered the service to my liking. I certainly enjoyed myself with them and I like to think they did with me but part of what made it so enjoyable was that no one was bullshitting anyone else. Skilled ladies who respected themselves and their clients led to genuine good times. 3 in 40 years isn't many though!

[BeastWilkinson]

In 40 yrs of punting I have met 3 who I'd refer to as 'genuine'. They were genuinely friendly but equally they genuinely viewed me as a client, not a friend or lover. We both understood I was there for a sexual service and they professionally delivered the service to my liking. I certainly enjoyed myself with them and I like to think they did with me but part of what made it so enjoyable was that no one was bullshitting anyone else. Skilled ladies who respected themselves and their clients led to genuine good times. 3 in 40 years isn't many though!

   not been punting for 40 years more like 4/5 but i do agree with what you are saying,  we all know what the score is..

[opal]

Most escorts are as genuine as anyone else doing a job for which they get paid and just as friendy as anyone in any job selling a service to the public.

[jaszyj87]

yes had a little chat with 1 after the deed was done, seemed really nice. asked me for recommendations for restaurants as they were visiting and didnt like the hotel food. got a text a few hours later they took my recomendations, said it was nice and thanked me for tip

[Yanusmc]

So I had my first ever punt last April.  Overall it was a great experience (after researching on here).  Firstly she forgot to take the cash and i forgot to give it so I went back to correct that, right is right after all.

Then we continued texting and a couple of weeks later she had told me the real name etc and gave me her proper phone number, I've even said to her if I was one of the pyschos out there you've told me so much stuff that I could easily have ruined your life.  We ended up going for dinner a few times, taking turns to pay too.  Across the next few months have literally spent hours chatting on the phone and I now feel like an agony aunt.

I never tried to go for another punt with her until recently when I text her to see her alter ego and she said "no, I think it would feel weird but you never know the next time we meet up".  She did change her whatsapp thing to a picture along the lines of "everyone shows their true colours eventually" which I think was aimed at me!

So I suppose they are real people and some drop their guard every so often.

[rovingman]

So I had my first ever punt last April.  Overall it was a great experience (after researching on here).  Firstly she forgot to take the cash and i forgot to give it so I went back to correct that, right is right after all.

Then we continued texting and a couple of weeks later she had told me the real name etc and gave me her proper phone number, I've even said to her if I was one of the pyschos out there you've told me so much stuff that I could easily have ruined your life.  We ended up going for dinner a few times, taking turns to pay too.  Across the next few months have literally spent hours chatting on the phone and I now feel like an agony aunt.

I never tried to go for another punt with her until recently when I text her to see her alter ego and she said "no, I think it would feel weird but you never know the next time we meet up".  She did change her whatsapp thing to a picture along the lines of "everyone shows their true colours eventually" which I think was aimed at me!

So I suppose they are real people and some drop their guard every so often.

Sweet....welcome to the world of crazy hookers and punting.... !

A girl knows when a punter is new..

I don't care what they say...this game isn't for all girls and they love nothing more than a genuine newbie who seems decent.. if there's any emotional relationship built in some form... forget anymore shagging there... that would be classed as girlfriend along with all the hassle that brings...

Just keep exploring and riding and have fun

 

[Deepstroker]

Of course there are"nice" "genuine" women out there. I'm not the fluffy type. When you have been around for long enough you just dont get involved or fall for any shite. A lady that springs to mind,,and i cant even recall her name now,,but she had a small flat about a row of shops in Eccles around where the police station is and a few hundred yards up from silver lady. I'm talking around 8-10 years back maybe..

Of course there are so many fakes/prima donnas/Dodgy eastern European types and girls charging what i see as silly money that really,i just cant be bothered with it,though my cock still does sometimes twitch

[Blue Moon]

A lady that springs to mind,,and i cant even recall her name now,,but she had a small flat about a row of shops in Eccles around where the police station is and a few hundred yards up from silver lady. I'm talking around 8-10 years back maybe..

I think I know who you mean...think her name was Amanda. Saw her a few times, all good as I recall.    Bm

[ziggy1969]

I currently have two neighbours who I met on AW. Both are really sex-positive and friendly, one is single and I could just about imagine something developing with her outside the room.

My experience has been that I wouldn't generalise about WGs. I've met the odd one who was distant or even gave off a feeling of slight emotional trauma in the room.

I feel you reap what you sow. I do reach out to new WGs occasionally, but mainly enjoy developing an ongoing thing with a few ladies.

Lastly, I feel sex and emotions are inextricably connected. I recollect a C4 documentary on strippers in Scotland. One girl was asked if she had feelings while table dancing for a customer, and responded very emotively 'Of course, what do you think we are f*****g robots?!' Obviously, there can be a need for WGs to separate emotions and acting on them...

[Blackie]

I currently have two neighbours who I met on AW. Both are really sex-positive and friendly, one is single and I could just about imagine something developing with her outside the room.

You have two escort neighbours and you met both of them on AW? Huh??
Did you make them your neighbours or figured out your neighbours were on AW from AW?

[ziggy1969]

You have two escort neighbours and you met both of them on AW? Huh??
Did you make them your neighbours or figured out your neighbours were on AW from AW?

I did a local search on AW. Neighbours is perhaps the wrong word. But a lot handier than what I was doing before, which was making a day out based around a Manchester parlour visit. And so the local ladies are catering for most of my needs right now.

[Spannerman]

I have known 3 really well. To be honest I found one of them particularly interesting as she had travelled extensively and experienced some crazy things. At one point I even drove a little for her. She shared some fantastic stories of clients and girls she'd worked with. To be honest though they were all slightly mentally unhinged. I supposed fucking people for cash is going to play with your mind somewhat.

They were/are nice people but it is a business transaction first and foremost. All three friendships fizzled out one rather spectacularly. I'm calling them mental but who am I to judge, I'm as bad as them really. 

[Robert44]

They all seem genuine and friendly, especially when they see the large bulge in my pocket.
I have a large wallet

[iksar707]

In line with what previous poster said about they're the same as plumbers I thought they're the same as most women. i did the internet dating many moons ago and over 12 months I saw about 60 women. In my youth I was Mr Average on a good day, in my 40's being solvent, sane and not a criminal, drug-user, alcoholic or violent I was catch of the century. Each woman I met, even the balanced ones, were looking for someone to take care of them, deal with their family, deal with their ex, help with the finances, etc. In return they offered sex and flattery.
With an escort I'm buying the opportunity to play and walk away with the walk away part being sometimes the best part of the deal.

How to sum it all in a paragraph....Very well put

[Gordon Bennett]

I don't go in for roleplay and stuff, just very vanilla stuff. But, in my head I approach punts very positively and construct a fantasy that I'm some sort of stud/god and she's really into me. I absolutely refuse to entertain any thoughts that she's grabbing my money or is coldly enduring my visit. Yep, complete and utter bollocks but I take the view I'm gonna enjoy myself no matter what. Funnily enough, I'm pretty sure this happy-go-lucky approach rubs off on them too and I've yet to meet a really cold, mechanical and hardened prossie.  Basically, I don't think there's any mileage in dwelling on things or over thinking it....... Get in there and enjoy yourself.

[OakTree]

I don't go in for roleplay and stuff, just very vanilla stuff. But, in my head I approach punts very positively and construct a fantasy that I'm some sort of stud/god and she's really into me. I absolutely refuse to entertain any thoughts that she's grabbing my money or is coldly enduring my visit. Yep, complete and utter bollocks but I take the view I'm gonna enjoy myself no matter what. Funnily enough, I'm pretty sure this happy-go-lucky approach rubs off on them too and I've yet to meet a really cold, mechanical and hardened prossie.  Basically, I don't think there's any mileage in dwelling on things or over thinking it....... Get in there and enjoy yourself.

I could of almost written that myself, maybe not as well.   

[titton]

I am pretty sure I know what the OP means and I concur totally. When I started punting about 30 years ago and was slim, fit with a full head of hair and not bad looking back then I like to think, the WG's I met up with probably found me more acceptable to the eye than the poor girls who, these days have to screw a middle aged, balding, podgy old sod.
Back then I was limited to guesswork from newspaper ads or, if I was lucky a photo in Phoenix escort magazine from the sex shop on New Hall Lane in Preston (remember Phoenix mag anyone?). I would shag the girls I fancied and sometimes I may have been in the mood for something about my Mum's age so I could imagine it was one of her friends to be really naughty. These WG's in their 40's back then were sometimes pleasantly surprised to see a young, handsome lad as opposed to their usual punter who probably looked like I do now.
The point I am eventually getting to if I haven't lost you al by now is that I have noticed the average "friendliness" of the girls I have visited over the years to be inversely proportional to my increasing age and decreasing looks. I do think about this probably more than a lot of you guys because, even though I'm paying I still do need to feel at least a little bit that she is enjoying it too.
My rational is that, oscar winning actress WG's aside, the friendliness of the girl may be in some part linked to how horrified she is when she sees me and the reality sinks in of what she is about to have to do with me. They are human beings at the end of the day with natural likes and dislikes. I sometimes think to myself how I would feel if by being presented with a couple of hundred quid, could I be really convincing and get down to it with any amount of belief with a fat, ugly girl. It is likely to come over in my initial reaction as I first see her and I suspect it would manifest in how friendly and genuine she found me, or not.
Ok, I have probably sold myself short here (in case any girls I may contact are reading this lol) Yes I'm in my 40's and a bit over weight but I'm not that bad and I'm clean and polite and, more to the point I'm very "friendly" to get back to the question; just as I would be very friendly to a very pretty young girl standing next to me in a bar or an attractive member if staff that came into my department. Probably bubblier and friendlier than I would be to someone who I didn't find as attractive and if I was told I had to shag the ugly girl for the next 1 - 2 hours then I think they would be able to tell in my manner and lack of genuine friendliness.
To wrap up this bloody dissertation I do like friendliness because i read it as being happy to be in my company and happy to be about to have sex with me. That makes me feel better about things as i get older. I wish I could be the guy ho doesn't give a fuck about the girl and can go into a parlour for 30 minutes with one guy in front of me and then another guy waiting in the queue behind me and just have the confidence to bang her and go...but i can't these days. I'm probably a lot softer and fluffier than most of you guys but I need to feel like she wants to do it with me or nothing happens for me. I have, if I'm honest sent home from a certain agency in Manchester 8 - 10 girls whom I have arranged to meet at a hotel because they weren't "friendly". Really, genuinely "friendly" and they were going through the motions.
I could never be a porn star, could I with that attitude.
Anyway guys, that's my input and I will say what I could have said in one sentence instead of wasting your lives with this drivel that I value true friendliness. In the last 5 years I have probably only seen it properly about 3 times and theres no pint mentioning them because they don't wrk anymore.
There. Done.
Titton
What was the question again?

[Deepstroker]

I think I know who you mean...think her name was Amanda. Saw her a few times, all good as I recall.    Bm

Yes thats the lady,,she retired,,i think she went to live in Spain..