My 2 cents
I've had the door slammed in my face before so I can relate.
If a WG says, no black men on her profile, not an issue for me. It's when I get there and that happens that it pisses me off.
I am always upfront as well as I do not want to experience what I did.
However when I hear the bad experience stuff, it irritates me as there is an assumption that all of us are some dangerous gangsta wannabes
If you keep getting them, your screening method is the problem.
End of the day, her rules, but please cut the fucking shit. You've had bad experiences with white men too but you give them the benefit of the doubt.
There are ladies that say, feedback please before they see you if you are black and I'm happy with that but a blanket ban assuming we are all the same because of your experience?
Wonder what would happen in punting world if all of us judged WGs on the bad experiences we've had.